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"I find Michele Obama very inspiration" Agree. I'd go with any women behind any influential men. Those men wouldn't be there without their wives behind. | |||
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"Thanks for sharing so far. Wonder if I ever inspire anyone, do you? " Few men to wank over your pics I bet | |||
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"Thanks for sharing so far. Wonder if I ever inspire anyone, do you? Few men to wank over your pics I bet " Is this what you want me to read on IWD F&B? How empowering | |||
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"Thanks for sharing so far. Wonder if I ever inspire anyone, do you? Few men to wank over your pics I bet Is this what you want me to read on IWD F&B? How empowering " Not my finest moment I agree | |||
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"As it's 8th March and we celebrate International Women's Day today, I wanted to ask you all about women who had great influence on your life or you admired from afar and wished to be a bit like them... Happy #IWD2021 to all women and especially those identifying as women! As per this year's theme #chosetochallenge to Challenge old thinking, bias and inequality. Raise your hand and speak up. X" I was very fortunate to be surrounded by by women growing up. I have an incredible mother, 2 wonderful grandmother's and the numerous aunts and older cousins. They all taught me something different, and inspired me in different ways. I think the main thing I learnt from them was the confidence that I could do or be anything I put my mind too. I don't really have that same confidence anymore. I think I need to spend some time thinking more like them going forward again xx | |||
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"Thanks for sharing so far. Wonder if I ever inspire anyone, do you? " I have 2 girls, and some nieces and I hope I can say that I inspire them | |||
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"Happy International Women's Day, all! I find Jacinda Ardern very inspiring. There are so many women out there in politics (Diane Abbott has suffered so much abuse but continues her work in politics, Jo Cox too was a tenacious fighter for people), STEM (Katherine Johnson), the Arts (Bernadine Evangelista, Margaret Atwood, Tamara de Lempicka, I could go on and on but I won't!), etc, etc. For those of you who are interested, I came across many of these through the Mighty Girl website. Most inspiring on a day to day basis though, are my best friends, and my amazing mother, sister, aunts and cousins. " I love A Mighty Girl fb page | |||
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"I find Michele Obama very inspiration Agree. I'd go with any women behind any influential men. Those men wouldn't be there without their wives behind. " And those wives didn't support those husbands for the good of anyone but themselves...... Right on Ivana ! | |||
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"Surely Linda Lovelace must be an inspiration to all. Clearly demonstrating that being a cock sucking slut is totally acceptable and more ladies should embrace their sexuality and seek to get all holes filled at once without embarrassment. " That sentiment is the same as the songs being laid down as suitable for international women's day on the songs for international women's day thread. Getting a cock stuffed down your throat and saying it emancipates you because you allow it feeds into and supports patriarchal ideologies. | |||
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"Surely Linda Lovelace must be an inspiration to all. Clearly demonstrating that being a cock sucking slut is totally acceptable and more ladies should embrace their sexuality and seek to get all holes filled at once without embarrassment. " Even if this is a joke, this is quite insulting. If you consider a porn star to be empowering then you’ve a lot to learn. Porn is the height of patriarchal sexual gaze and perpetuates women as objects and dehumanises them. Claiming them to be positive models of powerful women is symptomatic of an outmoded thought process | |||
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"@Linda Lovelace comment.. as I don't want to reply and quote.. * * * It's all wrong. "MUST be an inspiration to all" is where it all stops making sense. Or it does. I won't be told what kind of woman I should be. Have a good day. " Well said | |||
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"Surely Linda Lovelace must be an inspiration to all. Clearly demonstrating that being a cock sucking slut is totally acceptable and more ladies should embrace their sexuality and seek to get all holes filled at once without embarrassment. " Totally acceptable?? Oh thats good to know | |||
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"Two women to mention in the current climate: Sarah Gilbert, who led the team which developed the Oxford vaccine. Kate Bingham, who organised UK procurement of Covid vaccines which has led to the highest vaccination rate in Europe. When we return to normal life we will all owe a huge debt to these two. " | |||
