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"I'm not really down with the current beauty trends, I like to be a bit rough and ready but importantly also clean "You do need to elaborate on "rough and ready", please ! | |||
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"You know.. the current beauty trends.. are you intimated by people who fit into those or you rock your timeless style regardless?
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"Not intimidated, feeling old yes with teenagers wearing 90's fashion. Previous partner wouldn't allow me to wear what I wanted. Now I just wear whatever the heck I like, " Hence the grin I guess? Embrace it ! X | |||
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"I am me ... I am monkey ... I refuse to "comform" ... it is take me or leave me ... fashion is fleeting and changing ... I am consistent ... since you ask "How are Sandy and Pigsy Monkey? | |||
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"I am me ... I am monkey ... I refuse to "comform" ... it is take me or leave me ... fashion is fleeting and changing ... I am consistent ... since you ask
How are Sandy and Pigsy Monkey?"They're fine ... it's that fucking Shaolin monk though .... | |||
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"I am me ... I am monkey ... I refuse to "comform" ... it is take me or leave me ... fashion is fleeting and changing ... I am consistent ... since you ask "So maybe those who follow trends are more adaptable creatures than those who don't? Just trying to see all the "sides" of it. | |||
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"I'm not really down with the current beauty trends, I like to be a bit rough and ready but importantly also clean
You do need to elaborate on "rough and ready", please ! "Looking a bit weathered | |||
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"My style is timeless anyway  "You changed that pic to illustrate it;-) ? | |||
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"Not intimidated, feeling old yes with teenagers wearing 90's fashion. Previous partner wouldn't allow me to wear what I wanted. Now I just wear whatever the heck I like, Hence the grin I guess? Embrace it ! X" Think that's the thing beauty/fashion should be fun and an expression of self, definitely should be embraced  | |||
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"I'm waiting for the "lady-tashe" to become a symbol of beauty. I'll be well prepared." How about starting a trend? How does one do that ? | |||
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I dress to make me feel good. If someone wants to feed me cake, sit on my face and tell me I'm pretty as a result of that then who am I to argue?  | |||
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"I am me ... I am monkey ... I refuse to "comform" ... it is take me or leave me ... fashion is fleeting and changing ... I am consistent ... since you ask
So maybe those who follow trends are more adaptable creatures than those who don't? Just trying to see all the "sides" of it. "Oh I adapt ... but I don't feel the need to change my looks to emerging trends to fit in ... I think adaptability goes deeper than appearance alone | |||
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"Beauty is to be embraced and celebrated, as is ordinary " I was going to say 'Beauty is to be embraced and celebrated, as long as it shines from within' I mean, it does, but what stopped me typing that is that it's one of those statements that we use without thinking It suggests you can't be beautiful to look at and be beautiful to be around That's just a phallusy I've been lucky enough to spend time with many people who are beautiful, outside AND in There are those amongst us that can't cope with someone having both Outward beauty often attracts negativity and cynicism | |||
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"Beauty is beautiful and can be found in all sorts of forms.... aesthetics and fashion change but beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That may come across as a bit glib and I do understand the pressure felt by many people to conform to style guides and norms of all kinds. If you find it beautiful it has value. " I like checking what's "in" because I do like guidance to feel part of something too. Wave to a woman wearing same coat and get an air high 5;-) But I like my own spin and I don't pack things away because they are not currently fashionable. As for looks.. I found what I'm comfortable with. It just needs little polish here and there so no trend following here.. | |||
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"You know.. the current beauty trends.. are you intimated by people who fit into those or you rock your timeless style regardless?
What style?? "A nonchalant one | |||
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"I've never followed a trend. I'm just me, take it or leave it..." Same here, it’s a good way to be | |||
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"I have no idea what the current beauty trends are. Then again I never did Lex" Maybe its best that way. Focusing on you ! | |||
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"I'm waiting for the "lady-tashe" to become a symbol of beauty. I'll be well prepared. How about starting a trend? How does one do that ? "Ya just fucking own it | |||
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"I don't have a particular timeless style but I'm not intimidated by those who fit the modern aesthetic. Life isn't a competition, well beauty certainly isn't. And I refuse to see other women and their beauty as something that's intimidating - I'd much rather celebrate them than tear them down whether they follow current beauty trends or not. " I didnt think of tearing down at all here. More of putting oneself down. | |||
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"I'm not really down with the current beauty trends, I like to be a bit rough and ready but importantly also clean
You do need to elaborate on "rough and ready", please !
Looking a bit weathered "Got ya! | |||
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"I've never followed a trend. I'm just me, take it or leave it..." How did you find "you"? Trying on a trend or just getting lucky with shopping choices? | |||
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"I've never followed a trend. I'm just me, take it or leave it... How did you find "you"? Trying on a trend or just getting lucky with shopping choices? " I don't even know what me is! My "fashion" choices in recent years have been dictated by comfort and a desire to avoid allodynia on my stupid leg | |||
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"You know.. the current beauty trends.. are you intimated by people who fit into those or you rock your timeless style regardless?
