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"As K loves to point out: I don't really have a type. Though I do seem to lean towards the curvier women, bonus points for big bum, big boobs, and glasses too LvM" You fill my feed with your likes of those photos and I'm here for allll of them. | |||
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"As K loves to point out: I don't really have a type. Though I do seem to lean towards the curvier women, bonus points for big bum, big boobs, and glasses too LvM" Glasses. Yes. We get that one!! | |||
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"as it's personal preference, no offence is intended to any body. but give me alllllll the curves. please Px " Mmmm yes. Sexy tattoo c | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. " Thank you. I am slim but have plenty curves. | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. " This It sounds derogatory | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Thank you. I am slim but have plenty curves." Pisses me off, the word ‘skinny’ has negative Connotations for people who are perfectly healthy. | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Thank you. I am slim but have plenty curves. Pisses me off, the word ‘skinny’ has negative Connotations for people who are perfectly healthy. " Agree with you! | |||
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"Curves definitely. The writer Anthony Burchess once likened sex with a skinny French model to wrestling with a bicycle frame" Brilliant! | |||
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"Curves definitely. The writer Anthony Burchess once likened sex with a skinny French model to wrestling with a bicycle frame" What a delightful sounding person | |||
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"Someone who is confident enough in themselves not to be offended by the word skinny, especially when I’m pretty sure no offence was intended" Seriously? We call everyone curvy now just to avoid describing some of them more accurately as fat. Why aren't you calling out that lack of confidence? | |||
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"Jeez.... I think I'll retire Amazingly for a 'skinny, sharp edges, skeleton' I don't do too bad for meets " You're an absolute fine thing!! Hope threads like this don't make you feel bad. | |||
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"Jeez.... I think I'll retire Amazingly for a 'skinny, sharp edges, skeleton' I don't do too bad for meets You're an absolute fine thing!! Hope threads like this don't make you feel bad." Nah! I'm completely happy and confident in my own skin! It's the sweeping statements that wind me up! I wouldn't make comments like these about 'curvy' people! I'd be hunted down and burnt at the stake! 'cant cuddle a bag of bones' 'Might snap if its too rough' 'Seen more meat at the museum' Etc etc It's preference I know and that's cool Just state a preference without demeaning others | |||
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"Someone who is confident enough in themselves not to be offended by the word skinny, especially when I’m pretty sure no offence was intended Seriously? We call everyone curvy now just to avoid describing some of them more accurately as fat. Why aren't you calling out that lack of confidence? " Hey I’m happy to call someone fat if they are don’t worry about that. My point was more about how some people, go on I’ll call them snowflakes, seem to get offended by anything and everything. The original poster asked a simple question and there was no need to play the offence card. Mark | |||
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"Jeez.... I think I'll retire Amazingly for a 'skinny, sharp edges, skeleton' I don't do too bad for meets You're an absolute fine thing!! Hope threads like this don't make you feel bad. Nah! I'm completely happy and confident in my own skin! It's the sweeping statements that wind me up! I wouldn't make comments like these about 'curvy' people! I'd be hunted down and burnt at the stake! 'cant cuddle a bag of bones' 'Might snap if its too rough' 'Seen more meat at the museum' Etc etc It's preference I know and that's cool Just state a preference without demeaning others " Here here, pulling down others is an unattractive trait in my book. | |||
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"Jeez.... I think I'll retire Amazingly for a 'skinny, sharp edges, skeleton' I don't do too bad for meets You're an absolute fine thing!! Hope threads like this don't make you feel bad. Nah! I'm completely happy and confident in my own skin! It's the sweeping statements that wind me up! I wouldn't make comments like these about 'curvy' people! I'd be hunted down and burnt at the stake! 'cant cuddle a bag of bones' 'Might snap if its too rough' 'Seen more meat at the museum' Etc etc It's preference I know and that's cool Just state a preference without demeaning others " Good for you, you look stunning and someone else decides to put a label on us who gives a toss Mark | |||
