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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How boring is it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I’m 50 and in all that time have only lived on my own for about 6 months and loved every minute of it.

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

It's not....

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I love it

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I've live on my own for the last 20 yrs and until Covid, it's never been boring.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

Some people are very comfortable in their own company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing better after a busy day at work and the gym to going home to relax.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Can be, especially at the moment with no after work activities allowed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes boring sometimes solace

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By *irtyold manMan
over a year ago

barnsley

The thing with living alone is after a time you get used to it and see others as an interuption in youre me time. Having said that friends can be fun for short visits

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Some people are very comfortable in their own company"

Exactly, I've lived alone for the past 8 years and know exactly where everything is, don't have to wrestle the TV Remote of anybody, and a pack of bog rolls will last me for months

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Excruciatingly so sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get an Xbox.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I've never loved alone ever! But I am looking forward to it in the future x

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford


"I've never loved alone ever! But I am looking forward to it in the future x"

Lived ! x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I wouldn't say boring. With no social life it's a bit lonely at times right now.

But not boring

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Get an Xbox."

Or some mates?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lived alone for the past 4 years - not boring in the least., I never thought I'd enjoy it, but now I wouldn't have it any other way.

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By *izeMan
over a year ago

Maghull

I absolutely fucking love it. The only down side for me is leaving it empty when I have to go to work. I always fear of being broken into.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Get an Xbox.

Or some mates? "

I have to bat some of my mates off with a shitty stick sometimes

Knocking on ma door and ringing me up, Sod Off! I just want some Ace Time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve lived alone since 2013. I am happy with the freedom it offers but it is a pain on here as being a single male over 50 seems to reduce chances of connecting. Would be happy to find a single lady to have NSA arrangement to include club visits without is moving in. Open to offers!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far in my life I’ve lived with my parents, flat mates, my ex, and myself. Out of them I far prefer being on my Tod. I enjoy my own company, and the freedom and peace that living alone brings. I guess it depends on your personality though.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Not remotely. I love it and have done for 11 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love living on my own

The way the world is at the moment I feel lonely - but I still wouldn't want anyone in MY space.

I was 44yrs old before I lived alone for the first time.

It's amazing and I'll never live with anyone again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perfectly happy living on my own.

Company for meals out & travelling is nice, but it’s good to have your own space where you can get away from the chaos of the outside world.

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING


"I’ve lived alone since 2013. I am happy with the freedom it offers but it is a pain on here as being a single male over 50 seems to reduce chances of connecting. Would be happy to find a single lady to have NSA arrangement to include club visits without is moving in. Open to offers!! "
you and me both pal,but unlikely to happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pre covid i loved it but yes for the last year its been a struggle because all the freedom of living alone, suiting yourself in terms of your professional, personal and social life has been stripped away and replaced instead with isolation

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Sometimes boring sometimes solace"

I think sometimes we crave the opposite of what we have. I love being in full control of my own space , routine and time but also don’t like to be solitary too often

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By *oreno0969Man
over a year ago

Rugby

I only started living on my own in December for the first time in my life and i love it can get lonely at times right now but i get to see my little man so so so much more which makes it worth it without question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got loads of stuff to do not really altered anything other than not seeing close family and friends

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By *UGGYBEAR2015Man
over a year ago

BRIDPORT

I love living alone. Having someone in my space full time would drive me bonkers and me them too I expect.

Probably sounds quite selfish, but that’s just how I’m wired , I don’t require constant company and can even find it a bit overwhelming.

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By *ooljoeMan
over a year ago

Harrogate

I'm enjoying it.No hassle, No nagging, No stress either.Go out whenever I want and back peacefully.I'm at work most times ,so I've got music playlists and variety of drinks to suite my mood. I was thinking of getting a cat, but it might try to Rob my peace with too much meowing??,so yet to make a decision.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I like it!

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"I've never loved alone ever! But I am looking forward to it in the future x

Lived ! x"

Is my favourite perfum from Jessica Parker -Loved

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

I live alone but to me most difficult sometimes is missing family...

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Coming home to an empty house, not having to make polite conversation, can have a bath, not have a bath, run out of food and live on cornflakes for a day, nobody pestering for sex when I am not in the mood, total control of the remote control, no compromises, nobody telling me I shouldn't do this or shouldn't have said that......pure freedom of choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coming home to an empty house, not having to make polite conversation, can have a bath, not have a bath, run out of food and live on cornflakes for a day, nobody pestering for sex when I am not in the mood, total control of the remote control, no compromises, nobody telling me I shouldn't do this or shouldn't have said that......pure freedom of choice."
what she said x2

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Coming home to an empty house, not having to make polite conversation, can have a bath, not have a bath, run out of food and live on cornflakes for a day, nobody pestering for sex when I am not in the mood, total control of the remote control, no compromises, nobody telling me I shouldn't do this or shouldn't have said that......pure freedom of choice."

