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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So im nice, genuine, 'handsome' and kinky and yet the only attention i get on here is off gay men who think my 'straight' status mean im gay...

Jeez...just want a sexy couple/fem in the north west...

Not exactly askin for a snog off the queen...

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

How can we tell u handsome.. all we can see is a willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not exactly askin for a snog off the queen..."

looks like the gay blokes are out of luck then

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps sounding like ur appreciative of meeting cpls/fems instead of the bravado sounding rubbish...see all that bull, shite...leave it till ur in the bedroom..ur pics are hardly any different from the masses of mens profiles...

good luck

hope I've not been too harsh

*once more are u really inundated by bi/gay mail....its only bloody mail...dont for one second have me believe u get as much annoying mail as fems n cpls get.I'm actually tired of hearing it.if u getta male mail, asking for bj's etc...delete, block move on...dont pop a vein

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im nice, genuine, 'handsome' and kinky and yet the only attention i get on here is off gay men who think my 'straight' status mean im gay...

Jeez...just want a sexy couple/fem in the north west...

Not exactly askin for a snog off the queen..."

*curious in ur headline tends to mean possibly experimenting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow. Your great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow. Your great."

u asked for help.....

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Gay boys like seeing cocks and chests and bums .. you askng for it dontcha know..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow. Your great.

u asked for help....."

I know. Just saying how great you are.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gay boys like seeing cocks and chests and bums .. you askng for it dontcha know.. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Not exactly askin for a snog off the queen...

looks like the gay blokes are out of luck then

Wolf

"

Well...depends how little action i get lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My suggestions...

Retype your profile, drop the CAPS and drop the 'warning', it means nothing at all.

Maybe a few more pics, clothed or unclothed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How can we tell u handsome.. all we can see is a willy "

What a polite way of putting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just put a block on single males...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So im nice, genuine, 'handsome' and kinky and yet the only attention i get on here is off gay men who think my 'straight' status mean im gay...

Jeez...just want a sexy couple/fem in the north west...

Not exactly askin for a snog off the queen..."
Id second the comments about the caps. I'd also agree that the warning is worthless and you could do with some more pics......

However, if you've been here before and had fun, surely you know what the score is?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"perhaps sounding like ur appreciative of meeting cpls/fems instead of the bravado sounding rubbish...see all that bull, shite...leave it till ur in the bedroom..ur pics are hardly any different from the masses of mens profiles...

good luck

hope I've not been too harsh

*once more are u really inundated by bi/gay mail....its only bloody mail...dont for one second have me believe u get as much annoying mail as fems n cpls get.I'm actually tired of hearing it.if u getta male mail, asking for bj's etc...delete, block move on...dont pop a vein"

Thatll be a No then Padster...

OP... Check ya single male filter is on... Then go to some socials or frolic round the forums... Get to know people...;-);-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree with the others. We know nothing about you except you fancy yourself as a bull and it's not put across in the best way. Your profile is 50% warning - bin it, it's pointless

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Drop the Caps, the warning, as others say, and then put yourself in the position of the people you'd like to meet.

Ask yourself, what would they like to know and see? If you're only on here for cuckolding, then make that clear, but I'm really sure you're not, so expand your profile and let us know more about you, get a feel for your personality/sexual interests.

Also, again from the perspective of potential viewers - I note the following comment ''A woman should not have a hair beneath her eyebrows'

This may or may not be true, but some people would find this off-putting, as it hints that you have a very narrow definition of how a woman should be. Whilst this may be true for you, you could also be deterring others, and limiting your results. People want to be themselves, with all their uniqueness, rather than having to slot into the narrow confines of how another believes they should be/look. I'm guessing that you're not really narrow in outlook, but people will take everything on board, especially when there's not much profile text detail.

Expand your photo range, and assume that you've got one shot to make someone viewing your profile really like you or not. They'll often view it, before/instead of reading your messages to them.

I have no clue about gay guys messaging you, but if they're not gay, and are bi, then maybe you're missing out on 3 ways with a bi/curious couple. Doesn't need to have MM interaction, but I'm guessing there aren't that many mainly gay guys on here (I haven't much of a clue, as gay guys aren't largely interested in someone like me).

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok just looked and did not read as see you was screaming a me with caps ... Thats why alot i am sure will not read your profile .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thankyou, all that is based on the premis that people actually read the profile tho, which iv found, they dont

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"Thankyou, all that is based on the premis that people actually read the profile tho, which iv found, they dont"

in which case... don't listen to a word that anyone says and continue along your merry way, as obviously you know best....

however you then lose any right to complain that your way isn't working...

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