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"Someone who is confident enough in themselves not to be offended by the word skinny, especially when I’m pretty sure no offence was intended Seriously? We call everyone curvy now just to avoid describing some of them more accurately as fat. Why aren't you calling out that lack of confidence? Hey I’m happy to call someone fat if they are don’t worry about that. My point was more about how some people, go on I’ll call them snowflakes, seem to get offended by anything and everything. The original poster asked a simple question and there was no need to play the offence card. Mark" I think it's the combination of skinny and "meet on bones" in the OP that makes it problematic for some. | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. " Skinny implies an underlying medical issue ... and is not healthy, I'm hoping that slim was actually meant! | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Skinny implies an underlying medical issue ... and is not healthy, I'm hoping that slim was actually meant! " So how come Next and lots of other shops sell “skinny” jeans or should we all protest in the streets to get them removed from sale? | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Skinny implies an underlying medical issue ... and is not healthy, I'm hoping that slim was actually meant! So how come Next and lots of other shops sell “skinny” jeans or should we all protest in the streets to get them removed from sale?" Hahahahahahahaha easier than saying figure hugging I suppose and jeans definitely don't come in fat or skinny ... | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Skinny implies an underlying medical issue ... and is not healthy, I'm hoping that slim was actually meant! So how come Next and lots of other shops sell “skinny” jeans or should we all protest in the streets to get them removed from sale?" Because they are skin tight. Omg hahahaha | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Skinny implies an underlying medical issue ... and is not healthy, I'm hoping that slim was actually meant! So how come Next and lots of other shops sell “skinny” jeans or should we all protest in the streets to get them removed from sale?" Really, you need this explained, it’s not referring to the people who wear them, it’s referring to the fit, straight fit jeans aren’t just for heterosexuals! | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Skinny implies an underlying medical issue ... and is not healthy, I'm hoping that slim was actually meant! So how come Next and lots of other shops sell “skinny” jeans or should we all protest in the streets to get them removed from sale? Really, you need this explained, it’s not referring to the people who wear them, it’s referring to the fit, straight fit jeans aren’t just for heterosexuals! " Oooo never thought of that hahahahahahahaha! And skinny jeans come in size 20 plus! Awesome! | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Skinny implies an underlying medical issue ... and is not healthy, I'm hoping that slim was actually meant! So how come Next and lots of other shops sell “skinny” jeans or should we all protest in the streets to get them removed from sale? Really, you need this explained, it’s not referring to the people who wear them, it’s referring to the fit, straight fit jeans aren’t just for heterosexuals! " No I don’t need it explained I was just illustrating how stupid the comment about not using the word skinny really is. If that’s all people have to worry about the worlds in a much better state than many would have us believe | |||
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"Curves definitely. The writer Anthony Burchess once likened sex with a skinny French model to wrestling with a bicycle frame" Did he, what a charmer! . If he approaches sex as a wrestling match its no surprise though. Man has bad sex, publicly blames it on a womans body. It's not really news is it. | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Skinny implies an underlying medical issue ... and is not healthy, I'm hoping that slim was actually meant! So how come Next and lots of other shops sell “skinny” jeans or should we all protest in the streets to get them removed from sale? Really, you need this explained, it’s not referring to the people who wear them, it’s referring to the fit, straight fit jeans aren’t just for heterosexuals! No I don’t need it explained I was just illustrating how stupid the comment about not using the word skinny really is. If that’s all people have to worry about the worlds in a much better state than many would have us believe " I'm actually going to say this as someone who was bullied nigh on tortured for 50% of their life for being skinny because of a medical condition (thankfully didn't need the operations in the end phew) then objecting to the term skinny is acceptable to me ... just the same as using any derogatory term for anyone's size is and their objection to it. Slim and skinny are different and in all the years I've been on here I think I've possibly seen two actually skinny women and my heart goes out to them for having the courage to show their bodies on here and the abuse that is apparent towards a skinnier frame both male and female! I absolutely hate any form of term that makes anyone uncomfortable and have had training how to address body sizes as part of my job ... the same as anyone in a medical setting has Rant over ... | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Thank you. I am slim but have plenty curves. Pisses me off, the word ‘skinny’ has negative Connotations for people who are perfectly healthy. " How about something more complimentary like lean or toned? | |||
