FabSwingers.com forum: Are you romantic

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well are you one for flowers or perfume, or something else, what is your romantic thing

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We are both not romantic at all

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

Under the tight circumstances, I am, yes. Doesn't count for much though :/

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Yes x

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I just shag her up the arse on her birthday, then buy her a half of lager on Valentine's Day, that seems to do the trick. I've had no complaints

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not the hearts and flowers romantic type really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a hopples romantic

Flower chocolate candle light dinners

Hart shaped fariy lights shaped in to a hart laying on the bed

Bath run with candles and favourite music while in the bath cook dinner

Off for a candle light meal then rose petles layed out leading to the bed room

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Not the hearts and flowers romantic type really."

Not even for me?

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I'm not sure, I like flowers, chocolates, etc. but as for the whole romantic idea of love and happy ever after? I'm very jaded about that.

What about you, OP? Do you consider yourself romantic?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not sure, I like flowers, chocolates, etc. but as for the whole romantic idea of love and happy ever after? I'm very jaded about that.

What about you, OP? Do you consider yourself romantic?"

Good job I kept the receipt for the ring I secretly bought you...

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"What about you, OP? Do you consider yourself romantic?"

He's got every Mills & Boon novel known to mankind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm romantic!

Id love to shower a nice girl with gifts n hold doors open for her...n take her out for lunch or dinner... cinema also!

N romantic walks too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very romantic. Poetry, small gestures, little tokens and gifts.

For me I live and breathe romance in a world where its almost dying out.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I'm not sure, I like flowers, chocolates, etc. but as for the whole romantic idea of love and happy ever after? I'm very jaded about that.

What about you, OP? Do you consider yourself romantic?

Good job I kept the receipt for the ring I secretly bought you...

Aw, ThunderBotty

How adorable are you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I like romantic settings but not flowers and chocolate etc.

I don't want to go to Paris or Venice though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Romance really doesn’t sit well with me, really not into overly mushy gestures. I can handle giving and receiving a back rub after sex that’s about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just shag her up the arse on her birthday, then buy her a half of lager on Valentine's Day, that seems to do the trick. I've had no complaints

Haha you sound a top bloke

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like romantic settings but not flowers and chocolate etc.

I don't want to go to Paris or Venice though.

Romantic settings and places definitely.

Waterfalls & moonlight.

Spring flowers on a sunny day.

Poetry & passion.

I have yet to travel to Venice, but it is somewhere I would like to go in the future.

Gondolas & Cornettos!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm not traditionally romantic, my version of romance is puns, inside jokes and small acts of appreciation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest! Never have been and really can't see it happening ever but there again I've also never dated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like a bit of old fashioned romance and I don't believe it need be attached to love. Little gestures, surrounding and effort all make such a difference, least they do to me.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that I am but I think that a lot of people have different connotations of what romance is.

To my mind, romance is small acts of thought, kindness and love, spending time together and prioritising their interests. Showing my partner that they’re in my head and heart.

It’s not about large purchases, flowers all the time or that sort of thing. Firstly that shows little thought, just financial outlay, secondly, that always seems to be the reserve of men and is rarely, if ever, reciprocated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are flowers and perfume 'romantic' or just a bit cliché?

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

Love a bit of romance from hubby x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I don't think I am particularly romantic - I show I care about others through quality time, remembering little things about them and getting small gifts relating to that, words... I'm not one for the flowers and chocolates and champagne style of romance, I'd much rather someone took the time to pen me an old school handwritten letter. Or a haiku.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Yes, not just the big gesture but the small ones to and on a very deep level.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The small things mean a lot, a cup of tea in bed or remembering how I like my toast. Anything that shows he's thinking of me

Big gestures make me feel uncomfortable, like they are meant for everyone else to see and not necessarily for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I feel like it I bring the women I meet up behind Waitrose...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending who I am aiming my affection at.

Flowers for the girl who needs flowers... handcuffs for her who needs handcuffs...

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

Ours is romantic weekends away, we prefer to spend money on quality time together than buying pressies throughout the month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The small things mean a lot, a cup of tea in bed or remembering how I like my toast. Anything that shows he's thinking of me

Big gestures make me feel uncomfortable, like they are meant for everyone else to see and not necessarily for me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm about as romantic as getting domestos in your eyes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not romantic, but if someone were to spoil me, but preference would be a weekend away rather than flowers or gifts

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I love romance, not that I’ve ever really experienced it. I’ve been romantic but fallen on deaf ears.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

I don't know what you think romance is.

I enjoy candlelight. I enjoy dining out. I enjoy sweet treats, flowers in the ground and I enjoy wine.

I don't think any of that constitutes romance or being romantic.

