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"I'll tell you on 9th September I should have lost my social virginity by then " o0o0o enjoy, do you have any idea's what it will be like though? | |||
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"Wouldn't go to anyone that invited me Much more fun gatecrashing" o0o0o you rebel lol | |||
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"we prefer the single venue ones as you know every one there are swingers had a few bad experiences at pub crawl type ended up chatting up some vanillas as you tend to not know who is who unless you are in "the gang" " to me a social is a meeting of like minded people who are there in a public setting where there is no pressure to play.. its all about meeting face to face to see if chemistry is there. I saw someone refer to the beach party as a social and didn't think it was (by my definition of one), Yes it is a social because its a social based event but its in a club, with a dress code and there will be playing of various sorts going on im sure. Guess there are various interpretations and just wanted to know what others views were | |||
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"getting to meet people in a non-play social enviroment, where you can sit down and chat to people.... the "non-play enviroment" is why I don't consider socials held in clubs "socials".... i think it gives some people the wrong idea...." yeah thats how i see it. The one's ive attended turns into massive piss up where far too much alcohol has been consumed and just turns into a very sexual place (im not shy by any means) however cringed at the level of sexual nature between people in a public venue. Personally made for uncomfortable viewing | |||
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"we prefer the single venue ones as you know every one there are swingers had a few bad experiences at pub crawl type ended up chatting up some vanillas as you tend to not know who is who unless you are in "the gang" to me a social is a meeting of like minded people who are there in a public setting where there is no pressure to play.. its all about meeting face to face to see if chemistry is there. I saw someone refer to the beach party as a social and didn't think it was (by my definition of one), Yes it is a social because its a social based event but its in a club, with a dress code and there will be playing of various sorts going on im sure. Guess there are various interpretations and just wanted to know what others views were " i must admit the idea of attending one in a pub (or a room above a pub) did appeal to me more than a club based one for my first foray | |||
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"getting to meet people in a non-play social enviroment, where you can sit down and chat to people.... the "non-play enviroment" is why I don't consider socials held in clubs "socials".... i think it gives some people the wrong idea.... yeah thats how i see it. The one's ive attended turns into massive piss up where far too much alcohol has been consumed and just turns into a very sexual place (im not shy by any means) however cringed at the level of sexual nature between people in a public venue. Personally made for uncomfortable viewing " | |||
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"I'll tell you on 9th September I should have lost my social virginity by then " ditto but's it's the 14th September for me at a bash in Liverpool. | |||
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"I'll tell you on 9th September I should have lost my social virginity by then ditto but's it's the 14th September for me at a bash in Liverpool." Hope you have a blast xx | |||
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"getting to meet people in a non-play social enviroment, where you can sit down and chat to people.... the "non-play enviroment" is why I don't consider socials held in clubs "socials".... i think it gives some people the wrong idea.... yeah thats how i see it. The one's ive attended turns into massive piss up where far too much alcohol has been consumed and just turns into a very sexual place (im not shy by any means) however cringed at the level of sexual nature between people in a public venue. Personally made for uncomfortable viewing " should be interesting then cos i don't drink lol i shall sit nervously in the corner and offer my services when the pisspots can't get hard ons | |||
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"I would like to attend one around a big bucket in a KFC " My kind of social | |||
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"I would like to attend one around a big bucket in a KFC My kind of social " room for me.. as long as its a boneless box mind | |||
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"I would like to attend one around a big bucket in a KFC My kind of social " mine too... specially if there's gravy :P Wolf | |||
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"I would like to attend one around a big bucket in a KFC My kind of social mine too... specially if there's gravy :P Wolf " so which of you ladies will be providing the big bucket? *tumble* | |||
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"I'll tell you on 9th September I should have lost my social virginity by then ditto but's it's the 14th September for me at a bash in Liverpool." Never been to one, but sounds like fun | |||
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"I would like to attend one around a big bucket in a KFC My kind of social mine too... specially if there's gravy :P Wolf so which of you ladies will be providing the big bucket? *tumble* " It's a no shagging social No bones in buckets. Just a meat feast | |||
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"I would like to attend one around a big bucket in a KFC " Always fingeer licking good | |||
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"I would like to attend one around a big bucket in a KFC My kind of social mine too... specially if there's gravy :P Wolf " Ugh, not man gravy | |||
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"I'll tell you on 9th September I should have lost my social virginity by then " Me too.....I'll keep an eye out for ya Buss if it's the Manc one you're gracing with your presence | |||
