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By *urious1973 OP   Man
over a year ago

angus

Would anyone refuse to chat or meet because of there username

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's one factor I'd consider, yes.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

No it doesn't bother me

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

Yes, juvenile ones, anything that boasts something, gross terminology or the ones that contain "lad" do push the no way button.

That they maybe terrific people but in our eyes misguided in what a first impression they set, doesn't cut it with us sadly, we prefer a little imagine or at least restraint in being crude over funny or refined.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

If I found it offensive or really disturbing maybe. I think it's sometimes worth talking about before though as sometimes people can be shockingly oblivious to what things mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone refuse to chat or meet because of there username "

Without a doubt

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

Anything with "slut" in the name, I pass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do give an insight into a personality that may not be compatible with my likes. Have avoided messaging a couple because of their name.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"If I found it offensive or really disturbing maybe. I think it's sometimes worth talking about before though as sometimes people can be shockingly oblivious to what things mean."

Yeah, it can reveal attitudes best avoided.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

Ones were there is little thought or imagination I may take into account

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some do give an insight into a personality that may not be compatible with my likes. Have avoided messaging a couple because of their name. "

I used to see a lot of 50 Shades names. There was only one I didn't side eye, because it was obviously tongue in cheek and clever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain words for me would put me off talking

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I did not think my username through, but it causes me very few issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I requested

"imatotalwanker" as a user name but it got rejected

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain words would put me off, yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes some are off putting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes if the username has something to do with “balls” “spunk” or “cum” in it. Not sure why but I find it off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I seen one “will f*ck anything” um no thanks

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I can imagine it’s down to the person as I find some words really offensive and others I ‘should’ find offensive, not so much. I don’t like ‘slut’ so if someone had the username with that word in it, I’d ignore them.

But I find the word ‘sissy’ something of a turn on, so sissyhunter would get a better chance than TVsluthunter with me.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Yes, juvenile ones, anything that boasts something, gross terminology or the ones that contain "lad" do push the no way button.

That they maybe terrific people but in our eyes misguided in what a first impression they set, doesn't cut it with us sadly, we prefer a little imagine or at least restraint in being crude over funny or refined."

Will add to this some people are old enough to know better in our opinion, first impressions count for a lot in our world, as does it for most, so thankfully we get an insight into the character before opening a message.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Some do give an insight into a personality that may not be compatible with my likes. Have avoided messaging a couple because of their name.

I used to see a lot of 50 Shades names. There was only one I didn't side eye, because it was obviously tongue in cheek and clever."

Speak of the devil

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Some do give an insight into a personality that may not be compatible with my likes. Have avoided messaging a couple because of their name.

I used to see a lot of 50 Shades names. There was only one I didn't side eye, because it was obviously tongue in cheek and clever.

Speak of the devil "

You madame are too kind

That's the beauty of clubs though,, you see the person first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I’m Glucose intolerant so I can’t speak to anyone who has bread in their name, also I’m a strict vegan so anyone with meat in their name is a no go, I thought I was on safe ground once, but it turned out his real name was Graham so I had to block and delete. It was very much a wake up call for me.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Some would put me off yes, I can't stand the word 'Sissy' so I'd be ignoring any message that came through from anyone with that in their name.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Anything pertaining to member size.... Cause it's generally not true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Yes, something like...

want to stalk you

Pussy destroyer

Wolf in sheep's clothing

Slut slayer

Basically ones that sound a bit menacing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this is really pedantic but I'm more put off by people mixing up their there with their their

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I requested

"imatotalwanker" as a user name but it got rejected "

Haha, you make me laugh Wonko

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular


"I know this is really pedantic but I'm more put off by people mixing up their there with their their "
*they’re

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I did not think my username through, but it causes me very few issues "

You know you should change yours to Hot Pants

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know this is really pedantic but I'm more put off by people mixing up their there with their their *they’re"

?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Names like "niceguy" really put me off. In my experience they're the ones who won't take no for an answer and keep begging until they have to be blocked.

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

yes a username can put me off, I use them like a red flag as others seem to,

if the username portrays something that could become an issue like some of suggestions above.

mine geo = geography + eclipse, In other wards I'll eclipse you world

at least in the short term, since no eclipse lasts that long

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Some of them yes.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Some of them yes."

Welcome back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would anyone refuse to chat or meet because of there username "

Some names are off putting and make me wonder what the mentality behind them is .

