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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

In light of a few other threads I am looking for help with a big decision regarding my hair style situation.

There’s plenty of hair around the sides and back up to the crown however it is starting to heavily receded at the front and top with even a bald patch on top. Usually I would get it cut short frequently so it’s not as obvious, however with lockdown it’s becoming a bit of a problem and the sides are rapidly outgrowing the top.

I have never had a shaved head before but it’s looking the only option, I’m afraid of what this will do to my confidence if I shave it all off now.

Men, do you find your looked at or treated differently? Women, do you look at men differently?

Any advice or tips?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say shave it off if its receding.

Imagine how good its going to feel not worrying about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s going shave it, job done, a shaved head is better than a receding or thinning head, unless you’ve got a weird shaped head, but you won’t know that until you’ve shaved it.

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

Shave it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Get some clippers with a no 8 guard and use them. You can go shorter afterwards if you want to. It's less drastic than shaving.

If it's of any consequence I prefer a completed or shaved haircut on a man long with a receding hair line. I think it looks good

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Buy a Clash cd innit

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By *arbarianzCouple
over a year ago

BARNSTAPLE


"Buy a Clash cd innit "

If I stay there will be trouble!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd shave the side and fade them. A shaving fade would give illusion that you have more on the top.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say shave it, you won't have to worry about it any more =) and I can't speak for everyone, but a lack of hair isn't something that would put me off a person.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Buy a Clash cd innit

If I stay there will be trouble! "

How much trouble do you want to get into?

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

Shave it all off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave. I don't like the comb over look or long sideburns. My neighbour styles his 6 wispy strands combed over his obvious bald head and I just want to tell him it ages him more. Losing your hair is not some grotesque deformity, it's a completely normal thing to happen to men. I get you want to present your best possible self, but I think you'll find that a lot of women care more about the person, than the hair

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Shave it all off."

He nneds to borrow your razor

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Shave it and see if you like it

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By *atalie..Woman
over a year ago

Bolton

Shave it off

You will never know until you try it, there's always the use of hats if you are not a fan

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Personally I'd shave it if I ever started to lose it ..I'm lucky to have really thick locks ...but it can be a nightmare especially as I'm growing it out at the moment

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By *rying2niteMan
over a year ago

Egremont

Shave it off man....i knew from an early age that i would go bald as all the men in my family had....my dad had a combover in the eighties and i swore then that once a "sunroof" appeared, i was shaving it all off......25 years ive been shaving now !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just have it all very short.

X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shave it off

You will never know until you try it, there's always the use of hats if you are not a fan "

I believe that is called ‘Hat Fishing’ nowadays

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By *uvhandle20Man
over a year ago

SE London

Shave it off or cut it very short. Balding top and long sides and back is only acceptable for 70s prog-rock guitar players

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Can't see your head/face

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Go with a number 2 crop and see how you feel. After that 1 and then, what I have, 0.5. I've had nothing but positive comments once I started doing it. Hey, it's one less thing to worry about!

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley


"In light of a few other threads I am looking for help with a big decision regarding my hair style situation.

There’s plenty of hair around the sides and back up to the crown however it is starting to heavily receded at the front and top with even a bald patch on top. Usually I would get it cut short frequently so it’s not as obvious, however with lockdown it’s becoming a bit of a problem and the sides are rapidly outgrowing the top.

I have never had a shaved head before but it’s looking the only option, I’m afraid of what this will do to my confidence if I shave it all off now.

Men, do you find your looked at or treated differently? Women, do you look at men differently?

Any advice or tips? "

Best thing I ever done mate. Started with an 8 and got lower (down to a two now). Spent years of trying to keep it half decent.now I go out in the rain,wind,in the pool etc and I love the fact I don’t have to worry anymore.go for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shave it and own it. Been skin on top for 20 years. Good pair of chops or a beard work for me.

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