Do you not think a soulmate holds you to account and makes you a better person?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Coming home to an empty house, not having to make polite conversation, can have a bath, not have a bath, run out of food and live on cornflakes for a day, nobody pestering for sex when I am not in the mood, total control of the remote control, no compromises, nobody telling me I shouldn't do this or shouldn't have said that......pure freedom of choice. what she said x2"

Friends who live in a separate house is the way to go

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Coming home to an empty house, not having to make polite conversation, can have a bath, not have a bath, run out of food and live on cornflakes for a day, nobody pestering for sex when I am not in the mood, total control of the remote control, no compromises, nobody telling me I shouldn't do this or shouldn't have said that......pure freedom of choice.

Do you not think a soulmate holds you to account and makes you a better person?"

I was married for a long time, I felt he was my soulmate. It ended very amicably, but I feel so much more an individual since I lived alone.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Coming home to an empty house, not having to make polite conversation, can have a bath, not have a bath, run out of food and live on cornflakes for a day, nobody pestering for sex when I am not in the mood, total control of the remote control, no compromises, nobody telling me I shouldn't do this or shouldn't have said that......pure freedom of choice.

Do you not think a soulmate holds you to account and makes you a better person?

I was married for a long time, I felt he was my soulmate. It ended very amicably, but I feel so much more an individual since I lived alone."

Like a new chapter

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"Coming home to an empty house, not having to make polite conversation, can have a bath, not have a bath, run out of food and live on cornflakes for a day, nobody pestering for sex when I am not in the mood, total control of the remote control, no compromises, nobody telling me I shouldn't do this or shouldn't have said that......pure freedom of choice.

Do you not think a soulmate holds you to account and makes you a better person?

I was married for a long time, I felt he was my soulmate. It ended very amicably, but I feel so much more an individual since I lived alone.

Like a new chapter "

I loved being married, for a long time it was the best thing that happened to me, it helped me grow. Unfortunately he did not grow. I am happier being in control of my life now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Do you not think a soulmate holds you to account and makes you a better person?

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I think if you're lucky enough to have met your soul mate - then living with them feels right.

I've only lived with the wrong ones.

I'm embracing doing what I want.

It feels beautiful- I have always lived on eggshells in the past.

I still tiptoe around - afraid to make noise.

Then I remember I'm free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coming home to an empty house, not having to make polite conversation, can have a bath, not have a bath, run out of food and live on cornflakes for a day, nobody pestering for sex when I am not in the mood, total control of the remote control, no compromises, nobody telling me I shouldn't do this or shouldn't have said that......pure freedom of choice.

Do you not think a soulmate holds you to account and makes you a better person?"

i find this incredibly reductionist thinking - why cant we hold ourselves accountable? why is that reserved for people who found their soulmate

and who says you even have to live with your soulmate

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"How boring is it "

As boring as you yourself chose to make it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it. Always have things to do. It’s a rare day that I get bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coming home to an empty house, not having to make polite conversation, can have a bath, not have a bath, run out of food and live on cornflakes for a day, nobody pestering for sex when I am not in the mood, total control of the remote control, no compromises, nobody telling me I shouldn't do this or shouldn't have said that......pure freedom of choice.

Do you not think a soulmate holds you to account and makes you a better person?

i find this incredibly reductionist thinking - why cant we hold ourselves accountable? why is that reserved for people who found their soulmate

and who says you even have to live with your soulmate "
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I have lived alone, except for my daughter, since I left my husband 22 years ago. Nothing would ever induce me to co-habit with a man again.

I think it was Charles Dickens who said something about a visitor after 3 days being like fish that had gone off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Coming home to an empty house, not having to make polite conversation, can have a bath, not have a bath, run out of food and live on cornflakes for a day, nobody pestering for sex when I am not in the mood, total control of the remote control, no compromises, nobody telling me I shouldn't do this or shouldn't have said that......pure freedom of choice.

Do you not think a soulmate holds you to account and makes you a better person?"

We're all adults here. Why should we require someone to hold us to account when we're fully capable of doing that for ourselves? I'm not a project for someone else to improve.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Living with children isn't the same as living alone.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Its not boring at all. Social media and zoom mean that I'm still in contact with freinds.

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By *ty31Man
over a year ago

NW London

Not at all, I love having my own space to exercise, chill and pursue my interests.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live alone I hate it need people to talk to to keep my self happy

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I live alone.... cept for the servants. They don't count do they ?

