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By *nked_kitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

So the fab forums have helped expand my vocabulary of the female form.

Why do people feel the need to have so many insulting names for female genitals?

Do guys honestly think that by publicly insulting someone that everyone else will then queue up to sleep with them?

and the women that do it... does it make you feel better to humiliate others?

I know there is often discussion about cock size but that’s about it. People say you have a big cock or a small cock and mainly it’s the cocks owner that is most concerned and talking about it, but if they feel that they are lacking it’s not them it’s the woman that’s the issue.

Or if a woman feels hers is pretty then she must put down anyone else to make sure everyone knows.

So the other week there was a thread where a guy was complaining that woman who slept with guys with big cocks got so stretched that his cock didn’t touch the sides. Tonight someone said that a profile picture looks like an otters pocket.

What is peoples need to do this?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I ignored the thread. It was foul.

Swingers ? Sex ? Humour ? All of them will be used as an excuse to put down anyone who thinks the language is uneccesary.....

Not much changes.

It's how inadequate men make themselves feel better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not so casual misogyny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because people love to tear other people down, double standards and nitpicking people seem to be the norm

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach

It is across all these sites/forums/chat rooms. People feel the need to put people down and make them look better cos its is easier than being a better people. It is across gender, couples.

People feel the need to trip others up cos they think it will win them the race. People think Forums is a great place to get noticed, but it is also where people come out form behind their masks and show their true selves

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Something to laugh down the pub with their mates at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like otters. I like pockets.....

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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For the same reason people insult others about anything really, especially online. They are keyboard warriors who don't see people as real when they are online. I don't suppose they would share those opinions in public in real life.

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By *nked_kitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"I like otters. I like pockets....."

Maybe the OP was just misunderstood and he actually meant it was cute looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer “Wizards Sleeve” when describing oversized fannies. Shall I get my coat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Case of let's smash ppl so that I can feel better about about my own insecurities, inferioritys, and unconsciously build my own worth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the same reason people insult others about anything really, especially online. They are keyboard warriors who don't see people as real when they are online. I don't suppose they would share those opinions in public in real life. "

I imagine some of the opinions and attitudes expressed on here to be exactly as they'd be expressed real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Case of let's smash ppl so that I can feel better about about my own insecurities, inferioritys, and unconsciously build my own worth "

Very true!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the same reason people insult others about anything really, especially online. They are keyboard warriors who don't see people as real when they are online. I don't suppose they would share those opinions in public in real life. "

Yep, easier to hide behind a screen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Case of let's smash ppl so that I can feel better about about my own insecurities, inferioritys, and unconsciously build my own worth "

This absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Case of let's smash ppl so that I can feel better about about my own insecurities, inferioritys, and unconsciously build my own worth "

I really do think people think like that. Otherwise why do it? It’s beyond me. Very sad indeed. I feel sorry for them in a way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the same reason people insult others about anything really, especially online. They are keyboard warriors who don't see people as real when they are online. I don't suppose they would share those opinions in public in real life.

I imagine some of the opinions and attitudes expressed on here to be exactly as they'd be expressed real life "

I dont agree with that myself this a perfect place for ppl to wear mask n portray something other than what they maybe not all but definitely some do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Case of let's smash ppl so that I can feel better about about my own insecurities, inferioritys, and unconsciously build my own worth

I really do think people think like that. Otherwise why do it? It’s beyond me. Very sad indeed. I feel sorry for them in a way. "

Quite often ppl are not aware that they feel these things, as there is no self awareness so act out on them, with out knowing so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% this. Neither of us may have catalogue bodies, but you know what, we have personality, humility, and enjoy the mental connection with others, now that's an attraction.

Shallow people, who may look fantastic on the cover of a magazine, can revel in the knowledge that some people will cum all over their pictures, but they'll never experience to pleasure a true mental connection brings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Starve them of oxygen and they will suffocate....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer “Wizards Sleeve” when describing oversized fannies. Shall I get my coat?"

Or bucket fanny.

I can’t get a girlfriend

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"For the same reason people insult others about anything really, especially online. They are keyboard warriors who don't see people as real when they are online. I don't suppose they would share those opinions in public in real life.

I imagine some of the opinions and attitudes expressed on here to be exactly as they'd be expressed real life "

I agree they would hold the same opinions in real life, but I doubt they would be brave enough to say them out loud.

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

It does annoy me that so often it's the slang words for women's genitalia that are used as insults, with the inference being that female bits are "nasty". Whereas the slang words for men's genitalia are more often used with humorous intent, with the inference being that there's nothing actually wrong with male bits.

"He's a bit of a cock" versus "He's a real cunt". The first gets said in a joking way, in fact almost as a compliment. The second is always meant nastily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the same reason people insult others about anything really, especially online. They are keyboard warriors who don't see people as real when they are online. I don't suppose they would share those opinions in public in real life.

I imagine some of the opinions and attitudes expressed on here to be exactly as they'd be expressed real life

I agree they would hold the same opinions in real life, but I doubt they would be brave enough to say them out loud. "

They might be daft enough though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For the same reason people insult others about anything really, especially online. They are keyboard warriors who don't see people as real when they are online. I don't suppose they would share those opinions in public in real life.

I imagine some of the opinions and attitudes expressed on here to be exactly as they'd be expressed real life

I agree they would hold the same opinions in real life, but I doubt they would be brave enough to say them out loud.

They might be daft enough though "

No accounting for ppl is there

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"For the same reason people insult others about anything really, especially online. They are keyboard warriors who don't see people as real when they are online. I don't suppose they would share those opinions in public in real life.

I imagine some of the opinions and attitudes expressed on here to be exactly as they'd be expressed real life

I agree they would hold the same opinions in real life, but I doubt they would be brave enough to say them out loud.

They might be daft enough though "

That's true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can. Just use it as a filter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I prefer “Wizards Sleeve” when describing oversized fannies. Shall I get my coat?

Or bucket fanny.

I can’t get a girlfriend "

Or Echo chamber. I vary depending on the audience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are words, if not thoughts with clothes on?

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By *nked_kitten OP   Woman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork


"Because they can. Just use it as a filter?"

Oh I do

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"It does annoy me that so often it's the slang words for women's genitalia that are used as insults, with the inference being that female bits are "nasty". Whereas the slang words for men's genitalia are more often used with humorous intent, with the inference being that there's nothing actually wrong with male bits.

"He's a bit of a cock" versus "He's a real cunt". The first gets said in a joking way, in fact almost as a compliment. The second is always meant nastily."

The word "cock" is a term of endearment here! For example: "how're you doin cock?" Or sometimes it's cocker. Lady garden terms are definitely not used as endearment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok ladies, let’s then this in to a positive thread. What would we like the guys to call out lady gardens?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies, let’s then this in to a positive thread. What would we like the guys to call out lady gardens? "

Fangina?

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Passed Beyond Reach


"Ok ladies, let’s then this in to a positive thread. What would we like the guys to call out lady gardens? "

We like to use pussy

We think the C word is little demeaning.

Foo Foo bit to young

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies, let’s then this in to a positive thread. What would we like the guys to call out lady gardens?

Fangina? "

Thanks for participating...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok ladies, let’s then this in to a positive thread. What would we like the guys to call out lady gardens?

Fangina?

Thanks for participating... "

you’re welcome! Plenty more where that came from

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