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"Two women to mention in the current climate: Sarah Gilbert, who led the team which developed the Oxford vaccine. Kate Bingham, who organised UK procurement of Covid vaccines which has led to the highest vaccination rate in Europe. When we return to normal life we will all owe a huge debt to these two. " I was just reading about Sarah Gilbert this morning! Great call. On that note I'm so pleased that men commented too. | |||
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"Surely Linda Lovelace must be an inspiration to all. Clearly demonstrating that being a cock sucking slut is totally acceptable and more ladies should embrace their sexuality and seek to get all holes filled at once without embarrassment. " If she wanted to become a porn star* and went out and became one despite all the stigma against it then I would say that strength could be inspirational, even if I don't agree with her career choice. *with what I know about the porn industry, I highly doubt this but I'm trying to give the benefit of the doubt here. Your post is not worded very well and I'm sure many men share that view which is yet another reason why this day is still needed in such a male dominated world. I am very thankful to the men on here who have contributed well thought out posts that show their support xx | |||
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"Rachael from the forums She is bloody amazing" I’m honoured and blown away to be mentioned on the same thread as Michelle Obama. | |||
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"Surely Linda Lovelace must be an inspiration to all. Clearly demonstrating that being a cock sucking slut is totally acceptable and more ladies should embrace their sexuality and seek to get all holes filled at once without embarrassment. Even if this is a joke, this is quite insulting. If you consider a porn star to be empowering then you’ve a lot to learn. Porn is the height of patriarchal sexual gaze and perpetuates women as objects and dehumanises them. Claiming them to be positive models of powerful women is symptomatic of an outmoded thought process " Is it though? Is that true also of porn made by women for women? Is it true of all porn? Can something just be what it is without any hidden subtext and commentary on society? I'm not taking a position either way but suspect like most points it's not binary. All of the music videos of semi naked sluts twerking their way to dollars and celebrity adoration? All of the prettylittlething / boohoo / nastygal (other websites are available) of open legged barely clothed womenchild are aimed at the patriarchal society or the girls who are going to spend their money? Isn't it considerably more complex than saying porn is for men and therefore bad.? | |||
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"Surely Linda Lovelace must be an inspiration to all. Clearly demonstrating that being a cock sucking slut is totally acceptable and more ladies should embrace their sexuality and seek to get all holes filled at once without embarrassment. Even if this is a joke, this is quite insulting. If you consider a porn star to be empowering then you’ve a lot to learn. Porn is the height of patriarchal sexual gaze and perpetuates women as objects and dehumanises them. Claiming them to be positive models of powerful women is symptomatic of an outmoded thought process Is it though? Is that true also of porn made by women for women? Is it true of all porn? Can something just be what it is without any hidden subtext and commentary on society? I'm not taking a position either way but suspect like most points it's not binary. All of the music videos of semi naked sluts twerking their way to dollars and celebrity adoration? All of the prettylittlething / boohoo / nastygal (other websites are available) of open legged barely clothed womenchild are aimed at the patriarchal society or the girls who are going to spend their money? Isn't it considerably more complex than saying porn is for men and therefore bad.? " No one said that. | |||
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"Surely Linda Lovelace must be an inspiration to all. Clearly demonstrating that being a cock sucking slut is totally acceptable and more ladies should embrace their sexuality and seek to get all holes filled at once without embarrassment. " Linda Lovelace’s partner forced her into it and subjected her to horrendous abuse. I get no inspiration from her tragic tale only the fact she was brave enough to come out with her truth. | |||
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"I find Michele Obama very inspiration Agree. I'd go with any women behind any influential men. Those men wouldn't be there without their wives behind. And those wives didn't support those husbands for the good of anyone but themselves...... Right on Ivana !" Ivana is the example for all of you | |||
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"Porn is the height of patriarchal sexual gaze and perpetuates women as objects and dehumanises them. Claiming them to be positive models of powerful women is symptomatic of an outmoded thought process " Is this a synopsis for an undergrad sociology thesis? | |||