What style??
A nonchalant one"Yep . A fair summary | |||
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"It concerns me greatly that I don’t have a thigh gap. " Your dick would spoil the view anyway when it dangles down between your legs.  | |||
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"It concerns me greatly that I don’t have a thigh gap. Your dick would spoil the view anyway when it dangles down between your legs. "Just keep flicking it out the way. | |||
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"I find it hard when theres a mismatch, inner beauty is the really important thing! If someone appears beautiful but exhibits ugly personality traits which I think I can see, maybe when others do not? And yet, I will admit to being shallow and initially being attracted by a beautiful face, or body! But if theres no depth there, it fades, my liking, that is." And all the yeses to this  | |||
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"I don’t have a clue what’s going on with beauty/fashion etc. I wear what suits me, and I’m happy "Same, I’m very unfashionable  | |||
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"You know.. the current beauty trends.. are you intimated by people who fit into those or you rock your timeless style regardless?
"i wouldnt say intimated but definitely mesmerised by people like that... I met a woman recently and she was just so effortlessly cool...They way she dressed and a sexy tattoo that really suited her.. I wasn't intimated but I did want run out and get a tattoo!! | |||
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"I'm waiting for the "lady-tashe" to become a symbol of beauty. I'll be well prepared." And hairy legs. | |||
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"Theres a girl I work with that I find super stunning! I can chat away to her without any issues via messenger etc but I stutter if I chat in person, feel really awkward around her and struggle to hold a conversation! I'm very intimidated when I'm in front of her" Awwwww Bants, you didn't strike me as the intimidated type | |||
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"Theres a girl I work with that I find super stunning! I can chat away to her without any issues via messenger etc but I stutter if I chat in person, feel really awkward around her and struggle to hold a conversation! I'm very intimidated when I'm in front of her Awwwww Bants, you didn't strike me as the intimidated type "Normally I'm not but this girl is pretty amazing! I can chat and have a good laugh with her regular on messenger but just cant string a sentence in person. | |||
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"Theres a girl I work with that I find super stunning! I can chat away to her without any issues via messenger etc but I stutter if I chat in person, feel really awkward around her and struggle to hold a conversation! I'm very intimidated when I'm in front of her Awwwww Bants, you didn't strike me as the intimidated type
Normally I'm not but this girl is pretty amazing! I can chat and have a good laugh with her regular on messenger but just cant string a sentence in person. "You're unveiling this rather cute and fluffy interior, my good man  | |||
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"Theres a girl I work with that I find super stunning! I can chat away to her without any issues via messenger etc but I stutter if I chat in person, feel really awkward around her and struggle to hold a conversation! I'm very intimidated when I'm in front of her Awwwww Bants, you didn't strike me as the intimidated type
Normally I'm not but this girl is pretty amazing! I can chat and have a good laugh with her regular on messenger but just cant string a sentence in person.
You're unveiling this rather cute and fluffy interior, my good man "Just a big softie! I'm actually quite shy too!  | |||
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"Theres a girl I work with that I find super stunning! I can chat away to her without any issues via messenger etc but I stutter if I chat in person, feel really awkward around her and struggle to hold a conversation! I'm very intimidated when I'm in front of her Awwwww Bants, you didn't strike me as the intimidated type
Normally I'm not but this girl is pretty amazing! I can chat and have a good laugh with her regular on messenger but just cant string a sentence in person.
