FabSwingers.com forum: What's the chemical

By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

ingredient that makes a meet really sexy and exciting? I ahve always felt that if I cant talk to the person, laugh with the person and feel comfortable with them... why the hell would I want to have sex with them.

So what it is for you?

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

"ingredient that makes a meet really sexy and exciting? I ahve always felt that if I cant talk to the person, laugh with the person and feel comfortable with them... why the hell would I want to have sex with them.

So what it is for you? "
absolutly agree,im a great flirt so if there is no spark there,its not going to happen

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset

Big Boobs is a good start!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with the above, but for me the sexiest ingredient has to be making eye contact and seeing that naughty and beautiful glint there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you.

Of course, gorgeous eyes, a great smile and a firm body can help too

I also tend to find when I've had plenty of time to get ready and am comfortable and happy with how I look that helps. And if I'm calm, haven't had to rush, haven't got lost on the way there.

Usually though, great meets are with people I've played with before and know. First play meets for me are often not fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing,, if there isn't that 'va va voom' factor,, the sex just wont be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i need that spark, the lust and urgency to just rip each others clothes off, the animal attraction and for me it all ignites from the kiss. eye contact and smell of a man is a big help too

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I agree with the above, but for me the sexiest ingredient has to be making eye contact and seeing that naughty and beautiful glint there...

look into my eyes, not around the eys, into the ys.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alcohol can be a bugger for setting that chemical reaction off tho

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

fun and laughter and the added spark...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bleach, make sure the feckers are clean before the action kicks off

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

for me its smell first.....love a nice smelling man, then personality...how he makes me feel, looks that show he is undressing me as we speek

then kissing....i love kissing. passionate, trying to rip each others clothes off

i know i am really into the meet when just the touch of fingers on my skin has me quivering with anticipation

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Voice and the words that are strung together start the juices flowing. That strange, unknowable, pheremone connection then has me wanting to share what I am feeling.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

They have to make me laugh and feel comfortable

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

For me it is also about confidence, not arrogance or cockyness. Genuine confidence is incredibly sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find the best ingredient is dropping an acid tab before the meet...even if they don't turn up I find I usually have an interesting day....

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"I find the best ingredient is dropping an acid tab before the meet...even if they don't turn up I find I usually have an interesting day....

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Trust you!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I agree with the above, but for me the sexiest ingredient has to be making eye contact and seeing that naughty and beautiful glint there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Viagra

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends what kind of meet it is..I at least care to show a bit of personality on a meet

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"depends what kind of meet it is..I at least care to show a bit of personality on a meet"
Lol - your personality shines through I would imagine even if you did not try (Thats a compliment btw)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"depends what kind of meet it is..I at least care to show a bit of personality on a meetLol - your personality shines through I would imagine even if you did not try (Thats a compliment btw)

it got me wanking, thanks xxxxxx

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By *weetcheekstooWoman
over a year ago

southampton

So what it is for you? "

the same aplies to me he he he

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alcohol

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Amyl Nitrate

Wolf

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"alcohol

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Yeah that does help accelerate the process but in my experience only if the chemistry is there to begin with?

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By *phrodite OP Woman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Amyl Nitrate

Wolf

Naughty!!

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Cable ties, washing line

Some chloroform if they seem a bit flighty

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