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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you block people who read and delete your messages? Think I'm gonna start as it saves confusion in future

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block people that seriously piss me off

This time round, no one has achieved that, so my block list is empty

In terms of messages that get deleted, Fab highlights it if you attempt to message someone you have messaged before and didn't respond

That's enough of a trigger for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you block people who read and delete your messages? Think I'm gonna start as it saves confusion in future"

It makes sense doesn’t it. You have one shot (to quote Eminem) to make an impression...and I asume my impression of them is they are ignorant.....

Open floodgates....

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

They might have just not read your message because they ave bulked deleted.

Plus when you go on the profile it tells you when you messaged them.

Why block them unless they replied to you with a torrent of abuse.

They might see you in a forum or pic leading them to look at your profile and wanting to mail you but they can't as you have blocked them because you didn't get an open invitation to their vag.

I'm using vag for the rest of the day.

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By *ountry Boy FreshMan
over a year ago

Huddersfield

"Do you block people who read and delete your messages? Think I'm gonna start as it saves confusion in future"

You don't need to the system flags up that you have messaged someone before and not got a reply. But if you are pissed they didn't respond to a hows u wanna fuck then block them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block people who pester,

Talk about underage

Men who have chocolate starfish pics as profile (common on fabguys)

And people who send endless text speak gibberish.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

No I don't want to close a door that could be opened later on, I've disregarded messages only to have a good conversation a month later with them, I like to be flexible and appreciate that in others as well

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By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We try and reply to all messages, but sometimes we don’t make it through and by the time we get to some of them they’re over a week or 2 old, more if we haven’t been on.

By that time we realise it’s probably not worth responding so will just delete.

Unless it’s a really weird one we’ll always try and be nice and reply if we can though

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Any that just say hi or one liners get deleted

Any that we’ve already said no to and they send the same copy and paste message, we delete.

We respond to a lot of messages but we’d only block people who just don’t get no for an answer or are vulgar.

When I was a single guy on here, I used to block people who weren’t interested so I could just focus on the people that were...it makes it easier to not get constant rejections...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't. But I know few use it like that ! Or you can just make private notes.

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By *iablo soloWoman
over a year ago

over younder

"No I don't. But I know few use it like that ! Or you can just make private notes. "

Private notes are a great thing! I sometimes go back and get a giggle out of myself and some of the stuff I wrote!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No I don't. But I know few use it like that ! Or you can just make private notes.

Private notes are a great thing! I sometimes go back and get a giggle out of myself and some of the stuff I wrote!

Haha I am very short and to the point. Sometimes they are just like code words. No need for a story. For example: xenophobic, inconsistent information, etc

That's enough to get them off my radar.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

If I send a first message I usually add a face pic. If it gets deleted I take it as no you're not my type no attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other thing is, sometimes I get a message and think 'oh fuck off, I can't be arsed with you and your chat ups today'

So, I quite often delete cos right there, right then, I just can't be bothered to chat

It doesn't mean I am not attracted to the sender

Another time, another mood, another vibe, things might be different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont get replies..i understand most of them is bulk delete..so it doesnt show if they read it or not..so i just leave it

some do delete them mainly because im not attracted to them even though i meet all requirements..my messages still get deleted

so basically no win situation anyway...so i just have banter on forums instead

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"The other thing is, sometimes I get a message and think 'oh fuck off, I can't be arsed with you and your chat ups today'

So, I quite often delete cos right there, right then, I just can't be bothered to chat

It doesn't mean I am not attracted to the sender

Another time, another mood, another vibe, things might be different "

I always have time for people who message me, if I don't reply it is simpy because I forgot.

If somebody has put the time and energy into sending me a mail then I respect and appreciate that.

If I knew someone just deletes because they can't be arsed, that is not the type of person that would mix with my chemistry very well in the bedroom.

Plus, most women get so many messages that if they do have the time to message me, then I'm very appreciative and flattered they have, regardless of their gender or sexuality, it's nice that somebody is attracted to you.

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