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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield

Morning. How is everyone? Lockdown has been a roller coaster of a ride but right now I’m dropping like a stone. Not looking for anything except saying if you feel the same and want a friendly word or two then I’m here. Stay safe and well everyone

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Yeah I’m having a tough day today.

It’s just twats, but I’m already tired and I can’t be doing with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I’m having a tough day today.

It’s just twats, but I’m already tired and I can’t be doing with it. "

I think you’re amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s rough, but we’re getting there. Hopefully things will improve now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having a thoughtful day too. My mood is definitely reflective today

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

Plenty of people have found this lockdown very tough. As with other intense feelings like depression, when you’re in the middle of it, it feels like it will be forever.

It definitely won’t be, so it’s ok to find it hard going but things will improve

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

One day at a time.

Try put aside things that don't matter atm. Focus on yourself x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One day at a time.

Try put aside things that don't matter atm. Focus on yourself x"

I think you’re amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chin up, big man

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By *iking67Man
over a year ago

BP Auckland

I have been quite down throughout but last few weeks been much worse.

Libido is virtually non existent and wondering if I would be useless when meetings are safe again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been quite down throughout but last few weeks been much worse.

Libido is virtually non existent and wondering if I would be useless when meetings are safe again. "

I think you’re amazing

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .

I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .

I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help "

I think YOU are amazing.

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Sorry to hear OP.

Some days are harder than others.

Hug of support to you any anyone else who needs one today.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I feel for you. It's tough. Just take it day by day.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .

I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help

I think YOU are amazing. "

Awww cheers dude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .

I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help

I think YOU are amazing. "

Have you checked the forum rules to see if this is considered spamming the forums?

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

What helps me when the black dog descends is to focus on one good thing however small. It may be how soft my cats for feels or even an amusing post on here. This can be enough driftwood to keep me afloat that day.

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Yeah I’m having a tough day today.

It’s just twats, but I’m already tired and I can’t be doing with it. "

just saying hi and hang in there

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"It’s rough, but we’re getting there. Hopefully things will improve now. "

thanks and yes things are improving

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Plenty of people have found this lockdown very tough. As with other intense feelings like depression, when you’re in the middle of it, it feels like it will be forever.

It definitely won’t be, so it’s ok to find it hard going but things will improve "

thanks for taking the time

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"One day at a time.

Try put aside things that don't matter atm. Focus on yourself x"

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Chin up, big man "

oh god, you saying my chin is droopy, too heavy, agggh I've never thought about my chin before... thanks for saying hi

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"I have been quite down throughout but last few weeks been much worse.

Libido is virtually non existent and wondering if I would be useless when meetings are safe again. "

I know that feeling, very little has been giving me a rise recently, can't wait to feel the sun on my back and I'm hoping that does the job. Hang in there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Juzt do something, anything, even if its just a sit down shower?

Anything that you do is an achievement, sometimes the hardest thing of all is to just keep going.

Sending hugs freely xx

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .

I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help "

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Sorry to hear OP.

Some days are harder than others.

Hug of support to you any anyone else who needs one today."

Thanks,

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"I feel for you. It's tough. Just take it day by day."

thanks

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .

I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help

I think YOU are amazing.

Have you checked the forum rules to see if this is considered spamming the forums?"

Hi, sorry if I've broken any rules, didn't mean to, there's no other intention to the message, I don't post much to the forums, keep meaning to. I'll check on the rules going forward.

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"What helps me when the black dog descends is to focus on one good thing however small. It may be how soft my cats for feels or even an amusing post on here. This can be enough driftwood to keep me afloat that day.

"

I certainly do that, you got a cat, I have a dog, keeps me smiling, except when he's barking in the middle of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .

I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help

I think YOU are amazing.

Have you checked the forum rules to see if this is considered spamming the forums?

Hi, sorry if I've broken any rules, didn't mean to, there's no other intention to the message, I don't post much to the forums, keep meaning to. I'll check on the rules going forward."

This wasn't about you, but about the post above. Your post is fine x

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Juzt do something, anything, even if its just a sit down shower?

Anything that you do is an achievement, sometimes the hardest thing of all is to just keep going.

Sending hugs freely xx"

thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I feel ya OP. It's been fucking shit , but you are not alone in this .

I would imagine almost every single person or someone that lives alone is feeling it atm , me included . But stay strong and talk to people you trust and it will help

I think YOU are amazing.

Have you checked the forum rules to see if this is considered spamming the forums?

Hi, sorry if I've broken any rules, didn't mean to, there's no other intention to the message, I don't post much to the forums, keep meaning to. I'll check on the rules going forward."

You’ve not broken any rules. That post was aimed at me. Big hugs to you. It’s tough right now. One day at a time. I have a dog too and walking him helps me. Ax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lost my mum and dad before Christmas and its been the toughest thing to face each day. Sometimes i forget and it hits again...do what you need to do each day to get through it and make sure to love everyone in your life you hold dear..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know it's hard but try and stay positive as we are nearly there! Honestly soon enough we will have our lives back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Ok to feel like crap, it's a shitty situation we're all in. All we can do is keep our heads above water and know that at some point it will pass. Hang in there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely struggling at the moment.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

You just got to keep going but at times it's not easy roll on the weekend x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I feel your pain OP. I can recommend getting into the forums more. When I'm feeling low I force myself to post on a few different threads and the interaction gives me a bit of a boost.

Alternatively, as said above, long nature walks with my dog are a godsend right now.

Keep smiling mate, feel free to message if you ever need an ear

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"You just got to keep going but at times it's not easy roll on the weekend x "

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"I feel your pain OP. I can recommend getting into the forums more. When I'm feeling low I force myself to post on a few different threads and the interaction gives me a bit of a boost.

Alternatively, as said above, long nature walks with my dog are a godsend right now.

Keep smiling mate, feel free to message if you ever need an ear "

Thanks for that

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Definitely struggling at the moment. "

Just saying hi and happy to chat more. Yesterday was tough today feels a little easier. Take care of yourself

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"It's Ok to feel like crap, it's a shitty situation we're all in. All we can do is keep our heads above water and know that at some point it will pass. Hang in there x"

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"I know it's hard but try and stay positive as we are nearly there! Honestly soon enough we will have our lives back "

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By *udepaul OP   Man
over a year ago

sheffield


"Lost my mum and dad before Christmas and its been the toughest thing to face each day. Sometimes i forget and it hits again...do what you need to do each day to get through it and make sure to love everyone in your life you hold dear.."

I’m so sorry to hear that. My heart goes out to you. Stay safe and strong, it would be what they want for you x

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