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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Where are all the lovely Dommes here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dungeon would be my guess

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

They're Dom's they don't come a running when called you know

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

But to answer your OP most don't openly say they are for the massive influx of messages that get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sat on the sofa next to me

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By *aughty_tonyMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn


"Dungeon would be my guess"

Lol yep probably

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's a fair point lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is true!

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"This is true!"

OP if you use reply and quote we know who you are talking to

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This is true!

OP if you use reply and quote we know who you are talking to "

That is very useful to know! Thank you haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins.

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

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By *rystal DreamtimeTV/TS
over a year ago

horsham

My partner is Domme . Like totally and a bit ( ok a lot ) of a sexual sadist ..

She was on this site but left because of the silly messages . It wasent so much the amount , more the content and lack of thought .

We tried a couples profile but that was not much better , wrote what I believed a good profile explanation as to what we where about , no one seemed to get it though both singles and couples alike . It’s horses for courses really I suppose , we are on the other fetish site , and whilst there is still the odd daft message , generally the traffic is a lot less .

I’m not sure there is a way to attract Dominant women to a swingers site , less bombardment to the inbox may help , I’m not sure that is entirely feasible though given what and whom they are

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

I'm retired, I used to a Domme. But subs are very demanding and it can be exhausting, emotionally and physically.

I do miss it though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my moments...

I'm a sado-masochist so I enjoy a little switcheroo...

Lu

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins. "

Sorry but if a Domme thought they "existed" to punish and humiliate me as a submissive, they wouldn't be a Domme I was interested in meeting - whilst punishment, pain and humiliation *do* form a part of my interest, it goes a lot deeper than that and those aspects are just a part of it, but not the reason for it's existence - which is more about control and care and getting into my head.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm retired, I used to a Domme. But subs are very demanding and it can be exhausting, emotionally and physically.

I do miss it though!"

I can imagine how it would be exhausting. But i can also imagine how you would totally rock the Domme scene. You look outstanding

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I'm retired, I used to a Domme. But subs are very demanding and it can be exhausting, emotionally and physically.

I do miss it though!

I can imagine how it would be exhausting. But i can also imagine how you would totally rock the Domme scene. You look outstanding "

Thank you

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins.

Sorry but if a Domme thought they "existed" to punish and humiliate me as a submissive, they wouldn't be a Domme I was interested in meeting - whilst punishment, pain and humiliation *do* form a part of my interest, it goes a lot deeper than that and those aspects are just a part of it, but not the reason for it's existence - which is more about control and care and getting into my head."

True, we also like to nurture our subs, improve them. happy sub, happy Mistress!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm retired, I used to a Domme. But subs are very demanding and it can be exhausting, emotionally and physically.

I do miss it though!

I can imagine how it would be exhausting. But i can also imagine how you would totally rock the Domme scene. You look outstanding

Thank you "

Haha, no. Thank you

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins.

Sorry but if a Domme thought they "existed" to punish and humiliate me as a submissive, they wouldn't be a Domme I was interested in meeting - whilst punishment, pain and humiliation *do* form a part of my interest, it goes a lot deeper than that and those aspects are just a part of it, but not the reason for it's existence - which is more about control and care and getting into my head.

True, we also like to nurture our subs, improve them. happy sub, happy Mistress!"

In a nutshell exactly that

Dom/mes and subs are two sides of the same coin, and equally invested, the way I view the dynamic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins.

Sorry but if a Domme thought they "existed" to punish and humiliate me as a submissive, they wouldn't be a Domme I was interested in meeting - whilst punishment, pain and humiliation *do* form a part of my interest, it goes a lot deeper than that and those aspects are just a part of it, but not the reason for it's existence - which is more about control and care and getting into my head.

True, we also like to nurture our subs, improve them. happy sub, happy Mistress!

In a nutshell exactly that

Dom/mes and subs are two sides of the same coin, and equally invested, the way I view the dynamic "

BDSM is a complex phenomenon. At the individual level, it encompasses a wide variety of consensual interpersonal interactions that involve participants playing with power differentials, physical restraint and/or pain within a context that is frequently (though not always) sexualised.

They need to “exist” in order to exact punishment and humiliation which I agree is only a small part of the dynamics when involved in the art of BDSM. Many claim to be experts but it takes great skill to be a professional dominant. So many facets in the art of BDSM.

I’ve still lots to learn but care not to when it comes to extreme S&M.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nothing lovely about “dommes”, they exist to punish and humiliate and that they do very well. Had misfortune of learning the hard way, blinded by beauty (ouch) - save word used within first 30mins.

Sorry but if a Domme thought they "existed" to punish and humiliate me as a submissive, they wouldn't be a Domme I was interested in meeting - whilst punishment, pain and humiliation *do* form a part of my interest, it goes a lot deeper than that and those aspects are just a part of it, but not the reason for it's existence - which is more about control and care and getting into my head.

True, we also like to nurture our subs, improve them. happy sub, happy Mistress!"

Mistress Mimi you can discipline me anytime. Turning me from a naughty girl into a good gurl. A Cocksucking Anal Whore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had previously mentioned she is Domme in our profile, and got swamped with messages. These varied from needy, so called sub guys, to Doms who thought she needed a good seeing to because, as a sub, I wasn't up to it

If we want to scratch that itch, we look for subs on another well known site. Never here

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By *exfordMan
over a year ago

discombobulated land


"Where are all the lovely Dommes here "

Next to the Dickes I'd guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can see why some wouldn't advertise the fact they are Dom, they would be inundated with requests. Still, ...

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