FabSwingers.com forum: Text language

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Am I the only one that doesn't understand text language?

I have a guy message and honestly I had no idea what he was talking about so out of curiosity I asked him what he was talking about as he still sent back a message full of text speak.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

R u ok?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi ‘m8’,

‘c u Moro’

STOP..!!!!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Hi ‘m8’,

‘c u Moro’

STOP..!!!!"

2moro

Gawd, bloody spelling pedants, eh?!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Its just lazy and it just shows that you are luckily to be lazy in bed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its just lazy and it just shows that you are luckily to be lazy in bed. "

Lazy

Chavvy

A tad thick too

Can’t be doing with it..a ‘lol’ is my limit..lol

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By *antasyrealmCouple
over a year ago

Congleton

We always like this text speak.

Stop it for fucks sake....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a useful skill to have. I can't send messages 5 times faster on my Nokia 3310 by saying 'c u l8r m8'.

If you'd like I can translate your messages.... For a small fee.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It's a useful skill to have. I can't send messages 5 times faster on my Nokia 3310 by saying 'c u l8r m8'.

If you'd like I can translate your messages.... For a small fee. "

Do I dare ask what the fee would be ??

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its just lazy and it just shows that you are luckily to be lazy in bed.

Lazy

Chavvy

A tad thick too

Can’t be doing with it..a ‘lol’ is my limit..lol"

I don't mind lol lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t mind it, I understand some people will use it, it’s texting and telling much about someone from their pixels sent on a screen is difficult for me.

Lol

m8 2day etc, I understand it, I like to think I am fluent in many languages, it makes me fell sophisticated.

Funny thing is, it takes more taps to type some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hate text speak, we find it so lazy and difficult to decipher - its not like you have to pay per letter any more!

Acronyms such as lol, DTF, omg are about as much as we can tolerate. The worst ones at "2" instead of "to" and "use" instead of "yours"

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I can’t stand text speak, there is no need for it at all. It comes across as lazy, uneducated and reminds me of stroppy teenagers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are logging on with Nokia 3310s now.

I mean I can’t get my head around why it’s now needed with actual keyboards.

Back in the day (yes, I said that like a stroppy teenager

) you used the m8 and 2nite because it was quicker with the tapping of the number buttons.

But every phone is now a smart phone with keyboards. So just why has that language still used?

But like I said, although I don’t, I let it slide talking To anyone as I grew up with it and I understand it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t stand text speak, there is no need for it at all. It comes across as lazy, uneducated and reminds me of stroppy teenagers."

This

it's a pet hate of mine, for sure. Even if I liked everything else about a potential meet, this would be enough to put me off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would rather it wasn't used but doesn't bother me too much and don't get the correlation with laziness or performance in bed.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I can understand it once had a purpose, text messages were limited to 159 characters including spaces so it saved you money by making your message shorter but now that it has no purpose and in most cases, predictive text also spells your words correctly too it no longer has a use and is now often more effort to type this way as well, its pointless.

It's not edgy or cool, it's lazy and as many have said above, a turn off.

There are a few that are fine like LOL or FAF but that's it.....off you fuck with your shitty typing, I'm not interested now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can understand it once had a purpose, text messages were limited to 159 characters including spaces so it saved you money by making your message shorter but now that it has no purpose and in most cases, predictive text also spells your words correctly too it no longer has a use and is now often more effort to type this way as well, its pointless.

It's not edgy or cool, it's lazy and as many have said above, a turn off.

There are a few that are fine like LOL or FAF but that's it.....off you fuck with your shitty typing, I'm not interested now."

this

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"Am I the only one that doesn't understand text language?

I have a guy message and honestly I had no idea what he was talking about so out of curiosity I asked him what he was talking about as he still sent back a message full of text speak.

It's just a sign that you and me and millions of others are getting older.

I'm pretty sure we all had slang words we used when we were younger that our oldies didn't understand.

To say someone is lazy just because you don't understand a different generations way of communicating isn't fair, my kids use it and they are a million miles away from being lazy.

