FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do swinger strangers kiss or is that too intimate and it's best to get straight down to business?

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

I would always meet someone for a social before anything else so no longer a 'stranger'

And if there is no kissing then I'm not interested

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Different people do different things.

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s no sex without kissing.... it’s a massive turn on for me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there's no kissing it kills the experience for me

Kissing is super important!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I think that is common thought with prostitutes. Kissing is seen as intimate, and you are paying to get down to business.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissed the lips of all people I've bashed genitals with.. otherwise I don't think I could.

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

southside

"There’s no sex without kissing.... it’s a massive turn on for me xx"

100% same!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all starts with that first kiss for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would always meet someone for a social before anything else so no longer a 'stranger'

And if there is no kissing then I'm not interested

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

When I was part of a couple I didn't kiss other men, only other women.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

The kiss is the start of it all. Sex without kissing is pretty awkward

I don't like it

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By *mbisextrousCouple
over a year ago

Manchester/Glossop

Got to be kissing all part of the experience xx

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

Love kissing huge turn on and especially erotic with another woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no point in anything else

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I’ve had messages from guys who want me to do all sorts, including topping them, then say they don’t kiss as it’s too gay for them

I don’t kiss everyone either, just those I fancy and who fancy me back

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By *ixedDevilMan
over a year ago

Bootyville

"There’s no sex without kissing.... it’s a massive turn on for me xx"

What she said!

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Did someone mention kissing?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Do swinger strangers kiss or is that too intimate and it's best to get straight down to business?"

Most swingers kiss.

We choose not to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing is a no, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex without kissing is a no from me. Kissing gets the hormones flowing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is an absolute must for me. Reveals so much about a person's sexual outlook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to kiss, best way to break the ice and get the heart racing whilst stripping each other off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First kiss with a new girl is always electric.

Who wouldn't want to kiss.?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I love kissing my husband obviously. I kiss other women I’m not against kissing other men it just don’t really do anything for me ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really get off on kissing so that would be a big part of the fun for me if I was meeting.

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

Kissing is so arousing, sex without it is a no from me x

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By *razzyhorseMan
over a year ago

cambridge

Kissing is a must. It's the lighting of the blue touch paper before the fireworks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

remember to floss everything b4 letting rip in June lol.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

Keep away from my ass, keep away from my feet I can live with...would be a very mechanical meet if there was no kissing which I don't think I'd particularly enjoy and fortunately not had the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential for me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do love kissing but I can and have had pretty good sex without it, looking each other in the eyes is pretty intimate or just touching heads when you would be kissing, or just whispering really rude things into each others ears is pretty good too and can replace kissing. I do so love to kiss though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do swinger strangers kiss or is that too intimate and it's best to get straight down to business?"
I so love kissing and if I was ever going to meet it would have to be on the agenda xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essential for me

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Next they'll be wanting to show me their 'etchings'.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Do swinger strangers kiss or is that too intimate and it's best to get straight down to business?"
some do.. some dont

. But seems to be if you dont your labelled as a freak and cold etc. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must xxxx

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

For me kissing another man is associated entirely with romance, and the last thing I'm looking for in swinging is romance. I have all I need with my partner. On the other hand I find kissing other women a fantastic turn on. Surprisingly, and despite all the men on here claiming that kissing is essential, not one single guy has ever refused to play with me because I won't kiss them. I've never even heard a single complaint or been questioned about my preferences in all the years we've been swinging.

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By *andystick72Man
over a year ago

kinky Street

Might aswell shag a bag of spuds if no sensual longing tongue sucking lip biting kiss

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By *unnyhunnyWoman
over a year ago

Forest of Dean

Kissing is very sexy. Its a must for me.

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By *elshcouple4000Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Kissing is fine by us

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

"For me kissing another man is associated entirely with romance, and the last thing I'm looking for in swinging is romance. I have all I need with my partner. On the other hand I find kissing other women a fantastic turn on. Surprisingly, and despite all the men on here claiming that kissing is essential, not one single guy has ever refused to play with me because I won't kiss them. I've never even heard a single complaint or been questioned about my preferences in all the years we've been swinging. "

I would never refuse the chance to play with you, but I wouldn’t enjoy it quite the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must - hence my name

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

It's a must for me

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!!