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"as it's personal preference, no offence is intended to any body. but give me alllllll the curves. please Px " Thissssss!!! | |||
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"Why is it if you voice a preference for one term... Like slim over the term skinny you're automatically seen as being offended and labelled a snowflake????? I was well aware others on here might not like the term skinny it wasn't about me. I wouldn't say I was offended, that seems a strong word, I just prefer the word slim. " But your initial comment was Skinny.... Instantly annoyed me when I read that. Slim, slim is the word. That kind of contradicts your last post? Mark | |||
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"Why is it if you voice a preference for one term... Like slim over the term skinny you're automatically seen as being offended and labelled a snowflake????? I was well aware others on here might not like the term skinny it wasn't about me. I wouldn't say I was offended, that seems a strong word, I just prefer the word slim. But your initial comment was Skinny.... Instantly annoyed me when I read that. Slim, slim is the word. That kind of contradicts your last post? Mark " Annoyed because I knew how it would be taken. | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. " | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. " Thank you, "skinny" implies (to me) more if an insulting word | |||
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"Someone who is confident enough in themselves not to be offended by the word skinny, especially when I’m pretty sure no offence was intended" This. I think there’s a big difference between being deliberately derogatory and then just not using the “right” word. It’s like the word fat, many people use the word and mean no harm, I don’t see the issue. | |||
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"Someone who is confident enough in themselves not to be offended by the word skinny, especially when I’m pretty sure no offence was intended This. I think there’s a big difference between being deliberately derogatory and then just not using the “right” word. It’s like the word fat, many people use the word and mean no harm, I don’t see the issue." | |||
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"As K loves to point out: I don't really have a type. Though I do seem to lean towards the curvier women, bonus points for big bum, big boobs, and glasses too LvM" Bum, boobs and glasses you say | |||
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"Curvy as in hour glass not loads of fat rolls. " | |||
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"What your most attracted too? Hubby likes some “meat” on the bones. He likes some arse boobs and what he calls a mum tum “Milfie” what about you? Do I do much for you? X" Curves all day and night. | |||
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"Curves definitely. The writer Anthony Burchess once likened sex with a skinny French model to wrestling with a bicycle frame" He was obviously shit at cycling then | |||
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"Curves definitely. The writer Anthony Burchess once likened sex with a skinny French model to wrestling with a bicycle frame He was obviously shit at cycling then " And by the sound of it a terrible lover | |||
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"What your most attracted too? Hubby likes some “meat” on the bones. He likes some arse boobs and what he calls a mum tum “Milfie” what about you? Do I do much for you? X" I prefer to get to know a person, but my eyes seems to be attracted to the Goldilocks, not too skinny, not too curvy lol | |||
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"As K loves to point out: I don't really have a type. Though I do seem to lean towards the curvier women, bonus points for big bum, big boobs, and glasses too LvM" It's a hat trick *does naked lap of honour around garden* | |||
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"As K loves to point out: I don't really have a type. Though I do seem to lean towards the curvier women, bonus points for big bum, big boobs, and glasses too LvM It's a hat trick *does naked lap of honour around garden*" Make sure you don't pull anything. | |||
