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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For a swingers club/meet up.

Can’t wait to see what I’ve been missing. How was your first one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years ago my visit was amazing I couldn’t have been made to feel more welcomed. I was introduced to quite a few people and became friends with them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"4 years ago my visit was amazing I couldn’t have been made to feel more welcomed. I was introduced to quite a few people and became friends with them

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Nice I must say I’m looking forward to trying it, most people said similar answers so definitely worthwhile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great tbf and as silly as it sounds it's not always about the sex. It's about being social in a more liberal setting with friends on the scene

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great tbf and as silly as it sounds it's not always about the sex. It's about being social in a more liberal setting with friends on the scene"

Doesn’t sound silly tbh it will be nice to be around people who all have something in common with eachother, obviously sex is always good hah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great tbf and as silly as it sounds it's not always about the sex. It's about being social in a more liberal setting with friends on the scene"

Yes I totally agree with this as advice goes you’re usually told don’t go expecting anything just treat it like a social and if something happens it happens...

It’s a really good way to make friends and build connections and then when you have it’s easier to make arrangements to meet after ... what I found anyway

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Great tbf and as silly as it sounds it's not always about the sex. It's about being social in a more liberal setting with friends on the scene"

I had a great time too but for ne is was about sex as i had not had any for years. Luckily there were people there who i was attracted to so had a geeat night. I was not nervous before i went i was just very excited.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great tbf and as silly as it sounds it's not always about the sex. It's about being social in a more liberal setting with friends on the scene

I had a great time too but for ne is was about sex as i had not had any for years. Luckily there were people there who i was attracted to so had a geeat night. I was not nervous before i went i was just very excited."
love the honesty, some lucky people that night then

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Great tbf and as silly as it sounds it's not always about the sex. It's about being social in a more liberal setting with friends on the scene

Yes I totally agree with this as advice goes you’re usually told don’t go expecting anything just treat it like a social and if something happens it happens...

It’s a really good way to make friends and build connections and then when you have it’s easier to make arrangements to meet after ... what I found anyway "
agree with you both

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I only live a couple of minutes walk away from The Attic in Derby, but Ron makes you feel welcome, as will any owner the first time you enter their premises. Just behave yourself, stick to the rules, and you'll always be welcome back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I only live a couple of minutes walk away from The Attic in Derby, but Ron makes you feel welcome, as will any owner the first time you enter their premises. Just behave yourself, stick to the rules, and you'll always be welcome back "
that’s fair enough nice one pal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have never been but it’s on our to do list when we can safety do so xx

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Great tbf and as silly as it sounds it's not always about the sex. It's about being social in a more liberal setting with friends on the scene"

We agree with this, and if sex happens then that's the cherry on the top.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have never been but it’s on our to do list when we can safety do so xx"

Yeah I think it’s definitely worth trying obviously when we can haha xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First time in a club was nerve wracking.

I went with a male friend who knew the club well, and he looked after me, which helped.

Its still my favourite club and I do hope it reopens, in time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On the post lockdown to do list

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"First time in a club was nerve wracking.

I went with a male friend who knew the club well, and he looked after me, which helped.

Its still my favourite club and I do hope it reopens, in time x"

Yeah I hope they reopen I really want to try it out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"On the post lockdown to do list "

Same boat mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the post lockdown to do list

Same boat mate "

Looking forward to the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love chameleons club.. first time was so liberating friendly and socially fantastic.

Cant wait to get back in jacuzzi

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I went with a friend. I would have been in over my head and intimidated on my own. It was utterly liberating.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love chameleons club.. first time was so liberating friendly and socially fantastic.

Cant wait to get back in jacuzzi "

They got a jacuzzi what haha that’s crazyyyy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s definitely on my to do list, I’ve never been either, but from all of the things I’ve read/seen on here the social side sounds really good. Plus you never know what experiences could be had.. roll on the end of lockdown

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I went with a friend. I would have been in over my head and intimidated on my own. It was utterly liberating."

Yh I might have to go with someone just so not on my own

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"Love chameleons club.. first time was so liberating friendly and socially fantastic.

Cant wait to get back in jacuzzi

They got a jacuzzi what haha that’s crazyyyy "

Most clubs do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Love chameleons club.. first time was so liberating friendly and socially fantastic.