This

I’m naturally a snogger anyway but right now I’d snog anyone ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a defo I love it starts the passion off

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By *eko08Man
over a year ago

london

U are right no kissing no sex ??

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

Well they might not complain to your face..and yes you might have fucked them...but they'll be going away disappointed x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to kiss. It's part of the build up. It's great when the person you are kissing is a good kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!!

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I’m naturally a snogger anyway but right now I’d snog anyone ... "

Lol x i know what you mean by that x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No snog , no play , it’s an essential part of fore playing, and so erotic !!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!!

This

I’m naturally a snogger anyway but right now I’d snog anyone ... "

Taxi to Hampshire please.

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Very much kissing please. Playmates are not hookers they are lovers. Kissing establishes the connection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing intimate to me it's a no no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Very much kissing please. Playmates are not hookers they are lovers. Kissing establishes the connection. "

100% kissing helps to establish the connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s no sex without kissing.... it’s a massive turn on for me xx"

This.

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By *rtist with museCouple
over a year ago

Eastbourne

snogging all round here xx We love it -

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I only meet very good friends for sexual meets, so kissing is pretty much as soon as I see him

If I don't feel something for my partner on a social then I walk away, I need to feel the urge to taste his lips

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By *xhib12Man
over a year ago

Blyth

Love a good snog.

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By *andare63Man
over a year ago

oldham

Kissing is,, the lighting of the fuse,,,,, no kissing no fireworks

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Love kissing ...

That 1st kiss wen u meet someone for the 1st time is so special .trying 2 gauge how u kiss that person is the key .weather soft sensual or full passion x

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley

We love kissing, it’s an important part for us. We understand not for everyone but we couldn’t entertain playing sexually and not kissing....

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Kissing is essential x

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

We love kissing, ff and mfm, its sensual and a great turn on....

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Well they might not complain to your face..and yes you might have fucked them...but they'll be going away disappointed x"
I’m sure the boundaries about kissing will be discussed before any sex takes place and if they still have sex with them and leave disappointed then it’s there fault..

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

"We love kissing, ff and mfm, its sensual and a great turn on...."

Best experience ever was having a a married woman lay on top of me and deeply tongue kissing me while he hubby took her from behind.

Unless told no, I always kiss while fucking, right until I finish, to enjoy feeling my orgasm travel from her pussy tongue.

With the married woman I could feel her pulsing with every throb of his member.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Gotta start with a kiss.. its the perfect ice breaker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

Well they might not complain to your face..and yes you might have fucked them...but they'll be going away disappointed xI’m sure the boundaries about kissing will be discussed before any sex takes place and if they still have sex with them and leave disappointed then it’s there fault.."

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Never met anyone who doesn’t kiss, thankfully

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Its funny...I've never discussed kissing prior to a meet...I've always taken it as a given...don't get me wrong always dicuss 'do's and don'ts' but never once has kissing ever come up as a don't. Its just weird not to kiss."
The reason kissing hasn’t come up is because you haven’t met anyone that has a issue with it but I’m sure if you did then they would let you know.It might be weird to you but as part of a couple I can understand why some people don’t like kissing others..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As always there's a superior attitude from some of the people who kiss their casual sex partners. It seems be one of the preferences that even some of the most broad minded and accepting of people find it ok to question.

I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.

There are many declarations from people saying they won't meet people who don't kiss. What makes you think we want to meet you? Most of us non kissers accept your preference to kiss gracefully and seek out those whose preference matches ours without making a song and dance about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely essential.. sets the mood, builds the tension, it’s a huge turn on for me & really gets the fanny fluttering..

If a meet up did not start with kissing it wouldn’t progress any further..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential

No kissing... no sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes no kissing no play I'm sorry

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)London

Its funny...I've never discussed kissing prior to a meet...I've always taken it as a given...don't get me wrong always dicuss 'do's and don'ts' but never once has kissing ever come up as a don't. Its just weird not to kiss.The reason kissing hasn’t come up is because you haven’t met anyone that has a issue with it but I’m sure if you did then they would let you know.It might be weird to you but as part of a couple I can understand why some people don’t like kissing others.."