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"It's a ridiculous comparison. Skinny is a poor description and rather derogatory. Do you mean slim? And what does curvy mean? You can be slim, fit and very curvy. Fab curvy seems to be an adopted description for larger ladies, which is unfair on smaller sized ladies who like to be described as curvy or shapely. " Curvy is a shape not a size so how is it unfair? If your waist is smaller than your hips and busy measurement you are curvy regardless of if you’re “larger” or not. | |||
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"My preference is all to do with face an attitude. Been with all shapes and sizes " Exactly this | |||
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"It's a ridiculous comparison. Skinny is a poor description and rather derogatory. Do you mean slim? And what does curvy mean? You can be slim, fit and very curvy. Fab curvy seems to be an adopted description for larger ladies, which is unfair on smaller sized ladies who like to be described as curvy or shapely. Curvy is a shape not a size so how is it unfair? If your waist is smaller than your hips and busy measurement you are curvy regardless of if you’re “larger” or not. " Because there are a lot of women here who don't fit that shape who are describing themselves as curvy. Curvy is hourglass. If you lose all your curves when you lose weight you aren't curvy. | |||
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"It's a ridiculous comparison. Skinny is a poor description and rather derogatory. Do you mean slim? And what does curvy mean? You can be slim, fit and very curvy. Fab curvy seems to be an adopted description for larger ladies, which is unfair on smaller sized ladies who like to be described as curvy or shapely. Curvy is a shape not a size so how is it unfair? If your waist is smaller than your hips and busy measurement you are curvy regardless of if you’re “larger” or not. Because there are a lot of women here who don't fit that shape who are describing themselves as curvy. Curvy is hourglass. If you lose all your curves when you lose weight you aren't curvy." That’s not what I was referring to. I was referring to this “ Fab curvy seems to be an adopted description for larger ladies, which is unfair on smaller sized ladies” If a larger lady has an hourglass figure and he waist is smaller than her bust and hip measurement then she is curvy, so it can’t possibly unfair to accurately describe yourself as curvy regardless of your size. I am a dress size 20, which makes me fat, but my body shape is curvy. If you have a “boyish” body shape, or your waist measurement is the same as your bust or hip measurement then your shape isn’t curvy. | |||
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"Can we stop using the word ‘skinny’ for slim, thanks. Thank you. I am slim but have plenty curves. Pisses me off, the word ‘skinny’ has negative Connotations for people who are perfectly healthy. Agree with you! " This! it makes out that those who are actually the healthy weighted ones are not, sorry but being too thin or overweight are both unhealthy in my books, neither should be glorified. Yes accept, change it if you will (which you should, if you can cos you only get one body) I've got mine set as athletic cos there isn't another appropriate description. I'm not ripped though. I'm just perfectly proportionate I like healthy with some curves on women healthy with good arms and long hair on men | |||
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"I find it quite interesting that so many are upset at the term skinny as it has negative connotations and the majority agree. On threads about larger bodies most people defend the word fat saying its ok because they are fat. " Exactly this. I find it interesting too. | |||
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"I’d say attitude is the sexiest trait in terms of physicality. I daren’t describe any shapes or sizes I have found myself attracted to ladies of differing body types. " Is that skinny attitude or curvy attitude? | |||
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"It's a shame so many women are put off by skinny guys, most of us don't chose to be this way and even struggle just to maintain our weight" Good point actually | |||
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"It's a shame so many women are put off by skinny guys, most of us don't chose to be this way and even struggle just to maintain our weight" Some of us are married to very slim guys. Mr KC is just | |||
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"I’d say attitude is the sexiest trait in terms of physicality. I daren’t describe any shapes or sizes I have found myself attracted to ladies of differing body types. Is that skinny attitude or curvy attitude? " All females can have attitude be them as you say skinny or curvy | |||
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"I find it quite interesting that so many are upset at the term skinny as it has negative connotations and the majority agree. On threads about larger bodies most people defend the word fat saying its ok because they are fat. " For me fat is a technical definition, for example my food contains x amount of fat or I carry excess fat on my bum. However, this isn't true of slim or skinny. In reality they are either underweight or healthy weight by definition. But if I was to use healthy weight that's also problematic. Therefore, most who are by NHS definition prefer slim therefore it's my preferred terminology. | |||
