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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just say no thanks and move on. Don't chat loads then block. It's just rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SHAFT!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Parklife!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Parklife!"

Made me laugh I had to go back and read it again to the theme tune adding "parklife" at the end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you said something they didn't like

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

That's folks for you. Don't let it get to you. Just forget and move on.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a lovely thought OP and I used to do, when I started here 10 years ago. But I encourage you to accept the block as a clean break, a clear message, so that you can put 100% of your energy elsewhere.

People have many reasons, magnified enormously during the pandemic, for putting their focus away from a new no strings contact - health, family, employment, finance, kids, bereavement and many other things that take priority.

By communicating with people you would be better to accept the terms that it's fully without obligation to get any further contact whatsoever. It is obligation and requirement free, apart from being respectful.

Managing your expectations is important and only something that you can do. Truly accepting the site terms is important, no reply equals no further interest. If you expect unrealistically and unreasonably, people will sense it and your attitude may cause what you resist

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Just say no thanks and move on. Don't chat loads then block. It's just rude."

I agree x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of people block for lots of reasons, and some times a conversation just fizzles out, sometimes a person doesn't take the hint. Etc etc

I block lots of people that don't meet what I'm looking for, I don't meet what they are looking for etc etc

I'd rather spend my time and efforts investing in people that are interested in me, than those that aren't

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I know we've been chatting but actually.... I've changed my mind, I'm no longer interested.

Now. You OP may be incredibly accepting and respectful of that.

You OP may think other people would be too.

*insert game show "wrong answer" noise.

That ain't how this shit goes down.

Before you've wished them well on their fab journey you're a time wasting prick teasing fat slag who needs to be taught a lesson, fall under a train and die and if you're really lucky they may threaten to involve your family in something particularly heinous.

Yes, people could then report them bla bla bla, but that kinda shit, as pathetic as it is, can be pretty haunting

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I do know people who have accidentally blocked others.

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I know we've been chatting but actually.... I've changed my mind, I'm no longer interested.

Now. You OP may be incredibly accepting and respectful of that.

You OP may think other people would be too.

*insert game show "wrong answer" noise.

That ain't how this shit goes down.

Before you've wished them well on their fab journey you're a time wasting prick teasing fat slag who needs to be taught a lesson, fall under a train and die and if you're really lucky they may threaten to involve your family in something particularly heinous.

Yes, people could then report them bla bla bla, but that kinda shit, as pathetic as it is, can be pretty haunting "

I think anyone who types "bla" instead of "blah" should be blocked immediately :D

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"I know we've been chatting but actually.... I've changed my mind, I'm no longer interested.

Now. You OP may be incredibly accepting and respectful of that.

You OP may think other people would be too.

*insert game show "wrong answer" noise.

That ain't how this shit goes down.

Before you've wished them well on their fab journey you're a time wasting prick teasing fat slag who needs to be taught a lesson, fall under a train and die and if you're really lucky they may threaten to involve your family in something particularly heinous.

Yes, people could then report them bla bla bla, but that kinda shit, as pathetic as it is, can be pretty haunting

I think anyone who types "bla" instead of "blah" should be blocked immediately :D"

That's 3 extra keyboard taps! Efforrrrrrrrrrrt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know we've been chatting but actually.... I've changed my mind, I'm no longer interested.

Now. You OP may be incredibly accepting and respectful of that.

You OP may think other people would be too.

*insert game show "wrong answer" noise.

That ain't how this shit goes down.

Before you've wished them well on their fab journey you're a time wasting prick teasing fat slag who needs to be taught a lesson, fall under a train and die and if you're really lucky they may threaten to involve your family in something particularly heinous.

Yes, people could then report them bla bla bla, but that kinda shit, as pathetic as it is, can be pretty haunting "

Yep totally this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have free will to do as they please with their profile.

Some are twunts with this power but not much you can do, just suck it up and move on buddy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see blocking as rude ever to be honest.

Yes sometimes it can be a bit confusing especially if you can't see a reason particularly if you've been chatting to someone but there will be a reason, You might not agree with it but actually people block for all kinds of reasons.

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By *ilfCrumpet9Man
over a year ago

Wirral

Same here, was speaking to a couple for a few days and nothing bad was said and then out of the blue got blocked WTF. Just be polite and say no thank you. Why the f..... g drama

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Just say no thanks and move on. Don't chat loads then block. It's just rude."

Yes it is rude and a bit childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you’re amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got my first block last week ! Not bad for 5 weeks not all bad though as the wife contacted me on another account later that day and apologised

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think you’re amazing. "

Not all men.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Momma told me that life was like a box of paranoid blockers.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Momma was right !

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By *aseMan
over a year ago

Gourock

Bumped...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you’re amazing.

Not all men."

I think YOU’RE amazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bumped..."

Thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bumped..."

Phew

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think you’re amazing.

Not all men.

I think YOU’RE amazing. "

All men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think you’re amazing.

Not all men.

I think YOU’RE amazing.

All men."

I THINK you’re amazing.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"I think you’re amazing.

Not all men.

I think YOU’RE amazing.

All men.

I THINK you’re amazing. "

He THINKS therefore I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/03/21 08:53:23]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Blocked by poster at 04/03/21 08:53:23]"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 04/03/21 08:54:54]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 04/03/21 08:54:54]"

I'm such a Carrick.

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