So I think this use of text speak is just a different generation doing the same.

Language evolves and I'm pretty sure that if somebody sent me a message written with a quill from Victorian times I would struggle to read it.

My son messages me using it and sometimes I make up a reply using gobbledygook made up text acronyms just to confuse him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a useful skill to have. I can't send messages 5 times faster on my Nokia 3310 by saying 'c u l8r m8'.

If you'd like I can translate your messages.... For a small fee.

Do I dare ask what the fee would be ??

Lol "

Oh... Just 23 packs of spearmint chewing gum

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

It takes me ages longer to work out what it means so generally they send me normal words instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, it's does seem pointless to use it with a smart phone or computer.

Even if you can't spell, you can set predictive text

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Am I the only one that doesn't understand text language?

I have a guy message and honestly I had no idea what he was talking about so out of curiosity I asked him what he was talking about as he still sent back a message full of text speak.

I will admit I'm getting older and language does develop but when I sent a message saying that I didn't understand his message and to get in effect the same message back full of text speak, it does show a lack of decorum.

I know in the good old days when we had the old Nokia it was helpful text speak but today we manly use smartphones so there is little need for it.

It's just a sign that you and me and millions of others are getting older.

I'm pretty sure we all had slang words we used when we were younger that our oldies didn't understand.

To say someone is lazy just because you don't understand a different generations way of communicating isn't fair, my kids use it and they are a million miles away from being lazy.

So I think this use of text speak is just a different generation doing the same.

Language evolves and I'm pretty sure that if somebody sent me a message written with a quill from Victorian times I would struggle to read it.

My son messages me using it and sometimes I make up a reply using gobbledygook made up text acronyms just to confuse him

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Oh my gosh I actually use it a lot, and I'm not lazy and most definitely not uneducated. Though the ones I tend to use tbh (to be honest) or imo (in my opinion). If I'm using these abbreviations it's not because I'm having a one sentence conversation and it's part of a long paragraph. Though my favourite is etc use that one loads

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would rather it wasn't used but doesn't bother me too much and don't get the correlation with laziness or performance in bed. "

I might have been a bit harsh in saying about performance in bed, but it did annoy me that I said I didn't understand the message because of the language and he message back still using at of text language. So my apologies x

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

It's a filter for me if I receive a message using text speak or see it used on a profile. Just my preference of course .

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh my gosh I actually use it a lot, and I'm not lazy and most definitely not uneducated. Though the ones I tend to use tbh (to be honest) or imo (in my opinion). If I'm using these abbreviations it's not because I'm having a one sentence conversation and it's part of a long paragraph. Though my favourite is etc use that one loads

Being dyslexic as I am it makes it so much harder to read message with a lot of abbreviations in , but I do apologise for the bit about being lazy I will admit I was not in my happy place. Xx

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

Can’t stand text talk. Probably because I can’t understand most of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one that doesn't understand text language?

I have a guy message and honestly I had no idea what he was talking about so out of curiosity I asked him what he was talking about as he still sent back a message full of text speak.

I hate it with a passion!!

I hate “how’s you?” also.

I hate when people write “ye” instead of you. God I’m a snob

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Being dyslexic as I am it makes it so much harder to read message with a lot of abbreviations in , but I do apologise for the bit about being lazy I will admit I was not in my happy place. Xx"

I'm dyslexic too, but I do agree with you a whole message using it. Makes my head spin, I think used as abbreviations is fine a whole message is a different matter x

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

"Its just lazy and it just shows that you are luckily to be lazy in bed. "

Agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

“Yanno” is another one I despise. That’s a Liverpool thing though I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am I the only one that doesn't understand text language?

I have a guy message and honestly I had no idea what he was talking about so out of curiosity I asked him what he was talking about as he still sent back a message full of text speak.

I hate it with a passion!!

I hate “how’s you?” also.

I hate when people write “ye” instead of you. God I’m a snob

"Am" instead of "I'm" gets me too

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"“Yanno” is another one I despise. That’s a Liverpool thing though I think."