Now I feel bad

Think I'll take the corgis out

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I love the piece and quiet but yet also hate not having someone to spend my evening with and the novelty has worn off

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I love my own space and the quiet time, but I do miss the company sometimes, having a good old gossip and cuddling up

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Well I say quiet time, basically when the kids are asleep or not fighting

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I live alone.... cept for the servants. They don't count do they ?

Now I feel bad

Think I'll take the corgis out

"

How many can you count ?

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"How boring is it "

I don't think it's boring but I do find it lonely at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How boring is it "

It has its moments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lonely, Don't like it. Would rather just me and 1 flatmate i get on with!

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By *oolkoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Lived on my own for about five years now and bloody love it. Never been bored.

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By *ightkitty4uWoman
over a year ago

Epsom

Lived on my own for 8 years, never been bored or lonely

However lockdown has been hard and I realised how much I miss popping to friends homes for a catch up.

Don't think i could live with someone, too set in my ways lol

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By *allPaul40Man
over a year ago

brentwood

I live on my own, I do find it hard to keep myself entertained..

I do however have a flesh light, it’s been used a fair bit lately

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I can honestly say I'm never bored at home, though I can be extremely boring.

I bloody love my own space and couldn't share it now.

Covid has meant that I've felt lonely, but I'm missing someone in my bed and nights out with friends, not having someone constantly there in my space.

Having someone stay the night but go home the following day is the best of all worlds for me - they always get me groomed (Well, as groomed as I get), they always get fresh bedding and clean towels, a clean flat and me in an agreeable, welcoming mood, prepared to go to considerable lengths for their comfort.

They don't have to put up with me greasy haired and bleary eyed, or when I've got a cob on and I'm just being a cow for the sake of it. They never have to follow me into the loo after I've flushed a stinker, or listen to me whine after a bad day in work.

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I've been living alone for over 15 years and I think I get lonelier and a little sadder with each passing year.

Day in day out, things are fine but its things like valentine's, birthday, summer holidays, Autumn and Christmas that it kinda gets to me. At 45 I'm a bit fed up of being single but it is what it is.

This past year has made me laugh somewhat though listening to the struggles other people have had about not being able to do anything. Well that's been my life for quite a few years lol.

I do live a boring life and spend far too many hours at work

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Once I got used to it just being me & 2 little ones it was great!! I’ve never actually lived alone for longer than 8 nights though.....

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've never loved alone ever! But I am looking forward to it in the future x"

Me to x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last child left home in September and first time ever in 53 years living on my own! Though been single and not lived with another adult for 28 years, just love it ... not as I planned with covid but still love it!

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I split up with my wife about 2 years ago, although we carried on sharing the same house with separate bedrooms. For us this was an easy way to co-parent and as we had an amicable split, it worked for us.

I moved into my own house about 6 months ago and I love living alone. I don't have to live with anyone else's timetable (well, apart from one of my sons when he's here on alternate weeks.)

It's great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moved into my house right at the beginning of the nonsense and I haven't seen another human being except on zoom for 14 months. I love it! I'm the happiest and most content I have ever been. Just me, the cats, the woodland critters and the ghost of the trapper in the lake.

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I don't, but my dad down stairs and I'm normally up stairs, so it feels like I'm on my own most of the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can honestly say I'm never bored at home, though I can be extremely boring.

I bloody love my own space and couldn't share it now.

Covid has meant that I've felt lonely, but I'm missing someone in my bed and nights out with friends, not having someone constantly there in my space.

Having someone stay the night but go home the following day is the best of all worlds for me - they always get me groomed (Well, as groomed as I get), they always get fresh bedding and clean towels, a clean flat and me in an agreeable, welcoming mood, prepared to go to considerable lengths for their comfort.

They don't have to put up with me greasy haired and bleary eyed, or when I've got a cob on and I'm just being a cow for the sake of it. They never have to follow me into the loo after I've flushed a stinker, or listen to me whine after a bad day in work."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only downside for me is having no family.birthdays and xmas can suck at times

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"Only downside for me is having no family.birthdays and xmas can suck at times"

I hear you! X

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's wonderful, always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only downside for me is having no family.birthdays and xmas can suck at times

I hear you! X"

X

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

Been living alone since 2000.

Love my solitude and freedom.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I'm happy in my own company and always have been. I've always been able to sort out my own hobbies, interests and activities but never get bored.

COVID hasn't impacted me at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm enjoying it.No hassle, No nagging, No stress either.Go out whenever I want and back peacefully.I'm at work most times ,so I've got music playlists and variety of drinks to suite my mood. I was thinking of getting a cat, but it might try to Rob my peace with too much meowing??,so yet to make a decision. "

Get a long haired syrian hamster! They don't make much noise, and can be easily tamed to sit on your lap and be stroked like a cat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My lad has not been home for two weeks I love it hope he moves in with his girlfriend her house not mine. I am getting some much needed naked time

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