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"I find it quite interesting that so many are upset at the term skinny as it has negative connotations and the majority agree. On threads about larger bodies most people defend the word fat saying its ok because they are fat. For me fat is a technical definition, for example my food contains x amount of fat or I carry excess fat on my bum. However, this isn't true of slim or skinny. In reality they are either underweight or healthy weight by definition. But if I was to use healthy weight that's also problematic. Therefore, most who are by NHS definition prefer slim therefore it's my preferred terminology. " Then if we are going by that logic somebody cannot be fat because nobody is fat they carry fat. | |||
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"It's a ridiculous comparison. Skinny is a poor description and rather derogatory. Do you mean slim? And what does curvy mean? You can be slim, fit and very curvy. Fab curvy seems to be an adopted description for larger ladies, which is unfair on smaller sized ladies who like to be described as curvy or shapely. Curvy is a shape not a size so how is it unfair? If your waist is smaller than your hips and busy measurement you are curvy regardless of if you’re “larger” or not. " this is the problem with the fab descriptions though I'm shaped like any typical ballerina so which do I pick for instance, I have curves as you describe but I'm not 'Fab curvy', I'm slim/healthy with curves and muscles lol I went for athletic. and no, we don't break in 2 from a good pounding...jeez plus you are actually supposed to feel bones under the skin, just not see most of them. | |||
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"I find it quite interesting that so many are upset at the term skinny as it has negative connotations and the majority agree. On threads about larger bodies most people defend the word fat saying its ok because they are fat. For me fat is a technical definition, for example my food contains x amount of fat or I carry excess fat on my bum. However, this isn't true of slim or skinny. In reality they are either underweight or healthy weight by definition. But if I was to use healthy weight that's also problematic. Therefore, most who are by NHS definition prefer slim therefore it's my preferred terminology. Then if we are going by that logic somebody cannot be fat because nobody is fat they carry fat. " Well obese what I am medically as I carry excess fat. I personally don't mind the term fat, but I wouldn't call someone I didn't know fat, and would use over weight or obese. | |||
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"I find it quite interesting that so many are upset at the term skinny as it has negative connotations and the majority agree. On threads about larger bodies most people defend the word fat saying its ok because they are fat. For me fat is a technical definition, for example my food contains x amount of fat or I carry excess fat on my bum. However, this isn't true of slim or skinny. In reality they are either underweight or healthy weight by definition. But if I was to use healthy weight that's also problematic. Therefore, most who are by NHS definition prefer slim therefore it's my preferred terminology. Then if we are going by that logic somebody cannot be fat because nobody is fat they carry fat. Well obese what I am medically as I carry excess fat. I personally don't mind the term fat, but I wouldn't call someone I didn't know fat, and would use over weight or obese. " See i wouldn't call anyone i didn't know obese. Its absolutely none of my business, I also wouldn't call anyone skinny. I just find the response to the thread very interesting and what terms people find ok to use but seem to have more of an issue with larger people. | |||
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"It's a ridiculous comparison. Skinny is a poor description and rather derogatory. Do you mean slim? And what does curvy mean? You can be slim, fit and very curvy. Fab curvy seems to be an adopted description for larger ladies, which is unfair on smaller sized ladies who like to be described as curvy or shapely. Curvy is a shape not a size so how is it unfair? If your waist is smaller than your hips and busy measurement you are curvy regardless of if you’re “larger” or not. this is the problem with the fab descriptions though I'm shaped like any typical ballerina so which do I pick for instance, I have curves as you describe but I'm not 'Fab curvy', I'm slim/healthy with curves and muscles lol I went for athletic. and no, we don't break in 2 from a good pounding...jeez plus you are actually supposed to feel bones under the skin, just not see most of them. " Yeah it’s a complicate one, because as can be seen from this thread everyone sees the word “curvy” differently! People often get confused when it comes to the word curvy and think it’s a size, when in actual fact it’s a shape, and most women’s body shapes are curvy! | |||
