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How long do you give

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have all been there but how long do you give the other couple that sooooo what to meet up but keep pulling out ..... How many time would u give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the reasons, if they seem gen then no limit, also depends how much you want to meet them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They'd get one chance, additional to the first one, without a superb reason!

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton


"We have all been there but how long do you give the other couple that sooooo what to meet up but keep pulling out ..... How many time would u give "

we had a couple cancel 3 times at the last minute,all reasons seemed legitimate but there comes a point when you think "are they that special" if not why let them ruin your precious time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we easy going, as pete works shifts, so can be weekends only, but people understand that then they ok with waiting

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

had a meet with some some one I had been chatting on and off for 3yrs

the timing all ways got in the way but got there in the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have let some couple down 3 times we where just starting at the time and thinking shall we etc. but when u get couples that have been on here for ages and a lot of feed back it does get to you as you make plans etc. might be just pay back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest we wouldn't give more than a couple of chances - it's never really that important and we can't stand time wasters or folk that think it's ok to mess us about !

That's why we tend to only meet at clubs , as if you get let down there are always new playmates to meet

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"We have all been there but how long do you give the other couple that sooooo what to meet up but keep pulling out ..... How many time would u give "
Difficult to answer and not set in concrete for me/ us. People have busy lives, some have children, elderly relatives to name but a couple of reasons why people have to call off meets. It depends on how much I want to meet them and how genuine they seem. I have given some people several opportunities and not regretted it.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"We have all been there but how long do you give the other couple that sooooo what to meet up but keep pulling out ..... How many time would u give "

No set amount, depends on how genuine we think they are being and how much we actually want to meet them.

Some people we have given many chances and been right to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

depends on the situation, a lack of organizing skills isnt too good...especially if it ruins ur weekend...thats why i work on the premise, who asks first and who commits firs gets the meet.If i knew I had a meet later on in the week...I wouldnt shop around for fun on that nite....something I've noticed a few people do.My time is no less valuable than others, regardless of whether I have kids or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They'd get one chance, additional to the first one, without a superb reason!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have all been there but how long do you give the other couple that sooooo what to meet up but keep pulling out ..... How many time would u give

No set amount, depends on how genuine we think they are being and how much we actually want to meet them.

Some people we have given many chances and been right to do so. "

That's good of u just wish others where like you when you have a gen reasone not to meet. Not as I'd you did just not show

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By *am sampsonMan
over a year ago

cwmbran

Depends on how I read the situation

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Arrange the next meet for your local club or a pub near it. That way you can still play if you get let down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would suggest ( if they really are that interesting and interested in meeting you) that they call you up when they are free and come over if you are... that way your not chasing them... its all done last minute.. which leaves little time for excuses, and as someone else said, if you arrange it in a club and they dont show, no great loss of time to you guys

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