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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

someone messages you saying they like you would like us to consider meeting etc then when you say no thank you the abuse and dummy spitting starts

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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You dent their ego by daring to say no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people can't handle rejection well

#youknowwhoyouare

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

The easy way is just ignore it

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"someone messages you saying they like you would like us to consider meeting etc then when you say no thank you the abuse and dummy spitting starts "

Don't understand why people do it, not like it's going to make you want to meet them, better to find out they're idiots before you meet though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"someone messages you saying they like you would like us to consider meeting etc then when you say no thank you the abuse and dummy spitting starts "

Because they are pathetic individuals.

Try being the kind of fabber that would never take rejection that way, yet never has the opportunity Because of idiots like that. Just because they sound exciting or have an amazing physique or a huge cock or both. Doesn't make them a nice person. Or good in bed. Not speaking for everyone of course.

Rude people boil my blood

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Sadly it’s the way it goes on here, just block and move on, they never learn

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Ironically the last one who went off on me, on his profile he had that he was respectful and easy going.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just block all men especially me

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"someone messages you saying they like you would like us to consider meeting etc then when you say no thank you the abuse and dummy spitting starts"

It's when their ego is so delicate and fragile that they can't handle a simple or polite 'no thank you.' They lack emotional maturity and resilience and therefore respond by lashing out in anger. Seems to be quite common, unfortunately. Just block them as soon as that happens, knowing you made the right call.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a ego dunt and they can’t handle it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive tried my hardest to fathom why men ever feel the need to disrespect a lady who rejects them.

Its the most pointless, counterproductive timewasting thing you can do. I just dont see the logic in it at all.

Just take the L and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"someone messages you saying they like you would like us to consider meeting etc then when you say no thank you the abuse and dummy spitting starts

It's when their ego is so delicate and fragile that they can't handle a simple or polite 'no thank you.' They lack emotional maturity and resilience and therefore respond by lashing out in anger. Seems to be quite common, unfortunately. Just block them as soon as that happens, knowing you made the right call."

This ^^^

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I give the benefit of the doubt, my no thanks might be one of many and they just get frustrated... I still delete and block but stops me feeling annoyed by it... Most of the time lol, some get very personal and hurtful but I show it to someone else, we end up having a laugh about it and it's forgotten.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you can have fun destroying their feelings if you are in a bad mood.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to admit getting message from men in the UK they are alot more aggressive compared to US.

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters


"But you can have fun destroying their feelings if you are in a bad mood."

Jesus...


"Have to admit getting message from men in the UK they are alot more aggressive compared to US."

Really? Do you mean in the sense of after being rejected? Or in being approached in the first place? 'Cause I think the general assumption is that American's are much more forward / aggressive compared to the more reserved British.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But you can have fun destroying their feelings if you are in a bad mood.

Jesus...

Have to admit getting message from men in the UK they are alot more aggressive compared to US.

Really? Do you mean in the sense of after being rejected? Or in being approached in the first place? 'Cause I think the general assumption is that American's are much more forward / aggressive compared to the more reserved British."

After rejection grant it they more polite at first. Then it's like turning a light switch. Here if the a ass they start off as one. Rejection from uk is a constant barrage. Maybe it's the lockdown mental status.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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"But you can have fun destroying their feelings if you are in a bad mood.

Jesus...

Have to admit getting message from men in the UK they are alot more aggressive compared to US.

Really? Do you mean in the sense of after being rejected? Or in being approached in the first place? 'Cause I think the general assumption is that American's are much more forward / aggressive compared to the more reserved British.

After rejection grant it they more polite at first. Then it's like turning a light switch. Here if the a ass they start off as one. Rejection from uk is a constant barrage. Maybe it's the lockdown mental status."

No was like that way before lockdown.

Interesting to hear a UK USA comparison though

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