FabSwingers.com forum: I just exposed my breasts to the Asda delivery driver

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

By accident, bending down to get the shopping bags out the crate on the floor.

If it was you I'm sorry, or your welcome, whichever you think is the most appropriate

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I think you don't need to apologise at all , he should be the one at least saying thank you

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think you don't need to apologise at all , he should be the one at least saying thank you

That makes me feel slightly better, thank you babe

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I would be sorry. Not every man wants to be exposed to bare flesh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

could you do it again I missed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I would be sorry. Not every man wants to be exposed to bare flesh."

I am sorry, I have a loose fitting jumper on, I didn't think this through when I got dressed. It gaps at the front when I bend down.

I am sorry Mr Asda Man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By accident, bending down to get the shopping bags out the crate on the floor.

If it was you I'm sorry, or your welcome, whichever you think is the most appropriate

you should really post on the asda fb cuz if he's on here i doubt he'd mind...its kinda the point of fab

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By accident, bending down to get the shopping bags out the crate on the floor.

If it was you I'm sorry, or your welcome, whichever you think is the most appropriate

you should really post on the asda fb cuz if he's on here i doubt he'd mind...its kinda the point of fab"

Do you think I may be entitled to some free shopping vouchers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you think I may be entitled to some free shopping vouchers

Ohh without a doubt!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Interesting responses in light of the current debate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Interesting responses in light of the current debate. "

Awww I hope it doesn't turn into a debate, I was just sharing my embarrassing moment, Fab seemed an appropriate place. Maybe I misjudged it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awaiting the PC brigade with their clipboards

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Interesting responses in light of the current debate.

Awww I hope it doesn't turn into a debate, I was just sharing my embarrassing moment, Fab seemed an appropriate place. Maybe I misjudged it

I think we've all had embarrassing moments

I don't want to rain on anyone's parade

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be sorry. Not every man wants to be exposed to bare flesh."

its no wonder we can’t get guys to engage with our discussions on sexual harassment when double standards like this exist

the OP said it was an accident, which is fine, stuff happens, but no woman or man at their work should be thankful for having nudity forced upon them short of being a porn star / shoot crew where by default you consented to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting responses in light of the current debate.

Awww I hope it doesn't turn into a debate, I was just sharing my embarrassing moment, Fab seemed an appropriate place. Maybe I misjudged it

Don't feel bad about it, as long as you see it as a light-hearted thread and are happy to poke fun at the situation then that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Awaiting the PC brigade with their clipboards

yes people that speak up for consent are the PC brigade

. how telling that statement is

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Interesting responses in light of the current debate.

Awww I hope it doesn't turn into a debate, I was just sharing my embarrassing moment, Fab seemed an appropriate place. Maybe I misjudged it

Don't feel bad about it, as long as you see it as a light-hearted thread and are happy to poke fun at the situation then that's all that matters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting responses in light of the current debate.

Awww I hope it doesn't turn into a debate, I was just sharing my embarrassing moment, Fab seemed an appropriate place. Maybe I misjudged it

Don't feel bad about it, as long as you see it as a light-hearted thread and are happy to poke fun at the situation then that's all that matters

yeah i think your OP was fine, you shared an embarrassing accident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Genuine mistake. No harm done.

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

"I would be sorry. Not every man wants to be exposed to bare flesh.

its no wonder we can’t get guys to engage with our discussions on sexual harassment when double standards like this exist

Agreed.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Interesting responses in light of the current debate. "

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

The word accident says it all. We've all had wardrobe malfunctions.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

What would you think if the Asda Man's trousers had accidentally come undone as he put down your crate and he was commando ?

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

What if this was a guys dick not boobs all hell would let loose.

And it is the same thing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll put your back out bending that way

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By *oudLoutishLoverWoman
over a year ago

Colchester

A genuine accident. Rather like a man inadvertently leaving his flies open.

My face still burns at the memory of my boob escaping while I was car washing. Oh, the shame!

However, mentioning consent doesn’t make so_eone part of a 'brigade'. Awareness and consideration for others isn’t something to be mocked.

A different jumper for the Jehovah’s Witnesses, maybe?

Xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By accident, bending down to get the shopping bags out the crate on the floor.

If it was you I'm sorry, or your welcome, whichever you think is the most appropriate

you should really post on the asda fb cuz if he's on here i doubt he'd mind...its kinda the point of fab"

I don't think just because a man is on a website he wants to be Flash while hes at work.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What if this was a guys dick not boobs all hell would let loose.

And it is the same thing...

No.

Boobs and Dicks are not the same thing.

Not by any stretch of the imagination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What if this was a guys dick not boobs all hell would let loose.

And it is the same thing...

No.

Boobs and Dicks are not the same thing.