I'm sure they would and I hope they would. I can understand why and especially within couples kissing is something to be kept as something just for them...but it ain't half a passion killer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not really bothered with kissing either way. It’s pleasant I guess but it doesn’t bother me if a person doesn’t kiss .

Annoying though when some keeps shoving it in your mouth like a lump of wet meat , told one guy in a couple meet I will put the mouth gag on him if he keeps it up

It did kill it for him but his wife thought it was hilarious

though he got a tad salty with me over it

I would say though I am 50/50 on it or meets . Met quite a few women not interested in full on kissing .

Some earlier poster said it would be like doing a hooker with no kissing. , you do know there is thing called GFE which means kissing

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"As always there's a superior attitude from some of the people who kiss their casual sex partners. It seems be one of the preferences that even some of the most broad minded and accepting of people find it ok to question.

I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.

Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll kiss, but I'm picky xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.

Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?"

Not presumptuous no. However I genuinely don't understand how people can establish intimacy with someone in a very short period of time but that is probably because I think intimacy is about more than physical contact. I only kiss the people I love.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.

Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?

As I said on another thread, the kissing thing is primal. Kissing evolved from mother's chewing food to pass to babies by mouth. Men usually initiate the wet tongue kisses to deliver their testosterone into us, with the effect of flicking our switch to encourage sexual engagement.

I guess as this site is primarily aimed at achieving sex, testosterone delivery is pretty essential

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.

Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?

I guess as this site is primarily aimed at achieving sex, testosterone delivery is pretty essential

If that's all a man's relying on to get me interested then I guess it is essential

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.

Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?

I guess as this site is primarily aimed at achieving sex, testosterone delivery is pretty essential

How does that work for lesbians

they seem to have no issues engaging sexual engagement without the super testosterone factory men have attached

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

My lips are puckered and my tongue is primed and ready. I love kissing and am ready to do it until my lips are tingly and sore. I'm a sensual, deep kisser who likes to stare into someone's eyes as our tongues entwine. So who wants it?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

I've never seen anybody be rude or unkind about people who do kiss or suggest that sex with them is not as good as sex with a kisser.

Would it be a presumption that your meets are more erotic/power play than intimate, requiring less intimacy such as kissing ?

I guess as this site is primarily aimed at achieving sex, testosterone delivery is pretty essential

How does that work for lesbians

they seem to have no issues engaging sexual engagement without the super testosterone factory men have attached

Cos women are just hot

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Oh, and it releases dopamine and oxytocin when kissing, so women on women find it sexually stimulating too

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Of there is no kissing then nothing else will happen either.

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"U are right no kissing no sex ??"
you say that but I've been swinging since I was 21... I've only kissed on rare occasion for the last 2 to 3 years.. been refused once for fun because I dont kiss. In fact even regular people hadn't realised I rarely do till they spotted a post on here.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

During my first social with a couple , she brought up the subject and mentioned no kissing , being new and nervous I sort of agreed.

Anyway when parting I go continental and kiss him on the cheeks , as I’m about to bid her goodnight in the same manner she goes for the full tongue action smacker... and explained that girl on girl was encouraged .

It unhinged me , the likely hood that I’d remember the different rules during play was remote and opted not to take it further

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love kissing... Definitely a nice prerequisite for me!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Kissing the man seems to be much less acceptable than kissing the woman of a couple.

I stopped looking for couples because of this.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"U are right no kissing no sex ?? you say that but I've been swinging since I was 21... I've only kissed on rare occasion for the last 2 to 3 years.. been refused once for fun because I dont kiss. In fact even regular people hadn't realised I rarely do till they spotted a post on here. "

I see a lot of people stating no kissing no sex but I have never seen anyone complain or walk out during a group sex session if no one has kissed them

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Kissing the man seems to be much less acceptable than kissing the woman of a couple.