Yous or youse. We get this all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Yanno” is another one I despise. That’s a Liverpool thing though I think.

Yous or youse. We get this all the time

Yes!! Hate that too!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

I've marked work in which most of it was in text language.

I don't respond well to it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I've marked work in which most of it was in text language.

I don't respond well to it."

I mark work by student who are all EAL. Some of the phraseology and vocabulary they choose is hilarious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will get my coat now. Haha.

My spelling is awe full. If someone judges my person and my friendship because of this then I can’t help things there and I don’t suppose others can.

“Down with grammer police” - *kicks over table as I leave.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I will get my coat now. Haha.

My spelling is awe full. If someone judges my person and my friendship because of this then I can’t help things there and I don’t suppose others can.

“Down with grammer police” - *kicks over table as I leave. "

With the wider use of smartphone there really is not much of excuse for bad spelling but it does happen and I think we have all been there when the phone change the word. I don't mind that

I am talking about deliberately using text speak.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally think it's another generation's 'new' language and am pretty much ambivalent about it, why waste energy or emotion on something so trivial? And linking it to sexual prowess totally baffles me to be honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had to add the line about no text speak back onto my profile, I don't get many messages, but I like to be able to respond to those I do! And if it's all text speak, I'm just not going to bother!

If a few extra characters are that much effort then I don't think you deserve my efforts replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it possibly a lack of education or just sheer laziness ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a fan and I’m useless with acronyms.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I will get my coat now. Haha.

My spelling is awe full. If someone judges my person and my friendship because of this then I can’t help things there and I don’t suppose others can.

“Down with grammer police” - *kicks over table as I leave.

With the wider use of smartphone there really is not much of excuse for bad spelling but it does happen and I think we have all been there when the phone change the word. I don't mind that

I am talking about deliberately using text speak."

Smartphones don't necessarily help with spelling. Mine constantly tries to change my name, for example, despite adding it to the dictionary. Also my phone is set up for both English and Spanish so occasionally the odd español word creeps in. Like ocasión instead of occasion....

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By *DW1983Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen, Leeds, Sheffield

It's not something I like reading either. Had its place when text messages were limited to short messages but not much need for it now.

It also has to do with appropriateness. Might be fine with a mate from school, but when addressing a relative stranger it's courtesy to make your message easily readable.

I once had a message on another site Where Every Word Started With A Capital With No Punctuation. It was obviously a pointless conversation (she was in the USA) so I asked why she did it as its harder to read, and surely harder to write. She got very indignant and told me she went to college and that's how they taught it so she was right...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not something I like reading either. Had its place when text messages were limited to short messages but not much need for it now.

It also has to do with appropriateness. Might be fine with a mate from school, but when addressing a relative stranger it's courtesy to make your message easily readable.

Americans.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will get my coat now. Haha.

My spelling is awe full. If someone judges my person and my friendship because of this then I can’t help things there and I don’t suppose others can.

“Down with grammer police” - *kicks over table as I leave. "

Spelling and txt spk are different things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some interesting comments, how many would consider Shakespeare lazy or stupid? I guess it’s natural for language to evolve, I often use language that older colleagues do not understand the meaning of and vice versa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wuu2 is another that I can’t stand!! I could go on and on about how much I hate text speak, I won’t

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

I despise text speak in the manner of "U" "2" "lol" as I consider it lazy or uneducated. Being on Merseyside, I also hate the "ye" instead of yes; the use/yous instead of you. I will rightly or wrongly attribute this to being uneducated. And don't get me started on "bbe" instead of babe (which in itself, raises my hackles!) All of these would definitely put me off meeting someone.

But I do find it's different to spelling, "wot" were/where & there/their & should of instead of should have I can just about accept. And things like asap, tbh, imo, etc are now accepted in the mainstream. I know I'm a bloody spelling nazi & a snob - I just can't help it.

But dyslexic messages or typos(of which I do many - autocarrot) can usually be spotted, and I have no issue with those.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of people are snobbish about text language. It has its place IMO.