You're unveiling this rather cute and fluffy interior, my good man
Just a big softie! I'm actually quite shy too! "Now I want to come up there and give you a big hug  | |||
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"To answer your question, yes, I do think beauty can be intimidating. Not in terms of trends or purely physical beauty, I'm talking about the amalgamation of a beautiful soul who shines both inside and out. There are many beautiful people who have raised my heartbeat and made me a sweaty nervous mess purely from being in their presence." Thank you. It warmed my heart reading this. | |||
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"It depends, some cases yes but I couldn’t tell you what it would depend on haha, guess how I’m feeling about myself at the time... love a bit of body dysmorphia "Would you mind telling us more about this, please? I don't know much about body dysphoria and better to hear it from someone who experienced it than Google, I think. | |||
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"Beautiful men intimidate me. I go shy and bashful and can’t look at them. It has always been so. I have never personally followed beauty trends because I’m not conventionally attractive and would likely look awful. You have to work with what you’ve got." I do like your point La Luna. Not everything out there will suit us and why 'ridicule' yourself looking awful in something trendy or altering our image, because it does nothing for your body shape or complexion or .. self esteem. When you own it, you put your own stamp on it...maybe? Just brainstorming out loud.. not sure where my conclusion is heading yet! | |||
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"Theres a girl I work with that I find super stunning! I can chat away to her without any issues via messenger etc but I stutter if I chat in person, feel really awkward around her and struggle to hold a conversation! I'm very intimidated when I'm in front of her" I do wonder if she knows deep inside and finds your nerves a compliment in a way..? | |||
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"I tend to wear what I’m comfortable in, not what trends going ..we are on about clothes aren’t we Rose "Not exclusively! There are trends each decade when it comes to body shape, eyebrow shape, hair styles, etc. So you can alter your looks too or just remain faithful to what have you found suits you. | |||
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"Beauty , to me, is not so much as a symmetrical face as much as pure soul, twinkling eyes and simple truth. Can't botox that in with a needle. Give me the craggy face of a man who has lived a life." There is a magical beauty in wrinkles and scars. A life story on our skin. | |||
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"* I'll be back * Ok Terminator " Haha you remembered! | |||
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"I’m at the stage now where I don’t give a flying one. " It's a good place to be. | |||
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"I admire people who take snippets of different fashion and intermingle them into a style that suits them. My sister is way more girly than me and is effortlessly current. It just doesn’t compute with me so I dress for comfort. I’m not stylish but my outfits are very clearly me if that makes sense... " It does! I saw you
Yes, if you can add your own twist on merge things tastefully that's a skill.. | |||
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"I do sometimes scare myself when I look in the mirror "Bed hair can be very intimidating. | |||
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"For me, everyone can do their own thing. As long as they're comfortable with how they look then it's not for me to judge
I dress to make me feel good. If someone wants to feed me cake, sit on my face and tell me I'm pretty as a result of that then who am I to argue? "Sit on your face AND feed you cake? That's just greedy. You should be feeding the face sitter cake as her mouth isn't otherwise occupied. | |||
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"I like things of beauty. I stared, rather rudely, at a Virgin Airlines co-pilot on the tube once. He was very handsome and in uniform. I had to keep dragging my eyes away. " Captivating. My youngest child looks beautiful asleep.. the shadows of eyelashes in the night light and softness of relaxed muscles all over the face, peacefulness and stillness in beauty..are a mesmerising sight. | |||
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"I am me ... I am monkey ... I refuse to "comform" ... it is take me or leave me ... fashion is fleeting and changing ... I am consistent ... since you ask
How are Sandy and Pigsy Monkey?
They're fine ... it's that fucking Shaolin monk though ...."Was they boy or girl? | |||
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"Don't follow trends. Set them " I'm not sure how I would feel about people copying me too?  | |||
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"I wouldn't say I am intimidated by the latest trends and those who fit into them, but the pressure definitely gets to me sometimes that I don't fit the high standards that society loves these days. I'd be lying if I said it didn't bother me. " Thanks for sharing that LBC. I do feel sometimes that to look good in a certain dress for example, I need a certain body shape. I might be right, or wrong, but the fact I don't allow myself to get out of the comfort zone on occasion, does make me frustrated. So I do push myself. Just a little.
And I like proving myself wrong.
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"I like things of beauty. I stared, rather rudely, at a Virgin Airlines co-pilot on the tube once. He was very handsome and in uniform. I had to keep dragging my eyes away. Captivating. My youngest child looks beautiful asleep.. the shadows of eyelashes in the night light and softness of relaxed muscles all over the face, peacefulness and stillness in beauty..are a mesmerising sight. " My daughters have beautiful eyes. We often get commented on our eyes when we're out together. | |||
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Yes I would love to look like a model of a magazine but I love dessert too much. I would love to buy nice clothes but right now my money is needed elsewhere and I don’t earn enough.
Not something I take too serious but when I can I do like to look good. | |||
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"It concerns me greatly that I don’t have a thigh gap. " But do you NEED one or want one? | |||
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"Beauty is to be embraced and celebrated, as is ordinary I was going to say 'Beauty is to be embraced and celebrated, as long as it shines from within' I mean, it does, but what stopped me typing that is that it's one of those statements that we use without thinking It suggests you can't be beautiful to look at and be beautiful to be around That's just a phallusy I've been lucky enough to spend time with many people who are beautiful, outside AND in There are those amongst us that can't cope with someone having both Outward beauty often attracts negativity and cynicism " Yes there are. But I was aiming more at what we feel inside like.. does it downgrade our confidence being surrounded by those of "standard beauty" or we are able to free ourselves from comparing. | |||
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I have always worn what I feel comfortable in.
I love Beauty in all aspects and think the world is full of things that make you feel good.
I have felt intimidated by people's intelligence before, but not beauty, I don't think.
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"I have never followed fashion.
I have always worn what I feel comfortable in.
I love Beauty in all aspects and think the world is full of things that make you feel good.
I have felt intimidated by people's intelligence before, but not beauty, I don't think.
I think you’re amazing
Jo.Xx " | |||
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"Give me alternative over the current trends any day" Oh you rebel | |||
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