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"It's a ridiculous comparison. Skinny is a poor description and rather derogatory. Do you mean slim? And what does curvy mean? You can be slim, fit and very curvy. Fab curvy seems to be an adopted description for larger ladies, which is unfair on smaller sized ladies who like to be described as curvy or shapely. Curvy is a shape not a size so how is it unfair? If your waist is smaller than your hips and busy measurement you are curvy regardless of if you’re “larger” or not. this is the problem with the fab descriptions though I'm shaped like any typical ballerina so which do I pick for instance, I have curves as you describe but I'm not 'Fab curvy', I'm slim/healthy with curves and muscles lol I went for athletic. and no, we don't break in 2 from a good pounding...jeez plus you are actually supposed to feel bones under the skin, just not see most of them. Yeah it’s a complicate one, because as can be seen from this thread everyone sees the word “curvy” differently! People often get confused when it comes to the word curvy and think it’s a size, when in actual fact it’s a shape, and most women’s body shapes are curvy! " Absolutely. A very slim woman can have curves as can a very large women. The categories on sites like this aren't great and I think rather than having tick boxes it would be better to be able to describe the shape or body type you identify as. So I would say I'm large, curvy and short. | |||
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"I find it quite interesting that so many are upset at the term skinny as it has negative connotations and the majority agree. On threads about larger bodies most people defend the word fat saying its ok because they are fat. For me fat is a technical definition, for example my food contains x amount of fat or I carry excess fat on my bum. However, this isn't true of slim or skinny. In reality they are either underweight or healthy weight by definition. But if I was to use healthy weight that's also problematic. Therefore, most who are by NHS definition prefer slim therefore it's my preferred terminology. Then if we are going by that logic somebody cannot be fat because nobody is fat they carry fat. Well obese what I am medically as I carry excess fat. I personally don't mind the term fat, but I wouldn't call someone I didn't know fat, and would use over weight or obese. See i wouldn't call anyone i didn't know obese. Its absolutely none of my business, I also wouldn't call anyone skinny. I just find the response to the thread very interesting and what terms people find ok to use but seem to have more of an issue with larger people. " Not sure I agree, the amount of BBW threads, that say women who are slimmer are like a bag of bones, I mean someone above referred to slimmer women as bikes. I like meat on my bones etc etc. I'm all for preferences, but I don't agree with saying shitty things about another body type to express it, regardless of shape or size. | |||
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"I find it quite interesting that so many are upset at the term skinny as it has negative connotations and the majority agree. On threads about larger bodies most people defend the word fat saying its ok because they are fat. For me fat is a technical definition, for example my food contains x amount of fat or I carry excess fat on my bum. However, this isn't true of slim or skinny. In reality they are either underweight or healthy weight by definition. But if I was to use healthy weight that's also problematic. Therefore, most who are by NHS definition prefer slim therefore it's my preferred terminology. Then if we are going by that logic somebody cannot be fat because nobody is fat they carry fat. Well obese what I am medically as I carry excess fat. I personally don't mind the term fat, but I wouldn't call someone I didn't know fat, and would use over weight or obese. See i wouldn't call anyone i didn't know obese. Its absolutely none of my business, I also wouldn't call anyone skinny. I just find the response to the thread very interesting and what terms people find ok to use but seem to have more of an issue with larger people. Not sure I agree, the amount of BBW threads, that say women who are slimmer are like a bag of bones, I mean someone above referred to slimmer women as bikes. I like meat on my bones etc etc. I'm all for preferences, but I don't agree with saying shitty things about another body type to express it, regardless of shape or size. " It does seem on fab that to be slim is a lot less desirable of a choice | |||
