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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are you still sexy if you don't feel like it?

Is it just an empty term of endearment?

Is sexy a physical look or a mental feeling?

Are you sexy every day or only at certain times?

All these questions

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I've never been referred to as such, so...

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Sexy to me is how you feel about yourself.

Lately I dont but I also dont think that not feeling sexy yourself impacts on others opinions of your sexiness .

Did that make sense ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I think people can find you sexy even if you don't feel it but you're at your sexiest when you're feeling it and that's when more people find you sexy.

It can have meaning but sometimes words are just that. Words. Not to be read into. Said because they sound nice.

I think it's both a physical and mental thing, referring to my first paragraph. I feel sexy once in a blue moon currently. It doesn't help when I have a bit of a meh conversation with someone, I'm poorly/in pain or stressed with juggling work. I'd like to feel sexy more often.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

If you feel sexy, you feel sexualy attractive.

If you are sexy, the other person finds you sexualy attractive.

I don't know how you feel but I find you sexualy attactive but I have never felt sexy or sexualy attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely a mental feeling in my opinion.

I can think I look great, but if i think Mrs doesn't agree, I don't. On the other hand, if I don't think I look great, and Mrs is all over me, I'll feel sexy.

"I'm sexy and I know it", type people, probably have a great time to themselves in the mirror, but in reality, you're only as sexy as someone makes you feel.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are words, if not thoughts with clothes on?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

I don't think I've ever felt "sexy" although I have had people find me "sexy", for me it's an observation others make rather than a sense of self - closest I come to it is when I'm with someone intimately but not sure if that's personal sexiness, or an overall sense of it resulting from the circumstance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I've ever felt "sexy" although I have had people find me "sexy", for me it's an observation others make rather than a sense of self - closest I come to it is when I'm with someone intimately but not sure if that's personal sexiness, or an overall sense of it resulting from the circumstance "

Yes I agree but wasn’t sure how to put it! I think it’s more in the eye of the beholder as such. What one person finds sexy another may not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would never say I’m sexy ...confident yes... sexy no.

It’s the person I’m with that makes me feel sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe to someone who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would never say I’m sexy ...confident yes... sexy no.

It’s the person I’m with that makes me feel sexy "

Yes that too. If you’re turning them on it makes you feel sexy.

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By *quaman87Man
over a year ago

douglas

Like to think so

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I think some people exude sexiness. I don’t know whether they feel sexy or are just able to project it because I’ve never felt it or understood it. My idea of sexiness is 2 people who create chemistry together. It’s not something I can be or think alone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are just naturally sexy 24/7...they don't even realise it.+ or think about just comes to them .. Im just me all the time and I let others judge if sexy or not (i hope so!!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people are just naturally sexy 24/7...they don't even realise it.+ or think about just comes to them .. Im just me all the time and I let others judge if sexy or not (i hope so!!) "

You hold your belt in a sexy way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people are just naturally sexy 24/7...they don't even realise it.+ or think about just comes to them .. Im just me all the time and I let others judge if sexy or not (i hope so!!)

You hold your belt in a sexy way "
ah thank you Nora and you know I'm a fan of your photos too... Always sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d never refer to myself in that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely it’s something we feel or something that we hear from someone special. To hear it from a stranger on here is like Picasso being told he’s captured you perfectly?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sexy, but I am cheeky

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By *stellaWoman
over a year ago

London


"I'm not sexy, but I am cheeky "

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I don't need to feel sexy. I need others to feel I'm sexy. Fortunately enough do for me to not go wanting. Luke

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I would say it's how the other person makes you feel that would define sexy. I never see myself but then we see yourselves differently to how others see us really and admittingly, we ourselves are our own worse critiques

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By *hubster2016Man
over a year ago

T

I’ve never been sexy never will be

I mean I’ve been told loads of times I’m ugly and fat and no one would want me!

So that’s what I think and feel I even lost 7 1/2 stone few years ago to still be told I was a fat cunt with no hope of pulling!

It is what it is

Those that are sexy fair play your lucky

Sorry to put a downer on things but just being honest

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By *eoeclipseWoman
over a year ago

glasgow

I get described as slinky & cat like more than sexy tbh

Think you lot need to take some dance lessons, ballroom is easy to pick up with a little work, latin if your up for the challenge (faster, sharper), plus i think we may have more formal type dances after all this, its a good way to gauge compatibility & most after this may be looking for something more substantial.

here's what you learn with dance:

Posture - always sexier to hold yourself than sloughing (better for back too) & gives appearance of confidence (even if your bricking it inside)

Your body - you learn how to use it to speak without opening your mouth

Rhythm - moving in collaboration with partner, self & music

Confidence - you learn to be at one with your body & self which spills out sexyness.

And i don't want to hear i got 2 left feet, no rhythm or i'm too big etc that's what lessons are for, its good fun & good exercise

Try different ones to find what you like best

I'll be looking for a class once they are open again, cant decide in genre though.

I soooo want to attend a masquerade ball with formal dress...im weird i know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bery sexy xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a dirty little sissy slut, make up your own minds.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

I’m sexy AF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sexy AF "

In a word or two, it's you I want to do

No not your body, your mind you fool

Come here baby, yeah

You sexy motherfucker

I bet you play that CD a lot!?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Certain people make me feel very sexy so yes that makes me feel sexy.