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"I'll tell you on 9th September I should have lost my social virginity by then Me too.....I'll keep an eye out for ya Buss if it's the Manc one you're gracing with your presence " I'm not goin now I didn't realise they let the riff raff in | |||
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"I'll tell you on 9th September I should have lost my social virginity by then Me too.....I'll keep an eye out for ya Buss if it's the Manc one you're gracing with your presence I'm not goin now I didn't realise they let the riff raff in " Pfft, there'd be no bugger there if they didn't let riff raff in | |||
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"drink flirt see what happens" Is that what you do? Cos I heard you skip straight to be in the centre of whatever's happening... | |||
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"drink flirt see what happens Is that what you do? Cos I heard you skip straight to be in the centre of whatever's happening... " my first social in 2008...I was dragged(willingly) into the female toilets by a lovely girl...shagging in the cubicle...a few came in and had a peek over the top of the cubicle....when we came out there was an applause lolol...behaved myself at many other socials | |||
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"I'll tell you on 9th September I should have lost my social virginity by then Me too.....I'll keep an eye out for ya Buss if it's the Manc one you're gracing with your presence I'm not goin now I didn't realise they let the riff raff in " They're letting you in | |||
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"drink flirt see what happens Is that what you do? Cos I heard you skip straight to be in the centre of whatever's happening... my first social in 2008...I was dragged(willingly) into the female toilets by a lovely girl...shagging in the cubicle...a few came in and had a peek over the top of the cubicle....when we came out there was an applause lolol...behaved myself at many other socials" Naughty Paddy ...... naughty naughty Paddy. | |||
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"drink flirt see what happens Is that what you do? Cos I heard you skip straight to be in the centre of whatever's happening... my first social in 2008...I was dragged(willingly) into the female toilets by a lovely girl...shagging in the cubicle...a few came in and had a peek over the top of the cubicle....when we came out there was an applause lolol...behaved myself at many other socials Naughty Paddy ...... naughty naughty Paddy." hahahahah u know me too well x | |||
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" Naughty Paddy ...... naughty naughty Paddy. hahahahah u know me too well x" At last year's pussy posse party I heard that you were there. Was told to look out for the non stop shagger! | |||
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" Naughty Paddy ...... naughty naughty Paddy. hahahahah u know me too well x At last year's pussy posse party I heard that you were there. Was told to look out for the non stop shagger! " hahahahah I had fun...but the lethal punch done me in...especially as it made me pole dance...naked..arrghh | |||
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"Our idea of a social would have been a few like minded people meeting up for a chat , couple of drinks etc....it wasn't what we expected in the one we went to. Years ago we went to our one and only social....90% got rotten d*unk and shouted very loudly what they were there for even though it wasn't in a closed venue ...a few of them got the buffet stuck in their one pickle stabber ... a few decided it was fun to go and grope a few people and one even pulled a womans skirt up as she was going to the loo. We have only ever done intimate meets from then on. " sounds more like a trial by social. p.s. what's a pickle stabber? | |||
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"One tooth in the front of their head" Really laughing out loud now! | |||
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"Our idea of a social would have been a few like minded people meeting up for a chat , couple of drinks etc.. Years ago we went to our one and only social....90% got rotten d*unk and shouted very loudly what they were there for even though it wasn't in a closed venue ...a few of them got the buffet stuck in their one pickle stabber ... a few decided it was fun to go and grope a few people and one even pulled a womans skirt up as she was going to the loo. We have only ever done intimate meets from then on." ive been to a few like that, i went to one scoail and this guy thought it was ok to grab my tits every time i walked by him, in the end i told him to piss off and he called me fridged I have found at a few i have been to in the past people tend to get very d*unk and forget themselves, they dont realise that the bar staff may not realise what kind of meet it is | |||
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"last social we all got told we are not welcome back to that venue, the hotel guest book got pinched and people were writing filthy comments in, guys were being wanked off in the bar, some 'pretend' fucking on the pool table went on.. was an interesting night. those poor barmaids " | |||
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"last social we all got told we are not welcome back to that venue, the hotel guest book got pinched and people were writing filthy comments in, guys were being wanked off in the bar, some 'pretend' fucking on the pool table went on.. was an interesting night. those poor barmaids " i have no idea what it is about socials that turn perfectly normal people into twats People would'nt behave like that on a night out with friends so why do yourself such an injustic becauses it a night out arranged by swingers? personally i behave the same when in public wether im out with family, friends or swingers, i dont know why people think that because you carry the labed 'swingers' all of a sudden its ok to go into pubs and grope people, dish out blow jobs and flash your bit | |||
