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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How bloody annoying is it when you're chatting to a "couple" then realise it's just some sad single guy wanking over any tidbits of information you give them. I'm particularly annoyed today as I've realized when I've added him on SC that it's the same guy I've called out on it before(using a different profile). I'd quite like to find out where he lives, tell his ex or sister or whoever he's sharing pictures of what a scumbag he is, then castrate him. any private investigators out there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do you give him things to wank over?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My easy one is to say very soon in the chat that both have to be there but both don’t have to participate

Normally get ooo ok need to talk to her and I just tell them to get back to me witch 90% off the time they don’t lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is annoying it used to happen pre covid to me the time would come to meet yet and his wife or girlfriend would be working that night and you can come chill with me .... Uh no I’m good thanks!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"Why do you give him things to wank over?"

In my experience it doesn’t have to be photos, videos or sexts, some people seem to get off on you talking about your sexual interests which can form part of a natural conversation when trying to establish any shared interests.

In some instances they just want to tell you what they want to do and feed off your reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you give him things to wank over?

In my experience it doesn’t have to be photos, videos or sexts, some people seem to get off on you talking about your sexual interests which can form part of a natural conversation when trying to establish any shared interests.

In some instances they just want to tell you what they want to do and feed off your reaction.

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I agree. Talking about sex in any form gives them something to wank over.

I don't talk about sex until I've met them in person.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"How bloody annoying is it when you're chatting to a "couple" then realise it's just some sad single guy wanking over any tidbits of information you give them. I'm particularly annoyed today as I've realized when I've added him on SC that it's the same guy I've called out on it before(using a different profile). I'd quite like to find out where he lives, tell his ex or sister or whoever he's sharing pictures of what a scumbag he is, then castrate him. any private investigators out there?"

Tell them you love to see another woman’s lingerie, and ask them for a sneaky pic of his wife’s panty drawer. Usually sorts the men from the couples.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How bloody annoying is it when you're chatting to a "couple" then realise it's just some sad single guy wanking over any tidbits of information you give them. I'm particularly annoyed today as I've realized when I've added him on SC that it's the same guy I've called out on it before(using a different profile). I'd quite like to find out where he lives, tell his ex or sister or whoever he's sharing pictures of what a scumbag he is, then castrate him. any private investigators out there?

Tell them you love to see another woman’s lingerie, and ask them for a sneaky pic of his wife’s panty drawer. Usually sorts the men from the couples....... "

Didn’t think of that

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Why do you give him things to wank over?

In my experience it doesn’t have to be photos, videos or sexts, some people seem to get off on you talking about your sexual interests which can form part of a natural conversation when trying to establish any shared interests.

In some instances they just want to tell you what they want to do and feed off your reaction.

I agree. Talking about sex in any form gives them something to wank over.

I don't talk about sex until I've met them in person. "

Precisely, Giving up my time to be a free sex session with a total stranger is a worse way to spend my time than a kiss fuck suck thread.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah that's it, just through conversation, sharing interests etc. I really don't like to be a cynical person and like to give people the benefit of the doubt, but should have followed my gut on this one. It just annoys me, we're just here to have fun and those pricks are there sharing photos presumably without permission,wasting my time and getting me excited. It's infuriating

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"Why do you give him things to wank over?

In my experience it doesn’t have to be photos, videos or sexts, some people seem to get off on you talking about your sexual interests which can form part of a natural conversation when trying to establish any shared interests.

In some instances they just want to tell you what they want to do and feed off your reaction.

I agree. Talking about sex in any form gives them something to wank over.

I don't talk about sex until I've met them in person. "

I understand that but I like to know that in on the same page with someone before arranging a meet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How bloody annoying is it when you're chatting to a "couple" then realise it's just some sad single guy wanking over any tidbits of information you give them. I'm particularly annoyed today as I've realized when I've added him on SC that it's the same guy I've called out on it before(using a different profile). I'd quite like to find out where he lives, tell his ex or sister or whoever he's sharing pictures of what a scumbag he is, then castrate him. any private investigators out there?"

A quick video call with all participants there is another way of finding out the idiots.

May i also you say you have incredible photos!

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

You want to “castrate” someone for wanking on pictures you’ve put on the internet.