The confidence you exude when you feel sexy is in of itself sexy. You change the way you walk, how you speak, how you smile.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I’m sexy AF

In a word or two, it's you I want to do

No not your body, your mind you fool

Come here baby, yeah

You sexy motherfucker

I bet you play that CD a lot!? "

It’s more ‘I’m sexy and I know it’ that I listen to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m sexy AF

In a word or two, it's you I want to do

No not your body, your mind you fool

Come here baby, yeah

You sexy motherfucker

I bet you play that CD a lot!?

It’s more ‘I’m sexy and I know it’ that I listen to "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm Too Sexy

Song by Right Said Fred

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes


"I'm Too Sexy

Song by Right Said Fred

"

Damn, I havent heard that song in ages.. fuck sake.. now its in my head lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm Too Sexy

Song by Right Said Fred

Damn, I havent heard that song in ages.. fuck sake.. now its in my head lol"

and mine (they don’t make em like that anymore)

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I'm Too Sexy

Song by Right Said Fred

Damn, I havent heard that song in ages.. fuck sake.. now its in my head lol

and mine (they don’t make em like that anymore) "

New York and Japan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“I'm too sexy for my love

Too sexy for my love

Love's going to leave me

I'm too sexy for my shirt

Too sexy for my shirt

So sexy it hurts

And I'm too sexy for Milan

Too sexy for Milan,

New York and Japan

And I'm too sexy for your party

Too sexy for your party

No way I'm disco dancing

I'm a model, you know what I mean

And I do my little turn on the catwalk

Yeah, on the catwalk, on the catwalk, yeah

I do my little turn on the catwalk

I'm too sexy for my car

Too sexy for my car

Too sexy by far

And I'm too sexy for my hat

Too sexy for my hat

What d'ya think about that?

I'm a model, you know what I mean

And I do my little turn on the catwalk

Yeah, on the catwalk, on the catwalk, yeah

I shake my little tush on the catwalk

I'm too sexy for my

Too sexy for my

Too sexy for my

'Cause I'm a model, you know what I mean

And I do my little turn on the catwalk

Yeah, on the catwalk, yeah, on the catwalk, yeah

I shake my little tush on the catwalk

I'm too sexy for my cat

Too sexy for my cat

Poor pussy

Poor pussy cat

I'm too sexy for my love

Too sexy for my love

Love's going to leave me

And I'm too sexy for this song”

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"“I'm too sexy for my love

Too sexy for my love

Love's going to leave me

I'm too sexy for my shirt

Too sexy for my shirt

So sexy it hurts

And I'm too sexy for Milan

Too sexy for Milan,

New York and Japan

And I'm too sexy for your party

Too sexy for your party

No way I'm disco dancing

I'm a model, you know what I mean

And I do my little turn on the catwalk

Yeah, on the catwalk, on the catwalk, yeah

I do my little turn on the catwalk

I'm too sexy for my car

Too sexy for my car

Too sexy by far

And I'm too sexy for my hat

Too sexy for my hat

What d'ya think about that?

I'm a model, you know what I mean

And I do my little turn on the catwalk

Yeah, on the catwalk, on the catwalk, yeah

I shake my little tush on the catwalk

I'm too sexy for my

Too sexy for my

Too sexy for my

'Cause I'm a model, you know what I mean

And I do my little turn on the catwalk

Yeah, on the catwalk, yeah, on the catwalk, yeah

I shake my little tush on the catwalk

I'm too sexy for my cat

Too sexy for my cat

Poor pussy

Poor pussy cat

I'm too sexy for my love

Too sexy for my love

Love's going to leave me

And I'm too sexy for this song”

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am sexiest on a Tuesday. I think sexy is a feeling I have, so to follow that, if someone told me I was looking sexy and I didn’t feel it at that time (With work etc) I would find it hard to believe or take the compliment well.

But tell me when I am feeling all ‘grrr’ And she might be in for a surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a sexy mother fucker

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I just had to read the lyrics didn't I? That definitely didn't help. Fuck it.. alexa.... play I'm too sexy by right said Fred (groan) lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not sexy per se but my clothes make me feel sexy and alluring. Do it depends on what I wear and it is not certainly everyday

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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Erm ... I think I have my moments of feeling sexy but they are few and far between. The person I’m with can make me feel sexy though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I cannot remember the last time i felt sexy..i think feeling sexy comes with confidence. If you dont feel it yourself it doesn't matter what anyone says to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was the last person to post on the ‘Last person to post is the sexiest’ thread so I’m obviously extremely sexy.

Touch me.

But only in your dreams.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

I'm so sexy... It hurts!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I can be when i want to be but mostly i am just that women in the wellies with the dogs.x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That inner feeling, and viewing yourself well is what sexy is about, not an outside view from others, cuz we don't always see what others see in us

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

A combination of how you feel, and what the other person likes.

Personally I'm not feeling too sexy after a year out of the gym

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feeling sexy is a confidence thing, getting dressed up can help make us feel that, buy unless you want to get dressed up with nowhere to go at the moment most of us are sat about in sweat pants and a badly fitted t shirt ha!

The sexiness is still under there, dont go talking yourself out of your not.

Also the right partner should be making you feel it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not remotely sexy sadly.

I sometimes feel it when doing Burlesque but I know I likely don't look it so the feeling is short lived.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Are you still sexy if you don't feel like it?

Is it just an empty term of endearment?

Is sexy a physical look or a mental feeling?

Are you sexy every day or only at certain times?

All these questions

"

When someone tells me 'I am sexy' , then I must be to them. I have trouble excepting it, no matter how I'm feeling

Empty term of endearment, I would hope people only say what they mean.

Sexy is both metal and physical, we all find different attributes sexy.

Its very rare i feel sexy in the way i find others sexy,

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