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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Played with a few guys ova the past 2 yrs, an im really thinkin that a guy late 30s an older are alot more fun, laid back, know how to please an more open minded, anyone else think the same or shud we give the younger guy a go?

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

tend to stick to older guys mainly but have met a couple of younger ones who were really great guys as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should give a younger guy a chance...like me x

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"I think you should give a younger guy a chance...like me x"

we dont think they get much older than us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer older guys, younger guys can be ok sometimes but i just prefer a more developed look.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys 30-44 ish for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Much prefer older guys, younger guys can be ok sometimes but i just prefer a more developed look."

I agree with u, lv the manly look,

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By *hinaManMan
over a year ago

Twickenham

Despite being a young guy I can appreciate that older guys may be preferred as they have a more developed and mature look.

I've been told in replies to my messages that I am attractive, hot, good looking etc but that I am too young.

If an older guy can maintain a good body and has a reasonably attractive face then he will certainly do well on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer the older guys but I do love the front and the swagger of the young guys as if they are gods gifts and that they are doing me a favour please x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

30 - 55 to play with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Of course you mostly seam to be right

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

35 + in my case

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts

I'm 28 and I met an older lady once, she said my body looks mature but I have a baby face lol, not sure if that's a compliment but we had fun anyway

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

For me it is more about maturity and also being at kind of similar life stages ie having something in common

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts


"For me it is more about maturity and also being at kind of similar life stages ie having something in common "

That's a fair point, I like to think I'm mature but I guess its not something one can judge themselves on. Its a bummer because I do like my older ladies

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"For me it is more about maturity and also being at kind of similar life stages ie having something in common

That's a fair point, I like to think I'm mature but I guess its not something one can judge themselves on. Its a bummer because I do like my older ladies "
The trouble is... that stating that you do prefer older ladies can work against you. I know it sounds daft but many mature ladies (whatever age you want to define this as) dot want to be approached simply because they are older. Does that make sense?

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts


"For me it is more about maturity and also being at kind of similar life stages ie having something in common

That's a fair point, I like to think I'm mature but I guess its not something one can judge themselves on. Its a bummer because I do like my older ladies The trouble is... that stating that you do prefer older ladies can work against you. I know it sounds daft but many mature ladies (whatever age you want to define this as) dot want to be approached simply because they are older. Does that make sense? "

Indeed it does, I hope my post isn't taken the wrong way, maturity is a beautiful thing. Thinking about it, personality is crucial and a fine body does help. I feel most mature women posess these traits.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"For me it is more about maturity and also being at kind of similar life stages ie having something in common

That's a fair point, I like to think I'm mature but I guess its not something one can judge themselves on. Its a bummer because I do like my older ladies The trouble is... that stating that you do prefer older ladies can work against you. I know it sounds daft but many mature ladies (whatever age you want to define this as) dot want to be approached simply because they are older. Does that make sense?

Indeed it does, I hope my post isn't taken the wrong way, maturity is a beautiful thing. Thinking about it, personality is crucial and a fine body does help. I feel most mature women posess these traits."

And then, not being facetious here, there is the added complication that a fair few mature ladies actually like an older guy? But hey, fortunately we are all different and look for different things, so there is hope for everyone of us

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I like a bit of both but prefer older...

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts


"For me it is more about maturity and also being at kind of similar life stages ie having something in common

That's a fair point, I like to think I'm mature but I guess its not something one can judge themselves on. Its a bummer because I do like my older ladies The trouble is... that stating that you do prefer older ladies can work against you. I know it sounds daft but many mature ladies (whatever age you want to define this as) dot want to be approached simply because they are older. Does that make sense?

Indeed it does, I hope my post isn't taken the wrong way, maturity is a beautiful thing. Thinking about it, personality is crucial and a fine body does help. I feel most mature women posess these traits.

And then, not being facetious here, there is the added complication that a fair few mature ladies actually like an older guy? But hey, fortunately we are all different and look for different things, so there is hope for everyone of us "

I hope so, tough being young and single lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No personally I wouldn't, prefer about 40 ish to about 55

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"No personally I wouldn't, prefer about 40 ish to about 55 "
Thats when they are at their best

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London


"No personally I wouldn't, prefer about 40 ish to about 55 Thats when they are at their best"

Waves at the laydeez

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"No personally I wouldn't, prefer about 40 ish to about 55 Thats when they are at their best

Waves at the laydeez "
Windmilling?

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By *abloBackMan
over a year ago

London

Thought it was a little more discrete than that?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Thought it was a little more discrete than that? "
Of course you are - I was being mischievous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No personally I wouldn't, prefer about 40 ish to about 55 Thats when they are at their best"

Like fine wine

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By *heekygeordieguyMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"35 + in my case "

So where were you when needed.Lol. ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting for the flood of mail from women looking for the older man!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just to put a different point in...I like guys around my own age. Too young and I worry I may have social services round, too old and I don't have anything in common with them! x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"guys 30-44 ish for me "

Pffft

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Age is simply a number. I've met some lovely and more than capable younger men and some older men that sadly lack even the basic ability to even converse.