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"It's a ridiculous comparison. Skinny is a poor description and rather derogatory. Do you mean slim? And what does curvy mean? You can be slim, fit and very curvy. Fab curvy seems to be an adopted description for larger ladies, which is unfair on smaller sized ladies who like to be described as curvy or shapely. Curvy is a shape not a size so how is it unfair? If your waist is smaller than your hips and busy measurement you are curvy regardless of if you’re “larger” or not. this is the problem with the fab descriptions though I'm shaped like any typical ballerina so which do I pick for instance, I have curves as you describe but I'm not 'Fab curvy', I'm slim/healthy with curves and muscles lol I went for athletic. and no, we don't break in 2 from a good pounding...jeez plus you are actually supposed to feel bones under the skin, just not see most of them. Yeah it’s a complicate one, because as can be seen from this thread everyone sees the word “curvy” differently! People often get confused when it comes to the word curvy and think it’s a size, when in actual fact it’s a shape, and most women’s body shapes are curvy! Absolutely. A very slim woman can have curves as can a very large women. The categories on sites like this aren't great and I think rather than having tick boxes it would be better to be able to describe the shape or body type you identify as. So I would say I'm large, curvy and short. " Large curvy & short is the perfect description for me too I think! | |||
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"It's a ridiculous comparison. Skinny is a poor description and rather derogatory. Do you mean slim? And what does curvy mean? You can be slim, fit and very curvy. Fab curvy seems to be an adopted description for larger ladies, which is unfair on smaller sized ladies who like to be described as curvy or shapely. Curvy is a shape not a size so how is it unfair? If your waist is smaller than your hips and busy measurement you are curvy regardless of if you’re “larger” or not. this is the problem with the fab descriptions though I'm shaped like any typical ballerina so which do I pick for instance, I have curves as you describe but I'm not 'Fab curvy', I'm slim/healthy with curves and muscles lol I went for athletic. and no, we don't break in 2 from a good pounding...jeez plus you are actually supposed to feel bones under the skin, just not see most of them. Yeah it’s a complicate one, because as can be seen from this thread everyone sees the word “curvy” differently! People often get confused when it comes to the word curvy and think it’s a size, when in actual fact it’s a shape, and most women’s body shapes are curvy! Absolutely. A very slim woman can have curves as can a very large women. The categories on sites like this aren't great and I think rather than having tick boxes it would be better to be able to describe the shape or body type you identify as. So I would say I'm large, curvy and short. Large curvy & short is the perfect description for me too I think! " We should start a petition to add this as a category. | |||
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"I find it quite interesting that so many are upset at the term skinny as it has negative connotations and the majority agree. On threads about larger bodies most people defend the word fat saying its ok because they are fat. For me fat is a technical definition, for example my food contains x amount of fat or I carry excess fat on my bum. However, this isn't true of slim or skinny. In reality they are either underweight or healthy weight by definition. But if I was to use healthy weight that's also problematic. Therefore, most who are by NHS definition prefer slim therefore it's my preferred terminology. Then if we are going by that logic somebody cannot be fat because nobody is fat they carry fat. Well obese what I am medically as I carry excess fat. I personally don't mind the term fat, but I wouldn't call someone I didn't know fat, and would use over weight or obese. See i wouldn't call anyone i didn't know obese. Its absolutely none of my business, I also wouldn't call anyone skinny. I just find the response to the thread very interesting and what terms people find ok to use but seem to have more of an issue with larger people. Not sure I agree, the amount of BBW threads, that say women who are slimmer are like a bag of bones, I mean someone above referred to slimmer women as bikes. I like meat on my bones etc etc. I'm all for preferences, but I don't agree with saying shitty things about another body type to express it, regardless of shape or size. It does seem on fab that to be slim is a lot less desirable of a choice " I don't know to be honest being an obese woman. I can only see it from what I've experienced. But I do get random men message me with derogatory comments about my weight. Which I won't lie hurt. But then I know slimmer ladies who do too. | |||
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"Curves for sure, but as to having a 'type', I dunno. I just like sexiness? Is that too cliche?" Agree | |||