I stopped looking for couples because of this."
funny but when I meet as a couple I'd be so unhappy if a woman didn't want to kiss or be kissed by my partner. 3 way kisses are great. ( from someone who rarely kisses guys on meets , but then I also mostly only do group meets as a single female)

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I see a lot of people stating no kissing no sex but I have never seen anyone complain or walk out during a group sex session if no one has kissed them

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I’ve never been in a group play where no one kissed ... perhaps I initiate it myself and not aware

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By *ecretpantyTV/TS
over a year ago

lisburn

Not big on kissing other CDs I think it's the stubble too stubble feels wrong. Women smooth face is great.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Kisses are a must for me.

That first spark when your lips touch can be electrifying. My last kiss from a fab meet is something I wish all guys did.....

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

I see a lot of people stating no kissing no sex but I have never seen anyone complain or walk out during a group sex session if no one has kissed them

I’ve never been in a group play where no one kissed ... perhaps I initiate it myself and not aware

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I've had hundreds of group sessions and never had anyone try to kiss at them but then its normally me and 15 plus guys and my mouth is busy lol

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By *ewey613Man
over a year ago

ottawa

"Kissing the man seems to be much less acceptable than kissing the woman of a couple.

I stopped looking for couples because of this. funny but when I meet as a couple I'd be so unhappy if a woman didn't want to kiss or be kissed by my partner. 3 way kisses are great. ( from someone who rarely kisses guys on meets , but then I also mostly only do group meets as a single female)"

I’m starting to rethink again my values here.

If I were one of the luck 15 men playing with MissCali at least 13 cocks are going to be fighting for her mouth at any time, and we’re all going to want to her talk dirty as we give her a very respectable number of cocks to drain.

But if I’m alone with a hotwife and hubby is in the next room, I don’t want her to talk as dirty as I’m the group because I have to fight so hard to stop from cumming when Mrs gets too sexy with her voice. If my tongue is inside her mouth, and hers inside mine, there less Rick is that

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I see a lot of people stating no kissing no sex but I have never seen anyone complain or walk out during a group sex session if no one has kissed them

I’ve never been in a group play where no one kissed ... perhaps I initiate it myself and not aware

I've had hundreds of group sessions and never had anyone try to kiss at them but then its normally me and 15 plus guys and my mouth is busy lol

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

If I couldn't kiss, it wouldn't lead to anything

It would all feel too cold for me without a good snog first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Brill point xx

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By *aybail-238Couple
over a year ago

hartlepool

I think it would be hard to have full play without kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes you have to kiss it’s when you get all key up and ready to go!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the extremely interesting answers. I like the answer that said prostitutes don't kiss because it's a money transaction possibly with someone they don't like and that swingers are not prostitutes and most often form a kind of bond with the person they will meet beforehand, through socials, chats whatever. I haven't been on a meet yet but remember for my student days when you took someone home for the night and knew it would only be for that night you would still kiss to get the juices flowing. However I never kissed my husband during sex in the last 10 years of our marriage but had good sex..

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By *exy studMan
over a year ago

Derby

I love kissing but everyone to their own

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By *nlyme40Man
over a year ago

Rugeley

I am a kisser. I love kissing holding a person close and.... Well kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no fuckery

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else. "

This

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By *andSCouple
over a year ago

Old London Town

If we like someone, or another couple, kissing tells us if it’s worth taking things any further.

It says a lot.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else. "

What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.

What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?"

When Julia Roberts says she'll do anything, but she won't kiss on the mouth.

From memory, and it was a while ago

, I think that's where a lot of people got their kissing is taboo thing from, and it's passed down from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.

What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?

When Julia Roberts says she'll do anything, but she won't kiss on the mouth.

From memory, and it was a while ago

, I think that's where a lot of people got their kissing is taboo thing from, and it's passed down from there. "

I was going to say that it's sounds like Pretty Woman.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.

What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?

When Julia Roberts says she'll do anything, but she won't kiss on the mouth.

From memory, and it was a while ago

, I think that's where a lot of people got their kissing is taboo thing from, and it's passed down from there. "

Because she's a prostitute?

I don't kiss our casual partners, it's often implied that it makes me like a prostitute so I agree that Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I personally love kissing, so yeah no kissing then I doubt there’ll be no connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.

What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?

When Julia Roberts says she'll do anything, but she won't kiss on the mouth.