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"Surely Linda Lovelace must be an inspiration to all. Clearly demonstrating that being a cock sucking slut is totally acceptable and more ladies should embrace their sexuality and seek to get all holes filled at once without embarrassment. Even if this is a joke, this is quite insulting. If you consider a porn star to be empowering then you’ve a lot to learn. Porn is the height of patriarchal sexual gaze and perpetuates women as objects and dehumanises them. Claiming them to be positive models of powerful women is symptomatic of an outmoded thought process Is it though? Is that true also of porn made by women for women? Is it true of all porn? Can something just be what it is without any hidden subtext and commentary on society? I'm not taking a position either way but suspect like most points it's not binary. All of the music videos of semi naked sluts twerking their way to dollars and celebrity adoration? All of the prettylittlething / boohoo / nastygal (other websites are available) of open legged barely clothed womenchild are aimed at the patriarchal society or the girls who are going to spend their money? Isn't it considerably more complex than saying porn is for men and therefore bad.? " I find it interesting that if all the women responding to this post and commenting about porn, you chose to respond to the one man that answered. I also find it interesting that you equate music videos with porn. If you can’t tell the difference between a woman exhibiting herself sexually as an expression of herself for consumption by all genders and porn where a woman is a warm wet hole for a man to use, then there’s not much point in discussing this. I also didn’t say that all porn is bad | |||
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"Surely Linda Lovelace must be an inspiration to all. Clearly demonstrating that being a cock sucking slut is totally acceptable and more ladies should embrace their sexuality and seek to get all holes filled at once without embarrassment. Even if this is a joke, this is quite insulting. If you consider a porn star to be empowering then you’ve a lot to learn. Porn is the height of patriarchal sexual gaze and perpetuates women as objects and dehumanises them. Claiming them to be positive models of powerful women is symptomatic of an outmoded thought process Is it though? Is that true also of porn made by women for women? Is it true of all porn? Can something just be what it is without any hidden subtext and commentary on society? I'm not taking a position either way but suspect like most points it's not binary. All of the music videos of semi naked sluts twerking their way to dollars and celebrity adoration? All of the prettylittlething / boohoo / nastygal (other websites are available) of open legged barely clothed womenchild are aimed at the patriarchal society or the girls who are going to spend their money? Isn't it considerably more complex than saying porn is for men and therefore bad.? I find it interesting that if all the women responding to this post and commenting about porn, you chose to respond to the one man that answered. I also find it interesting that you equate music videos with porn. If you can’t tell the difference between a woman exhibiting herself sexually as an expression of herself for consumption by all genders and porn where a woman is a warm wet hole for a man to use, then there’s not much point in discussing this. I also didn’t say that all porn is bad" I’m going to leave this discussion here as this isn’t the thread for this and is just going to derail it. If anyone wants to discuss women’s representation in porn, then start a thread | |||
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"Women who have inspired me that I don't know. As my username suggests Frida Kahlo, I've found her story empowering. And being a scientist Marie Curie, and a pointless fact is that I defended my PhD thesis the same day as her " I'm assuming it was a conscious choice of a date? | |||
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" If anyone wants to discuss women’s representation in porn, then start a thread" This please.. ^ and thanks. | |||
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"The women who influenced me the most were the ones who showed me the pathway to deal with my weaknesses and how to bring my strengths to light and for benefit of others. It probably started with my Grandmother who took on a role of my mother. How she showed me the way to heart with her wholesome food and cakes, how she always tried to remain the one in the family who keeps hands on the pulse, giving her just but sometimes harsh opinions. It was needed thought.. being challened. We do not have an easy relationship as she was always fond of criticism fueling ambition approach, rather than praise and loving "you are good enough". But we made the best of it in very hard circumstances for us both. She had a harsh life, loved learning but had to drop out of school to help with her father's work as eldest daughter and her mother passing away when