Cant wait to get back in jacuzzi

They got a jacuzzi what haha that’s crazyyyy

Most clubs do."

Bloody hell I’m in for a right treat hah don’t really know the first thing like I said I’m pretty new

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It’s definitely on my to do list, I’ve never been either, but from all of the things I’ve read/seen on here the social side sounds really good. Plus you never know what experiences could be had.. roll on the end of lockdown "

That’s the spirit haha, yeah definitely got some making up to do after this shit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our first time in a club was for a fet event, CM/nf. We started going to swing nights for the social scene and to make use of the dungeon at our favourite club. We knew a few people from the fet scene so it was easier to relax. We love the larger orgy rooms as they really get the juices flowing, if you know what I mean, from a voyeuristic point of view.

Now I’d find it boring going to a ‘normal’ club

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Our first time in a club was for a fet event, CM/nf. We started going to swing nights for the social scene and to make use of the dungeon at our favourite club. We knew a few people from the fet scene so it was easier to relax. We love the larger orgy rooms as they really get the juices flowing, if you know what I mean, from a voyeuristic point of view.

Now I’d find it boring going to a ‘normal’ club "

I am really excited to test it all out, and tbh I’m bored of normal clubs and all that it’s just not fun anymore so I really wanted to see what a swingers club was like

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

It was in my trying to build my confidence stage.

I went on my own, walked over to the reception desk and said "I'd like to join your club please, coz I'm a strong confident woman" then stood there thinking "I'm a dick"

Took me a good half hour to come out of the changing room coz I was so nervous.

I went to the jacuzzi, checked nobody was in there and just floated in it for a while.

A few people came in and knocked me feng shui off so I buggered off and had a wander about.

Folks started chatting to me which helped my nerves but at the same time I felt like maybe they were only talking to me coz they wanted to fuck me.

I did a bit more wandering around, getting more comfortable as the night went on then went home. I went back the following weekend coz I'd got my first time nerves out the way and had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I not been I would love to go tho with me having eye sight problems its hard to get to 1

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

The first lady I met on Fab is a great laugh and we are still friends now (8 years later).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It was in my trying to build my confidence stage.

I went on my own, walked over to the reception desk and said "I'd like to join your club please, coz I'm a strong confident woman" then stood there thinking "I'm a dick"

Took me a good half hour to come out of the changing room coz I was so nervous.

I went to the jacuzzi, checked nobody was in there and just floated in it for a while.

A few people came in and knocked me feng shui off so I buggered off and had a wander about.

Folks started chatting to me which helped my nerves but at the same time I felt like maybe they were only talking to me coz they wanted to fuck me.

I did a bit more wandering around, getting more comfortable as the night went on then went home. I went back the following weekend coz I'd got my first time nerves out the way and had a great time."

I don’t know if I’ve got the balls to go on my own. Although floating around in a jacuzzi for a bit sounds ok just going to have to have a chat myself and do the strong, confident woman thing and do it

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"It was in my trying to build my confidence stage.

I went on my own, walked over to the reception desk and said "I'd like to join your club please, coz I'm a strong confident woman" then stood there thinking "I'm a dick"

Took me a good half hour to come out of the changing room coz I was so nervous.

I went to the jacuzzi, checked nobody was in there and just floated in it for a while.

A few people came in and knocked me feng shui off so I buggered off and had a wander about.

Folks started chatting to me which helped my nerves but at the same time I felt like maybe they were only talking to me coz they wanted to fuck me.

I did a bit more wandering around, getting more comfortable as the night went on then went home. I went back the following weekend coz I'd got my first time nerves out the way and had a great time.

I don’t know if I’ve got the balls to go on my own. Although floating around in a jacuzzi for a bit sounds ok just going to have to have a chat myself and do the strong, confident woman thing and do it "

I was totally trying to convince myself that was the case. My voice was saying the words, my bowels were saying otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love chameleons club.. first time was so liberating friendly and socially fantastic.

Cant wait to get back in jacuzzi

They got a jacuzzi what haha that’s crazyyyy "

2 jacuzzi 10-15 folk type massive jacuzzis..

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

only ever been on my own, can't be doing with being followed about by single guys

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