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"I’m going to be controversial in that I rarely feel that a woman looks better for having lip fillers. I’m all for cosmetic procedures if people feel happier in themselves but I often look and think you looked better before when it comes to lips. Perhaps it’s simply my own taste and not the surgery. " I agree with lip fillers... sometimes they look so big they don’t look natural. Btw my lips are all natural luckily | |||
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"If it makes them happy, that's what matters. It doesn't matter what others think really. I don't always think it looks good, but it isn't my body, or my business. " Exactly. Their body their choice. I wouldn't do it - I'm growing old disgracefully | |||
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"I’ve had one rather major surgery and one other that was less so. I’m happy to admit to both as it’s part of my journey to being the person I am today " I suppose the major surgery you had tho was necessary for u and not cosmetic x that’s an operation I’d like to do in the future for me x Tho I have to say it’s a bit different for us trans girl and sometimes we need facial feminisation in order to align to our true selves x | |||
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"Part of me thinks most surgery doesn't look good - but that could be because the good work is invisible. Tons of research before having any work done would be the main advice. Also I wouldn't pay attention to who the celebs use, some of their results look poor, just because a surgeon is famous doesn't automatically mean they are good at what they do. (I, Chris, have had a little work done, and after tons of research it was clear that I had to abroad for a good result. No regrets it worked out for me.) " Agreed as sometimes they literally over do some celebs, I mean look at the Geordie shore girls ... they look so unnatural with the amount of work they done to their face x I think a good surgeon is the one who can enhance without getting people to be like.. omg shes had so much surgery done | |||
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"I have had 2 boob jobs and entire facial reconstruction (facial feminisation surgery ) in Thailand the face work. Then the odd lip filling to plump up the top lip abit . Got neck / underchin contour surgery with a brow lift lined up at end of year , was meant to be last year but covid wrecked the surgeons private work . Surgery is something that always has to be done for the right reason, Yourself only not for others . Research research research is the big thing I would advise anyone and have realistic expectations of results not fantastical glossed up celeb ideas " Total FFM surgery is so expensive in Europe! Hope u did save some ££ by going to Thailand x Definitely needs lots of research x | |||
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"I would 100% upgrade my poor boobs! " Upgrade? They look top grade already | |||
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"I’m going to be controversial in that I rarely feel that a woman looks better for having lip fillers. I’m all for cosmetic procedures if people feel happier in themselves but I often look and think you looked better before when it comes to lips. Perhaps it’s simply my own taste and not the surgery. " Agree 100percent | |||
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"I had a breast reduction but more for physical health rather than cosmetic. They were huge boobies! " That was me | |||
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"I had a breast reduction but more for physical health rather than cosmetic. They were huge boobies! That was me " One of my better decisions if I'm honest! I hope yours worked out as well as mine did for me! | |||
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"I had a breast reduction back in 2000 and this was classed as cosmetic surgery. Recovery was around six weeks which was tricky due to having two small children at the time. Was it worth it..... yes I’ve never looked back. I still have some scarring from under my breasts to my side and my nipples are quite unique as they were graded back on rather than sewn I’m always honest about my surgery as it’s certainly not something to be ashamed of " I know this is or was classed as cosmetic, but I'm not sure it always should be - large breasts can have knock on health effects. | |||
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"If I wasn't so scared of having a medical procedure done and had the money I would have a boob reduction I just really don't like my boobs " Sorry to hear that you don't like them - it's horrible having something you can't change. I was so lucky being able to have the op on the NHS If you ever are in a position to have the op I would say go for it - it's amazing at the changes it makes to your life & confidence x | |||
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"If I wasn't so scared of having a medical procedure done and had the money I would have a boob reduction I just really don't like my boobs " I'm sorry x | |||
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"I had a breast reduction back in 2000 and this was classed as cosmetic surgery. Recovery was around six weeks which was tricky due to having two small children at the time. Was it worth it..... yes I’ve never looked back. I still have some scarring from under my breasts to my side and my nipples are quite unique as they were graded back on rather than sewn I’m always honest about my surgery as it’s certainly not something to be ashamed of I know this is or was classed as cosmetic, but I'm not sure it always should be - large breasts can have knock on health effects." Absolutely this - my back & posture were significantly effected by having huge ones - mine wasn't classed as cosmetic which is why it was NHS funded | |||
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"Depends on the surgery, if it's correcting or altering something and restoring confidence whilst still looking natural I'm all for it, but not when it's the likes of Katie Price or these "influencers" turning themselves into something terrifying off Silent Hill " I agree, I think when you hardly look like a person and more like a plastic doll then it’s not good. I want to correct a few things as mentioned just to feminise my face a bit Which is more like correcting and enhancing but still want to look like me x lol | |||
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"Less is more, too much work done and there are plenty of photos of Celebrities that look a lot worse for the work they’ve paid, to make themselves look younger or better looking. However for a Trans person transitioning I can understand why you need to feminise certain features. So you shouldn’t need to justify your reasoning. Same as breast reduction surgery, not popular with the guys but understandable if it’s causing you day to day issues. " Exactly this x being trans I guess I’d really like a few things to be feminised that I’m not 100% happy about as I find them to look a bit “masculine” x | |||
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"If I wasn't so scared of having a medical procedure done and had the money I would have a boob reduction I just really don't like my boobs " Can't see a problem with them, you look great | |||