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"last social we all got told we are not welcome back to that venue, the hotel guest book got pinched and people were writing filthy comments in, guys were being wanked off in the bar, some 'pretend' fucking on the pool table went on.. was an interesting night. those poor barmaids i have no idea what it is about socials that turn perfectly normal people into twats People would'nt behave like that on a night out with friends so why do yourself such an injustic becauses it a night out arranged by swingers? personally i behave the same when in public wether im out with family, friends or swingers, i dont know why people think that because you carry the labed 'swingers' all of a sudden its ok to go into pubs and grope people, dish out blow jobs and flash your bit " you obviously haven't been out in manchester of a weekend that IS normal behaviour | |||
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"last social we all got told we are not welcome back to that venue, the hotel guest book got pinched and people were writing filthy comments in, guys were being wanked off in the bar, some 'pretend' fucking on the pool table went on.. was an interesting night. those poor barmaids i have no idea what it is about socials that turn perfectly normal people into twats People would'nt behave like that on a night out with friends so why do yourself such an injustic becauses it a night out arranged by swingers? personally i behave the same when in public wether im out with family, friends or swingers, i dont know why people think that because you carry the labed 'swingers' all of a sudden its ok to go into pubs and grope people, dish out blow jobs and flash your bit you obviously haven't been out in manchester of a weekend that IS normal behaviour " I was reminded of my last night out in Newcastle ....... the hen do fell out the train at 11am half pissed and were off to then hit the town for 24 hours. That place was an eye opener after dark. | |||
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"last social we all got told we are not welcome back to that venue, the hotel guest book got pinched and people were writing filthy comments in, guys were being wanked off in the bar, some 'pretend' fucking on the pool table went on.. was an interesting night. those poor barmaids i have no idea what it is about socials that turn perfectly normal people into twats People would'nt behave like that on a night out with friends so why do yourself such an injustic becauses it a night out arranged by swingers? personally i behave the same when in public wether im out with family, friends or swingers, i dont know why people think that because you carry the labed 'swingers' all of a sudden its ok to go into pubs and grope people, dish out blow jobs and flash your bit " | |||
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"Wish someone would organise a social down this way" I'd come fellow Londonite x | |||
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"we prefer the single venue ones as you know every one there are swingers had a few bad experiences at pub crawl type ended up chatting up some vanillas as you tend to not know who is who unless you are in "the gang" to me a social is a meeting of like minded people who are there in a public setting where there is no pressure to play.. its all about meeting face to face to see if chemistry is there. I saw someone refer to the beach party as a social and didn't think it was (by my definition of one), Yes it is a social because its a social based event but its in a club, with a dress code and there will be playing of various sorts going on im sure. Guess there are various interpretations and just wanted to know what others views were " i've been to socials in pubs where all sorts of play goes on (ok the pub was owned by swingers and closed to the public but it wasnt a club) have been to a social in a rugby club and that was boring as shit have been to a social in a community centre type place that had strippers ad everything...that was fun and there was an element of sexual play that went on. i dont realy see the enviroment as defining what it is. a social can be held at a club....there is no requirement to play even at a club....just the facilities are there should you want to | |||
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"Wish someone would organise a social down this way I'd come fellow Londonite x " Ok, you, me and let's see who else is up for it? | |||
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"I want to go to one but I'm a newbie and a total chicken. All this talk of wanton shagging scares me. " come to one with me....i'll look after you x | |||
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"I want to go to one but I'm a newbie and a total chicken. All this talk of wanton shagging scares me. come to one with me....i'll look after you x" Shall we make it a threesome? No spit roasting me though | |||
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"I want to go to one but I'm a newbie and a total chicken. All this talk of wanton shagging scares me. come to one with me....i'll look after you x Shall we make it a threesome? No spit roasting me though " I'll leave the strap on at home | |||
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"I want to go to one but I'm a newbie and a total chicken. All this talk of wanton shagging scares me. " mine was a one off lol...honest | |||
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"I've been to two, and will say I was very disappointed in the lack of single guys! The last one was a great night out in a social club, with good food, drink and music, but when I came home (after spending the night in a hotel all on my lone some) to all the moaning single guys saying I can't get a meet? Get your arse to a social and stop bloody complaining! " It's that bum again | |||
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"I do prefer a more select party than a huge social. We don't drink and some socials I've attended many people were really d*unk and behaving really loudly, like a group of teenagers in Benidorm. I'm not prudish by any means, I'm there to swing just as anyone else, but I'm not a drinker or loud type of person and I don't think it was really my thing. " Same here, I prefer smaller, more intimate groups of people and while I like a glass of wine or 2 I am not into loud, outlandish behaviour (unless I am the outlandish one | |||
