FabSwingers.com forum: Are you a PDA

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Kind of person?

I dont mean anything heavy...more like hand holding, little kisses here and there or are you more reserved in public?

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Yeah, I need show to show off! I've pulled, I've spent so long on my own, that I want people to know, that I've got a good'un here.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I like hand holding and don't mind little kisses.

There are places you expect to see more passionate displays. Clubs for example, where you ain't gonna offend anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very much so. But have yet to really find any gf who likes it

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Nope. I might have a sneaky kiss in a corner if I've had some Dutch Courage juice though.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, if it doesn’t embarrass anyone.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I am. I like hand holding, touching the other person (appropriately to the situation), skin to skin contact. And kisses.

The level of PDA depends on the situation though.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We hold hands sometimes and kiss sometimes but we're not hugely touchy feely.

When we used to go to Eurekas though...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a lover of PDA’s!

It makes me feel happy and wanted.

Those sneaky little kisses whilst you’re waiting in a queue or a cuddle when you’re walking.

Love them

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Its enjoyable, but I draw the line at putting our hands in each others back pocket while walking down the street.

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

PDA Society – Pathological Demand Avoidance??

What is PDA?

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

"PDA Society – Pathological Demand Avoidance??

What is PDA?"
never heard of this??

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By *oncupiscence73Woman
over a year ago

South

"PDA Society – Pathological Demand Avoidance??

What is PDA?"

Public displays of affection

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Yes! I absolutely love it, hold my hand, kiss me, cuddle me, spank my bum. Show the world I’m yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like handholding and cuddles at an outdoor concert type of thing, but appropriate to our surroundings x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I high five myself in public if that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With my partner, no and here's for why

https://youtu.be/hIhsv18lrqY

If you have a spare 4 minutes, just watch that clip from 2:00 to 5:57

It explains it perfectly

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"PDA Society – Pathological Demand Avoidance??

What is PDA? never heard of this?? "

Nope until now - I must be old

PDA - Personal Digital Assistant,

To answer the question, we hold hands, we kiss in public. Walking - Gently pull her towards me an snog randomly. Tip her out of the kayak and pick her up and kiss her while holding her - now have made people sick

PDA all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely, if I'm with someone, I'm happy to be there. Kissing, holding hands and hugs are lovely

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I did mean PDA's appropriate to the environment in at the time x

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

"With my partner, no and here's for why

https://youtu.be/hIhsv18lrqY

If you have a spare 4 minutes, just watch that clip from 2:00 to 5:57

It explains it perfectly "

Thats made me sad.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

T is more than me - but that’s because I spent too long with someone who shower now affection in public.

J x

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Absolutely.

Hubby and I are always (appropriately) affectionate wherever we are.

The kids used ti be very

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Oh absolutely I am . Not just because I enjoy the persons company , but to know its reciprocated and that person is proud to be with me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

On Holibobs

Most definitely, love the subtle little touches, kisses and holding hands

Not up for full on snogging though

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

"With my partner, no and here's for why

https://youtu.be/hIhsv18lrqY

If you have a spare 4 minutes, just watch that clip from 2:00 to 5:57

It explains it perfectly "

It's a great speech, thank you for posting the link!

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

No more PDAs from me

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

"With my partner, no and here's for why

https://youtu.be/hIhsv18lrqY

If you have a spare 4 minutes, just watch that clip from 2:00 to 5:57

It explains it perfectly "

its so sad.

I hate that we take for granted the little things we can do without fear of repercussion, something as simple as holding the hand of the person we love in public

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

And I'm a big PDA person x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PDA Society – Pathological Demand Avoidance??

What is PDA?"

That's what I thought too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on where. Not so much in my own locality but I would away from people I / we know. Maybe it's an Irish / countryside thing ?

