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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When it go to meeting at certain person what is the thing that puts you off men or women mine would be is it the woman spent a lot of the time on her mobile phone when she is literally meeting me for a coffee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men with dirty trainers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance.

Prejudice.

Lu

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When it go to meeting at certain person what is the thing that puts you off men or women mine would be is it the woman spent a lot of the time on her mobile phone when she is literally meeting me for a coffee"

If they smell like a dump I'm gone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, constant mobile phone use would put me off too.

And someone who doesn't make a good effort to keep the conversation going and doesn't ask open questions and just talks about themselves. Bad hygiene, obviously. Someone who is rude to staff if we are out to eat or drink etc. I'd definitely be running home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arrogance would put me off a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who come down on other people. That’s a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Arrogance would put me off a man. "

I think I love guys and women these days do come across a little bit arrogant sometimes it is better just to be brutally honest if you don't like that person the minute you see them be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

BO

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think a lot of guys and girls*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Snobbery, poor hygiene, and sometimes poor dress sense. I don't mean look like a model or latest fashion, but at least try to wear clothes that fit/match and look tidy.

And if they Really gobby/ loud / obnoxious.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Someone who talks about themselves constantly, snobbery, arrogance, bad shoes! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theres no one thing ?? can me anything but lets say they smells ok and look as they should and like the pic they sent and not lied about there age .. then the biggest off put for me is the sense of entitlement some have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

be***

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she turned up wearing a headset with a mic on and she was talking and I’d answer and she’d put her hand up and kept saying ‘Sorry, I wasn’t talking to you, I’m speaking to Craig from work!’ Then she asked a question and I didn’t answer cause I thought she was still speaking to Craig from work and she was like ‘Ok, I’m talking to you know!’ And then I went to answer and she put her hand up again and said ‘Sorry, another call coming through!’

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Ego , bullying , lies, drama, and people who don't care about their own personal hygiene

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

And people who they talk about themselves or their same dramas constantly

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"If she turned up wearing a headset with a mic on and she was talking and I’d answer and she’d put her hand up and kept saying ‘Sorry, I wasn’t talking to you, I’m speaking to Craig from work!’ Then she asked a question and I didn’t answer cause I thought she was still speaking to Craig from work and she was like ‘Ok, I’m talking to you know!’ And then I went to answer and she put her hand up again and said ‘Sorry, another call coming through!’"

I would have left before the first sentence of this finished

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Rude, ignorant and how they talk to others.

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By *hynot3Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough


"Arrogance would put me off a man. "

Do you think sometimes Arrogance and Confidence is a very fine line...especially in a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i had a girl openly say on a date that "she'd always wanted a little brown baby with curly hair"

I'm mixed race.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"theres no one thing ?? can me anything but lets say they smells ok and look as they should and like the pic they sent and not lied about there age .. then the biggest off put for me is the sense of entitlement some have"

I think there is a lot of people on here that do lie about a lot of stuff especially their age just to get somewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few things but I do always look at the shoes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think anyone can sound confident on a website but when it comes to the real deal when it comes to meeting anyone brand new I am very shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she turned up wearing a headset with a mic on and she was talking and I’d answer and she’d put her hand up and kept saying ‘Sorry, I wasn’t talking to you, I’m speaking to Craig from work!’ Then she asked a question and I didn’t answer cause I thought she was still speaking to Craig from work and she was like ‘Ok, I’m talking to you know!’ And then I went to answer and she put her hand up again and said ‘Sorry, another call coming through!’

I would have left before the first sentence of this finished "

But she’s hot and I sort of admire her confidence to wear a headset out in public, even though she’s incredibly annoying, I’m gonna stick with it, see where it goes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In appearance it's bitten nails or poor teeth that raise the red flag for me.

In attitude it's excessive phone use or purile humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a girl openly say on a date that "she'd always wanted a little brown baby with curly hair"

I'm mixed race."

Did you give her one?

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"If she turned up wearing a headset with a mic on and she was talking and I’d answer and she’d put her hand up and kept saying ‘Sorry, I wasn’t talking to you, I’m speaking to Craig from work!’ Then she asked a question and I didn’t answer cause I thought she was still speaking to Craig from work and she was like ‘Ok, I’m talking to you know!’ And then I went to answer and she put her hand up again and said ‘Sorry, another call coming through!’

