FabSwingers.com forum: Do "chicks" really dig scars?

By *neakypeaky30 OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Well weekend reflection is kicking in early for me and i'm genuinely interested to know people's thoughts. I have scars on my arm and body which i can keep hidden in shirts, but i have probably been more self conscious about them than i should in the past.

Are people put off? Or are people intrigued when you meet someone with scars?

Thoughts welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find scars fascinating, they tell a story don’t they.

Also, a lot of us will have then I presume. I have a cracker!

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By *izzlllllWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Speaking for myself I'd not be out off at all and these are the things which make people unique and interesting

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Seems rather shallow to be put off by a rather inconsequential thing. No problems at all with scars. They are part of our journey.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I like scars, my friends husband has a scar on his face after a chain saw accident. And he absolutely rocks it.

Think they are unique and tell a story of strength of an individual.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"Seems rather shallow to be put off by a rather inconsequential thing. No problems at all with scars. They are part of our journey."
This, nicely said.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are scars and are part of a person I want to get to know. If they feel they need to share a story then cool. If I feel confident that I can ask, I will ask. But more than not I don’t think they are an issue.

But I thought chick dig money.....

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I like scars and if they are happy for me to explore them I will

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

To me they're just part of a person like a mole or other physical feature. I don't go looking for them but also not offput by them! I have tons on my belly from various surgery.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I’m covered in them from head to toe. Mostly operations on my legs and abdomen but got a couple of ones on my face and hands that get commented on positively.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

T has a scar on his neck following a biopsy for non-Hodgkins lymphoma. At the time it was a real mess but has healed so well most people wouldn’t know it was there. I find them interesting & the work of medical staff can be an art

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They tell a story.

I have a large scar on my forearm filling an accident as a child. Put my arm though a glass panel

On a door when I pushed the door open.

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By *orthampton jamesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I have a large scar on my stomach and one down the centre of body from my chest to my belly button, that one is covered by my body hair mostly, I've never had anyone put off me by them, but I'm still here living and breathing

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By *neakypeaky30 OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

Wow, overwhelmingly positive reactions, thanks guys. What was i worried about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got a fair few small ones on my hands from fixing my cars in my younger years....there’s no pain quite like spanner slipping off with force behind it on a cold winter morning and raking your fingers across the castings on an engine block.

Also two knuckle scars from having a row with housemates many years ago and punching a door.

There’s just about one left on one of my legs when I fell over at school (really young) and got a decent cut.

Also faint ones on the bridge of my nose and above my right eyebrow from having a bad reaction to the anaesthetic from my vasectomy as it metabolised. I blacked out and smashed my face off my kitchen floor.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Most people have scars by the time they get to my age; I'm covered in them.

I am nosy though and like the back story behind big ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are like the road map of your personal life story

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I guess you could say I'm on here as a chicken of sorts and I adore scars.

I love the look of them, the way they feel, the story behind them and just find them intriguing.

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By *BW BlondeWoman
over a year ago

Castleford

I have rather a large one on my face from skin cancer. Scars are medals of survival.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I have scars myself so on others they wouldn’t put me off. Just signs of a life lived.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

They don't bother me, they make up the journey of who you are and how you got to now.

I also have a large one on my leg from surgery so I'd be a hypocrite if I turned others away for having them

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Love all my scars got so many I 4get how many iv got lol newest 1 is back of my hand slipped with a wood saw x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wow, overwhelmingly positive reactions, thanks guys. What was i worried about?

Has anyone ever said horrible things about them or are you just self conscious?

They may put some people off but that's not a negative thing, just means you're not compatible.

Unless they are arseholes about it and surely not really who you'd want to meet, so still a positive that you won't be meeting them.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"They don't bother me, they make up the journey of who you are and how you got to now.

I also have a large one on my leg from surgery so I'd be a hypocrite if I turned others away for having them"

I'm going to want to see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not especially, no

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I've not seen a scar on someone yet that would put me off them. Just another one of those things that makes us all unique.