Not by any stretch of the imagination. "

Really? I just ordered some 36D pants

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

There’s a difference between accidentally exposing yourself to deliberately doing so. The Op was just passing on an embarrassing moment not bragging about trying to turn on a delivery person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What would you think if the Asda Man's trousers had accidentally come undone as he put down your crate and he was commando ? "

you would probably br mortified for him, but appreciate it wasn’t on purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s a difference between accidentally exposing yourself to deliberately doing so. The Op was just passing on an embarrassing moment not bragging about trying to turn on a delivery person.

Totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Right, can I just clarify something.

I had a bra on, my jumper slightly went into a v-neck position as I bent down, reveling my cleavage, but only if he had been looking. This was supposed to be a lighthearted embarrassing wardrobe malfunction moment. Nothing more, nothing less. It was a total accident that I am sorry about it. Guess my SOH isn't that great

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"The word accident says it all. We've all had wardrobe malfunctions. "

It happens and it’s not deliberate

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I can't imagine you caused any harm. You didn't assault him or proposition him. You didn't intentionally do it. The worst affect on him would have been very mild. He may not even have noticed. If he saw anything, he could see more on a beach. I really wouldn't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, can I just clarify something.

As far as I can see nobody has said you have done it deliberately.

Unfortunately at the moment because of the discussion that is being had generally about men's attitude towards women I think a post like this is going to cause debate.

I'm sure the driver knew it was an accident.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"What if this was a guys dick not boobs all hell would let loose.

And it is the same thing...

No.

Boobs and Dicks are not the same thing.

Not by any stretch of the imagination.

Really? I just ordered some 36D pants

Pat, you can let them out.... then they'll be bit enough

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By *pYaMan
over a year ago

Ready…

Well this sort of thing never happens to me, probably because my boobs aren't big enough!

Just finishing my application form to become an ASDA Delivery Driver, hoping I get your delivery

Seriously, accidents happens and I hope you get over the embarrassment, just make sure it doesn't happen again.

(Withdraws application form)

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

"Right, can I just clarify something.

I don't think it's YOU that needs to question their SOH.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, can I just clarify something.

I don't think it's YOU that needs to question their SOH."

Just because people don't find this funny doesn't mean they don't have a sense of humour at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, can I just clarify something.

To the Tower for your crime

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Right, can I just clarify something.

People's awareness is just heightened at the moment

Don't take it to heart.

I've got a button up to the neck corduroy house coat if you'd like me to send it over and some saggy wooly socks n long wellies.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

"Right, can I just clarify something.

You did nothing wrong as it was a total accident so nothing to be sorry about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, can I just clarify something.

To the Tower for your crime

"To the tower for your crime"

Im soo stealing that thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, can I just clarify something.

People's awareness is just heightened at the moment

Don't take it to heart.

I've got a button up to the neck corduroy house coat if you'd like me to send it over and some saggy wooly socks n long wellies. "

Ohh can you send me some wooly socks pretty please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Right, can I just clarify something.

To the Tower for your crime

"To the tower for your crime"

Im soo stealing that thanks

Look , there’s a lockdown on at present anyone with a SOH shall go to the Tower

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If u got it why not show it sod it. Don’t worry about it I’m sure he be back

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Right, can I just clarify something.

People's awareness is just heightened at the moment

Don't take it to heart.

I've got a button up to the neck corduroy house coat if you'd like me to send it over and some saggy wooly socks n long wellies.

Ohh can you send me some wooly socks pretty please. "

I've got some nice blue ones so you can get rid of the grey...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I play devils advocate just for recent discussions

Male driver returns to depot and says...cor lads...miss brown accidentally flashed me her tits...I could have fucked her..she wanted it

Let's reverse the roles

Female driver returns to depot and says...Mr brown flashed his penis at me today....I want you to call the police for sexual harrasment in the work place...police turn up at mr browns...we are putting you on sex offenders list

Yes yes it's over the top and very extreme....but this is the way of the world now

Im not saying who was right and wrong...just playing with the scenario

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I also had slippers on, exposing my ankles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also had slippers on, exposing my ankles

Can anyone please advise where I can buy a burka ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I also had slippers on, exposing my ankles

You are quite the floosy! What does your wife think of this all ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I also had slippers on, exposing my ankles

Can anyone please advise where I can buy a burka ?

I've seen some good ones on Amazon. Other net order places are available.

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"I would be sorry. Not every man wants to be exposed to bare flesh.

its no wonder we can’t get guys to engage with our discussions on sexual harassment when double standards like this exist

A naked body is just a naked body, nothing to get too excited by or offended by - most European countries seem to deal with it in an adult way.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I also had slippers on, exposing my ankles

You are quite the floosy! What does your wife think of this all ?"

Not to happy in all honesty, they had subbed her favourite shampoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope u had knickers on too and didn’t bend down the other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also had slippers on, exposing my ankles

Can anyone please advise where I can buy a burka ?

I've seen some good ones on Amazon. Other net order places are available."