It's all about who you are and not how long you've been on this planet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"guys 30-44 ish for me

Pffft "

yeah but when i reach 25 it goes up to 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the toyboy relationship and the older guy relationship, phil being a casing point lol and both have and are brilliant

phil and i have had meets with older and younger people and have had fun with both, personally i dont see the difference as all of our meets have become friends and we do purely social too although i have to say i would draw the line at an 18- 22 year old as they're not much older than my eldest or her bf lol

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"guys 30-44 ish for me

Pffft

yeah but when i reach 25 it goes up to 45 "

Need to rethink this. The sums don't work lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"guys 30-44 ish for me

Pffft

yeah but when i reach 25 it goes up to 45

Need to rethink this. The sums don't work lol"

your 45.. so when i become old enough for you, you'll be in my new age bracket

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"guys 30-44 ish for me

Pffft

yeah but when i reach 25 it goes up to 45

Need to rethink this. The sums don't work lol

your 45.. so when i become old enough for you, you'll be in my new age bracket "

Trouble is when I go to sleep I get older 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"guys 30-44 ish for me

Pffft

yeah but when i reach 25 it goes up to 45

Need to rethink this. The sums don't work lol

your 45.. so when i become old enough for you, you'll be in my new age bracket

Trouble is when I go to sleep I get older 2"

well i'll up my limit if you lower yours then

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

i wuld never see why any young lad would want to go with a fat 30 something year old so stear clear of them as i think they just want to get their end away

of course i know that any man can have this attitude but older men seem to invest more time in it

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By *ickaLiciouseMan
over a year ago

Macclesfield


"guys 30-44 ish for me "

But when u say that will u exclude lets say 27 ?? Or ull give it a go ??

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"guys 30-44 ish for me

Pffft

yeah but when i reach 25 it goes up to 45

Need to rethink this. The sums don't work lol

your 45.. so when i become old enough for you, you'll be in my new age bracket

Trouble is when I go to sleep I get older 2

well i'll up my limit if you lower yours then "

Done

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By *ont Ask Dont GetWoman
over a year ago

amersham

I'm gonna buck the trend...28-35 and fit for me! Hmmm mmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Played with a few guys ova the past 2 yrs, an im really thinkin that a guy late 30s an older are alot more fun, laid back, know how to please an more open minded, anyone else think the same or shud we give the younger guy a go? "

Wow you are spot on! We are the best!

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By *stmateMan
over a year ago

Notts


"I'm gonna buck the trend...28-35 and fit for me! Hmmm mmm"

Like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im really not into young guys i find they are all stamina and no technique

But not overly attracted to older guys

I prefer guys my own age or a little younger, i find early to mid 30s gives them enough experience while still having good stamina too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18-35 for me, i find this a good age range for me being 19, as i like to meet guys my own age but also older say late 20's early 30's, i dont think certain ages can be pidgeon holed as ive had young guys be better than olders and vice versa

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'm gonna buck the trend...28-35 and fit for me! Hmmm mmm

Like "
See? I told you there d be something/ somebody for all of us

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By *irtydanMan
over a year ago

Blackpool


"guys 30-44 ish for me "
dam

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"guys 30-44 ish for me dam "
Keep looking - some of us have other age criteria

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Much prefer the older guys but I do love the front and the swagger of the young guys as if they are gods gifts and that they are doing me a favour please x"

When we lift heavy objects for you I think that is a favour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same age-ish or younger for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think I stand a chance lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 33. Just throwing it out there. Lol. Is that to young?

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By *ixiWoman
over a year ago

Melrose, Scottish Borders

Hi there are some really nice younger guys on this site who are worth meeting. My advice spend some time and get to get to know them first and see how you feel. I chose wisely and have no regrets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends what you call young i feel better at forty than ten years ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as the OP is really asking the ladies l think us blokes should keep quiet and take notes

All l will say is something very sexual happens to a woman on her 40s and 50s for which l am most grateful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Young = fitter, keener, more energy, more effort..

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By *ush_tushWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My swinging preference has always been mid 30's to mid 50's - either side of those brackets don't seem to fit my sexual psyche and that does me, always has done. When that changes I'll just go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Young = fitter, keener, more energy, more effort.."

Yet your profile states straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Young = fitter, keener, more energy, more effort..

Yet your profile states straight "

Good 1.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look for a specific age range but most of the men who've appealed to me in the last 10 years have been between between my age and 10 years older than me. Currently that means, based on previous experience, I am likely to prefer men in their late 30s or 40s.

Young guys are more likely to have energy and great bodies, perhaps, but often don't have the life experience and maturity I like, or the skill to be really good partners. I'll choose skill and technique over youthful vigour most days.

I prefer women around my age or younger, usually, but it depends on the person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Young = fitter, keener, more energy, more effort.."

....so the young bull says to the old bull 'lets run over the hill and shag half those cows quickly' to which the old bull replies 'lets wander over there slowly and shag all the cows properly..'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Young = fitter, keener, more energy, more effort.."

Keener to learn more maybe otherwise older are just the same plus they take their time and happy to do lots of foreplay

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By *haroninlondonWoman
over a year ago

Bromley

Older by at least 8 years!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 33. Just throwing it out there. Lol. Is that to young? "

With an 18 yr age difference for me yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't think I stand a chance lol!"

32 yr age difference, for me most definitely not a chance but there are some that will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hopefully for my own selfish thinking and enjoyment its older lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanx pheobe or was it mark lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Go for variety, as everyone has something different to offer. If I feel stuck in a rut, I change gear and explore.

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By *ashful BazMan
over a year ago

poole dorset


"No personally I wouldn't, prefer about 40 ish to about 55 Thats when they are at their best"

Sounds good to me.

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