I have one across my neck from surgery 20 years ago. It's faded a lot now but still noticeable. It bothered me more when I was younger but not so much now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wounds heal, chicks dig scars, glory lasts forever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Scars are just life tattoos, I have scars from operations, stretch marks from pregnancies and scars from accidents. I am happy to talk about them if a lover pointed them out and was interested to know about me.

I am not put off someone for having scars, sometimes they look really sexy because its the person that I am attracted to and therefore the slightest thing about them makes me more attracted.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They tell a story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask Tony Montana.

He got a scar from eating pussy. Haha !

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

I love all of Mr scars reminds me of how lucky to still have him here with me. Each one has it’s story and also stands as a reminder and hopefully a lesson learnt

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By *iscreet-is-paramountMan
over a year ago

travel around a lot.

Scars tell a true story, tattoos are for fantasists. I have more than my fair share of scars and not ashamed of any. Doesn't mean I want them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind them at all x as lots of people here say, they tell a story x

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By *neakypeaky30 OP Man
over a year ago

Midlands

"Wow, overwhelmingly positive reactions, thanks guys. What was i worried about?

Has anyone ever said horrible things about them or are you just self conscious?

They may put some people off but that's not a negative thing, just means you're not compatible.

Unless they are arseholes about it and surely not really who you'd want to meet, so still a positive that you won't be meeting them.

I suppose it's me being self conscious. I can't hide them when it gets hot and it used to bother me walking through town and you'd catch people looking and then quickly look away. Quite uncomfortable at times.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

If you called me "chick" you'd end up with another scar..

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"If you called me "chick" you'd end up with another scar..

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"If you called me "chick" you'd end up with another scar..

I'll try to remember not to then chick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like scars, my friends husband has a scar on his face after a chain saw accident. And he absolutely rocks it.

Think they are unique and tell a story of strength of an individual. "

I have a scar on my leg from a chainsaw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like scars, my friends husband has a scar on his face after a chain saw accident. And he absolutely rocks it.

Think they are unique and tell a story of strength of an individual.

I have a scar on my leg from a chainsaw."

And another one on the same leg from being run over by a tractor.

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I don’t mind them at all and never really think about mine unless somebody asks, I’ve got a monster one but never bothered me in having it as without it I wouldn’t be here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few scars from playing rugby but they faded over time... A Z scar from surgery to a snapped tendon in foot is still noticeable but everyone has life scars and not a issue at all

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Got a few on my back, earned from my Army days. I’d prefer they were from a passionate sexual encounter but unfortunately not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rock my scar on my stomach, depending on who's asking it was the result of a bar fight as a teenager or pyloric stenosis when I was 4 weeks old

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"I rock my scar on my stomach, depending on who's asking it was the result of a bar fight as a teenager or pyloric stenosis when I was 4 weeks old

This made me laugh, I often tell people mine was from a shark attack especially when sitting on the beach

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm indifferent to scars. I think cuz they are just so common. I have a couple of big ones myself but never feel self conscious as I always think they won't bother anyone.

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I think they are stories. I have a fair few and I'm not ashamed at all xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think they are stories. I have a fair few and I'm not ashamed at all xx"
totally unrelated

but I love your tattoo.. Very unusual but really cool... Scars are a life lived

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they did idbethe most desirable man in the worl

covered in them mostly from work

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By *manaWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"I think they are stories. I have a fair few and I'm not ashamed at all xx totally unrelated

but I love your tattoo.. Very unusual but really cool... Scars are a life lived

Thank you

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By *arkcrystalMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I have a huge scar down my side and back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 operations later, I have a few scars on my arm, shoulder and abdomen

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

"If you called me "chick" you'd end up with another scar..

I'll try to remember not to then chick

Thanks.

It's a pet hate and an instant turn off for me, but a bit difficult to say to someone, please don't call me hun, babe, sweetheart, sweetie, darling and so many others. I've got a name, it's easy to say, only 3 words.

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