FabSwingers.com forum: So....how

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So i have the profile

I have the verifications and a few photos. And i updated what i like and what am searching for

Any tips. (Ladies preferably.)

Or am i just not hot enough.

Dont get me wrong I'm no adonnis but im semi attractive......right?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

We're in lockdown still and going by earlier comments you don't particularly like women who aren't fun and may say no.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Many more men than women here. Maybe join in with forum and cam chat to get noticed. Good luck!

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"We're in lockdown still and going by earlier comments you don't particularly like women who aren't fun and may say no."

Unless I got the wrong person of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We're in lockdown still and going by earlier comments you don't particularly like women who aren't fun and may say no.

Unless I got the wrong person of course."

no this is definitely the guy waiting for the sex robot so he can slap her ass and she wont refuse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many more men than women here. Maybe join in with forum and cam chat to get noticed. Good luck!"

he tried that - “open for sexual harassment” on a thread about recent events followed by a huge rant about how its unacceptable that women reject him

i suspect un noticed was a better place to be

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

"We're in lockdown still and going by earlier comments you don't particularly like women who aren't fun and may say no.

Unless I got the wrong person of course.

no this is definitely the guy waiting for the sex robot so he can slap her ass and she wont refuse "

^^ what they said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Many more men than women here. Maybe join in with forum and cam chat to get noticed. Good luck!

he tried that - “open for sexual harassment” on a thread about recent events followed by a huge rant about how its unacceptable that women reject him

i suspect un noticed was a better place to be "

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Well if thats the way you read the comment then you clearly didn't even read it.

I said I'm open to sexual harassment cuz its better than getting accused of it in a general sense every time you so-much as smile at a girl

its entirely upto them whether THEY decide your being a creep or not. Whether your intentions were to be creepy or simply to show interest.

WOMEN hold all the power when it comes to who can chat them up And if they dont deem you worthy to hit on them then your slapped with the sexual predator brush.

Its bullshit.

It is completely acceptable to reject someone

But it IS NOT acceptable to make that person feel somehow WRONG or creepy for paying you a compliment or showing interest JUST because you dont fancy them.

If a guy shouted sexual harrassment he'd get absolutely ripped to shreds and mocked.

But if i mock it by saying id welcome it I'm villified the second i try to inject a little lightheartedness into it by pointing it out I'm a demon.

Its hypocritical at best.

I'm a nice guy when given a chance. But ill happily play the villian in your little narrative if that makes you feel safer.

And as for the previous comment i didnt say i was waiting for a sex robot who wouldnt say no hutofcourse your female so you like to twist the narrative to make yourselves the victim.

What i said was in 10 years when weve given up running the gauntlet of sexual harrassment accusations and chosen a safer option you'll be sitting there wishing a guy would call you pretty or give you a witty chatup line

cuz by that point we'll all be so scared of your bullshit we will be wandering around staring at your shoes....

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

Why would you put hedgehogs in a bag

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Many more men than women here. Maybe join in with forum and cam chat to get noticed. Good luck!

he tried that - “open for sexual harassment” on a thread about recent events followed by a huge rant about how its unacceptable that women reject him

i suspect un noticed was a better place to be

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Well if thats the way you read the comment then you clearly didn't even read it.

I said I'm open to sexual harassment cuz its better than getting accused of it in a general sense every time you so-much as smile at a girl

its entirely upto them whether THEY decide your being a creep or not. Whether your intentions were to be creepy or simply to show interest.

WOMEN hold all the power when it comes to who can chat them up And if they dont deem you worthy to hit on them then your slapped with the sexual predator brush.

Its bullshit.

It is completely acceptable to reject someone

But it IS NOT acceptable to make that person feel somehow WRONG or creepy for paying you a compliment or showing interest JUST because you dont fancy them.

If a guy shouted sexual harrassment he'd get absolutely ripped to shreds and mocked.

But if i mock it by saying id welcome it I'm villified the second i try to inject a little lightheartedness into it by pointing it out I'm a demon.

Its hypocritical at best.

