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By *ussyboy OP   Man
over a year ago

NW

Having been on and off here for a while its aparent that men will meet at the drop of a hat and rarely turn a meet down however, i have found that women arent like this.

Is this because there are so many men on here they can pick and choose or that the ladies arent like the men and dont just want sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all men.

Damn wrong thread.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

You must be talking to the wrong women, I’m knee deep in clunge right now, literally more quim than I know what to do with.

Sort yourself out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all men.

Damn wrong thread. "

Beat me to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sex, on its own isn’t enticing! Connection, attraction and fun all come into it for me. In fact, when a man says he’s horny, it’s a big turn off, I’m not a hole, I’m a human being.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like sex at the drop of a hat. But it has to be my hat drop and fit into my kid free time!! I get disappointed often by men being unavailable. Or maybe I'm just hideous.

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon


"You must be talking to the wrong women, I’m knee deep in clunge right now, literally more quim than I know what to do with.

Sort yourself out "

Honey.... your leg isn't the bit you're meant to insert.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Having been on and off here for a while its aparent that men will meet at the drop of a hat and rarely turn a meet down however, i have found that women arent like this.

Is this because there are so many men on here they can pick and choose or that the ladies arent like the men and dont just want sex? "

Yes, men are terrible terrible people and all women are angels, well spotted. What other sweeping generalisations have you spotted ?

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

And why does sex sell ? Why do adverts usually have attractive alluring people on them ? Why are sex sites always top heavy in single men ? Why are most sites seeking affairs free for women, but extortionate for men ? Why are clubs often free for women ? Because of men's desire for sex.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"You must be talking to the wrong women, I’m knee deep in clunge right now, literally more quim than I know what to do with.

Sort yourself out

Honey.... your leg isn't the bit you're meant to insert. "

Girth is good, apparently

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE


"Having been on and off here for a while its aparent that men will meet at the drop of a hat and rarely turn a meet down however, i have found that women arent like this.

Is this because there are so many men on here they can pick and choose or that the ladies arent like the men and dont just want sex? "

for us as a couple, whilst there IS a ton of willing single guys, when you start adding in preferences, and red flags etc... and that pool shrinks. we recently opted not to meet single men anymore, not because we don't WANT to, but because it was so much hassle dealing with the 'u wanna fuk 2day in woods?' etc daily..

When we get decent messages, we'll absolutely respond and meet (in time.)

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I refuse to meet at the drop of a hat and always have done even pre covid so you can't tar all men with the same brush.

However I have had messages from women and couples in the last few months asking to meet and they are generally surprised when I refuse and I have been told it's my loss.

Some people make the assumption that if it has a penis you must speak to the penis first and the rest will follow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not trying to sound insulting or sexist but thousands of guys constantly using the sake patter in different contexts becomes lame.It loses its appeal of what it should be about.

Passion.Wanting.Sexual attraction.Memtal attraction.Laughs.And mostly honesty.

So it becomes and confusing disheartening when your looking for the truth in a pool of lies and patter.

Some do look for robot sex with no emotions or mutual wanting and that spark but to me personally I couldn't think of anything worse than giving yourself to someone that basically is just after you for what they can get and use.Robot sex isn't for me lol x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If nothing else, I don't meet just anyone on the spur of the moment for safety reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not all men.

Damn wrong thread. "

Saves me typing this.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

You could warm a ham sandwich and bloke would fuck it. Stick the ham in a hot dog bun and he'd barely get the tip in before he lathered it in mayo.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"You could warm a ham sandwich and bloke would fuck it. Stick the ham in a hot dog bun and he'd barely get the tip in before he lathered it in mayo.

"

More succinct as ever than my previous post

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"You could warm a ham sandwich and bloke would fuck it. Stick the ham in a hot dog bun and he'd barely get the tip in before he lathered it in mayo.

More succinct as ever than my previous post "

I keep forgetting to pull my punches. My thumbs are faster than my brain thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not just a body I have feelings and balls that need to be drained !

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"And why does sex sell ? Why do adverts usually have attractive alluring people on them ? Why are sex sites always top heavy in single men ? Why are most sites seeking affairs free for women, but extortionate for men ? Why are clubs often free for women ? Because of men's desire for sex."

And this

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"You could warm a ham sandwich and bloke would fuck it. Stick the ham in a hot dog bun and he'd barely get the tip in before he lathered it in mayo.

More succinct as ever than my previous post

I keep forgetting to pull my punches. My thumbs are faster than my brain thoughts."

Not at all, you were able to make it shorter and snappier

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove


"I am not just a body I have feelings and balls that need to be drained ! "

And your profile is so sensuous and eloquent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could warm a ham sandwich and bloke would fuck it. Stick the ham in a hot dog bun and he'd barely get the tip in before he lathered it in mayo.