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"Less is more, too much work done and there are plenty of photos of Celebrities that look a lot worse for the work they’ve paid, to make themselves look younger or better looking. However for a Trans person transitioning I can understand why you need to feminise certain features. So you shouldn’t need to justify your reasoning. Same as breast reduction surgery, not popular with the guys but understandable if it’s causing you day to day issues. Exactly this x being trans I guess I’d really like a few things to be feminised that I’m not 100% happy about as I find them to look a bit “masculine” x " Well you know my story already. I think I’d you can afford it and it’s really bothering you, then you should just do it. I’m hoping I’ll be satisfied when I can speak again and have retrained my voice. At the moment I still hate what I see in the mirror. | |||
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"I'm probably gonna get my boobs done once I get to goal weight. They're sagging so much already " I do love sagging tits | |||
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"I had one of my bollocks lifted, when I get the money together I’ll get the other one done." Cupped in a hand, they’re the same height anyhow... | |||
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"seriously check out the surgeons work. friend died from going abroad on a cheap deal" I wouldn’t do it abroad ( on the cheap )x like I find it a bit too risky x Omg so sorry about ur friend btw x | |||
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"Less is more, too much work done and there are plenty of photos of Celebrities that look a lot worse for the work they’ve paid, to make themselves look younger or better looking. However for a Trans person transitioning I can understand why you need to feminise certain features. So you shouldn’t need to justify your reasoning. Same as breast reduction surgery, not popular with the guys but understandable if it’s causing you day to day issues. Exactly this x being trans I guess I’d really like a few things to be feminised that I’m not 100% happy about as I find them to look a bit “masculine” x Well you know my story already. I think I’d you can afford it and it’s really bothering you, then you should just do it. I’m hoping I’ll be satisfied when I can speak again and have retrained my voice. At the moment I still hate what I see in the mirror. " Yes lovely! definitely x I think it is really good to feel more like ourselves | |||
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"I'm probably gonna get my boobs done once I get to goal weight. They're sagging so much already I do love sagging tits " There's sagging and then there's half-empty water balloons | |||
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"I had a breast reduction back in 2000 and this was classed as cosmetic surgery. Recovery was around six weeks which was tricky due to having two small children at the time. Was it worth it..... yes I’ve never looked back. I still have some scarring from under my breasts to my side and my nipples are quite unique as they were graded back on rather than sewn I’m always honest about my surgery as it’s certainly not something to be ashamed of I know this is or was classed as cosmetic, but I'm not sure it always should be - large breasts can have knock on health effects. Absolutely this - my back & posture were significantly effected by having huge ones - mine wasn't classed as cosmetic which is why it was NHS funded " Yes mine was NHS funded too for health reasons | |||
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"I had a breast reduction back in 2000 and this was classed as cosmetic surgery. Recovery was around six weeks which was tricky due to having two small children at the time. Was it worth it..... yes I’ve never looked back. I still have some scarring from under my breasts to my side and my nipples are quite unique as they were graded back on rather than sewn I’m always honest about my surgery as it’s certainly not something to be ashamed of I know this is or was classed as cosmetic, but I'm not sure it always should be - large breasts can have knock on health effects. Absolutely this - my back & posture were significantly effected by having huge ones - mine wasn't classed as cosmetic which is why it was NHS funded Yes mine was NHS funded too for health reasons " Nice, I think it’s probably medical reason. Like that’s why they don’t fund it for whoever wants augmentation I think also you could have a nose job on NHS if obviously the nose causes severe breathing problems; but then again I doubt they would touch the nose cosmetically too much.. | |||
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"I’m going to be controversial in that I rarely feel that a woman looks better for having lip fillers. I’m all for cosmetic procedures if people feel happier in themselves but I often look and think you looked better before when it comes to lips. Perhaps it’s simply my own taste and not the surgery. " Totally agree that they rarely look good. | |||
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"You do whatever makes you feel better about yourself and fuck what anyone else thinks, it's your body. LvM" | |||
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"So, what’s your thoughts on cosmetic surgery? Has anybody here had anything done ? Do you feel ashamed to admit it or do u like boasting it? I’m saving up for a few operations x but one thing I always wanted doing was my nose, feminise it and just have it cuter. I was always super conscious about it and contouring it with make up ain’t enough ! Lol And while I’m at it I might do a few couple things to feminise more my face I still feel some people feel so ashamed about admitting cosmetic surgery and some who even had nose jobs always had to use the excuse of “I have breathing problems” so while I’m at it I’m going to make it look better. Personally if I’m unhappy with it I don’t feel ashamed to admit it.. Now, for the girls and boys who went through surgery, was it worth it for u? And did u find recovery painful? " Never done proper surgery but I’m all for a little injection here and there. I love it, no one really notices I’ve had it done but I prefer it. I want liposuction so I’m looking into that... but yeah, all for it here. Xx | |||
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"I fully support people doing whatever it is that will make themselves feel more confident.... I do however think there should be some kind of psychological evelution for people who become obsessed and end hevely modified... Just to make sure they are doing it from a compitent sound minded place, I'd have a nose job tomorrow if I had the money" Do you think the same should apply for heavy extreme tattoos. People covered in ink from face / hands / all over and body piercings ? As that’s just a form of body modification ultimately as well . I have seen countless people so young covered on extreme tatts then cry over not getting work / being able to get a career on certain professions etc | |||
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