Fantastic thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"By accident, bending down to get the shopping bags out the crate on the floor.

If it was you I'm sorry, or your welcome, whichever you think is the most appropriate

I might change jobs and become an Asda driver

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By *olex99Man
over a year ago

Hull

Is there anything else that you may have forgotten to order, I'm willing to bring it round if you promise me the same treatment

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"I also had slippers on, exposing my ankles

You are quite the floosy! What does your wife think of this all ?

Not to happy in all honesty, they had subbed her favourite shampoo "

I HATE that. I once got subbed a shampoo for brunettes when i'd ordered the one for blondes......

And worse got subbed white wine when I drink red only .....

They must PISS themselves laughin' in the packing ailes..

I think you should have all cucumbers and bananas subbed for laxatives for your awful behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also had slippers on, exposing my ankles

roll neck jumper next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The crime is the intention and if there wasn't an intention to offend then there is no crime... This logic is applied to male and female scenarios.

You are the only person who gets to decide this for yourself. None of us witnessed this so for everyone with an opinion just remember it's your own interpretation of the OP's post and therefore it's important to acknowledge that what you have to say is just your perception and that can be done without judgement. I'm all for healthy debates and I remain open minded to seeing things from a different point of view. The delivery of this is actually key. People can agree to disagree in a mindful way. Consent matters. So does accountability for one's human error.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The crime is the intention and if there wasn't an intention to offend then there is no crime... This logic is applied to male and female scenarios.

i honestly dont think one person has commented thinking the OP was in the wrong,

it was the responses of “he should be thankful for it” that raised the debate - consent is consent male or female and nobody should be thankful for seeing a naked body they didn’t ask to see

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I've been flashed a few times over the years, you can never be sure if was a accident or not though

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

I think the problem here is not the accident but the whole raft of responses from, mostly, men going 'Pwhoarr wouldn't mind a bit of that', 'You can flash me anytime dahlin', 'I'm gonna change jobs'. Isn't that the kind of attitude towards women that's been causing issues? Sexualising an innocent accident like that is a bit off and part of the problem.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"I also had slippers on, exposing my ankles

You are quite the floosy! What does your wife think of this all ?

Not to happy in all honesty, they had subbed her favourite shampoo

I HATE that. I once got subbed a shampoo for brunettes when i'd ordered the one for blondes......

And worse got subbed white wine when I drink red only .....

They must PISS themselves laughin' in the packing ailes..

I think you should have all cucumbers and bananas subbed for laxatives for your awful behaviour. "

I delivered a can of always anti perspirant in place of sanitary towls, the system tells them what to pick but a bit of common sense says that's not going to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awww i thought this was a follow up from the pizza delivery challenge that women have been doing !!

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

It was lovely humourous post by the OP..

Please don't spoil it by trying to turn it into something it's not..

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"[clothes Removed by poster at 16/03/21 14:55:06]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The crime is the intention and if there wasn't an intention to offend then there is no crime... This logic is applied to male and female scenarios.

i honestly dont think one person has commented thinking the OP was in the wrong,

it was the responses of “he should be thankful for it” that raised the debate - consent is consent male or female and nobody should be thankful for seeing a naked body they didn’t ask to see "

There was a comment by so_eone "I would be sorry".

I'm all for consent but I'm also in favour of people taking accountability especially if human error occurred. Unfortunately the OP incited those comments when the apology was followed by " or you're welcome" however it is received. I'm back to healthy debates that open people's minds but when it's fuelled by personal annoyance and delivered possibly in an angry/upset tone then it brings with it judgment. It almost feels like a scolding.

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By *nerealman100Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Well if he liked it I think you will be seeing more of him, every time your account comes up for delivery I'm sure he will be bringing it! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What on earth has happened in the forums lately

And around & around we go.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth has happened in the forums lately

And around & around we go....."

I had the male half of a couple & he sent me a picture of his penis , I’m not sure what to do now. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the comments on this thread make me think of something i saw on tik tok the other day - so_eone said the while its not justification for the behaviour, we need to start including in the discussion that men are often what they regard to be under sexualised

its almost impossible for us to come to the same conclusions about a scenario when one sex are craving behaviour that the other sees as harassment

until we start including that in the discussion we are so polar opposite that chances of us reaching a consensus are pretty much nil

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What on earth has happened in the forums lately

And around & around we go.....

I had the male half of a couple & he sent me a picture of his penis , I’m not sure what to do now. ?

I will send you the address for Dear Deirdre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth has happened in the forums lately

And around & around we go.....

I had the male half of a couple & he sent me a picture of his penis , I’m not sure what to do now. ?

