FabSwingers.com forum: Guys :- Its ok to cry !!

By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's OK not to cry too

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"It's OK not to cry too

Of course it is too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And it's also ok not to,if that's how you feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Totally agree, sadly having to hold in a lot of emotion at present as nowhere to let it out....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's OK not to cry too

Beat me to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

Great thread OP, it's so freeing n cathartic to cry, I like this analogy 'were like pressure cookers with no release the pressure builds and explodes" , crying Is the same principle to this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only cry ... Well not crying... But have tears when watching moving movies or cartoons.

Otherwise I rarely cry.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"And it's also ok not to,if that's how you feel "

Absolutely, of course it is. Theres no right or wrong here just highlighting that is ok

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

Thanks OP. I think it's brave of you to post this, especially as you say not many people know how you've been feeling lately. X

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

Great thread OP, it's so freeing n cathartic to cry, I like this analogy 'were like pressure cookers with no release the pressure builds and explodes" , crying Is the same principle to this

Yes . A good analogy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

Great thread OP, it's so freeing n cathartic to cry, I like this analogy 'were like pressure cookers with no release the pressure builds and explodes" , crying Is the same principle to this

I'm not ashamed to say I'm in touch with my emotions n love agood cry

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

Thanks OP. I think it's brave of you to post this, especially as you say not many people know how you've been feeling lately. X"

Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

I have some strong strong men that I'm blessed to have in my circle, who have been through traumatic experiences, were all taught to talk about feelings n thoughts, and it's so freeing to do this, teaches us that feelings pass

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

Great thread OP, it's so freeing n cathartic to cry, I like this analogy 'were like pressure cookers with no release the pressure builds and explodes" , crying Is the same principle to this

I'm not ashamed to say I'm in touch with my emotions n love agood cry "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only cry ... Well not crying... But have tears when watching moving movies or cartoons.

Otherwise I rarely cry. "

same here..have tears when i watch movies

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over a year ago

"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

So true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Op. Genuinely and this is the truth, I wouldn’t want to cry again. Your right, I don’t want to ever apear to be as vulnerable as I am. It’s just my thoughts.

I do see men crying and I am absolutely fine with that and my shoulder is always their for someone who needs to let go. And it shows they are juman with the same feeling (maybe) as I have.

But me. Never again.

*walks back to the ‘shag avoid thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love a man who allows himself to be seen, and be vulnerable. It’s absolutely ok to let your emotions out.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I cry and proud, even cried meditating once.

When my daughter does something I'm proud of or moves me, which is always.

At a sad movie or when I need to unlease.

It's a good way to unlease any bad energy or an excess of energy and emotion.

Last time was about 2 weeks ago, my daughter sitting reading, and just felt a wave of emotion and happyness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love a man who allows himself to be seen, and be vulnerable. It’s absolutely ok to let your emotions out. "

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I've just read through a thread that made me feel very sad and tearful. The comments made towards the man who started the thread were awful and shameful at times.

Men are fair targets on here for some people; especially from women who have been hurt by a man and take a lot of stick.

Seems it's ok to attack men, but not women. Maybe because big boy don't cry.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Fucknugget, you're so right. Boys should never be told not to cry, and men should never feel they can't.

I hope you get through this soon you gorgeous, lovely man.

And to all our wonderful forum guys, and the lurkers, know that it's healthy to have and show your emotion, however that may happen.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

"I only cry ... Well not crying... But have tears when watching moving movies or cartoons.

Otherwise I rarely cry. "

Me too , I can cry watching an advert but seldom cry otherwise .

Oh and anyone receiving a medal, I can't watch the Olympics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its just simply ok to be in touch with your emotions and express them accordingly. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I only cry ... Well not crying... But have tears when watching moving movies or cartoons.

Otherwise I rarely cry.

Me too , I can cry watching an advert but seldom cry otherwise .

Oh and anyone receiving a medal, I can't watch the Olympics

Music makes me cry sometimes.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I love a man who allows himself to be seen, and be vulnerable. It’s absolutely ok to let your emotions out. "

Yes. Cheers

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I cry and proud, even cried meditating once.

When my daughter does something I'm proud of or moves me, which is always.

At a sad movie or when I need to unlease.

It's a good way to unlease any bad energy or an excess of energy and emotion.

Last time was about 2 weeks ago, my daughter sitting reading, and just felt a wave of emotion and happyness. "

Aww that's awesome

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"I've just read through a thread that made me feel very sad and tearful. The comments made towards the man who started the thread were awful and shameful at times.

Men are fair targets on here for some people; especially from women who have been hurt by a man and take a lot of stick.

