FabSwingers.com forum: What do you miss?

By *ea monkey OP Man
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I’ve woken up in a bit of a melancholic mood today and suddenly found myself missing a lot of the big and small things that I haven’t been able to do in this past year.

I think that in some ways it’s become something that I haven’t thought about, as a way of stopping myself from feeling this?

So dear fabbers, what do you miss, beyond the simple ‘meeting for sex’?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People, and doing fun things

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

People .. the pub.... getting my hair cut.... travelling..... etc etc

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Same here

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Trying on clothes in a shop and my holidays.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Being able to do things without having to stop and think about them and whether they are "allowed" first

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yes people ! I miss people , friends, family , get together , socialising , hugging .... I also miss glorious sex and dare I say it ... work

In that order

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Extra-marital sex with ladies off t’internet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Popping in to my local for a pint on a Friday after work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Extra-marital sex with ladies off t’internet "

I didn’t read the opening post properly did I?

In that case, I’m changing my answer ...

being within touching distance of another human being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My freedom to be spontaneous....

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By *essica trueTV/TS
over a year ago

blackpool

Kisses and cuddles xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ravin... Nothing beats being on that dance floor, 1000s of others around you, feeling the base running through your body.. Oh yes.. Get me on that dance floor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes people ! I miss people , friends, family , get together , socialising , hugging .... I also miss glorious sex and dare I say it ... work

In that order

I'm sure after a week of being back at work I'll change my mind - but I miss going to work too

I need to be busy and around other people.

This endless Groundhog Day on my own is really starting to get to me now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meeting and chatting with friends....in a pub!

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By *oonsterblue74Man
over a year ago

Tyne and Wear

The biggest miss is the interaction with people. Live music and travel

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Having lunch on the seafront, watching the world go by with a glass of wine.

Coffee and cake at my little local coffee shop, where they know my name and my coffee order.

Playing silly made up games with my little nieces and nephews.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hair and nail and beauty appointments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wearing glasses without them being constantly steamed up by also wearing a mask.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I miss the joys of commuting, of working in a busy office, the pressurised but fun environment.

I miss spontaneity - being able to go for halloumi fries or a coffee with a friend just because we wanted to.

I miss the thrill of various things - meeting someone new, the hug from a loved one, having that perfect meal, browsing and feeling the weight of various books.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugs! Oh to hug my family and friends....I'll probably cry with joy and relief when it finally happens.

Going for lunch

Lazy days in bed with a lover

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being out in the countryside..

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"People, and doing fun things"

In a nutshell.

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By *herry OnatopWoman
over a year ago

Just over there

I miss people, drinking and dancing, flirting and teasing, squeezing through bodies to the bar, chatting to strangers, road trips, the smell of hotels and my friends! Miss them the most

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I miss the joys of commuting, of working in a busy office, the pressurised but fun environment.

I miss spontaneity - being able to go for halloumi fries or a coffee with a friend just because we wanted to.

I miss the thrill of various things - meeting someone new, the hug from a loved one, having that perfect meal, browsing and feeling the weight of various books. "

Oh I want halloumi fries now

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

I miss being free to do what I want. To go where I want, when I want. And to stay home because I want to, not because I have to or because I'm scared going out could kill my loved ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taking my kids swimming, it's the only thing they've really missed doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too much to mention! My life as it was I miss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socialising. I want to have people round for BBQ's, get pissed and sit on the decking at 3am discussing the meaning of life.

Other than that my life's not been massively affected, I've been lucky that work's continued and, with work, I've still been allowed to be out and about.

I dread to think the state I'd be in if I was stuck indoors all the time though. I've a lot of respect for anyone who's done that and made it through this mess!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wearing glasses without them being constantly steamed up by also wearing a mask."

And also this, 1000 times this!!

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

Getting up to the lakes, Sailing, Swimming & travelling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends and family in person, I've had enough of zoom and phonecards.

Socialising and eating out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phonecalls ^

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By *icboobs26Woman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Taking my kids swimming, it's the only thing they've really missed doing. "

With you on this definitely. My little one was just thriving at swimming and was really good for her age. Now no lessons in over a year and no just fun swims either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being with people without asking for money. The closest I get is talking to a customer And it’s mostly about work.

I just miss seeing people enjoy life, I miss, missing opportunities for a whole year. I miss planning trips, shopping eating out, sports So much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss seeing my Mum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.

Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.

Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves. "

it takes a shock to open people’s eyes sometimes.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Yes people ! I miss people , friends, family , get together , socialising , hugging .... I also miss glorious sex and dare I say it ... work

In that order

I'm sure after a week of being back at work I'll change my mind - but I miss going to work too

I need to be busy and around other people.

This endless Groundhog Day on my own is really starting to get to me now

I’m giving myself 2 weeks before I start moaning that I’m too old for this shit .., currently I’m exited at the prospect , been bombarding my boss with ideas for when we open up .

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

The sound of the children in the playground of the school near me.

It used to remind me of being a happy care-free child.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.

Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves. "

I said that at the beginning when people were complaining on Facebook. Now they know how disabled and old people who can't get out feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Taking my kids swimming, it's the only thing they've really missed doing.

With you on this definitely. My little one was just thriving at swimming and was really good for her age. Now no lessons in over a year and no just fun swims either. "

My eldest was the same, was really good at it and the youngest should've started his lessons both love being in the water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children. A year without them. My first Christmas completely alone was awful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.

Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves. "

I saw the comment and knew it was you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missed being connected to humanity n society on a personal level not just through tinternet, missed those ramdom conversations u have with total strangers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.

Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves.

it takes a shock to open people’s eyes sometimes. "

It does - people rarely care unless it directly affects them or someone they love.

It's definitely an eye opener.

I quite liked it in the beginning - especially as I'm not really a people person

But the solitude is getting to me now.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Seeing and spending time with family and friends, it’s been 7 months and a year, respectively since we have.

There are still a few months to go until it can happen, however it’s now nearer to that point than the time already spent apart and the time will fly by.

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Travelling, we went from being out of the country most of the time to being here all of the time.

Although that’s just what we miss, as opposed to anything critical. We’re both safe and healthy and life is good.

It’s just a lifestyle hit that makes us a little bored, as opposed to some of the real shit people are going through.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

going to gym, dressing up and going for drinks with friends, loads and loads of hugs and kisses, go to shops and try clothes that I won’t buy, meet strangers whenever and however I want , not have to wear mask when out, getting massages when I need, going beauty salons when I want.... list is long my friend ,list is long

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I miss my work/play balance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't miss anything. Lockdown can carry on forever. I like that people are trapped and miserable.

Some people are trapped all the time but no-one ever gave a shit until they were affected themselves.

I saw the comment and knew it was you "

I should just fuck off and die.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing

this is just the same day as the last 14 years

thats living with mental illness for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss being able to bring the kids to Soft Play centers and having a peaceful cup of coffee!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to take my daughter away. We love our little trips.

And seeing people laughing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seeing family, meals out, strangely not really missing the gym... eventhough my body says otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a specific thing but just miss the feeling of not having to think about 'the other' thing

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Flirting. I may just have forgotten how

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Being able to do things without having to stop and think about them and whether they are "allowed" first "

This.

I cut my own hair, don't care much for the pub, travelled mainly to visit clubs so lockdown hasn’t affected what I do that much outside of now having to think about what I am going to do and if I will get fined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Little touches. Not even kisses or hugs or sex. But talking to a friend and giving her a rub on the shoulder when she is down.. high fives with friends kids when they share something they are proud of.

Stuff like that.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Oh, so many things

but I'm already feeling glum because I'm missing someone terribly, so I'm trying to focus on happy and positive things

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By *edeWoman
over a year ago

the abyss

Hugging my parents

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hugging my parents

I've missed that so much since they died. Especially my mom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I miss been able to catch a bus without a mask on and go where ever I want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Freedom, the ability to live life as I wish, my friends and family, eating out, being sociable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socialising going out and having a good time without worrying, normality...

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

Going out, meet people, a friendly smile without a mask, a hug and a kiss

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By *randmrsc30Couple
over a year ago

East Riding

I miss felling sexy and having my own identity right now I’m just mum and cook, clean and drive people where they need to be. I used to really enjoy getting dressed up, make up on and just being myself when the school run was done. I don’t see the point of it all now and could cry most days. I was in really poorly in hospital with Covid so I understand the severity but this loneliness and depressed feeling is worse than that was.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I miss walking around a shop without sweat dripping down my face from breathing on it.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I miss Hugs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Oh, so many things

but I'm already feeling glum because I'm missing someone terribly, so I'm trying to focus on happy and positive things "

Sending you a hug, I hope focusing on the positive and happy works for you.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

"Oh, so many things

but I'm already feeling glum because I'm missing someone terribly, so I'm trying to focus on happy and positive things

Sending you a hug, I hope focusing on the positive and happy works for you. "

Thank you...can it be a really long hug where I lay my head on your breasticles and you stroke my hair please?

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I miss my freinds

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By *an4funMan
over a year ago

london

"Ravin... Nothing beats being on that dance floor, 1000s of others around you, feeling the base running through your body.. Oh yes.. Get me on that dance floor. "

I hear you!

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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago

Away with the faeries

"Ravin... Nothing beats being on that dance floor, 1000s of others around you, feeling the base running through your body.. Oh yes.. Get me on that dance floor.

I hear you!"

And live music..gigs. Having access online to live streams is quite different to being amongst it and in the thick of everyone feeling the vibes together.

It's electric when it's good and I can't wait for it all to come back.

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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago

Away with the faeries

"I’ve woken up in a bit of a melancholic mood today and suddenly found myself missing a lot of the big and small things that I haven’t been able to do in this past year.

I think that in some ways it’s become something that I haven’t thought about, as a way of stopping myself from feeling this?

So dear fabbers, what do you miss, beyond the simple ‘meeting for sex’? "

What are you missing, Mr Monkey?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Oh, so many things

but I'm already feeling glum because I'm missing someone terribly, so I'm trying to focus on happy and positive things

Sending you a hug, I hope focusing on the positive and happy works for you.

Thank you...can it be a really long hug where I lay my head on your breasticles and you stroke my hair please?

Anything for you Lily you beautiful woman. My breasticles are perfect for comforting hugs.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Most of all I miss people. I miss being able to sit & chat & drink coffee (or wine) with my friends. I miss spontaneity, being able to hop in the car & drive to the beach for a walk, or to go out to a restaurant for lunch, or meet up with friends. I miss being able to just do things without having to think so much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Holidays and 1 night stands.

Did manage to get away twice during the ease in sept / oct

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The dappled fields I used to run that are now concreted over and are sold off to the highest bidder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Traveling mostly

Love to.have femal or couple company to travole with in the future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Naked cuddles with Pink

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