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"No you’re not too young for this site but people will have their preferences..." Aye that’s totally fine and i respect that | |||
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"I don't think you are too young to be here I do, however, think that you should concentrate on your life away from the site Life experience adds to the whole swing experience longer term I'm not sure that makes total sense, but I know what I mean "Doesn’t seem like there’s much I can do about that while is COVID is about haha. Shame I’m all about learning more about the lifestyle | |||
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"No you’re not too young for this site but people will have their preferences... Aye that’s totally fine and i respect that "Well that’s the best way to be try clubs when they open I recommend it  | |||
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"No you’re not too young for this site but people will have their preferences... Aye that’s totally fine and i respect that
Well that’s the best way to be try clubs when they open I recommend it "I’m going to thanks | |||
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"I don't know you. Legally No. Morally No. Emotionally - I don't know. Experience in sex or other life skills .... you'd be in the pre beginner bracket. But too young........ nope. Prepare to be disappointed. Stay or Flee. " BOOOOM, this!  | |||
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"I don't know you. Legally No. Morally No. Emotionally - I don't know. Experience in sex or other life skills .... you'd be in the pre beginner bracket. But too young........ nope. Prepare to be disappointed. Stay or Flee. " Been quite a lot of disappointment so far, hopefully that changes when clubs open again and I can hopefully gain some experience | |||
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"Don't over think it. Some people will think or are others not. It is what you think as an adult what counts. Have fun and don't take sweets from strangers unless they flash their boobs at you."  | |||
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"I don't think you are too young to be here I do, however, think that you should concentrate on your life away from the site Life experience adds to the whole swing experience longer term I'm not sure that makes total sense, but I know what I mean
Doesn’t seem like there’s much I can do about that while is COVID is about haha. Shame I’m all about learning more about the lifestyle "You’ll find a fair few will disappear from this site once we’ve got BoJos milestones. Purely due to what you’ve said... nothing else to do at the moment so in answer to your question, no you’re not too young but you need to have a life .... when we’re allowed x | |||
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"I don't think you are too young to be here I do, however, think that you should concentrate on your life away from the site Life experience adds to the whole swing experience longer term I'm not sure that makes total sense, but I know what I mean
Doesn’t seem like there’s much I can do about that while is COVID is about haha. Shame I’m all about learning more about the lifestyle
You’ll find a fair few will disappear from this site once we’ve got BoJos milestones.
Purely due to what you’ve said... nothing else to do at the moment so in answer to your question, no you’re not too young but you need to have a life .... when we’re allowed x"I get you, yeah I hope it will change when we’re allowed our lives back x | |||
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"Age is fine just note the average age swinger is prob twice your age. This will affect people wanting to meet you for a big chunk of them imo. Clubs prob a good bet for you or actively searching for older couples that want young guys. . You can filter ages in advanced search and if you match their seeking age as well to help home in on more suited types . I have met a few 18- 21 year old women from here over the last 7/8 years . " Yeah that’s seems to be the best bet I think I’ll deffo try and go to a club when they’re open. Thanks! | |||
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"I don't think you are too young to be here I do, however, think that you should concentrate on your life away from the site Life experience adds to the whole swing experience longer term I'm not sure that makes total sense, but I know what I mean
Doesn’t seem like there’s much I can do about that while is COVID is about haha. Shame I’m all about learning more about the lifestyle
You’ll find a fair few will disappear from this site once we’ve got BoJos milestones.
Purely due to what you’ve said... nothing else to do at the moment so in answer to your question, no you’re not too young but you need to have a life .... when we’re allowed x
I get you, yeah I hope it will change when we’re allowed our lives back x "In addition can I just add... Your profile reads really well and flows nicely! It’s much better than most of the men on here IMHO so if you carry that mindset on, I’m sure you’ll do well! And join in on the forums, get your name out there x Good luck xx | |||
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"I don't think you are too young to be here I do, however, think that you should concentrate on your life away from the site Life experience adds to the whole swing experience longer term I'm not sure that makes total sense, but I know what I mean
Doesn’t seem like there’s much I can do about that while is COVID is about haha. Shame I’m all about learning more about the lifestyle
You’ll find a fair few will disappear from this site once we’ve got BoJos milestones.