I'm a nice guy when given a chance. But ill happily play the villian in your little narrative if that makes you feel safer.

And as for the previous comment i didnt say i was waiting for a sex robot who wouldnt say no hutofcourse your female so you like to twist the narrative to make yourselves the victim.

cuz by that point we'll all be so scared of your bullshit we will be wandering around staring at your shoes....

Doing yourself no favours lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab is ruled by the matriarchy. Hope you like looking at shoes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you put hedgehogs in a bag

Who mentioned hedgehogs lol

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"So i have the profile

I have the verifications and a few photos. And i updated what i like and what am searching for

Any tips. (Ladies preferably.)

Or am i just not hot enough.

Dont get me wrong I'm no adonnis but im semi attractive......right?"

I don't see any verifications in your profile? I also tried looking up your couples profile and couldn't find that either.

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)

"Many more men than women here. Maybe join in with forum and cam chat to get noticed. Good luck!

he tried that - “open for sexual harassment” on a thread about recent events followed by a huge rant about how its unacceptable that women reject him

i suspect un noticed was a better place to be

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Well if thats the way you read the comment then you clearly didn't even read it.

I said I'm open to sexual harassment cuz its better than getting accused of it in a general sense every time you so-much as smile at a girl

its entirely upto them whether THEY decide your being a creep or not. Whether your intentions were to be creepy or simply to show interest.

WOMEN hold all the power when it comes to who can chat them up And if they dont deem you worthy to hit on them then your slapped with the sexual predator brush.

Its bullshit.

It is completely acceptable to reject someone

But it IS NOT acceptable to make that person feel somehow WRONG or creepy for paying you a compliment or showing interest JUST because you dont fancy them.

If a guy shouted sexual harrassment he'd get absolutely ripped to shreds and mocked.

But if i mock it by saying id welcome it I'm villified the second i try to inject a little lightheartedness into it by pointing it out I'm a demon.

Its hypocritical at best.

I'm a nice guy when given a chance. But ill happily play the villian in your little narrative if that makes you feel safer.

And as for the previous comment i didnt say i was waiting for a sex robot who wouldnt say no hutofcourse your female so you like to twist the narrative to make yourselves the victim.

cuz by that point we'll all be so scared of your bullshit we will be wandering around staring at your shoes....

Priceless.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't see any verifications in your profile? I also tried looking up your couples profile and couldn't find that either. "

It said my photo was verified.

Gimmee a second I'll the misses what the link is for the joint one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So i have the profile

I have the verifications and a few photos. And i updated what i like and what am searching for

Any tips. (Ladies preferably.)

Or am i just not hot enough.

Dont get me wrong I'm no adonnis but im semi attractive......right?"

You haven't got a hoverboard. Anyone knows that how we get women.

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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago

Doire Theas

"Why would you put hedgehogs in a bag

Who mentioned hedgehogs lol

You

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say your profile was average, nothing especially jumps out at me and catches my eye and with men massively outnumbering women on here they really need to have something to make them stand out from everyone els, add to that people arnt meeting at the minute due to a global pandemic and chances of getting a meet drop even further... Plus on the furums you seem quite anti women which I'm sure won't help any

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't see any verifications in your profile? I also tried looking up your couples profile and couldn't find that either. "

Oddballs2316

i dunno how to link them or whatever

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'd say your profile was average, nothing especially jumps out at me and catches my eye and with men massively outnumbering women on here they really need to have something to make them stand out from everyone els, add to that people arnt meeting at the minute due to a global pandemic and chances of getting a meet drop even further... Plus on the furums you seem quite anti women which I'm sure won't help any "

thanks for the constructive input what exactly would you say would stand out more. funny hats? a monkey onsie? or as the guy stated above do i need a hoverboard

i'm definately not anti women. far from it.

as for the pandemic. i'm not gonna even start. its bad enough without me venting lol xoxo

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)

Not many women on here contribute to the forums so maybe only a slight disadvantage for the lost soul

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By *odgerMan
over a year ago

Coventry(ish)

thanks for the constructive input what exactly would you say would stand out more. funny hats? a monkey onsie? or as the guy stated above do i need a hoverboard

i'm definately not anti women. far from it.

as for the pandemic. i'm not gonna even start. its bad enough without me venting lol xoxo"

Lose the dick pics, make it more about what you offer rather than what you want and clarify the situation with your gf....simples...oh and don't be boring.

