FabSwingers.com forum: A Guide To Being The Perfect Bull

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can we take a minute to discuss what actually makes a good Bull a good Bull in the context of a cuckold meet.

We get so many messages from "expert" Bulls who have "lots of experience" but when it comes down to it they all say very similar things such as:

"I'd tie the cuck up and fuck the wife" - but in reality that doesn't really work because most partners are there to make sure that nothing goes wrong, what's the point in a partner being there if he's tied up and can't intervene if he needs to?

Or the classic: "I'll make the cuck wear your cum filled knickers when we have finished" - without even knowing if 1) the couple are even into bareback/ cum and 2) if the cuck would be comfortable wearing ladies underwear.

The other one is: "I'd make the cuck watch while I fuck you senseless" - again, most cucks actively want to watch someone fuck their wife. It's kind of expected, this doesn't necessarily make you a good Bull.

Could we maybe collaborate on "A Guide to being the perfect Bull" thread in hopes of educating people and passing on knowledge and tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hear me out

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

This sounds like a good idea... and like a decent Cuck couple/Bull relationship the exchange of information and ideas is always a good thing...

Far too many “Bulls” think it’s all about having a big cock, fucking the wife hard and humiliating the husband... when in reality very few couples are actually looking for that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You might be able to compile a list of what would be the perfect bull for you

That's probably not gonna be the perfect bull for someone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You might be able to compile a list of what would be the perfect bull for you

That's probably not gonna be the perfect bull for someone else"

That is totally true, however it's not about compiling a list of what would be the perfect bull for us. I was thinking more about addressing some glaring mistakes people tend to make without having prior experience under their belt.

Tips such as; communicate with the couple, discuss a safe word, find out what they want to gain from a meet, find out if they will be practicing safe sex etc.

So many "Bulls" storm into our inbox trying to throw their weight around without even considering any of the above - mostly that's not down to arrogance, but lack of experience.

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By *renzMan
over a year ago

Between Chichester and Havant

If someone calls themselves a 'Bull', they're probably not.

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By *exy Two-Shoes40Man
over a year ago

bolton

Refurbished and Pre-Owned

I am a bull with the intellectual capacity and emotional maturity sharing a wife – she remains her husband’s wife because she chooses to and the desire of other males to change that isn’t allowed

i will Listen more than you speak; try to understand motivations and needs Choose actions which benefit them the most; balance their individual needs as hotwife and cuckold so both get fair outcomes though being supported to make sexual selections outside the marriage is very empowering for wives

don’t have a problem attracting women and want to try being a bull for a couple but I’m only average in cock size

Work on technique; ask questions and have women point out what works well, the advice will be invaluable and usually transferable. This is quite general but learn your sexual strengths and use them to your advantage. If you're great at oral then make sure you commit time in the meet to maximising that, good reviews come from great experiences.

To actually get the attention of a prospective partner is not easy. There is no shortage guys that want to have sex, or think they have what it takes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What one couple see as ideal could be the exact opposite to what another couple wants

So there is no one answer fits all

Communication is what you want till you find what suits all involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What one couple see as ideal could be the exact opposite to what another couple wants

So there is no one answer fits all

Communication is what you want till you find what suits all involved"

This. I love people telling me what I want or listening to them say “what they want”.

It’s what we all want, to share the experience isn’t it?

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Respect, consent, trust and good open communication to establish limitations and boundaries.

Whether is it Bdsm, cuckold, a basic sexual encounter or even your marriage...

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Taking time to discuss their wishes and turn ons with the couple works for me

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Being born between the 22nd April & 21st May.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What one couple see as ideal could be the exact opposite to what another couple wants

So there is no one answer fits all

Communication is what you want till you find what suits all involved

This. I love people telling me what I want or listening to them say “what they want”.

It’s what we all want, to share the experience isn’t it?

Exactly

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

"What one couple see as ideal could be the exact opposite to what another couple wants

So there is no one answer fits all

Communication is what you want till you find what suits all involved

This. I love people telling me what I want or listening to them say “what they want”.

It’s what we all want, to share the experience isn’t it?

Exactly"

Definitely!

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