Erm

Overkill?

V x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How bloody annoying is it when you're chatting to a "couple" then realise it's just some sad single guy wanking over any tidbits of information you give them. I'm particularly annoyed today as I've realized when I've added him on SC that it's the same guy I've called out on it before(using a different profile). I'd quite like to find out where he lives, tell his ex or sister or whoever he's sharing pictures of what a scumbag he is, then castrate him. any private investigators out there?

A quick video call with all participants there is another way of finding out the idiots.

May i also you say you have incredible photos!"

Yeah I asked for that but she was out shopping then had apparently gone to bed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How bloody annoying is it when you're chatting to a "couple" then realise it's just some sad single guy wanking over any tidbits of information you give them. I'm particularly annoyed today as I've realized when I've added him on SC that it's the same guy I've called out on it before(using a different profile). I'd quite like to find out where he lives, tell his ex or sister or whoever he's sharing pictures of what a scumbag he is, then castrate him. any private investigators out there?

A quick video call with all participants there is another way of finding out the idiots.

May i also you say you have incredible photos!

Yeah I asked for that but she was out shopping then had apparently gone to bed. "

They get 2 chances after that its block time.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

2 chances ! That's a lot really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You want to “castrate” someone for wanking on pictures you’ve put on the internet.

Erm

Overkill?

V x "

No that's not what I'm annoyed about....did you read my post?

I don't really think sharing photos of someone on the internet or with other people (ie. the ones on his profile and that he sent to me) is ok. Or lying. And he's obviously doing it time and time again. So yeah I think he's a menace to thks site and possibly even to society.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do you give him things to wank over?

In my experience it doesn’t have to be photos, videos or sexts, some people seem to get off on you talking about your sexual interests which can form part of a natural conversation when trying to establish any shared interests.

In some instances they just want to tell you what they want to do and feed off your reaction.

I agree. Talking about sex in any form gives them something to wank over.

I don't talk about sex until I've met them in person.

I understand that but I like to know that in on the same page with someone before arranging a meet xx"

That's good if it works for you. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell them you love to see another woman’s lingerie, and ask them for a sneaky pic of his wife’s panty drawer. Usually sorts the men from the couples.......

Didn’t think of that"

Oooft what if he had his own personal collection of ladies lingerie in a drawer?....

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"How bloody annoying is it when you're chatting to a "couple" then realise it's just some sad single guy wanking over any tidbits of information you give them. I'm particularly annoyed today as I've realized when I've added him on SC that it's the same guy I've called out on it before(using a different profile). I'd quite like to find out where he lives, tell his ex or sister or whoever he's sharing pictures of what a scumbag he is, then castrate him. any private investigators out there?

A quick video call with all participants there is another way of finding out the idiots.

May i also you say you have incredible photos!"

Except, during that quick video call, the man has his hands down his pants, as he's staring at your face while you tell him what a lovely day you're having.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple solution. Block everyone on her and every other platform. Including me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"2 chances ! That's a lot really. "

I know, am too kind! Its a failing of mine!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

With couples the minute they state the Male half (never the Female ) needs to meet me first, that’s when I get rid. Or I say that’s fine but I’ll meet for a social first and there won’t be any play without their partner, they go quiet.

I’ve been lucky and met a few couples and in general you can tell quite quickly if they’re genuine or not.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Be dusinterested in them and sex, especially if they mention kik very quickly. I always emphasise that I don't have pics to share and my Nokia old phone has no camera. Though I'm happy to wait until I can enjoy spa tripss, makeover and photo shoot in Paris and New York.

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By *ohnsnowmanMan
over a year ago

Don't Go Back to Sexville

I find guys that pretend to be women or couples particularly annoying as I am bi and will show to anyone. I just love the attention. So why pretend? Be who you are!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I had one slip up recently and forget he was supposed to be a she

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

He must have been rubbing his hands when you fell for it twice

R

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He must have been rubbing his hands when you fell for it twice

R"

I know, whether he realised it was the second time I'm unsure. He was on a diff profile and I used a different Snapchat so quite possibly not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He must have been rubbing his hands when you fell for it twice

R"

I don’t think that’s what he was rubbing...

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