FabSwingers.com forum: Is this Cheating

By *ssex_tom OP Man
over a year ago

Chelmsford

Men and Women making love or having sex but thinking of someone else doing that with them. Is that cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no it fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well as everyone says no, I'll say yes to go against the clique of noppl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The people who said no, answer this, if you knew they were thinking of someone else, cause they told you, you’d be fine with that ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no it fantasy"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people who said no, answer this, if you knew they were thinking of someone else, cause they told you, you’d be fine with that ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it cheating when you watch porn and have a wank

Is it cheating if you wank with your other hand?

All ridiculous questions

Cheating is not playing by the rules that are set.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as everyone says no, I'll say yes to go against the clique of noppl "

If anyone from the clique of Noppl is reading this, he didn't mean that. Don't hurt him.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Cheating no, would I be happy if my partner was thinking of the women in work whilst fucking me on a regular basis hell no.

Though us talking about mfm when we're fucking hot as. As always down to context

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The people who said no, answer this, if you knew they were thinking of someone else, cause they told you, you’d be fine with that ?!

Depends who it was....

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By *ero666Man
over a year ago

fife

"Men and Women making love or having sex but thinking of someone else doing that with them. Is that cheating?"

That’s love

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"Cheating no, would I be happy if my partner was thinking of the women in work whilst fucking me on a regular basis hell no.

Though us talking about mfm when we're fucking hot as. As always down to context"
This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinda reminds me of that scene in the Black Mirror episode where they could rewatch memorys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kinda reminds me of that scene in the Black Mirror episode where they could rewatch memorys "

Oooh

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

"Men and Women making love or having sex but thinking of someone else doing that with them. Is that cheating?"

How about they shout someone else's name whilst having sex, is that cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men and Women making love or having sex but thinking of someone else doing that with them. Is that cheating?

How about they shout someone else's name whilst having sex, is that cheating?"

God? Jesus Christ?

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

When does fantasy become cheating? A question of degrees and your definition of cheating. Better to consider when does sexual fantasy become a problem.

When you are thinking of the other party in other contexts beyond the sex (fantasising about having kids with George Clooney and the house you will live in)

When you prejudice the fantasy over the real people in your life (Sorry kids George wants me to watch Oceans 11 again)

When disruptions to the fantasy cause problems IRL (George Clooney marries and the dog instinctively hides)

When you decide to change your partner to be more like your fantasy (you buy a Nespresso maker and force him to drink from tiny cups)

When you make changes IRL to bring that fantasy person closer to you (I think we should move to Hollywood - my restraining order said I had to be 100m away)

...Hopefully most fabbers not quite there yet. Another lockdown and who knows.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

It’s not cheating but I do wonder whether it’s unfair on that partner.

If you don’t want to be having sex with them and you’re not 100% in the moment with them, then why are you having sex with them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men and Women making love or having sex but thinking of someone else doing that with them. Is that cheating?"

It's only cheating if you moan said person name you're thinking about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Men and Women making love or having sex but thinking of someone else doing that with them. Is that cheating?"

No, it just means your heads messed up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not cheating but I do wonder whether it’s unfair on that partner.

If you don’t want to be having sex with them and you’re not 100% in the moment with them, then why are you having sex with them? "

This

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

I once dated a girl who felt I was cheating because I had porn mags...

Needles to say, that relationship did not last long...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no it fantasy"

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By *edGrayCouple
over a year ago

Swindon

What if you dream about having sex with a work colleague and you enjoyed it... is that cheating?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not cheating but I do wonder whether it’s unfair on that partner.

If you don’t want to be having sex with them and you’re not 100% in the moment with them, then why are you having sex with them? "

Yeah these are my thoughts. Must admit I’ve never thought of someone else.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Not exactly cheating but would not b happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kinda reminds me of that scene in the Black Mirror episode where they could rewatch memorys

Oooh

Interesting to think with Musks' neuralink that it could be a possibility in the not to distant future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use to think of Ann Widdecombe as a delay tactic, so are you saying I was in theory, cheating with her. OMG

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not cheating, no.

However, I do think it could be problematic if it's a regular thing.

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