From memory, and it was a while ago

, I think that's where a lot of people got their kissing is taboo thing from, and it's passed down from there.

Because she's a prostitute?

I don't kiss our casual partners, it's often implied that it makes me like a prostitute so I agree that Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Each to their own, but for us, if we can't kiss your lips, we're not touching anything else, there are far more intimate places for us before we would say lips are a no go.

Everyone to their own though, you do you, we'll do us, and everyone is happy.

For the record though, it was a tongue in cheek comment, as in where the no kissing rule came from, and absolutely nothing to do with prostitution, just can't remember it ever being a thing before that movie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of people on here who don't like to kiss and some people do x each to their own x

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By *heNYCSausageMan
over a year ago

Everton

"I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!!

Fancy saying that to a room full of horny single males!!! You’re inbox is going to explode haha

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By *liXbigMan
over a year ago

Wellington

"Do swinger strangers kiss or is that too intimate and it's best to get straight down to business?"

Is kissing really more intimate than "getting straight down to business"?

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By *edhotlovers2027Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

Kissing is a big turn on for both of us, we have met couples who don't kiss and it gets really difficult when you get carried away, it kind of killes the mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!!

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Am definitely with you on that !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing someone who doesn’t ‘know’ how to kiss though..that’s always a turn off for me.

Soft, slow, sensual, cheeky little bit of the lip..those type of kisses for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet someone for sex after a social or two, by which time they're not a stranger, and if I didn't want to kiss them, I sure as hell wouldn't be meeting to fuck. I can't do sex without some yummy kisses

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By *man91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Kissing for me can turn an ok sexual meet to an awesome memorable meet. Definitely got the craves right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else. "

I was just about to say ....Pretty Woman Syndrome.

Yeah it's considered to have derived from there.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

Kissing is an absolute must, love sensual passionate kisses

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By *exysecretsCouple
over a year ago

Carlisle

Kissing is a must with us, it's a major turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing instant turn on and leads to many things

Well hopefully anyway

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I love losing myself in a kiss with someone I really like. The chemistry has to be there.

Wouldn’t meet someone if they didn’t want to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please, we love a good snog with other people. It's how we kick start the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always love kissing, esp after oral

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There’s no sex without kissing.... it’s a massive turn on for me xx"

Second this

Her x

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"There’s no sex without kissing.... it’s a massive turn on for me xx

Second this

Her x"

I'll Third this.

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By *issMeSlowlyMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Kissing is a must for me, really gets me in the mood...

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Kissing is fun and for me something I would want in a meet however I appreciate if its something people want to keep for themselves.

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

That certain spark and initial feeling of connection. Gosh kissing. Yes yes yes......

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

Kissing is an essential part of my play. I simply wouldn’t meet/play if kissing is not on the cards

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By *ullman1Man
over a year ago

Aldershot

Yes Kissing a must for me

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley

"I would snog the face off anyone!!! And this lockdown has made me worse!!! Cant wait to pucker up and do it all again!!

I agree with this lady !

Pucker up ladies

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Everyone to their own, but for both of us, kissing is as sensual as sex, if you can't kiss, you're not doing anything else.

What's Pretty Woman got to do with it?

When Julia Roberts says she'll do anything, but she won't kiss on the mouth.

From memory, and it was a while ago

, I think that's where a lot of people got their kissing is taboo thing from, and it's passed down from there.

Because she's a prostitute?

I don't kiss our casual partners, it's often implied that it makes me like a prostitute so I agree that Pretty Woman has a lot to answer for.

Each to their own, but for us, if we can't kiss your lips, we're not touching anything else, there are far more intimate places for us before we would say lips are a no go.

Everyone to their own though, you do you, we'll do us, and everyone is happy.

In the movie Julia Roberts played a prostitute and she wouldn't kiss her clients. To me that suggests it has everything to do with prostitution. The reason I don't kiss is not because I'm a prostitute though.

I will continue to do me as you say, it's worked really well so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do swinger strangers kiss or is that too intimate and it's best to get straight down to business?"

Both sets of lips for me - it’s the reason I’d be meeting after all!

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I love kissing and sex without it is very different

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