I would have left before the first sentence of this finished

But she’s hot and I sort of admire her confidence to wear a headset out in public, even though she’s incredibly annoying, I’m gonna stick with it, see where it goes."

Well I hope she hangs up soon so you can find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a girl openly say on a date that "she'd always wanted a little brown baby with curly hair"

I'm mixed race.

Did you give her one?"

Was it waynetta?

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

People who's profile pics are about 5 years out of date and are arrogant x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of things but the first two will be the face and then the mouth. Their first impressions determines what happens next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arrogance would put me off a man.

Do you think sometimes Arrogance and Confidence is a very fine line...especially in a message? "

Yes absolutely a fine line between the two. Someone with confidence just has an easier way about them that is far more appealing and attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My main put off is people who have lied about their appearance.

I once met someone who clearly wasn’t the person in their photos. When I mentioned it they claimed to have “accidentally” sent pictures of their cousin without realising.

(Disclaimer: this wasn’t from fab)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a girl openly say on a date that "she'd always wanted a little brown baby with curly hair"

I'm mixed race.

Did you give her one?

Was it waynetta?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of reciprocity in conversation. If you don’t want to be here. Then don’t be here.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Dishonest, disingenuous attitudes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i had a girl openly say on a date that "she'd always wanted a little brown baby with curly hair"

I'm mixed race.

Did you give her one?

Was it waynetta?

"

No i got up n walked away lol.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"i had a girl openly say on a date that "she'd always wanted a little brown baby with curly hair"

I'm mixed race.

Did you give her one?

Was it waynetta?"

I bet was AB

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By *ussinboots1888Couple
over a year ago

bradford

Women who do that stupid pout and think men find it sexy....we don’t and you look a cunt

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Unclean teeth, bad shoes and baggy jeans.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, constant mobile phone use would put me off too.

And someone who doesn't make a good effort to keep the conversation going and doesn't ask open questions and just talks about themselves. Bad hygiene, obviously. Someone who is rude to staff if we are out to eat or drink etc. I'd definitely be running home.

"

All of the above!

Her x

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

When they never make the effort to start conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who do that stupid pout and think men find it sexy....we don’t and you look a cunt "

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport


"Women who do that stupid pout and think men find it sexy....we don’t and you look a cunt "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who do that stupid pout and think men find it sexy....we don’t and you look a cunt "

Not all men ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If she turned up wearing a headset with a mic on and she was talking and I’d answer and she’d put her hand up and kept saying ‘Sorry, I wasn’t talking to you, I’m speaking to Craig from work!’ Then she asked a question and I didn’t answer cause I thought she was still speaking to Craig from work and she was like ‘Ok, I’m talking to you know!’ And then I went to answer and she put her hand up again and said ‘Sorry, another call coming through!’

I would have left before the first sentence of this finished

But she’s hot and I sort of admire her confidence to wear a headset out in public, even though she’s incredibly annoying, I’m gonna stick with it, see where it goes.

Well I hope she hangs up soon so you can find out "

Thank you

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By *ottoncandy42Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Not looking anything like their photo..

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Someone looking around the pub/bar at other women while we're chatting.

Someone trying to look down my top or asking me to stand up so they can see my bum.

Someone talking in East End geezer talk.

Someone who stinks of sewers because he came from work and wanting a blow job in the back of his transit.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Smoking, and arrogance.

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who likes the sound of their own voice.

Seeming disinterested

Not looking fresh

Arrogance and rudeness

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Their attitude towards others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Their attitude towards others. "

This.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

I could never trust or like anyone who is rude to waiting or bar staff during a meet

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Arrogant and Egotistical people who get angry and go in a strop when told No

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes


"Arrogance would put me off a man.

Do you think sometimes Arrogance and Confidence is a very fine line...especially in a message? "

Absolutely agree with this, my perception is that women like men to be confident but if we are not confident by nature we might try to hard and come over as arrogant. I'm shy ish but have an on stage persona as a musician/singer and I have been accused of being arrogant at gigs so abviously tried too hard to hide my lack of confidence.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I could never trust or like anyone who is rude to waiting or bar staff during a meet"

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