I will send you the address for Dear Deirdre

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"the comments on this thread make me think of something i saw on tik tok the other day - so_eone said the while its not justification for the behaviour, we need to start including in the discussion that men are often what they regard to be under sexualised

its almost impossible for us to come to the same conclusions about a scenario when one sex are craving behaviour that the other sees as harassment

until we start including that in the discussion we are so polar opposite that chances of us reaching a consensus are pretty much nil "

Maybe you should start a post about it

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

its almost impossible for us to come to the same conclusions about a scenario when one sex are craving behaviour that the other sees as harassment

until we start including that in the discussion we are so polar opposite that chances of us reaching a consensus are pretty much nil "

Maybe but that same discussion has its place. Not everything that is said or written needs to be analysed and judged against a topic.

Individuals should still be free to post what their choose to, within the rules, and not have a thread turned completely on its head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's important issues out there and I respect them but I also respect conversations that are void of judgment. Judgement puts people in a place of defense whereby a person can internalise the reaction and beat themselves up or they can lash out and attack back. The issue with forums of any nature is that passive aggressive language can trigger a big reaction and it becomes a tennis match scenario. I say this with kindness... Try not to rush in with judgment because you believe strongly about a particular issue. Your message can still be important and delivered in a kind way. The option to agree to disagree is there too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its almost impossible for us to come to the same conclusions about a scenario when one sex are craving behaviour that the other sees as harassment

until we start including that in the discussion we are so polar opposite that chances of us reaching a consensus are pretty much nil

Maybe but that same discussion has its place. Not everything that is said or written needs to be analysed and judged against a topic.

Individuals should still be free to post what their choose to, within the rules, and not have a thread turned completely on its head.

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Exactly this Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either. "

Go on I dare you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either. "

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

If you get the same guy again repeatedly then you know he wasn't offended, just going to have a look to see if any new drivers are needed in your area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out"

I’m sorry it’s happened. Happens too often. Don’t let it put you off x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you are silenced they win

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By *ssex_tomMan
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Is everyone happy now

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"When you are silenced they win"

Nobody has been silenced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its almost impossible for us to come to the same conclusions about a scenario when one sex are craving behaviour that the other sees as harassment

until we start including that in the discussion we are so polar opposite that chances of us reaching a consensus are pretty much nil

Maybe but that same discussion has its place. Not everything that is said or written needs to be analysed and judged against a topic.

Individuals should still be free to post what their choose to, within the rules, and not have a thread turned completely on its head.

where does it say the OP shouldn’t have posted? its an observation of what i can see on this thread

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

its almost impossible for us to come to the same conclusions about a scenario when one sex are craving behaviour that the other sees as harassment

until we start including that in the discussion we are so polar opposite that chances of us reaching a consensus are pretty much nil

Maybe but that same discussion has its place. Not everything that is said or written needs to be analysed and judged against a topic.

Individuals should still be free to post what their choose to, within the rules, and not have a thread turned completely on its head.

where does it say the OP shouldn’t have posted? its an observation of what i can see on this thread "

Just look at the OP and how the thread has gone, is it on topic of the OP? No.

As the OP has requested, if you want to discuss certain things start another thread. This one has been completely derailed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you don't need to apologise at all , he should be the one at least saying thank you

Probably too busy wiping the jizz from his pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you don't need to apologise at all , he should be the one at least saying thank you

Probably too busy wiping the jizz from his pants"

And you thought it was mayonnaise

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

its almost impossible for us to come to the same conclusions about a scenario when one sex are craving behaviour that the other sees as harassment

until we start including that in the discussion we are so polar opposite that chances of us reaching a consensus are pretty much nil

Maybe but that same discussion has its place. Not everything that is said or written needs to be analysed and judged against a topic.

Individuals should still be free to post what their choose to, within the rules, and not have a thread turned completely on its head.

where does it say the OP shouldn’t have posted? its an observation of what i can see on this thread

Just look at the OP and how the thread has gone, is it on topic of the OP? No.

As the OP has requested, if you want to discuss certain things start another thread. This one has been completely derailed. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dear me, where have all the senses of humour gone.

Genuine mistake, im sure he didn't mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

okay so last week its we make change by calling out inappropriate behaviour when you see it (and almost every male response on this thread disregards the concept of consent)

but this week its mind your own business or go talk about it where the people who are in the wrong can’t see it

got it !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think you don't need to apologise at all , he should be the one at least saying thank you

Probably too busy wiping the jizz from his pants

And you thought it was mayonnaise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you get the same guy again repeatedly then you know he wasn't offended, just going to have a look to see if any new drivers are needed in your area

But the op said it was an accident but your imagination has changed that to the op coming on to the driver....and thats the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"okay so last week its we make change by calling out inappropriate behaviour when you see it (and almost every male response on this thread disregards the concept of consent)

but this week its mind your own business or go talk about it where the people who are in the wrong can’t see it

got it !

