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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone else had this issue. I’ve met a few people but not been verified by them. Don’t really want to ask them to either. Anyone else come across this?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

yes often

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It is something that people talk about occasionally here.

It's probably partly because people don't want to be on record as meeting during a pandemic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes met a few at the socials but change profile but back again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else had this issue. I’ve met a few people but not been verified by them. Don’t really want to ask them to either. Anyone else come across this?"

Could you ask them to verify you?

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Hardly anyone I've met has verified me.

Some people just do it without asking and some do it because they want one back.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts

Have you met them on a previous profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Anyone else had this issue. I’ve met a few people but not been verified by them. Don’t really want to ask them to either. Anyone else come across this?

Could you ask them to verify you? "

I could but don’t want to be kind of begging it if that makes sense and doesn’t sound weird which it probably does.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you met them on a previous profile?"

No this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No coz I ask them not to. I don’t like veris.

I’m sure if you asked them they would though.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Have you met them on a previous profile?

No this one. "

They probably don't wanna get labeled law breakers considering the country has been in lockdown for the entire time you've had an active profile.

Yes there were times when things eased, but we still weren't meant to go to people's houses etc and social distancing has been in force a year

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have met people who didn’t want others to know on here, that they’d met with a TV. So didn’t verify me. Which is fine as I can get meets with the verifications I already have and I go to clubs, so it’s easy enough to ask someone at the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah.

Lots of people seem to like me, enjoy my company and lovemaking skills but for some reason they aren’t comfortable admitting that in public.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yeah. I think they are ashamed of me.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Yeah. I think they are ashamed of me. "

Pish, it's coz they know their words can't do you justice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah. I think they are ashamed of me.

Pish, it's coz they know their words can't do you justice "

Damn right. Words could express it.

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"Have you met them on a previous profile?

No this one.

They probably don't wanna get labeled law breakers considering the country has been in lockdown for the entire time you've had an active profile.

Yes there were times when things eased, but we still weren't meant to go to people's houses etc and social distancing has been in force a year "

Yes that's what I was thinking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have met a couple of people before all the LD's and never bothered with the V's.

It seems to have become so much more important. So wish I had.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

Some people just don’t veri others

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By *tudiousPipWoman
over a year ago

W Yorks

I've not given anyone a verification in the last year. If nobody can read it, what's the point?!

Seeing they've got a veri during Covid looks suss - you assume they've been shagging, but it could just as easily be a distanced social outdoors (I've done that - created a bubble with another single Fabber) or even a late veri from pre Covid times (I've got one of those from a man I met in 2019. Can't post it!). So veris in Covid times are tricky. Cos it's there with no explanation of what you actually did!

Pre Covid I've refused to verify 2 men that I ended up having a lovely time with because their profile contained a lie. If I verify a liar then I'm also a liar. Not happening.

And there's 1 man I didn't verify because, "If you can't say something nice then say nothing at all"...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much honesty and manners for someone on swinging site but whatever makes u happy right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have photo verification but dunno how you get the other one when you cant meeet anyone soooooooooooo *shrug*

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By *nlyfun3Woman
over a year ago

NEAR Berkhamsted,Herts


"i have photo verification but dunno how you get the other one when you cant meeet anyone soooooooooooo *shrug*"

You got told how on your other thread?

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby


"yes often"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this with my old account but not a big issue, I also don't ask for the people who verified me last time to do it again.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

We discuss whether we want to give veris when we meet sexually

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Just ask em. "Hey, would you give me a veri on fab"?

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By *aughty_tonyMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

I joined here just as Covid lockdown mk1 kicked in so have not met anyone from here yet. But maybe it just skipped their mind or to them veri, is not at the forefront of their mind

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