FabSwingers.com forum: What will you " Women " do

By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

If someone you see everyday gives you flowers to show you he is interested, does that come across..

Desperate

Needy

Cheesy

Psychopath

Or or or... does that depend on how good-looking the man is

Be real..

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

Thoughtful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day? Over the top. You want to long for something sometime..

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Just sweet. Don’t overthink it OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id wonder what they were after and why...not a normal occurance in my day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day is too much, and flowers aren’t for everyone. I’m not keen on cut flowers personally. I prefer a plant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd think he was a bit stuck in a bygone era

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every day is too much, and flowers aren’t for everyone. I’m not keen on cut flowers personally. I prefer a plant."

Here’s a plant for you Fallen one and I think(only think) they don’t give you flowers every day but you see them everyday

..I’ve confused myself now

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant !

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

If someone gave me flowers every day I wouldn't like it. Too much of a good thing can totally spoil it. It's better off being random and unexpected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be asking for spare vases too, but yeah, it would show they were interested!

Every day maybe not. Once a week, I'd be very happy with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant ! "

I knew what you meant OP.

I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant !

I knew what you meant OP.

I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously

Ah okay,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant !

I knew what you meant OP.

I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously

Ah okay,

Now give me the flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant !

I knew what you meant OP.

I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously

What if they were roses with daisy chasers in a marmite wrapper?..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day- too much. I would get hayfever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant !

I knew what you meant OP.

I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously

What if they were roses with daisy chasers in a marmite wrapper?.."

Errrrrrmmmmmmmm yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we should run a Fab masterclass in comprehension

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I know I'm a bit weird with stuff like this, but honestly, I'd rather he just said something. I'd find flowers a bit cringe if they were a complete surprise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Ahhhh I misunderstood, sorry OP, I thought you meant buying flowers every day.

I get what you mean now, would find it delightful and I'd be quite flattered.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think how thoughtful and lovely

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"I think we should run a Fab masterclass in comprehension

Mr"

I'm very tired. That's my excuse and I'm sticking by it

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

It would stop me dead in my tracks, but I would accept them in the nature they were given.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez."

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Ahhhh I misunderstood, sorry OP, I thought you meant buying flowers every day.

I get what you mean now, would find it delightful and I'd be quite flattered.

Mrs"

Thank you, no problem

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant !

I knew what you meant OP.

I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously

Ah okay,

Now give me the flowers

Blue rose or rainbow

Or both ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every day is too much, and flowers aren’t for everyone. I’m not keen on cut flowers personally. I prefer a plant.

Here’s a plant for you Fallen one and I think(only think) they don’t give you flowers every day but you see them everyday

..I’ve confused myself now

Oh haha! I REALLY must start reading things properly!

Op, I think if it is a random stranger it could be a bit embarrassing for them, do you know them at all, or just to say hi to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez."

Ooohhhh. Get it now.

I'd feel amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant !

I knew what you meant OP.

I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously

Ah okay,

Now give me the flowers

Blue rose or rainbow

Or both ?

The whole shop please, I love flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See or talk to them every day? If just see, then still no.

Just say hello if you haven't already.

I need more information. I keep misunderstanding.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant !

I knew what you meant OP.

I’d be pleasantly surprised and accept them graciously

Ah okay,

Now give me the flowers

Blue rose or rainbow

Or both ?

The whole shop please, I love flowers

One of each I shall do, with one fake one so you can keep it and it never dies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s always lovely to get flowers

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"It’s always lovely to get flowers

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant ! "

If our only interaction was hi and bye, like someone you see on the way to work or something, I’d probably find it a bit weird.

It really depends on the man and the context for me, as to whether I’d find it nice or creepy. And that’s not just about his looks.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think it's very sweet as long as she is attracted to you. If she isn't and is just being polite then it would be awkward for you both.

Did you OP?

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody has ever sent me flowers or brought me flowers

so I’d just think it was sweet and thoughtful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

AH with you now.

It depends how well you know them, but I would be surprised and embarrassed, I expect!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the intention /expectation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thoughtful

but dont think you meant flowers everyday

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Nobody has ever sent me flowers or brought me flowers

so I’d just think it was sweet and thoughtful

I refuse to believe that

I'm sorry.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"AH with you now.

It depends how well you know them, but I would be surprised and embarrassed, I expect!"

I am hoping the surprise part.

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Not give you flowers everyday, but you two see each other every day, hi bye, smile at one another

That is what I meant ! "

I’m sure she’d like the surprise

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By * Lexi xWoman
over a year ago

stockport

So cute, just remember she might need a extra vases for all the flowers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does she wear Impulse?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was a stranger that saw me most days it would peak my interest and start a conversation.

If it was a work colleague... well there's a couple that I know are interested and I've made it fairly clear that I'm not... so it would be weird.

If it was the one guy that I fancy at work -and he knows I do

then I'd be chuffed.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'd probably be shocked but I think I'd like it. I think it's sweet

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"If it was a stranger that saw me most days it would peak my interest and start a conversation.

If it was a work colleague... well there's a couple that I know are interested and I've made it fairly clear that I'm not... so it would be weird.

If it was the one guy that I fancy at work -and he knows I do

then I'd be chuffed. "

Eee ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I don't fancy the guy, I'd rather be didn't. Just awkward otherwise. But if I fancy him, definitely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone you see everyday gives you flowers to show you he is interested, does that come across..

Desperate

Needy

Cheesy

Psychopath

Or or or... does that depend on how good-looking the man is

Be real.."