It's the fab way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you get the same guy again repeatedly then you know he wasn't offended, just going to have a look to see if any new drivers are needed in your area

But the op said it was an accident but your imagination has changed that to the op coming on to the driver....and thats the problem "

Can you not see that that comment was humour? Do you actually think he’s looking for a drivers job in that area?!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"okay so last week its we make change by calling out inappropriate behaviour when you see it (and almost every male response on this thread disregards the concept of consent)

but this week its mind your own business or go talk about it where the people who are in the wrong can’t see it

got it !

"
who's in the wrong?

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By *unladx1984xzxMan
over a year ago

London

Not read all comments but think it's hot .wish I was the driver lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you get the same guy again repeatedly then you know he wasn't offended, just going to have a look to see if any new drivers are needed in your area

But the op said it was an accident but your imagination has changed that to the op coming on to the driver....and thats the problem

Can you not see that that comment was humour? Do you actually think he’s looking for a drivers job in that area?!! "

Absolutely I see the joke..im making a point because of the current climate

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not read all comments but think it's hot .wish I was the driver lol"

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By *eonMan
over a year ago

The wallled town

Not to happy in all honesty, they had subbed her favourite shampoo "

What does she usually get? I can pick some up and drop it off for her

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"I would be sorry. Not every man wants to be exposed to bare flesh.

its no wonder we can’t get guys to engage with our discussions on sexual harassment when double standards like this exist

This!!!!

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By *unladx1984xzxMan
over a year ago

London

[Removed by poster at 16/03/21 16:02:38]

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By *unladx1984xzxMan
over a year ago

London

"Not read all comments but think it's hot .wish I was the driver lol

Let me no if you need a carpenter

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By *ifty69Man
over a year ago

north tyneside

"Not read all comments but think it's hot .wish I was the driver lol

"
hey it happens, I’m sure he would have enjoyed the view, I would have x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not read all comments but think it's hot .wish I was the driver lol

Let me no if you need a carpenter "

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"I think the problem here is not the accident but the whole raft of responses from, mostly, men going 'Pwhoarr wouldn't mind a bit of that', 'You can flash me anytime dahlin', 'I'm gonna change jobs'. Isn't that the kind of attitude towards women that's been causing issues? Sexualising an innocent accident like that is a bit off and part of the problem."

Yep .... exactly.....

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By *unladx1984xzxMan
over a year ago

London

"Not read all comments but think it's hot .wish I was the driver lol

hey it happens, I’m sure he would have enjoyed the view, I would have x"

I bet he did

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By *unladx1984xzxMan
over a year ago

London

"Not read all comments but think it's hot .wish I was the driver lol

Let me no if you need a carpenter

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

"By accident, bending down to get the shopping bags out the crate on the floor.

If it was you I'm sorry, or your welcome, whichever you think is the most appropriate

you should really post on the asda fb cuz if he's on here i doubt he'd mind...its kinda the point of fab

Do you think I may be entitled to some free shopping vouchers

think you are entitled to a good spanking for being such a hussy! poor man was only going about his business and BAM your tits in his face, theyll have to have a protest in ASDA about this, the van drivers cant take it any more!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not read all comments but think it's hot .wish I was the driver lol

Let me no if you need a carpenter "
I'd say show me your bum but I will be had for making you my sex object, on a sex site

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"By accident, bending down to get the shopping bags out the crate on the floor.

If it was you I'm sorry, or your welcome, whichever you think is the most appropriate

you should really post on the asda fb cuz if he's on here i doubt he'd mind...its kinda the point of fab

Do you think I may be entitled to some free shopping vouchers

"
ohhhh this is the best yet

I so deserve a spanking. Bad bad wicked evil girl I am

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By *unladx1984xzxMan
over a year ago

London

Not if you show me yours first

.people need to chill out lol

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

Yep .... exactly..... "

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

its a fucking disgrace and no wonder the world is a death trap, a social wildnerness with no moral compass and all because some woman CLAIMS to have been wearing a loose jumper, yeah right, he was set up, he didnt have a chance, HE NEEDS COUNSELLING NOW but if he tells his boss theyll laugh in his face, no wonder more men commit suicide.... fucking hell

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

This is exactly the reason I am staying away from the forum's and the news at the moment. I think we need to be able to tell the difference when something is meant in a light hearted way. Yes there are serious discussions to be had but not everything has to be taken so seriously. People will be afraid to say anything in case it is taken in the wrong context.

Fab is an escape for a lot of people but when everything is turned into a big debate it loses the appeal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

Nee nooor nee nooor nee nooor

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is exactly the reason I am staying away from the forum's and the news at the moment. I think we need to be able to tell the difference when something is meant in a light hearted way. Yes there are serious discussions to be had but not everything has to be taken so seriously. People will be afraid to say anything in case it is taken in the wrong context.

Fab is an escape for a lot of people but when everything is turned into a big debate it loses the appeal.

