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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi Fabbers

Genuine question. Fab has become very very busy this year.... it’s getting harder and harder to chat to people properly. Does anyone else think that’s the case?

Lots of love to y’all

Joe xx

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think it's necessarily because it's too busy, I think people don't have the headspace and energy to start conversations and continue them with people on here for the most part.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it's necessarily because it's too busy, I think people don't have the headspace and energy to start conversations and continue them with people on here for the most part."

A couple of years ago I had much longer chats .. now it just feels much more cursory x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi Fabbers

Genuine question. Fab has become very very busy this year.... it’s getting harder and harder to chat to people properly. Does anyone else think that’s the case?

Lots of love to y’all

Think I tend to agree...

Joe xx"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It seems less busy to me, but then my filters are at max.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I don't think it's necessarily because it's too busy, I think people don't have the headspace and energy to start conversations and continue them with people on here for the most part.

A couple of years ago I had much longer chats .. now it just feels much more cursory x"

Do you not think that the current situation has played in to that? What is the point of chatting if you can't meet etc?

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I guess it's mainly because Fab is a meets platform and in the absence of being able to meet people don't necessarily just want general chit chat that goes nowhere. I'm mainly here now just to keep in touch with friends rather than random chats with a stranger

Lisa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.i can't be bothered to chat because meeting isn't gonna be imminent so what's the point? I'm sure a lot of (non forum users) have that exact mindset.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I try not to chat but sexy ladies keep messaging so it would be echurlish not to engage in convo with them. I’m not sure how many more times I can read ‘ooh ooh Steve you make me wet’ of an evening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’m honest I think it’s less busy. A lot of people just aren’t up for chatting at the moment some are though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this year it has slowed down to a reasonable pace... Before covid it was impossible to attempted to open even like 50% of messages and now it's pretty easy to keep on top of my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think this year it has slowed down to a reasonable pace... Before covid it was impossible to attempted to open even like 50% of messages and now it's pretty easy to keep on top of my inbox "

You must get dosents of maseges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when is busy

More people to interact with

Its shame no one is London based

Everyone is from far spaces

Hardly any London crude hear

I feel so lonely lol

I love to chat to some London people daily

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I like it when is busy

More people to interact with

Its shame no one is London based

Everyone is from far spaces

Hardly any London crude hear

I feel so lonely lol

I love to chat to some London people daily "
. Cool poem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think it's necessarily because it's too busy, I think people don't have the headspace and energy to start conversations and continue them with people on here for the most part.

A couple of years ago I had much longer chats .. now it just feels much more cursory x

Do you not think that the current situation has played in to that? What is the point of chatting if you can't meet etc? "

That’s a good point.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No.i can't be bothered to chat because meeting isn't gonna be imminent so what's the point? I'm sure a lot of (non forum users) have that exact mindset. "

Interesting. I guess most of my friendships on here have moved on kik and snapchat and whatsapp etc. I’m just finding it harder to engage with new people xx

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By *nvisible_manMan
over a year ago

TWICKENHAM


"I like it when is busy

More people to interact with

Its shame no one is London based

Everyone is from far spaces

Hardly any London crude hear

I feel so lonely lol

I love to chat to some London people daily . Cool poem "

Shit haiku

It hurts my eyes

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve chatted to and met more people in the last 12 months than at any other time before.

Before anyone asks. Yes it’s been done with Boris’ approval.

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By *lessedXXXWoman
over a year ago

“I never meet”

Long conversations seem to be a thing of the past.

If men can’t get a meet (even during covid) within the first half dozen messages they wander off to find someone who will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love normal conversations but when the conversation opens up with a dick pic. How is that impressive ? The majority of women on here get inundated with a sorts from tic tac to house pipes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Long conversations seem to be a thing of the past.

If men can’t get a meet (even during covid) within the first half dozen messages they wander off to find someone who will"

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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If people can’t meet then I suppose for some, there isn’t much point in chatting too much. We all have our own approach.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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I wouldn't say that I've noticed it being any busier than it was pre covid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think it's necessarily because it's too busy, I think people don't have the headspace and energy to start conversations and continue them with people on here for the most part."

Exactly this.

Im not in the headspace to think about meeting im happy to take part in abit of chat then crack on with the million & 1 things i have to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I like the conversations. I only meet people I get along with. It seems some of the women have less patience though - conversation is less welcomed xx

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