Purely due to what you’ve said... nothing else to do at the moment so in answer to your question, no you’re not too young but you need to have a life .... when we’re allowed x
I get you, yeah I hope it will change when we’re allowed our lives back x
In addition can I just add...
Your profile reads really well and flows nicely!
It’s much better than most of the men on here IMHO so if you carry that mindset on, I’m sure you’ll do well!
And join in on the forums, get your name out there x Good luck xx"Thanks so much that’s means a lot cheers! I’ll try my best  x | |||
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"Do you think someone my age is too young for a site like fab. I’ve always been interested in going to clubs and having meets etc it’s always been something that turns me on. However it doesn’t seem lads my age get much attention on here. I think I’m mature enough to be on a site like this and able to form friendships and I’m respectful to everyone on here. Maybe it’s just the ladies and couples on here prefer older/ their own age group and that’s totally fine. Is someone my age too young for someone you’d potentially meet up with? "Your age would be a problem for us, but you have verifications from couples who say they want to meet you, so you have an answer to your q already. You've also taken the time to get photo verified and you pay for membership so there is a level of commitment to this. I'd say you're doing pretty well so far and will probably be an attractive prospect for the right person/s. Good luck OP | |||
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"Do you think someone my age is too young for a site like fab. I’ve always been interested in going to clubs and having meets etc it’s always been something that turns me on. However it doesn’t seem lads my age get much attention on here. I think I’m mature enough to be on a site like this and able to form friendships and I’m respectful to everyone on here. Maybe it’s just the ladies and couples on here prefer older/ their own age group and that’s totally fine. Is someone my age too young for someone you’d potentially meet up with?
Your age would be a problem for us, but you have verifications from couples who say they want to meet you, so you have an answer to your q already. You've also taken the time to get photo verified and you pay for membership so there is a level of commitment to this. I'd say you're doing pretty well so far and will probably be an attractive prospect for the right person/s.
Good luck OP"Awww thank you guys I appreciate that x | |||
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"I don’t think you’re too young. You just need to appreciate that people have age preferences "That’s totally fine like I say that’s completely fine with me. | |||
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"I joined a different site when I was 18 years old. I wasn’t naive, I knew what I was looking for and what I wanted. I think a lot depends on how mature you are and how you come across " I think the chances of young women and young men are hugely different and the acceptance levels. | |||
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"I joined a different site when I was 18 years old. I wasn’t naive, I knew what I was looking for and what I wanted. I think a lot depends on how mature you are and how you come across I think the chances of young women and young men are hugely different and the acceptance levels. " I completely agree with you! | |||
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"From both on the forum and your profile, you seem like a nice person and very mature for your age, so there will always be people who would like to meet you, "Thanks guys I’m glad you think so | |||
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"I joined a different site when I was 18 years old. I wasn’t naive, I knew what I was looking for and what I wanted. I think a lot depends on how mature you are and how you come across " Hopefully my profile comes across ok I’m polite and respectful | |||
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"The site can be quite ageist, from a young and old point of view, but that's just a reflection of society at large.. There will be rejections and disappointment but some fab times too,just as in life. Embrace it and have a lot of fun, some fabulous people on here. I’ll try haha " | |||
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"I don't know you. Legally No. Morally No. Emotionally - I don't know. Experience in sex or other life skills .... you'd be in the pre beginner bracket. But too young........ nope. Prepare to be disappointed. Stay or Flee. " Absolutely this ^^^ for me, personally, you're younger than my kids so no and quite a few people will think similarly | |||
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"I don't know you. Legally No. Morally No. Emotionally - I don't know. Experience in sex or other life skills .... you'd be in the pre beginner bracket. But too young........ nope. Prepare to be disappointed. Stay or Flee. Absolutely this ^^^ for me, personally, you're younger than my kids so no and quite a few people will think similarly " That’s totally fine | |||