Seems it's ok to attack men, but not women. Maybe because big boy don't cry.

I didnt see that thread tbh but you are correct

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"Fucknugget, you're so right. Boys should never be told not to cry, and men should never feel they can't.

I hope you get through this soon you gorgeous, lovely man.

And to all our wonderful forum guys, and the lurkers, know that it's healthy to have and show your emotion, however that may happen."

Awww thankyou sweetie

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Watched Children’s hospital programme on BBC a few weeks ago, in absolute floods of tears. I was on my own and felt a bit better afterwards.

Could I do that in front of someone else, no chance.

Maybe it’s because of my crossdressing and who I am as a person, two sides one that loves expressing a feminine persona and the other in male mode that has a need to be as masculine as possible. So crying just doesn’t sit easy with me whilst I’m a guy

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"I only cry ... Well not crying... But have tears when watching moving movies or cartoons.

Otherwise I rarely cry.

Me too , I can cry watching an advert but seldom cry otherwise .

Oh and anyone receiving a medal, I can't watch the Olympics

Music makes me cry sometimes. "

Oh yes absolutely it can

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"Watched Children’s hospital programme on BBC a few weeks ago, in absolute floods of tears. I was on my own and felt a bit better afterwards.

Could I do that in front of someone else, no chance.

It's ok, I get that

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

So true"

Thankyou xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do over the dramas with my son but never in front of anyone. I've found if you don't the pressure builds and makes things totally worse.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"I do over the dramas with my son but never in front of anyone. I've found if you don't the pressure builds and makes things totally worse."

Yes . Exactly this

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

I let it out usually all in one go when the tank is full.

There's definitely nothing wrong with crying at all

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I let it out usually all in one go when the tank is full.

There's definitely nothing wrong with crying at all "

Unless your team is loosing at football. Then it is wrong.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been a while since I've cried. But at some point again I will, probably from the most unlikely conditions or circumstances.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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Thankyou Swingy

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"It's been a while since I've cried. But at some point again I will, probably from the most unlikely conditions or circumstances."

It happens to us all mate

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"I let it out usually all in one go when the tank is full.

There's definitely nothing wrong with crying at all "

Absolutely

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By *oinerbillMan
over a year ago

warrington

Nothing wrong with crying at all guys

I was considered a tough guy in my youth, rugby league pro, did a bit of boxing, not bragging about it just trying to get my point over that everyone cries

I think crying is a sign of strength , shows your a caring person, don't be worried about it

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By *nked_kittenWoman
over a year ago

Ankh Morpork

I couldn’t stop crying the other night. No real reason but just something tipped me over the edge. Although was exhausted after, it helped. Doesn’t always, but at that point it was what I needed to happen.

I think it depends on the type of crying as well to how cathartic it can be.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"Nothing wrong with crying at all guys

I was considered a tough guy in my youth, rugby league pro, did a bit of boxing, not bragging about it just trying to get my point over that everyone cries

I think crying is a sign of strength , shows your a caring person, don't be worried about it

Very true

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"I couldn’t stop crying the other night. No real reason but just something tipped me over the edge. Although was exhausted after, it helped. Doesn’t always, but at that point it was what I needed to happen.

I think it depends on the type of crying as well to how cathartic it can be. "

Yep I get that. This was me yesterday

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

Great thread op us men fir ever reason hold or emotions in and wondered this is not the best for our development or mental health.

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By *oxesMan
over a year ago

Southend, Essex

"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"Another thread got to me thinking about how some Men are kinda conditioned by society never to show weakness or vulnerability.

It's not something covered too much but I just feel the need to say that it's ok to let it out , cry if you need to and confide in trusted people .

Talk about your feelings and it is ok to shed a tear . I certainly have lately and not many people know that.

It's ok to cry guys and my inbox is always open to anyone struggling in these shitty times

Great thread op us men fir ever reason hold or emotions in and wondered this is not the best for our development or mental health."

I was the worlds worst for holding it all in until I broke down a few years back . That taught me a big lesson

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m sure D will be happy for me to say he often has a few tears , usually over family or friends going through a bad time but also often watching anything on tv that’s sad , I went to work once and left him and my daughter watching Les Miserable when I came back I found him sobbing into a tea towel!

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By *rumpyMcFuckNugget OP Man
over a year ago

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"I’m sure D will be happy for me to say he often has a few tears , usually over family or friends going through a bad time but also often watching anything on tv that’s sad , I went to work once and left him and my daughter watching Les Miserable when I came back I found him sobbing into a tea towel! "

Awww it means hes a good man though and that's a wonderful thing xx

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