Kx"

Exactly this. Well said

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

Nee nooor nee nooor nee nooor

oh officer thats a very big baton, do you really need to handcuff me, i mean please handcuff me... what? pull my panties down, oh yes, ill happily suck your baton.....

ok im sick i need help, i never had a PONY!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

Nee nooor nee nooor nee nooor

oh officer thats a very big baton, do you really need to handcuff me, i mean please handcuff me... what? pull my panties down, oh yes, ill happily suck your baton.....

ok im sick i need help, i never had a PONY!"

move along nothing to see

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits "

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits "

Exactly .... fab shouldn’t be a place you escape from decency that’s why women get so many insulting abusive messages ‘because it’s a sex site’ normalising the over sexualisation of day to day situations in turn makes women vulnerable ... so yeah it’s exactly the place for it.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is an escape for a lot of people but when everything is turned into a big debate it loses the appeal.

Kx"

Definitely! Well said

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml"

she wasnt harrassed abuse or....? what the fuck are you talking about? are you on drugs? The MAN was harrassed abuse and mentally tortured by a careless female showing him her genitals while he was trying to work!

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

Yeah burn him , burn him !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be sorry. Not every man wants to be exposed to bare flesh."

It depends on whose doing the exposing

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

And again you totally miss the point

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

"By accident, bending down to get the shopping bags out the crate on the floor.

If it was you I'm sorry, or your welcome, whichever you think is the most appropriate

I might change jobs and become an Asda driver "

But now that make you a predator see the irony!

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

Yeah burn him , burn him ! "

yeah i heard she was smoking a cigarette and blew smoke in his face as she purred, are you getting an eye full, naughty boy, he said sorry, ive split your yogurt, she said, you better fucking lick it up then or you can strip right off right now... he started to unbutton his shirt..

or he considered suing for smoke inhalation lol dont come to a sex site just to piss on it lol

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

And again you totally miss the point "
you are a mind reader to? wow! why dont you spell it out why you are on a sex site exactly?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

After almost popping out of my pyjama top years ago, when a postman knocked early with a parcel, I now make sure I wear something that cannot pop open, or I can fall out of.

And I make sure I don't wear my granny slippers.

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Fab is an escape for a lot of people but when everything is turned into a big debate it loses the appeal.

Kx"

And so speaks a voice that I will listen to. We can’t cure the worlds ills sat at our keyboards and on our phones but we can chose to brighten somebody’s day or have a nearly argument. I know which I prefer.

K, if I could be so bold, I fancy you.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

And again you totally miss the point you are a mind reader to? wow! why dont you spell it out why you are on a sex site exactly?

So everyone on a sex site needs to put up with any sexual harassment that anyone feels free to throw at them ?

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

And again you totally miss the point you are a mind reader to? wow! why dont you spell it out why you are on a sex site exactly?

So everyone on a sex site needs to put up with any sexual harassment that anyone feels free to throw at them ? "

no one has said that! or claimed that!

youve lost all credibility and im sure others on here think exactly the same.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Wow, what happened to a light-hearted and innocent sounding story (to me it was anyway)?

If a topic or the manner in which it is debated/ discussed irritates or upsets me I have the choice to either go on another thread where this is not the case. Or I make a statement saying that it is not for me. Or I engage in the debate... but accept that not everybody will agree with me.

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

Fab is an escape for a lot of people but when everything is turned into a big debate it loses the appeal.

Kx"

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

And again you totally miss the point you are a mind reader to? wow! why dont you spell it out why you are on a sex site exactly?

So everyone on a sex site needs to put up with any sexual harassment that anyone feels free to throw at them ?

no one has said that! or claimed that!

youve lost all credibility and im sure others on here think exactly the same.

Credibility? For what? I wasn’t aware using the forums and not putting up with any old bs was expected of women. Tbh anyone that expects women to put up abs shut up would be of little interest to me anyway so if I’ve lost ‘credibility’ with such individual then hoo-fuckin-rah.

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

And again you totally miss the point you are a mind reader to? wow! why dont you spell it out why you are on a sex site exactly?

So everyone on a sex site needs to put up with any sexual harassment that anyone feels free to throw at them ?

no one has said that! or claimed that!

youve lost all credibility and im sure others on here think exactly the same.

Youve lost Credibility by not talking sense! your not funny and your argument is void as no one has been rude to women, well you perhaps because you seem to think they don't understand humour! Bizarre!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What on earth has happened in the forums lately

And around & around we go....."

Its called people not all thinking and replying the same, I'd say that's a very good thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its almost impossible for us to come to the same conclusions about a scenario when one sex are craving behaviour that the other sees as harassment

until we start including that in the discussion we are so polar opposite that chances of us reaching a consensus are pretty much nil

Maybe but that same discussion has its place. Not everything that is said or written needs to be analysed and judged against a topic.

Individuals should still be free to post what their choose to, within the rules, and not have a thread turned completely on its head.

It hasn't been! almost all the comments are completely relevant. not everybody has to find the post funny or lighthearted.