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

I tend to agree with you in that men seem to find themselves slowly beaten to the ground if they make a normal approach to a girl these days . And I do think that women will complain that no man will interact or proposition them in any way shape or form in the future.

When all’s says though , as a woman , your profile appeals to me not in the slightest for too many reasons of my own and of your preferences

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks for the constructive input what exactly would you say would stand out more. funny hats? a monkey onsie? or as the guy stated above do i need a hoverboard

i'm definately not anti women. far from it.

as for the pandemic. i'm not gonna even start. its bad enough without me venting lol xoxo"

If animal onsies are your thing then sure.. All the best profiles have that thing that makes them recognisable and remembered, the point of your profile is to sell yourself and saying Hay I don't know what to say but my cocks pretty decent so anyone wanna bang doenst really do that, it doenst tell anyone who you are and what kind of person you are so how do you think your gonna draw anyone in to wanting to know more about you? Your pictures and alright but all low effort if we're being honest doest look like much time or thought went into them which is fine but women tend to go for profiles that show effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I tend to agree with you in that men seem to find themselves slowly beaten to the ground if they make a normal approach to a girl these days . And I do think that women will complain that no man will interact or proposition them in any way shape or form in the future.

When all’s says though , as a woman , your profile appeals to me not in the slightest for too many reasons of my own and of your preferences

the earlier discussion on a thread which has been removed was not describing what you would term as a “normal approach to women” and made it very clear that consent was a blurred issue which was why the sex robot which wouldn’t say no was preferable

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By *konCouple
over a year ago

cardiff

When all’s says though , as a woman , your profile appeals to me not in the slightest for too many reasons of my own and of your preferences

I didn’t read it I will confess. Consent is never a blurred issue however . It’s a clear YES or a clear NO

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

the robot is definately preferable to even attempting to speak to girls with this kind of attitude...even if it chewed my cock off in a set of gears itd be preferrable to listening to the bleating of the "me too" crowd. every time you look at one of them wrong.

i miss a wee bit of cheeky banter a flirt a chatup line givin a lassie flowers the cheezy cringey romatic shit guys used to be allowed to do without it being called harrassment like sending a bunch of flowers to her work to give her a red face. or standin ootside her window wi a ghetto blaster n a mixtape....Tinder and mee-too?

give me courting and the art of the Woo

you are all right i'm a predator. im a big frickn teddybear and am prowling for hugs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

see someone mentioned lastnight that telling people who i am wasnt what people wanted to know as it doesnt tell them what i'm looking for...it seems you cant please them all.

but i'll try a more balanced approach. thnx xoxox

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

The dick pic with your dinner plate is an absolute passion killer.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

Doing yourself no favours lol "

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Personally, speaking for my experience on here, you’ve done yourself no favours with these little tirades of yours on this and other threads.

I get the feeling that a lot of your responses are gleaned from social media and echo chambers of ‘lads’, none of which will endear you.

I feel that part of the challenge of fab is to work it out yourself, find what works for you, to attract the type of people that you want to meet. How to stand out and make yourself the person that someone wants to meet. Does your profile at the moment? Not in the slightest.

In the current climate or any climate post 1970 for that matter, dismissing consent and railing against women’s right to their own interests is akin to jumping off a bridge. It’s your right to do that, you won’t win friends doing it though

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

^^what he said^^

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

‘The bleating of the me too crowd’

Christ

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

"‘The bleating of the me too crowd’

Christ "

Exactly!

Bloody wimmin getting uppity about being sexually assaulted, it’s making it so hard for guys to abuse them now.

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

"‘The bleating of the me too crowd’

Christ

Exactly!

Bloody wimmin getting uppity about being sexually assaulted, it’s making it so hard for guys to abuse them now.

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