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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Question:

I messaged someone earlier this evening but I now can't see the message in my sent folder. If I hit the message button I get the "you've messaged and they haven't responded". Do you think I've just hit the delete button by accident? Why is there no recycle bin?

If I have hit the delete button without realising how does that look to the person I messaged

Opinions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The person youve messaged wont know youve deleted whats been sent.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You won't have deleted it their end, just your own

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You won't have deleted it their end, just your own "

True, but won't it show as deleted? Or does it only get marked "deleted" in the sent folder?

Thank you for the pointer

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The person youve messaged wont know youve deleted whats been sent. "

Cool thanks you

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You won't have deleted it their end, just your own

True, but won't it show as deleted? Or does it only get marked "deleted" in the sent folder?

Thank you for the pointer "

Only gets marked deleted in the sent folder - it's why perceived wisdom for those that bemoan messages being deleted unread is to delete their sent box so they never know unless they get a reply

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You won't have deleted it their end, just your own

True, but won't it show as deleted? Or does it only get marked "deleted" in the sent folder?

Thank you for the pointer

Only gets marked deleted in the sent folder - it's why perceived wisdom for those that bemoan messages being deleted unread is to delete their sent box so they never know unless they get a reply"

Cool, good point and an interesting way to handle rejection etc etc

I just didn't want to appear rude, I might anyhow, but I've learnt something this evening, thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anything just send a disclaimer message that you deleted the message thread accidentally. Doesnt explain what the gig is if its disappeared randomly though.

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By *ickJMan
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

At first, I didn't realise that the delete button was there, and clicked it accidentally when trying to open a message (it was the first one I'd received from a woman).

By the time I'd undeleted it and written a reply, she'd obviously seen I'd deleted it without reading and blocked me, so I couldn't send it.

I did wonder about the "could have been" for a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At first, I didn't realise that the delete button was there, and clicked it accidentally when trying to open a message (it was the first one I'd received from a woman).

By the time I'd undeleted it and written a reply, she'd obviously seen I'd deleted it without reading and blocked me, so I couldn't send it.

I did wonder about the "could have been" for a bit."

Oh nooo! (maybe she’s on the forum and will see this?)

... tbf it’s really easily done - just one light tap and it’s gone

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood


"At first, I didn't realise that the delete button was there, and clicked it accidentally when trying to open a message (it was the first one I'd received from a woman).

By the time I'd undeleted it and written a reply, she'd obviously seen I'd deleted it without reading and blocked me, so I couldn't send it.

I did wonder about the "could have been" for a bit.

Oh nooo! (maybe she’s on the forum and will see this?)

... tbf it’s really easily done - just one light tap and it’s gone "

Is you talking Terry's chocolate orange?

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