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

Poor girl has had a wardrobe malfunction! No biggie!

Can we also stop comparing a bit of cleavage to a man's genitals? She didn't flash her gash!

#freethenipple

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

And again you totally miss the point you are a mind reader to? wow! why dont you spell it out why you are on a sex site exactly?

So everyone on a sex site needs to put up with any sexual harassment that anyone feels free to throw at them ?

no one has said that! or claimed that!

youve lost all credibility and im sure others on here think exactly the same.

Bizarre indeed! Who ever said anyone on this thread had been rude to women? I think you need to reread .......... just because you think harassment is funny doesn’t mean we all have to agree.

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By *omino51Man
over a year ago

loughborough

Reading these messages makes me wonder why folk bother posting stories on here. Alway a god ruining a light hearted moment. Thank god im 58 and getting near the end of my life, i would hate to be born in these " so correct" times.

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By *ick270Man
over a year ago

Here

Most men would treat it as harmless fun and tell their mates in the pub , no drama you see more at the beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out"

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

I’m sorry it’s happened. Happens too often. Don’t let it put you off x"

Sorry what happened? Nobody has been rude to the poster but people are having a decision on topic.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"Reading these messages makes me wonder why folk bother posting stories on here. Alway a god ruining a light hearted moment. Thank god im 58 and getting near the end of my life, i would hate to be born in these " so correct" times. "

For me it’s not the original post that was funny and so easily done it’s the replies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

I’m sorry it’s happened. Happens too often. Don’t let it put you off x

Sorry what happened? Nobody has been rude to the poster but people are having a decision on topic. "

What’s happened, or how I see it, is this was a lighthearted thread from so_eone quite new to the forums and it has been totally turned around from what it was supposed to be. No point replying “well everyone’s entitled to their opinion” because that’s exactly what I’m giving.

I don’t like to see this happen. Again my opinion.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to. "

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

I’m sorry it’s happened. Happens too often. Don’t let it put you off x

Sorry what happened? Nobody has been rude to the poster but people are having a decision on topic.

I don’t like to see this happen. Again my opinion. "

But that's the point people have posted and given an opinion on the comment.

Some of the people including you actually have said on other posts im to frighten to open my mouth but your asking other people to just that by not posting their opinions.

Absolutely nobody has rude to the OP and most given reassuring commitments.

It was turned round when people starting apologising to the OP for things that haven't actually happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by. "

Very clearly was for people because they were supportive of the OP just gave a different spin on it so that doesn't make sense.

Absolutely nobody has said that the comments should not have been made by the OP so I really think this has been blown out of all proportion just because not everybody found it funny.

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by. "

Sorry but if I see harassment or condoning harassment of any kind I’m calling it out .. to say nothing condones the behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Sorry but if I see harassment or condoning harassment of any kind I’m calling it out .. to say nothing condones the behaviour "

Exactly it is very much becoming if you don't fully agree with the poster then you can't comment because somehow will derailing the thread or it's not for you and I think that makes a forums a poorer place.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"Interesting responses in light of the current debate. "

Not just me then. Disappointed I had to scroll down this far to see a comment reflecting my view.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Sorry but if I see harassment or condoning harassment of any kind I’m calling it out .. to say nothing condones the behaviour "

It was the OP’s thread the responses were posted to her so maybe let her decide if the comments from men are harassment or not.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Very clearly was for people because they were supportive of the OP just gave a different spin on it so that doesn't make sense.

Absolutely nobody has said that the comments should not have been made by the OP so I really think this has been blown out of all proportion just because not everybody found it funny. "

If you don’t find it funny open a thread and discuss the consequences elsewhere rather than derail a thread, which the OP asked but was ignored and made to feel like they couldn’t say what they were thinking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

I’m sorry it’s happened. Happens too often. Don’t let it put you off x

Sorry what happened? Nobody has been rude to the poster but people are having a decision on topic.

I don’t like to see this happen. Again my opinion.

But that's the point people have posted and given an opinion on the comment.

Some of the people including you actually have said on other posts im to frighten to open my mouth but your asking other people to just that by not posting their opinions.

Absolutely nobody has rude to the OP and most given reassuring commitments.

It was turned round when people starting apologising to the OP for things that haven't actually happened.

I didn’t say anyone had been rude to the op. I don’t remember saying I’m too frightened to open my mouth, I may have said I can’t be bothered much anymore. I stick by what I said. I think what was meant to be a light hearted thread has been derailed.

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Sorry but if I see harassment or condoning harassment of any kind I’m calling it out .. to say nothing condones the behaviour

It was the OP’s thread the responses were posted to her so maybe let her decide if the comments from men are harassment or not. "

Fair enough but does it not speak to a wider issue about how men perceive women? That's my point. Aren't we trying to eliminate the indiscriminate sexualisation of women in ordinary situations like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Very clearly was for people because they were supportive of the OP just gave a different spin on it so that doesn't make sense.