she was just 20 and newly married and younger siblings to look after. But she coped brilliantly. I wish i had half of her energy and stamina at any given age. I'm lucky to still have her around. My primary school teacher. She had my class under her wings for 4 years and i can say i have never meet anyone who would speak of their subject, which was History, with so much passion and fire. It was never a dull experience and she always set the bar high. No favouritism at all. Everyone had same chances. All the lessons we have learnt from her and how she brought us together during many escapades we had, will always stay with me. There was a time where I was playing a host during a fashion show for the school event. I made a mistake when speaking and I admitted. After she came to came and something you wouldn't expect happened. She wouldn't coddle me up and say don't worry, mistakes happen. She said firmly but not coldly.. Next time when you make a mistake like that, there is no need to admit it. Nobody wouldn't know otherwise as you wrote the script, so remember you own it. That was astounding. And her faith into us. We were always expected to be responsible and deal with difficult choices in almost adult manner. We thought she was harsh but when we met years later for reunion we all cried finding out she passed away from liver cancer. As adults we realised she always wanted us to fight for a better future, but keep up with traditions and that she believed in every single one of us. That we can do better. That's it for now.. but there will be more when I collect myself together. " They are lovely examples Rose | |||
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"Has to be any one of my teachers from school tbh: Mrs Low that hit me on the head with a blackboard rubber. Tall with a killer pair of legs. Miss. Hathaway, French teacher. Very sexy accent. Or, a lecturer from Uni that wore grey stockings/tights that since, I've never seen another lady carry off the look. Incredible figure. Or, the stand in PHD student, Marina, (Morris to her friends) who every time she turned around, we could all see the knot at the top of her thong. At least that was our best guess." Have any women inspired you in any way that doesn't involve them as sexual beings? I actually find this quite distasteful on IWD. | |||
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"Has to be any one of my teachers from school tbh: Mrs Low that hit me on the head with a blackboard rubber. Tall with a killer pair of legs. Miss. Hathaway, French teacher. Very sexy accent. Or, a lecturer from Uni that wore grey stockings/tights that since, I've never seen another lady carry off the look. Incredible figure. Or, the stand in PHD student, Marina, (Morris to her friends) who every time she turned around, we could all see the knot at the top of her thong. At least that was our best guess. Have any women inspired you in any way that doesn't involve them as sexual beings? I actually find this quite distasteful on IWD. " | |||
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"Has to be any one of my teachers from school tbh: Mrs Low that hit me on the head with a blackboard rubber. Tall with a killer pair of legs. Miss. Hathaway, French teacher. Very sexy accent. Or, a lecturer from Uni that wore grey stockings/tights that since, I've never seen another lady carry off the look. Incredible figure. Or, the stand in PHD student, Marina, (Morris to her friends) who every time she turned around, we could all see the knot at the top of her thong. At least that was our best guess. Have any women inspired you in any way that doesn't involve them as sexual beings? I actually find this quite distasteful on IWD. " | |||
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"Can I add Matilda? Know she's not real but she's amazing " Haha same for me with my childhood heroes.. Anne Shirley and Polyanna. | |||
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"Can I add Matilda? Know she's not real but she's amazing Haha same for me with my childhood heroes.. Anne Shirley and Polyanna. " I love Pollyanna was my favourite book as a child | |||
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"Can I add Matilda? Know she's not real but she's amazing Haha same for me with my childhood heroes.. Anne Shirley and Polyanna. I love Pollyanna was my favourite book as a child " so much wisdom in a little girl eh? | |||
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"Has to be any one of my teachers from school tbh: Mrs Low that hit me on the head with a blackboard rubber. Tall with a killer pair of legs. Miss. Hathaway, French teacher. Very sexy accent. Or, a lecturer from Uni that wore grey stockings/tights that since, I've never seen another lady carry off the look. Incredible figure. Or, the stand in PHD student, Marina, (Morris to her friends) who every time she turned around, we could all see the knot at the top of her thong. At least that was our best guess. Have any women inspired you in any way that doesn't involve them as sexual beings? I actually find this quite distasteful on IWD. " I find it a bit sad | |||
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