More succinct as ever than my previous post

I keep forgetting to pull my punches. My thumbs are faster than my brain thoughts."

I bet mine can go faster...and harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sex, on its own isn’t enticing! Connection, attraction and fun all come into it for me. In fact, when a man says he’s horny, it’s a big turn off, I’m not a hole, I’m a human being. "

I have said this almost word for word to guys in my inbox before

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

[Removed by poster at 03/03/21 16:14:46]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am not just a body I have feelings and balls that need to be drained !

And your profile is so sensuous and eloquent "

I love being a contradiction

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You could warm a ham sandwich and bloke would fuck it. Stick the ham in a hot dog bun and he'd barely get the tip in before he lathered it in mayo.

"

Call yourself a friend?

Not once have you mentioned you have warm ham sandwiches...let alone hot dog buns!!

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Some guys figure out this site, the majority don’t. Decent profile, visibility and ensuring any connections are treated carefully and respectfully will somehow make that guy appear to have some ‘luck’ on this site.

Whilst the other guys who create a 15 minute profile, don’t contribute to threads or turn up at socials or clubs to gain visibility and send totally inappropriate messages that don’t do them any favours. Create threads moaning about their lack of success or want profile help, that they don’t take.

It’s not Rocket science I should know my ex wife studied it at University

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"You could warm a ham sandwich and bloke would fuck it. Stick the ham in a hot dog bun and he'd barely get the tip in before he lathered it in mayo.

Call yourself a friend?

Not once have you mentioned you have warm ham sandwiches...let alone hot dog buns!! "

The buns are green and the ham smells like fart. That's ok tho right?

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

Without sounding judgemental OP, this kind of observation is a little too close to virtue signalling for my taste.

Some guys are just looking for a sex puppet, some guys are actually picky about who they want to have sex with. Some people claim to be the latter but are actually the former.

It’s a funny old world and there’s nowt as strange as folks, the best bet though is to just do you, concern yourself with what’s happening with you and don’t trouble yourself with how others seem to be.

Comparing your journey with others is a fallacy (note the ‘f’, not ‘ph’) and never ends well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mainly look for NSA fuck and go's or one night stands. But they have to fit round the rest of my life and yes, women have the luxury of being able to pick from more options I guess as the ratio is in our favour xx

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By *ereagainlolMan
over a year ago

Lerwick


"You must be talking to the wrong women, I’m knee deep in clunge right now, literally more quim than I know what to do with.

Sort yourself out

Honey.... your leg isn't the bit you're meant to insert. "

Don't know, some women can fit anything up there lol

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You could warm a ham sandwich and bloke would fuck it. Stick the ham in a hot dog bun and he'd barely get the tip in before he lathered it in mayo.

Call yourself a friend?

Not once have you mentioned you have warm ham sandwiches...let alone hot dog buns!!

The buns are green and the ham smells like fart. That's ok tho right?"

Is it your fart it smells of? If so let me think on it

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"You could warm a ham sandwich and bloke would fuck it. Stick the ham in a hot dog bun and he'd barely get the tip in before he lathered it in mayo.

Call yourself a friend?

Not once have you mentioned you have warm ham sandwiches...let alone hot dog buns!!

The buns are green and the ham smells like fart. That's ok tho right?

Is it your fart it smells of? If so let me think on it "

Signed, sealed and undelivered

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By *izzy69Man
over a year ago

London

I did turn someone down once. She stank of fags, hadn't made the slightest bit of effort in apoearance and looked a bjt like a female Jimmy Saville.

I am still a gentleman, lol, so didn't want to hurt her feelings - made an excuse that something had turned up so had very little time and just gave a good fingering orgasm to to set her on her way.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"You could warm a ham sandwich and bloke would fuck it. Stick the ham in a hot dog bun and he'd barely get the tip in before he lathered it in mayo.

Call yourself a friend?

Not once have you mentioned you have warm ham sandwiches...let alone hot dog buns!!

The buns are green and the ham smells like fart. That's ok tho right?

Is it your fart it smells of? If so let me think on it

Signed, sealed and undelivered "

Stevie Thunderpants

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff


"Having been on and off here for a while its aparent that men will meet at the drop of a hat and rarely turn a meet down however, i have found that women arent like this.

Is this because there are so many men on here they can pick and choose or that the ladies arent like the men and dont just want sex? "

For me, it’s because I need to be attracted to the person, I need to get on with them, I need to trust them enough to feel that I won’t end up dead in a ditch. If there were only two men on here, I’d still “pick and choose”.

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