Absolutely nobody has said that the comments should not have been made by the OP so I really think this has been blown out of all proportion just because not everybody found it funny. "

Yes I agree. Totally blown out of proportion. Like a lot of recent threads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Very clearly was for people because they were supportive of the OP just gave a different spin on it so that doesn't make sense.

Absolutely nobody has said that the comments should not have been made by the OP so I really think this has been blown out of all proportion just because not everybody found it funny.

Nobody has said the OP should not have posted this!

If the OP had been a man most people would not have defended the assumption that the delivery driver should be thankful.

Double standards at its best.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Very clearly was for people because they were supportive of the OP just gave a different spin on it so that doesn't make sense.

Absolutely nobody has said that the comments should not have been made by the OP so I really think this has been blown out of all proportion just because not everybody found it funny.

Nobody has said the OP should not have posted this!

If the OP had been a man most people would not have defended the assumption that the delivery driver should be thankful.

Double standards at its best.

And they would bleat about it at every bloody opportunity.

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Accidents happen. No mens rea, or even womens rea. Nothing to see really.

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By *REEPALESTINEMan
over a year ago

derby

Lucky bastard

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Sorry but if I see harassment or condoning harassment of any kind I’m calling it out .. to say nothing condones the behaviour

It was the OP’s thread the responses were posted to her so maybe let her decide if the comments from men are harassment or not.

Of course not but it needs to be discussed in every thread ? There are plenty around for the issues to be discussed without pouncing on a thread the OP started in lightheartedness

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

Yep .... exactly.....

your right, lets contact the police right now and the queen and print off some banners with slogans

KEEP YOUR TITS COVERED LADIES

NOT ALL MEN WANT TO SEE TITS

and there is the point sailing right over your head

its nothing to do with the OP or an accidental flash and everything to do with the responses it generated of how the guy at work should be. buzzing he got to see some tits

no its you missing the point, i am satirizing the ridiculous knee jerk reaction of the over politically correct,

So not wanting to be harassed/raped or abused makes people over politically correct? Fml

how about that, he needs compensation now and a police inquiry.... doesnt he? if itwas a female driver and a mans cock accidentally got flashed? youd be screaming blue murder!

And again you totally miss the point you are a mind reader to? wow! why dont you spell it out why you are on a sex site exactly?

So everyone on a sex site needs to put up with any sexual harassment that anyone feels free to throw at them ?

no one has said that! or claimed that!

youve lost all credibility and im sure others on here think exactly the same.

Bizarre indeed! Who ever said anyone on this thread had been rude to women? I think you need to reread .......... just because you think harassment is funny doesn’t mean we all have to agree."

Where have I said harassment is funny? You never did answer why you are actually on a sex site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Sorry but if I see harassment or condoning harassment of any kind I’m calling it out .. to say nothing condones the behaviour

It was the OP’s thread the responses were posted to her so maybe let her decide if the comments from men are harassment or not.

Of course not but it needs to be discussed in every thread ? There are plenty around for the issues to be discussed without pouncing on a thread the OP started in lightheartedness "

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Sorry but if I see harassment or condoning harassment of any kind I’m calling it out .. to say nothing condones the behaviour

It was the OP’s thread the responses were posted to her so maybe let her decide if the comments from men are harassment or not.

Hallelujah!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nobody will post anything soon you watch. That’s what will happen. And I wouldn’t blame them either.

Wishing I hadn't now. I know not to bother again, I'm out

Why?

If you post something on the forums you cant decide how people respond.

Most people have been supportive and just because you thought it was a funny incident not everyone else has to.

and what is spouted so much on the forum..... if the topic isn’t for you, you don’t find it funny move on by.

Sorry but if I see harassment or condoning harassment of any kind I’m calling it out .. to say nothing condones the behaviour

It was the OP’s thread the responses were posted to her so maybe let her decide if the comments from men are harassment or not.

Of course not but it needs to be discussed in every thread ? There are plenty around for the issues to be discussed without pouncing on a thread the OP started in lightheartedness "

on every thread where its present? yep 100%

just ignoring and condoning it is exactly how we have over time gotten to a point where people don’t know where the line is. because one day (or thread) its acceptable and the next its not

to be honest the way that fab remove posts that relate to crimes that have happened i wish they would remove posts that clearly show consent is disregarded by the poster (and i don’t mean the OP here its the replies)

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By *irtylittletramp100TV/TS
over a year ago

Notts

A woman posts she has accidentally flashed, and some how that is now a crime? And any man who enjoys the flash is a criminal? We are heading for a sad joyless world, careful what you all wish for

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

[Removed by poster at 16/03/21 18:12:55]

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By *omino51Man
over a year ago

loughborough

It wont be long before men wont dare chat women up. You will be reported just for saying she looks nice. Maybe thats what women want. God knows.

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