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I did not think my username through, but it causes me very few issues

You know you should change yours to Hot Pants "

You wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amongst other things, yes

I can find a million and one things that put me off someone

Worse still, they aren't fixed

What would be a 'pass' on day might be a 'fail' the next

My current turn off is unkempt pubes and hairy ballbags

Tomorrow, it might be 'go faster stripes' on the inner arse cheeks

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes. I am very unlikely to respond to message from PussyDestroyer587904.

My name can be problematic, not everyone understands what it means. If it puts people off me then so be it.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

Absolutely, someone suggesting they’re brutal, going to destroy, break me etc is just one example

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

Yes definitely it would and has put us off on the odd occasion.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

The guy who named himself after Ted Bundy really put me off!

Anyone messaging me called any variation on MilfHunter or ChubbyChaser or anything similar is definitely getting deleted and probably getting blocked because I hate being called those things and if that’s how they see me then I don’t want anything to do with them.

Then there’s all the gross and juvenile ones like PussyDestroyer etc which just suggest he’s immature and possibly just going to do bad porn sex.

And I don’t want to know anyone with Dom or Alpha or Master or Sir in their name, because usually they’re all talk and no experience, or they might have experience but they won’t respect me.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Would anyone refuse to chat or meet because of there username "

Yeah.

I gave ‘arsedestroyer’ a wide berth for starters

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Would anyone refuse to chat or meet because of there username "

Yes, unpleasant usernames instantly suggest, to me at least, there is a higher likelihood of there being unpleasantness in the person

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By *stbury DavenportMan
over a year ago

Nottingham

I can't recall seeing a username that has put me off someone.

I *can*, however, think of things that could appear in a username that *would* put me off someone.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"The guy who named himself after Ted Bundy really put me off!

Anyone messaging me called any variation on MilfHunter or ChubbyChaser or anything similar is definitely getting deleted and probably getting blocked because I hate being called those things and if that’s how they see me then I don’t want anything to do with them.

Then there’s all the gross and juvenile ones like PussyDestroyer etc which just suggest he’s immature and possibly just going to do bad porn sex.

And I don’t want to know anyone with Dom or Alpha or Master or Sir in their name, because usually they’re all talk and no experience, or they might have experience but they won’t respect me."

must of missed the Ted Bundy one, thank goodness, your latter points full agree.

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"The guy who named himself after Ted Bundy really put me off!

Anyone messaging me called any variation on MilfHunter or ChubbyChaser or anything similar is definitely getting deleted and probably getting blocked because I hate being called those things and if that’s how they see me then I don’t want anything to do with them.

Then there’s all the gross and juvenile ones like PussyDestroyer etc which just suggest he’s immature and possibly just going to do bad porn sex.

And I don’t want to know anyone with Dom or Alpha or Master or Sir in their name, because usually they’re all talk and no experience, or they might have experience but they won’t respect me.

must of missed the Ted Bundy one, thank goodness, your latter points full agree."

He looked at my profile once when I was quite new here, I blocked him instantly because I couldn’t imagine any way I’d ever want to interact with him!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Ted Bundy??!!!

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By *elloWoman
over a year ago

alpha centauri


"Would anyone refuse to chat or meet because of there username "

Whether I like the profile name or not is my first filter when going through messages,.

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

It depends on what it is.

I might be worried about meeting someone called "CockChopper666"

Anything that makes me think that someone might not be the type of person I'd like to meet might make me think twice. I know we shouldn't judge a book by the cover, but someone's own choice of name does give some insight to their personality.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Would anyone refuse to chat or meet because of there username "

Yes. I avoid pussy eaters and pusy munchers.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

From all my years experience on here. a username that contains the word 'genuine', 'hot' and/or 'sexy' is a huge clue that they are not

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Yes. I avoid pussy eaters and pusy munchers."

And pounders

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It’s why I changed my user name to BrightonSteve as ‘ThrustWeaponGashRipper’ got me nowhere for 6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for different reasons, usually if somone has a username that makes them sound like a self obsessed prick or childish then I'll pass

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By *uietlyKinkyUsCouple
over a year ago

midlands

Profile names and profile avatars are the first thing people see. Many names and images put me off making contact.

They could be the nicest people on earth but first impressions count.

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight


"Profile names and profile avatars are the first thing people see. Many names and images put me off making contact.

They could be the nicest people on earth but first impressions count. "

spot on

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I will chat to anyone as long as they're polite.

However, a profile name would put me off meeting them. A lady called "cumslut" is probably not going to be on the same page as me...

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yeah the silly ones like hugelad or hung this or that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone got any thoughts on my username? A friend chose it. I like it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes definitely and I have done a few times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah just wanna chat to nice people. Usernames don't really affect my decision

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Some of them yes.

Welcome back x"

Thank you, nice to be back.

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