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"It's a ridiculous comparison. Skinny is a poor description and rather derogatory. Do you mean slim? And what does curvy mean? You can be slim, fit and very curvy. Fab curvy seems to be an adopted description for larger ladies, which is unfair on smaller sized ladies who like to be described as curvy or shapely. Curvy is a shape not a size so how is it unfair? If your waist is smaller than your hips and busy measurement you are curvy regardless of if you’re “larger” or not. this is the problem with the fab descriptions though I'm shaped like any typical ballerina so which do I pick for instance, I have curves as you describe but I'm not 'Fab curvy', I'm slim/healthy with curves and muscles lol I went for athletic. and no, we don't break in 2 from a good pounding...jeez plus you are actually supposed to feel bones under the skin, just not see most of them. Yeah it’s a complicate one, because as can be seen from this thread everyone sees the word “curvy” differently! People often get confused when it comes to the word curvy and think it’s a size, when in actual fact it’s a shape, and most women’s body shapes are curvy! Absolutely. A very slim woman can have curves as can a very large women. The categories on sites like this aren't great and I think rather than having tick boxes it would be better to be able to describe the shape or body type you identify as. So I would say I'm large, curvy and short. Large curvy & short is the perfect description for me too I think! We should start a petition to add this as a category. " I think it should just be like me as I am or just don't bother as this is who I am as a person not just a shape or size | |||
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"I find it quite interesting that so many are upset at the term skinny as it has negative connotations and the majority agree. On threads about larger bodies most people defend the word fat saying its ok because they are fat. For me fat is a technical definition, for example my food contains x amount of fat or I carry excess fat on my bum. However, this isn't true of slim or skinny. In reality they are either underweight or healthy weight by definition. But if I was to use healthy weight that's also problematic. Therefore, most who are by NHS definition prefer slim therefore it's my preferred terminology. Then if we are going by that logic somebody cannot be fat because nobody is fat they carry fat. Well obese what I am medically as I carry excess fat. I personally don't mind the term fat, but I wouldn't call someone I didn't know fat, and would use over weight or obese. See i wouldn't call anyone i didn't know obese. Its absolutely none of my business, I also wouldn't call anyone skinny. I just find the response to the thread very interesting and what terms people find ok to use but seem to have more of an issue with larger people. Not sure I agree, the amount of BBW threads, that say women who are slimmer are like a bag of bones, I mean someone above referred to slimmer women as bikes. I like meat on my bones etc etc. I'm all for preferences, but I don't agree with saying shitty things about another body type to express it, regardless of shape or size. It does seem on fab that to be slim is a lot less desirable of a choice " I don't think it is, except in the forums! Hot pics are mainly slimmer/fitter ladies on the first couple of pages ... I have nothing but compliments on how I look and over the years have never had a problem meeting people or finding what I want! It's only here, in the forums,l that derogatory terms are used and arguements started if anyone mentions a preference for slim/athletic ladies to be fair. And this actually says says more about the people that use them ... | |||
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"What your most attracted too? Hubby likes some “meat” on the bones. He likes some arse boobs and what he calls a mum tum “Milfie” what about you? Do I do much for you? X" Your hubby is a man after my own heart, I adore the fuller built lady with large, well large everything really, I have a thing about skin, love to run my hands over a woman's skin and feel the fantastic texture underneath my fingers, cellulite, stretch marks and dimples are a huge turn on too, wow wow wow wow heaven, and to answer your last question, yes , you have a beautiful figure and your hubby is a lucky chap xxxx | |||
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"What your most attracted too? Hubby likes some “meat” on the bones. He likes some arse boobs and what he calls a mum tum “Milfie” what about you? Do I do much for you? X" Curves and confidence then I’m throbbing | |||
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"I find it quite interesting that so many are upset at the term skinny as it has negative connotations and the majority agree. On threads about larger bodies most people defend the word fat saying its ok because they are fat. " Curvy woman asks the pejorative question... "What your most attracted too? Hubby likes some “meat” on the bones. He likes some arse boobs and what he calls a mum tum “Milfie” what about you? Do I do much for you? X" Queue the usual | |||
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