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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I could start a thread about anything, (within the rules ) and there’s things I love to read and reply to from others.

Some threads are fun, others offer valuable thoughts.

But what is it that you avoid like the plague? What topics do you walk away from and never get involved?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope this doesn’t turn your thread into it...

The race threads for me are done to death and I just avoid them!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Be Kind

Snog Fuck Marry

Anything with anyones name as a title, including my own , cept a birthday one.

Profile help

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Hope this doesn’t turn your thread into it...

The race threads for me are done to death and I just avoid them! "

What's a race thread ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Politics and religion - both seem to get me in hot water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be Kind

Snog Fuck Marry

Anything with anyones name as a title, including my own , cept a birthday one.

Profile help

"

Same as this

Oh and 'Men only'

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Who has the nicest ( insert, tits , fanny , cock ) on fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be Kind

Snog Fuck Marry

Anything with anyones name as a title, including my own , cept a birthday one.

Profile help

"

I never got a birthday one. Ever. I still hold that against Fab forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope this doesn’t turn your thread into it...

The race threads for me are done to death and I just avoid them!

What's a race thread ?"

Ethnic race threads such as:

People don’t meet me because I’m xxx

Why do you have xxx only in your bio’s

I’m fed up I can’t get a meet because I’m xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I feel like a grumpy, but I can agree with some of these.

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By *irtydevil666Man
over a year ago

bristol

I stay well away from the virus section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rate my cock

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Religion. It’s an endless-pointless discussion. Some have their beliefs some others don’t have any. Let’s respect what every other belief’s and what every other do not. People rarely change such beliefs mind sets. Let’s be cool at each other and avoid those topics; just chit-chat about anything else, have some laughs, period.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"

I never got a birthday one. Ever. I still hold that against Fab forums. "

I'm trying to work out who you were now.

I tend to avoid the best, the snog, marry etc ones. Anything that could court controversy because I prefer an easier life. I've commented on the odd be kind ones but only in the sense I disagree with it.

Oh and the sexual ones, where it's like send a message to x saying what you want to do them and someone will post it anonymously. I love talking about sex but I feel weird publically and directly saying something sexual to another.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Religion. Let’s be cool at each other and avoid those topics; just chit-chat about anything else, have some laughs, period. "

Pull up a chair and let me get you a pint. My kinda guy

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Depends on the context. I'll talk about most things - but sometimes it's not worth it in some environments.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s one topic I won’t go near on here, I’m really passionate about it and I can’t bring myself to read the bollocks that gets said let alone argue with people about it, not worth the energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There’s one topic I won’t go near on here, I’m really passionate about it and I can’t bring myself to read the bollocks that gets said let alone argue with people about it, not worth the energy. "

And it is....??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, a new thread has just reminded me. Cock size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the I am leaving woe is me threads !!! if someone wants to leave ... just leave its not difficult !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads that twat on about "the lifestyle"

And threads that mercilessly pound married folk with no knowledge or understanding of their circumstances.

Just know peeps, there's very little black and white in this life.

Hats on!

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By *osco78Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Politics ,religion and the virus ....all gaurentred to cause a row

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

The ones I tend to avoid are the ones where people are feeling down and want support.

This is not in any way a criticism of them. If it helps people get through then that's wonderful. It's just that for me that's not what I come here for.

I come for a bit of fun, silly banter, or sometimes serious discussions about issues facing the world. Since I don't know any of you personally I don't really feel qualified to help you. I hope that doesn't come across as heartless. I just mean I'm not sure what I could contribute that would actually help. Luke

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"

Pull up a chair and let me get you a pint. My kinda guy "

Already got the chair (If you ever read my profile haha ), waiting for that pint tho

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh, a new thread has just reminded me. Cock size "

.....Sounding bossy....Are you asking?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything too graphic. I like to leave something to the imagination!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, a new thread has just reminded me. Cock size

.....Sounding bossy....Are you asking? "

Hell no

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

Pull up a chair and let me get you a pint. My kinda guy

Already got the chair (If you ever read my profile haha ), waiting for that pint tho "

I might have shot myself with that offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, a new thread has just reminded me. Cock size

.....Sounding bossy....Are you asking? "

And you posted on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh, a new thread has just reminded me. Cock size "

Yes. This.

Like - do any women actually prefer small cocks?

I'm only 9" ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Oh, a new thread has just reminded me. Cock size

.....Sounding bossy....Are you asking?

And you posted on it "

I cannot help myself

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By *rOralMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"

I might have shot myself with that offer "

Hahah nvm mate, you might’ve missed the joke tho.

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells


"The ones I tend to avoid are the ones where people are feeling down and want support.