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

Holding hands and cuddling yes ..We are way to old for full on passionate snogging in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Holding hands and cuddling yes ..We are way to old for full on passionate snogging in public

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You’re never too old lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all that stuff! Hold my hand , kiss me, arm round my waist etc

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"I love all that stuff! Hold my hand , kiss me, arm round my waist etc "

If you insist

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By *olidOak85Couple
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Absolutely love to be kissed, held and shown affection in public. If he doesn't go to hold my hand I get grumpy

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

Definitely a PDA person here. Hugs, handholding, little touches, etc. Not full on snogging and dry jumping in ASDA, though

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

"With my partner, no and here's for why

https://youtu.be/hIhsv18lrqY

If you have a spare 4 minutes, just watch that clip from 2:00 to 5:57

It explains it perfectly

Thats made me sad."

watched the full thing and yes it its sad how we discriminate against things that really don't make any difference appearance/clothes they are just bits of material,powders etc really (not including packing/ops etc for obv reasons) and sex well that's behind closed doors (typically

) and if it doesn't involve you & no one is being forced or harmed than why do you even care?

from the first bit what I heard was basically the exact same as what women were saying bout being frightened to go out alone etc...male violence again.

The most important bit from that is the last lines, just being a human being.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We used to be very PDA. I miss walking along, holding hands or linking arms and having a little kiss every so often

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

No, not for me

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Not with a fabber, no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"With my partner, no and here's for why

https://youtu.be/hIhsv18lrqY

If you have a spare 4 minutes, just watch that clip from 2:00 to 5:57

It explains it perfectly

Thats made me sad.

) and if it doesn't involve you & no one is being forced or harmed than why do you even care?

from the first bit what I heard was basically the exact same as what women were saying bout being frightened to go out alone etc...male violence again.

The most important bit from that is the last lines, just being a human being."

She's done some wonderful stuff

I know there are folk on the (Irish) LGBT scene who don't like her, but she just, perfectly, manages to express so much that I feel at times

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I am very much so. I’m a very touchy feely person, I’m demonstrative of my feelings whether that’s in public or private. Obviously the level to which I display them depends on where I am

Lex

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Lanzarote

"No, not for me"

Nor me. Linking arms if it is icy is fine but everything else is for behind closed doors. Maybe if i had a hubby things would be different but not with a fab meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who with. Holding hands and little kisses with a partner or FWB are lovely. Not so much with a casual fb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love holding hands, kissing, bum pinches & playfulness in public with a partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. To know that the person I'm with wants people to know that I'm with him.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"Love holding hands, kissing, bum pinches & playfulness in public with a partner

May I present my arse for pinching, Sir?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I love the whole holding hands etc x

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By *opilotMan
over a year ago

Heathrow

I am, I like walking holding hands, little cuddles etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't remember.

I've been single so long now that I don't know how I am with a partner

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"Holding hands and cuddling yes ..We are way to old for full on passionate snogging in public

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Your never too old I'm 60 ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would Snog her face off wherever if she looks cute.

Why hold back and be reserved. Hold hands cuddle, it’s your life and your world. Do what you fancy.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

V much so .I'm v romantic love holding hands .soft kisses. Making her feel like the only women on earth x

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Kind of person?

I dont mean anything heavy...more like hand holding, little kisses here and there or are you more reserved in public? "

Yes I love them, if you're with someone you really like then this just comes naturally to me

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

PDA ? Absolutely !

I find it sort of essential, I like to feel "close" and all the little "touches" helps to maintain that .

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We're both very tactile and so holding hands, linking arms, kissing, touching, is very much part of our being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kind of person?"

Absolutely!! Nothing that is distasteful or overt. I really do like having my hand cupping my lady's derriere while casually window shopping

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"We're both very tactile and so holding hands, linking arms, kissing, touching, is very much part of our being

We used to be. I really dislike not being able to anymore

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

them

Especially when their fingers interlock with mine, when their lips brush lightly against my lips or against my ear x

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

I often just stand behind her and kiss her neck where ever we are.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I often just stand behind her and kiss her neck where ever we are.

Now your talking though somewhere private would need to be nearby if a guy did that with me

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

"I often just stand behind her and kiss her neck where ever we are.

Now your talking though somewhere private would need to be nearby if a guy did that with me

Arms around your waist arms held, fingers interlocked, maybe watching the sun go down on a warm summers night

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