I can do all of the above with my children, a friend or a colleague or if push comes to shove , a total stranger.

Romance is so much more.

Am I ordinarily on a day to day basis ? No. I'm pragmatic. Am I at the right moment with the right person? Yes I have been.

Can ONE person be romantic and the other not ? Under my definition ...... NO. Romance would not be taking place if it's felt by only one.

Is it possible to romance in other areas of life other than human relationships...... of course it is.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"I love romance, not that I’ve ever really experienced it. I’ve been romantic but fallen on deaf ears."

Clearly understood

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"I think that I am but I think that a lot of people have different connotations of what romance is.

To my mind, romance is small acts of thought, kindness and love, spending time together and prioritising their interests. Showing my partner that they’re in my head and heart.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"The small things mean a lot, a cup of tea in bed or remembering how I like my toast. Anything that shows he's thinking of me

Big gestures make me feel uncomfortable, like they are meant for everyone else to see and not necessarily for me."

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

I love a bit of romance. Flowers, chocolates, hearts on messages, kisses everywhere, beautiful words. All of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can ONE person be romantic and the other not ? Under my definition ...... NO. Romance would not be taking place if it's felt by only one.

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Ever tried to hug someone in a bad mood? Be careful...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a bit of romance. Flowers, chocolates, hearts on messages, kisses everywhere, beautiful words. All of it

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

"I don't think I am particularly romantic - I show I care about others through quality time, remembering little things about them and getting small gifts relating to that, words... I'm not one for the flowers and chocolates and champagne style of romance, I'd much rather someone took the time to pen me an old school handwritten letter. Or a haiku. "

Good morning _eli

I send not romantic verse

I send heartfelt smiles

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

For all of the ladies saying that they love romance, do you reciprocate, act for act?

If your partner were to be ‘romantic’ in the manner of which you perceive, would you reciprocate in kind or accept and enjoy?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Can ONE person be romantic and the other not ? Under my definition ...... NO. Romance would not be taking place if it's felt by only one.

Ever tried to hug someone in a bad mood? Be careful...

You agree with what I said then.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Good morning _eli

I send not romantic verse

I send heartfelt smiles"

Aww good morning Granny! I feel thoroughly romanced now. Sending heartfelt smiles back to you.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

My husband always bought me flowers and often Surprised me with lovely gestures.

They were so very appreciated!.

But me well...I am wasn't good at reciprocating in the way of gestures.

He was thoughtful and imaginative.

I clearly was not.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

I love romance...... doesn’t have to be expensive.

Little things are the cutest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can ONE person be romantic and the other not ? Under my definition ...... NO. Romance would not be taking place if it's felt by only one.

Ever tried to hug someone in a bad mood? Be careful...

You agree with what I said then. "

Oh yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well are you one for flowers or perfume, or something else, what is your romantic thing

Hopelessly romantic. But gifts are not always romance. It’s all about thought and consideration. It’s the little things that get to me... those little messages out of the blue where someone tells you you’re on their mind. Those moments of I saw this and thought if you (however rude). Those acts that put you first doing something the other person doesn’t like.

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By *VineMan
over a year ago

London sometimes

I’m a proper romantic, I put her nighty down when I’m finished.

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By *s Verity VeneryWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

"For all of the ladies saying that they love romance, do you reciprocate, act for act?

If your partner were to be ‘romantic’ in the manner of which you perceive, would you reciprocate in kind or accept and enjoy? "

We are both equals and love spoiling each other. I've done it with a taker and yes it's not the same. It's a different feeling, a one sided pleasure, that could essentially turn into pleasing the other person only to gain my pleasure I get when seeing their reaction, its a thin line indeed and could turn toxic.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"I’m a proper romantic, I put her nighty down when I’m finished. "

Aww a true gent

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By *007ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Yes I am but need a few subtle signs that it's going to be appreciated.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I wouldn't say romantic is the word id use . I'm more loyal loving and caring on a day to day basis . If that's romantic then maybe .

I'm not overly one for buying flowers and stuff though no .

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I think that I am but I think that a lot of people have different connotations of what romance is.

To my mind, romance is small acts of thought, kindness and love, spending time together and prioritising their interests. Showing my partner that they’re in my head and heart.

You definitely are

It's the little things, like GC said I can go for a meal or a walk at sunset with anyone but looking after me when I'm unwell or buying me a new book because you know I'd love it is worth so much more.

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By *lint in the eye!Man
over a year ago

Lily Pad, Pond Lane

I like to think that I have been Romantic, affectionate etc

But if things are not reciprocated it seems a waste.

Can't wait for the Dating to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say yes, i am a total romantic. With small things though, im not into big lavish gifts(cant aford them) but little tokens, to remind someone how much you care.

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