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

Just people's way of being lazy but it does my head in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can’t stand text speak, there is no need for it at all. It comes across as lazy, uneducated and reminds me of stroppy teenagers.

This

it's a pet hate of mine, for sure. Even if I liked everything else about a potential meet, this would be enough to put me off."

My feelings exactly.

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

"I can’t stand text speak, there is no need for it at all. It comes across as lazy, uneducated and reminds me of stroppy teenagers.

This

it's a pet hate of mine, for sure. Even if I liked everything else about a potential meet, this would be enough to put me off.

My feelings exactly. "

Yup. Hear, hear!

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By *rder66Man
over a year ago

Tatooine

"I've marked work in which most of it was in text language.

I don't respond well to it.

I mark work by student who are all EAL. Some of the phraseology and vocabulary they choose is hilarious

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I used to get ehis when I worked abroad, and I have marked a sentance with 'cum ear' in it.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"I've marked work in which most of it was in text language.

I don't respond well to it.

I mark work by student who are all EAL. Some of the phraseology and vocabulary they choose is hilarious

I used to get ehis when I worked abroad, and I have marked a sentance with 'cum ear' in it."

We get some really antiquated phraseology, probably found in an ancient thesaurus in a Chinese bookcase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

IKR! It has its place, I mean YMMV but IDK if I mind it so much. I guess it depends on the situation. I certainly wouldn't write my wedding vows like that and don't speak like that IRL but it doesn't put me off NE1 just for that.

LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"IKR! It has its place, I mean YMMV but IDK if I mind it so much. I guess it depends on the situation. I certainly wouldn't write my wedding vows like that and don't speak like that IRL but it doesn't put me off NE1 just for that.

LOL"

What ??..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I will get my coat now. Haha.

My spelling is awe full. If someone judges my person and my friendship because of this then I can’t help things there and I don’t suppose others can.

“Down with grammer police” - *kicks over table as I leave.

With the wider use of smartphone there really is not much of excuse for bad spelling but it does happen and I think we have all been there when the phone change the word. I don't mind that

I am talking about deliberately using text speak.

Spelling mistakes happen I make loads of them , and yes phones do change words my daughter's name for one ,so much so I use her nickname now.

I the problem i have is when people use text language on purpose and when you ask them what they mean they back a message still full of text language which I didn't understand or would not have asked them to clarify what they were saying x

I am not a snob or uneducated I just don't understand text language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For ages I thought LOL meant Lots of Love ...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"For ages I thought LOL meant Lots of Love ..."

You're not alone xx lots of love xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate text speak with a passion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate text speak with a passion."

I h8 txt spk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For ages I thought LOL meant Lots of Love ..."

When my friend's mum died I texted "I'm so sorry LOL" thinking it meant lots of love! My son told me! Luckily her husband also guessed! We laughed about it later ...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

stfu ! r u jkn ? I am SMH.

fwiw I luv them.

EZ 2 rd. EZ 2 snd.

AAYF 6Y Granny.

c.u. l8r m8y

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Same here. We even have it as part of our bio.

My 80 yr old mum messaged me once and I had to ring to find out what she wanted after using text speak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate text speak with a passion.

I h8 txt spk.

Go to the naughty step

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For ages I thought LOL meant Lots of Love ...

When my friend's mum died I texted "I'm so sorry LOL" thinking it meant lots of love! My son told me! Luckily her husband also guessed! We laughed about it later ...

It meant lots of love at the beginning of text speak many years ago.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate text speak with a passion.

I h8 txt spk.

Go to the naughty step

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"stfu ! r u jkn ? I am SMH.

fwiw I luv them.

EZ 2 rd. EZ 2 snd.

AAYF 6Y Granny.

c.u. l8r m8y"

?????

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By *zoreanMan
over a year ago

Witney

The 2000's called, they want their dinosaur texting back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate text speak with a passion.

I h8 txt spk.

Go to the naughty step

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