This is not in any way a criticism of them. If it helps people get through then that's wonderful. It's just that for me that's not what I come here for.

I come for a bit of fun, silly banter, or sometimes serious discussions about issues facing the world. Since I don't know any of you personally I don't really feel qualified to help you. I hope that doesn't come across as heartless. I just mean I'm not sure what I could contribute that would actually help. Luke "

I agree with you. Without being rude if I needed that kind of support this is the last place I would be asking.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

I have never and never will contribute to Would you shag, marry or avoid to the poster above ...non in which a stranger gets to compliment or insult you. Maybe I’m too sensitive to criticism.

Hate the ‘let’s be kind to each other’ threads, as if you need someone to remind you to have a basic human compassion for each other.

The compliment a well known forum poster, normally started by some bloke about a popular woman.

I try to avoid some TV/TS debates now but if some Transphobic prick turns up, I can’t help myself and I’ll get involved.

I like the really helpful threads or favourite book, film, album track etc...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I might have shot myself with that offer

Hahah nvm mate, you might’ve missed the joke tho. "

( I don’t read profiles. But I just did on yours.)

Hahaha. You got me.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"Hope this doesn’t turn your thread into it...

The race threads for me are done to death and I just avoid them!

What's a race thread ?

Ethnic race threads such as:

People don’t meet me because I’m xxx

Why do you have xxx only in your bio’s

I’m fed up I can’t get a meet because I’m xxx

"

Got you ....... I get irked by those too..

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle


"The ones I tend to avoid are the ones where people are feeling down and want support.

This is not in any way a criticism of them. If it helps people get through then that's wonderful. It's just that for me that's not what I come here for.

I come for a bit of fun, silly banter, or sometimes serious discussions about issues facing the world. Since I don't know any of you personally I don't really feel qualified to help you. I hope that doesn't come across as heartless. I just mean I'm not sure what I could contribute that would actually help. Luke "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I love talking about sex but I feel weird publically and directly saying something sexual to another. "

Oh I love directly telling someone something sexual. How else do I let them know what I want to do with them

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"

I love talking about sex but I feel weird publically and directly saying something sexual to another.

Oh I love directly telling someone something sexual. How else do I let them know what I want to do with them "

Ah got it! Awesome.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks guys. Some ideas for threads tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock threads

Virus

Politics

Religion

Be kind

(Insert user name ) is .....

Hugs

And the sexual elitist types where the rest of us are just sooooo vanilla

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By *ljamMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Be Kind

Snog Fuck Marry

Anything with anyones name as a title, including my own , cept a birthday one.

Profile help

Same as this

Oh and 'Men only' "

These, and the cock size/rating threads which pop up with depressingly boring frequency

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The troll ones designed to provoke, the self pity ones and the super ego ones. Also anything too long and deep.

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Politics, covid and profile advice, sometimes I can't help myself though.

Plus the rate my this and rate my that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Politics, covid and profile advice, sometimes I can't help myself though.

Plus the rate my this and rate my that."
i love your name. #geeky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm thinking of leaving threads. Just leave.

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By *ambozaMan
over a year ago

kilburn park

Today it would be cricket... I’m still traumatised

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine


"Politics, covid and profile advice, sometimes I can't help myself though.

Plus the rate my this and rate my that. i love your name. #geeky. "
the woman for me will work it out as well.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

I prefer to give River Boat Thursday a wide berth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Today it would be cricket... I’m still traumatised "

Has anyone ever talked about cricket here? Goodness.

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By *igmaMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Never go near Welders Mask Wednesdays either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Never go near Welders Mask Wednesdays either!"

Haha I will look out for it I am sure I could probably have some input

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

The "I'm not having any luck" threads ... they seldom act on any of the advice given , and some of the answers are less than friendly , I guess peeps have become blasé ...

Oh and also

The "Are there any genuine subs /sluts /bi/ doms/ whatever " , I just find them annoying .. even more so when the OP joined 2 months ago .

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By *tue555Man
over a year ago

Another Time


"Be Kind

Snog Fuck Marry

Anything with anyones name as a title, including my own , cept a birthday one.

Profile help

"

What GC said ^^^^^

....The Poster Above, Below etc

Popularity Threads

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Be Kind

Snog Fuck Marry

Anything with anyones name as a title, including my own , cept a birthday one.

Profile help

What GC said ^^^^^

....The Poster Above, Below etc

Popularity Threads "

I seldom take part but I have one universal answer when I do ...whatever the question "snog" I'm a snogger kinda girl anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The look at me and fab my pictures threads.

A desperate need for validation from strangers that you are sexy.

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By *lueEyesEnigmaMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Men in panties

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