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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you only socialise with someone you would get all sexy with, or are you actually social like you say on your profile

I tend to assume (I know) that women would be more likely to go for a coffee and natter with others on here.

And my assumption (again, I know) would be that guys wouldn’t want a beer with other men that are hunting the same prey they are.

Am I right? Wrong?

Are there other assumptions you found to be true or false for the time you have been here?

Discus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur completely right!!

Men enjoy a beer with another man.... while women enjoy a coffee and natter with another woman.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

There are a few guys here that I'd happily meet for a beer and a chat and nothing more (despite my bisexuality) - but then I don't view the site as a competition, or "fishing in the same pond".

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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‘Hunting the same prey’ MB

I love a coffee and a natter without any sexual agenda. I’m not sure about the men folk though. I do know of men meeting for a catch up - it does happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are a few guys here that I'd happily meet for a beer and a chat and nothing more (despite my bisexuality) - but then I don't view the site as a competition, or "fishing in the same pond".

Same. You included.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"‘Hunting the same prey’ MB

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I don’t hunt,....i scare them away too easily. Stepping on branches ...they can hear me coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a social old soul!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Assumptions that Swingers fuck anyone who asks: mostly false.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I am very social and used to quite happily chat and meet with men and women for just cup of tea socials when I had a free morning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Assumptions that Swingers fuck anyone who asks: mostly false."

Did you have to send many messages to find this out?

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"‘Hunting the same prey’ MB

I don’t hunt,....i scare them away too easily. Stepping on branches ...they can hear me coming. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Assumptions that Swingers fuck anyone who asks: mostly false.

Did you have to send many messages to find this out? "

Thousands!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Assumptions that Swingers fuck anyone who asks: mostly false.

Did you have to send many messages to find this out?

Thousands! "

We bulk delete. Sorry

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I have found that men on here aren't friends with other men in the same way women are - not saying they don't have friends but it doesn't happen often in the same way.

All married folk are the devil incarnate - not true.

Single men are grateful horn dogs for any bone of attention - again, not true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind bromance at all and quote encourage it if the guy drives a Kia.

So hit me up if you drive a Peugeot kango

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have found that men on here aren't friends with other men in the same way women are - not saying they don't have friends but it doesn't happen often in the same way.

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Similar findings. I read the “fab lies” thread and realised that most of it creates an assumption for the future. I try not to, but is still does.

This ^ was one of them.

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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago

Sunderland

I miss a coffee with my fab bestie

Lex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I miss a coffee with my fab bestie

Lex"

Be patient we are allowed to all play out soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have found that men on here aren't friends with other men in the same way women are - not saying they don't have friends but it doesn't happen often in the same way.

All married folk are the devil incarnate - not true.

Single men are grateful horn dogs for any bone of attention - again, not true."

Not all men

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I don't plan on meeting anybody simply based on gender or sexual preference. I have shown affection to male friends who where simply friends and have shown affection and caring for female friends as equaly. I have went out with anybody just to have some company and a meal without any intent or espectation of anything other then the company of someone I like and respect.

My attraction for somecody goes beyond the itching of my penis.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of men on here will tell you that they only want to meet for a social.Truth is they would all bend you over the table in Starbucks given the opportunity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of men on here will tell you that they only want to meet for a social.Truth is they would all bend you over the table in Starbucks given the opportunity "

I would.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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"I don't plan on meeting anybody simply based on gender or sexual preference. I have shown affection to male friends who where simply friends and have shown affection and caring for female friends as equaly. I have went out with anybody just to have some company and a meal without any intent or espectation of anything other then the company of someone I like and respect.

My attraction for somecody goes beyond the itching of my penis."

You have an itchy penis?

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Do you only socialise with someone you would get all sexy with, or are you actually social like you say on your profile

I tend to assume (I know) that women would be more likely to go for a coffee and natter with others on here.

And my assumption (again, I know) would be that guys wouldn’t want a beer with other men that are hunting the same prey they are.

Am I right? Wrong?

Are there other assumptions you found to be true or false for the time you have been here?

Discus. "

I think you might also be assuming that everyone is straight! I only go for socials with people I’m thinking of getting sexy with, but that doesn’t limit me to any one gender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more attracted to women than men, so I guess that might turn the assumption around.

But I'm just as happy to meet anyone I get on with for a social, whether I'm into them sexualy or not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Assume makes an ass out of u and me eh?

Also if you don’t meet them how would you know you would bend them over? (Answering something above)

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