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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution?

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

I always think what if they got the sizes wrong? Could be a bit awks

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Are they offering you to buy you gifts because they want to show their affection towards you or because they expect something in return, would accepting the gift make you feel as though you are expected to give them something in return?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think what if they got the sizes wrong? Could be a bit awks "

What if they want them back after being used

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I would imagine that a gift comes with strings attached, not just labels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had offers to buy me things. Funnily enough when accepted, they wanted to force a wank chat about the whole thing, and then disappeared.

I don’t think there would be any harm if that’s their fantasy, but like meeting, a lot of guys jerk off at the idea, but don’t intend to follow through x

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Never been offered to buy clothes by anyone on here. Generally asked to go to hotels and they’ll pay for the room. I turn them down as I don’t want them thinking in anyway that they’ve ‘bought’ me for a few hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im always dubious about these offers.. Not many people out there that dont want something in return.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah had this a few times also, been told to make a wishlist and stuff like that aswell.

Just really not my thing, feels to me a bit like begging or taking advantage really and it's just makes me uncomfortable when people offer

On the flip side though I wouldnt have an issue with taking money off a guy for shag, seems much more a like a transaction to me

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By *avana_oh_na_naWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution? "

I've had gifts bought for me before, actually the white lingerie in my pic was a gift so I've No problem receiving things if the person wants to give. I would generally ignore people who come straight out and offer things because its mostly bull*hit but if you've been talking to them for a bit and they suggest it, why not?

What I would say though is before accepting anything always have a conversation about what the expectations are, if youre happy with them go ahead, if not politely decline.

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By *rC onlyMan
over a year ago

town

Slippery slope to getting banned off here !

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I don't think Fab is the place for it.

I've bought and had things bought for me, but after a friendship has developed and in line with that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always think what if they got the sizes wrong? Could be a bit awks "

ask them for a check instead.lol you can pick yourself what you like

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By *lacklovingwomanWoman
over a year ago

St. Neots

Have no problems with it.

They normally want me to wear the item just for a photo

Any gifts would be gratefully recieved, hehe xx

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom


"I have had offers to buy me things. Funnily enough when accepted, they wanted to force a wank chat about the whole thing, and then disappeared.

I don’t think there would be any harm if that’s their fantasy, but like meeting, a lot of guys jerk off at the idea, but don’t intend to follow through x"

Yeah I agree, I’ve had offers but haven’t taken them seriously and I get that there’s a turn on for it but it’s when it comes with orders and request that make you feel uncomfortable then that’s where it crosses the line.

I kinda like the idea of being dressed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had offers on here, never ever accepted.

Wouldn't say no to a shopping trip if I was buying myself things and he was buying lunch and drinks ...

I can be bought with food

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I never accept. Could be handy as i live off a tight budget. I have had offers from joiners, gardeners, electricians, painters and builders to mention a few. My house would be like a palace if i took up the offers but i would rather save my pennies for the work that needs done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had offers of lingerie to full paid shopping trips and never accepted... I'd highly doubt many of them are genuine anyway and if they were, I'd feel like I was being bought.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am happy to accept cash or gifts, sex would be even better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution? "

I just think it’s odd for a stranger to buy someone those kind of gifts. If a relationship exists then maybe small gifts etc is understandably more acceptable. Conversely, there are many statuses I see locally that ask for ‘sugar daddies’ or ‘need spoiling’. Makes my skin crawl the idea of using materialism to get closer to sex with someone. Maybe I’m just a prude

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution?

I just think it’s odd for a stranger to buy someone those kind of gifts. If a relationship exists then maybe small gifts etc is understandably more acceptable. Conversely, there are many statuses I see locally that ask for ‘sugar daddies’ or ‘need spoiling’. Makes my skin crawl the idea of using materialism to get closer to sex with someone. Maybe I’m just a prude "

Prude over here too.

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By *irmingham_Sissy_MaidTV/TS
over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

Usually they are guys having a wank whilst you discuss before never contacting you again. I’ve accepted gifts off one guy as he had very particular fantasies so I was more than happy to help with

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've had a few offers to buy us stuff, but we're not keen on them knowing our address.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London


"I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution?

I just think it’s odd for a stranger to buy someone those kind of gifts. If a relationship exists then maybe small gifts etc is understandably more acceptable. Conversely, there are many statuses I see locally that ask for ‘sugar daddies’ or ‘need spoiling’. Makes my skin crawl the idea of using materialism to get closer to sex with someone. Maybe I’m just a prude "

I've had lots of offers for trades in fitting my barge out, with the expectation of sex. Turned them all down, because been there, given sex first, then 'oh gotta go' and run off without doing the work. Would rather pay for genuine work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I had my single profile I got offers of shopping trips, weekend away and holidays but they were all told no thank you.

Did get cash offers too but that was an instant block.

I work a pay my own way.

Mrs KC

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had a few offers recently and in the past from men offering to buy me outfits undies heels etc I’ve always said thank you but no thanks as it seemed a bit cheeky! Should I have actually said yes please and taken gifts or is it a slippery slope towards prostitution?

I just think it’s odd for a stranger to buy someone those kind of gifts. If a relationship exists then maybe small gifts etc is understandably more acceptable. Conversely, there are many statuses I see locally that ask for ‘sugar daddies’ or ‘need spoiling’. Makes my skin crawl the idea of using materialism to get closer to sex with someone. Maybe I’m just a prude "

Nope I dont think you are tbh.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm too independent for that carry on, I'd much rather take pride in knowing I bought it myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had the offer of a lovehoney voucher....

Obviously I didn't accept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think it’s a slippery road to prostitution but it might make you feel you’re obliged to do something for them in return and I don’t like the thought of that

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I had someone keep upping the amount of a love honey voucher.... His ask was for one night with me... I obviously declined

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

It seems to be a regular occurrence..... I've had offers from buying me lingerie to taking me shopping for heels. I've never accepted as I'm not sure they are genuine.....and what do they want in return??

My old mum used to say "You don't get anything for nothing".

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