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"Do you think someone my age is too young for a site like fab. I’ve always been interested in going to clubs and having meets etc it’s always been something that turns me on. However it doesn’t seem lads my age get much attention on here. I think I’m mature enough to be on a site like this and able to form friendships and I’m respectful to everyone on here. Maybe it’s just the ladies and couples on here prefer older/ their own age group and that’s totally fine. Is someone my age too young for someone you’d potentially meet up with? "Hello OP Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret and certainly don't get into arguements over it. The world has changed and how people meet today is different to how it was 10 years ago, let alone 30 or 40. Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet. Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet, you're wasting your time and theirs. Consider how you approach people, don't just write 'Hi', 'Fancy a chat' or any other generic one liner, It WILL get you ignored. If you followed the advice above and read the persons profile then there should be some common ground to write about. Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. We are a couple that do meet guys of your age, and one look at your profile would put us off from looking any further. What you have written is so generic it could be put on a thousand profiles. Nobody knows you as well as you know you, and if you have nothing to say about yourself it could be interpreted as there is nothing worth saying about you. That's probably not true, but would you start a conversation in person with someone if you thought you would only get single word answers because they have nothing to say? Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. As a single guy you are already fighting an uphill battle; as a young guy too your battle isn't uphill, its practically up a cliff! That doesn't mean you won't have any luck, but you really need to look at your profile, so as to ensure you make the best possible first impression. Put on some different pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile, and anything in between is great. Next time it's a lovely day, get out and take some selfies somewhere nice. You'll be surprised by how many people get turned off by the sight of socks or untidy bedrooms! However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too, both are great ways of getting to know people with no pressure and no first time nerves. When it's safe to do so... get off the site and meet people socially or try a club. You could always sign up to an organised social, where you may meet many people from the area, and perhaps make a better impression face to face than via the Internet. It might be a little nerve wracking the first time, but what harm can having a coffee or a pint with a stranger really do? Good luck | |||
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"Do you think someone my age is too young for a site like fab. I’ve always been interested in going to clubs and having meets etc it’s always been something that turns me on. However it doesn’t seem lads my age get much attention on here. I think I’m mature enough to be on a site like this and able to form friendships and I’m respectful to everyone on here. Maybe it’s just the ladies and couples on here prefer older/ their own age group and that’s totally fine. Is someone my age too young for someone you’d potentially meet up with?
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Some people on here will have zero interest in meeting with you simply because of your age. There is nothing you can do about it, so don't fret and certainly don't get into arguements over it. The world has changed and how people meet today is different to how it was 10 years ago, let alone 30 or 40.
Concentrate on finding the people that would like to meet a young man like you. Refine your search by ticking the "I must match their age requirements too" box. Also refine your search by age, distance etc. There is no point contacting people hundreds of miles away if you cannot 100% commit to a meet.
Once you have those search results READ their profiles. It's such basic advice but so few follow it. Don't bother messaging those whose profile you don't meet, you're wasting your time and theirs.
Consider how you approach people, don't just write 'Hi', 'Fancy a chat' or any other generic one liner, It WILL get you ignored. If you followed the advice above and read the persons profile then there should be some common ground to write about.
Now, providing you have sent a message that will entice them to look further they will 99% of the time look at your profile before responding. So now you have to sell yourself. We are a couple that do meet guys of your age, and one look at your profile would put us off from looking any further. What you have written is so generic it could be put on a thousand profiles.
Nobody knows you as well as you know you, and if you have nothing to say about yourself it could be interpreted as there is nothing worth saying about you. That's probably not true, but would you start a conversation in person with someone if you thought you would only get single word answers because they have nothing to say?
Write something about you, what you have to offer, what your limits are etc. Basically - make people interested in you. As a single guy you are already fighting an uphill battle; as a young guy too your battle isn't uphill, its practically up a cliff! That doesn't mean you won't have any luck, but you really need to look at your profile, so as to ensure you make the best possible first impression.
Put on some different pics. Face pics are best, cock pics are generally not required in your public profile, and anything in between is great. Next time it's a lovely day, get out and take some selfies somewhere nice. You'll be surprised by how many people get turned off by the sight of socks or untidy bedrooms!
However your profile is not everything. Get involved with the forums, get involved in the chatroom too, both are great ways of getting to know people with no pressure and no first time nerves.
When it's safe to do so... get off the site and meet people socially or try a club. You could always sign up to an organised social, where you may meet many people from the area, and perhaps make a better impression face to face than via the Internet. It might be a little nerve wracking the first time, but what harm can having a coffee or a pint with a stranger really do?
Good luck "Thank you so much for the advice guys that means a lot | |||
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