FabSwingers.com forum: Wedding Day Blues

By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I still cringe when I think of my wedding day. Anybody else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I cringe when I think of your wedding day too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I should have walked away there and then x

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

No, not at either.

J x

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"I still cringe when I think of my wedding day. Anybody else? "

Why?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I still cringe when I think of my wedding day. Anybody else? "

Nope, it was a wonderful day.

We're still very happy.

I don't cringe at my first wedding either... it was what I wanted at the time.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Never had a wedding day and never intend to have one.

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

I still regret not having reached my wedding day.

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

Not at all. Would happily do it again, exactly as it was. One or 2 guests may be different now though.

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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I think it is a man thing to a degree, though. The day belongs to the woman. The man takes a back seat.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I think it is a man thing to a degree, though. The day belongs to the woman. The man takes a back seat. "

We planned our wedding together, we sat and made menus and place cards for the tables together, we enjoyed the day together and here we are, nearly 12 years later together and very much a unit. But then again, I wasn't bridezilla and had a very relaxed outlook on the whole thing.

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

No longer with my husband but was and still is the best day of my life

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

No. It was ages ago and a very quiet affair but not cringey at all.

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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

I wanted a quiet affair. Just the two of us and two witnesses down in Mexico. But she wanted her father to give her away... And that was when we started drawing lists up. And table plans. Who sits next to who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both my weddings were absolutely amazing celebrations. I would be mortified if my husband's thought of them as "cringe worthy". Are you still married Op? Does she know you hated it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh yes.

I cried all the way through mine because I didn't really want to do it.

No walking down the Isle in a beautiful dress to be met by the man I love for me.

I still dream that maybe one day I will though.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My wedding day makes me laugh.

I had a lovely dress too.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"My wedding day makes me laugh.

I had a lovely dress too."

And I was a size 12 back then.

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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Both my weddings were absolutely amazing celebrations. I would be mortified if my husband's thought of them as "cringe worthy". Are you still married Op? Does she know you hated it? "

No she did not know I hated it. And no we are not still married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Loved my wedding, we got married in a castle!

Real life fairytale for me.

Divorced now but it was still a great day x

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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Oh yes.

I cried all the way through mine because I didn't really want to do it.

No walking down the Isle in a beautiful dress to be met by the man I love for me.

I still dream that maybe one day I will though. "

Sounds like an odd affair

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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"My wedding day makes me laugh.

I had a lovely dress too.

And I was a size 12 back then."

You be once again size 12...

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By *ultry SuccubusTV/TS
over a year ago

London

"I still cringe when I think of my wedding day. Anybody else? "

I sometimes get nightmares about agreeing to getting married again.

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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Loved my wedding, we got married in a castle!

Real life fairytale for me.

Divorced now but it was still a great day x "

A castle in Teesside...?

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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Loved my wedding, we got married in a castle!

Real life fairytale for me.

Divorced now but it was still a great day x

A castle in Teesside...?"

We were married in St Mary's Church in Norton, near the Duck Pond...

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By *inks_apeyCouple
over a year ago

Staffordshire

I loved my wedding day would do it all again tomorrow if I could such a magical location an old Fort on the top of a cliff just beautiful

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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Oh yes.

I cried all the way through mine because I didn't really want to do it.

No walking down the Isle in a beautiful dress to be met by the man I love for me.

I still dream that maybe one day I will though. "

Who knows...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loved my wedding, we got married in a castle!

Real life fairytale for me.

Divorced now but it was still a great day x

A castle in Teesside...?"

No hahaha

I lived in Leicestershire back then x

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Nope! It was a great day. We may not be together but I’m sat with the stepdaughter I helped raise so much to be thankful for.

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By *reyya OP Man
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Nope! It was a great day. We may not be together but I’m sat with the stepdaughter I helped raise so much to be thankful for. "

Good...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which one?

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

"I still cringe when I think of my wedding day. Anybody else? "

Can I have my present back please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember thinking "Oh honey. That dress with those hips?"

Should have been a bit of a giveaway really!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cried on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a cracking wedding day

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I had a great day, over 300 in the church, massive reception after, it was a brilliant day

The last few years of the marriage was cringeworthy but the day itself was great

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Still waiting for mine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine was surprisingly ok considering I only wanted a teeny tiny wedding and ended up with 150 guests. I hate being the centre of attention, but my ex wanted everyone he knew there and he ground me down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wedding day was something like out of a carry on film. Beginning of November just a simple registry office job. But the Saturday we chose it was the same day they have the Christmas parade through the town. My ex-wife if you're stuck behind Santa Claus for over 35 minutes before a friendly policeman stop the traffic on the other side of the road and guide them into the car park. But as she passed Santa Claus and his band they decided to embarrass her buy playing here comes the bride and then return to the registry office and wait for us to exit after the wedding 4 photos in the local paper. Very much to my wife's embarrassment and mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought of having a wedding mortifies me

I hate fuss, I hate having attention on me, I cringe at speeches, the meal, the first dance, the disco, all of it

I don't even like attending them as a guest, let alone actually being in it

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

"I still cringe when I think of my wedding day. Anybody else? "

aw, bless ya, that's not good

not me, I loved ours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still waiting for mine.

Marry me?

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