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"I've been to two, and will say I was very disappointed in the lack of single guys! The last one was a great night out in a social club, with good food, drink and music, but when I came home (after spending the night in a hotel all on my lone some) to all the moaning single guys saying I can't get a meet? Get your arse to a social and stop bloody complaining! " The last social I organised there were 30 single guys who asked for a space, and confirmed they were coming in the 2-3 days running up to the social. On the night 4 out of those 30 turned up... And yes, many of those that didn't show are still on here complaining in their profiles / status that they can't get a meet | |||
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"I've been to two, and will say I was very disappointed in the lack of single guys! The last one was a great night out in a social club, with good food, drink and music, but when I came home (after spending the night in a hotel all on my lone some) to all the moaning single guys saying I can't get a meet? Get your arse to a social and stop bloody complaining! The last social I organised there were 30 single guys who asked for a space, and confirmed they were coming in the 2-3 days running up to the social. On the night 4 out of those 30 turned up... And yes, many of those that didn't show are still on here complaining in their profiles / status that they can't get a meet " I'dve came....well....er.... | |||
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"femme,possy pussy beach party 25th aug " I'd class a 'social' as in a public place.........beachparty is a PARTY lol | |||
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"femme,possy pussy beach party 25th aug " thought thats more of a party than a social though.. but that was the point of this thread i guess to see what peoples opinions on what a social was | |||
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"i just view a social as a gathering of like minded individuals, be it at a pub, club, bowling alley etc.....it helps you socialise with a large number of fab members" I want to go bowling.... | |||
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"i just view a social as a gathering of like minded individuals, be it at a pub, club, bowling alley etc.....it helps you socialise with a large number of fab members I want to go bowling.... " can I pretend ur my bowling ball??? | |||
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"i just view a social as a gathering of like minded individuals, be it at a pub, club, bowling alley etc.....it helps you socialise with a large number of fab members I want to go bowling.... " lets do it!!! i'm crap though so need the bumpers up x | |||
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"i just view a social as a gathering of like minded individuals, be it at a pub, club, bowling alley etc.....it helps you socialise with a large number of fab members I want to go bowling.... can I pretend ur my bowling ball??? " No but I can use your balls... | |||
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"i just view a social as a gathering of like minded individuals, be it at a pub, club, bowling alley etc.....it helps you socialise with a large number of fab members I want to go bowling.... lets do it!!! i'm crap though so need the bumpers up x" Sounds good we can go out afterwards...xx | |||
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"i just view a social as a gathering of like minded individuals, be it at a pub, club, bowling alley etc.....it helps you socialise with a large number of fab members I want to go bowling.... can I pretend ur my bowling ball??? No but I can use your balls... " squirt some first so i get a easy ride down the laine | |||
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"I want to go to one but I'm a newbie and a total chicken. All this talk of wanton shagging scares me. come to one with me....i'll look after you x" Aww thank you. I'll look for one where that randy 6 pack bloke won't be at it in the loo's. | |||
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"i just view a social as a gathering of like minded individuals, be it at a pub, club, bowling alley etc.....it helps you socialise with a large number of fab members I want to go bowling.... can I pretend ur my bowling ball??? No but I can use your balls... squirt some first so i get a easy ride down the laine" | |||
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"I want to go to one but I'm a newbie and a total chicken. All this talk of wanton shagging scares me. come to one with me....i'll look after you x Aww thank you. I'll look for one where that randy 6 pack bloke won't be at it in the loo's. " six pack??? sakes...I was suckin it in that pic...am a wee porker | |||
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"I want to go to one but I'm a newbie and a total chicken. All this talk of wanton shagging scares me. come to one with me....i'll look after you x Aww thank you. I'll look for one where that randy 6 pack bloke won't be at it in the loo's. six pack??? sakes...I was suckin it in that pic...am a wee porker " Apologies... I thought you were the bloke in the pic. Didn't realise you were the one doing the sucking!! | |||
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"I want to go to one but I'm a newbie and a total chicken. All this talk of wanton shagging scares me. come to one with me....i'll look after you x Aww thank you. I'll look for one where that randy 6 pack bloke won't be at it in the loo's. six pack??? sakes...I was suckin it in that pic...am a wee porker Apologies... I thought you were the bloke in the pic. Didn't realise you were the one doing the sucking!! " only on weekdays...that was a weekend | |||
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"well I was playing around with the idea of doing a "pub quiz" type social night based somewhere in the centre of the country, so that we could get as many people as possible to attend.... but now with the "regionalisation" of the site I decided to put it on the backburner, as people don't/aren't prepared to travel as they use to... it is actually one of the things I miss... people use to travel and make a weekend of it... they don't anymore.. " You've got a car. You should come to us! | |||
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