None of those, it shows he is thoughtful and is thinking of you

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

Someone who saw me every day would know I prefer flowers to grow in their natural habitat.

I'd like to think that they would simply ask if they could take me for a coffee.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Has she noticed you do you think like you have noticed her?

If I was given flowers by a stranger I'd think it was over the top.

I worked in a shop once and a regular customer gave me flowers which was sweet.

A complete stranger... I'd rather they struck up a conversation first.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

treat with suspicion

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

Nice but, yes..over the top.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

It’s sweet but a little weird, I’d question the motive if every day.

Besides, flowers can last a while and I don’t have enough vases for a daily bunch, weekly, yes

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"It’s sweet but a little weird, I’d question the motive if every day.

Besides, flowers can last a while and I don’t have enough vases for a daily bunch, weekly, yes"

See further up

Sees her everyday. The flower gesture is a one off

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"It’s sweet but a little weird, I’d question the motive if every day.

Besides, flowers can last a while and I don’t have enough vases for a daily bunch, weekly, yes

See further up

Sees her everyday. The flower gesture is a one off

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By *ooo wet tight hornyWoman
over a year ago

lancashire

"If someone you see everyday gives you flowers to show you he is interested, does that come across..

Desperate

Needy

Cheesy

Psychopath

Or or or... does that depend on how good-looking the man is

Be real.."

I'd think that's quite a sweet thing to do, then take it from there...ie: looks, personality, chemistry...maybe take his phone number.

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By *inkylipsWoman
over a year ago

Debauchery

"Id wonder what they were after and why...not a normal occurance in my day."

I’m with you on this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be lovely if I was interested, if not it could be awkward.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Someone who saw me every day would know I prefer flowers to grow in their natural habitat.

I'd like to think that they would simply ask if they could take me for a coffee."

What if she dont drink coffee ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was sent flowers at work every week for 9 consecutive weeks last year, from someone who I have zero interest in. I had to ask the florist not to accept any more orders from the man.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

If I was interested in him I'd be flattered, if not I'd feel awkward.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Someone who saw me every day would know I prefer flowers to grow in their natural habitat.

I'd like to think that they would simply ask if they could take me for a coffee.

What if she dont drink coffee ?

Then get what she wants!

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"I was sent flowers at work every week for 9 consecutive weeks last year, from someone who I have zero interest in. I had to ask the florist not to accept any more orders from the man.

That is bit nutty, and crazy and definitely psychopath.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Someone who saw me every day would know I prefer flowers to grow in their natural habitat.

I'd like to think that they would simply ask if they could take me for a coffee.

What if she dont drink coffee ?

Then get what she wants!"

Okay.

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable. "

What is so uncomfortable about it ?

Like in general

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha "

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha "

I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick

He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id be happy with some flowers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would feel awkward.

Like... what is his intention/expectation? How am I supposed to react... and will he get angry if I don't react in the 'right' way?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not a big fan of cut flowers they wither and die. I much prefer the concept of a plant as it grows so does the feeling for that person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.

What is so uncomfortable about it ?

Like in general "

I’d just feel awkward. Why is he doing that? What does he expect in return? I wouldn’t like it at all.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha

I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick

He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant "

This woman..aah

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.

What is so uncomfortable about it ?

Like in general

I’d just feel awkward. Why is he doing that? What does he expect in return? I wouldn’t like it at all."

I understand, well not all men wish for something in return, some or a few select can be genuine x

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Id be happy with some flowers

Funny enough, I been given flowers for valentines day, strange but great feeling that was.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez."

I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.

Which is a bit cheap actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every day is too much, and flowers aren’t for everyone. I’m not keen on cut flowers personally. I prefer a plant."

Will a do?

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.

I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.

Which is a bit cheap actually. "

Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.

I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.

Which is a bit cheap actually.

Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??"

Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?

I'd be thinking talking first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.

What is so uncomfortable about it ?

Like in general

I’d just feel awkward. Why is he doing that? What does he expect in return? I wouldn’t like it at all."

I agree. It’s a bit much. I’m a plant lover rather than cut flowers anyway, but I’d rather have a conversation first.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.

I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.

Which is a bit cheap actually.

Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??

Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?

I'd be thinking talking first

I see her on my way to work, she lives on top of my road, usually we never said hello or exchanged any type of acknowledgement, now a smile, and hi bye type of thing. I see her when she finishes work also, which is like 3 to 5 times a week.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.

What is so uncomfortable about it ?

Like in general

I’d just feel awkward. Why is he doing that? What does he expect in return? I wouldn’t like it at all.

I agree. It’s a bit much. I’m a plant lover rather than cut flowers anyway, but I’d rather have a conversation first. "

She may not like plants ? So I rather give flowers bit more of a nice statement from what I seen before

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"If it was someone I know, I’d think it was sweet. If it was a stranger, I’d be very uncomfortable.

What is so uncomfortable about it ?

Like in general

I’d just feel awkward. Why is he doing that? What does he expect in return? I wouldn’t like it at all.

I agree. It’s a bit much. I’m a plant lover rather than cut flowers anyway, but I’d rather have a conversation first. "

She also may not like flowers, I also take that point on

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.

I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.

Which is a bit cheap actually.

Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??

Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?

I'd be thinking talking first

OK woah fella, woah

Right now, flowers would be weird.

Find a reason to have a quick word with her. Isn't the traffic getting worse. I love how the trees look on the spring. Did you see what that idiot at number 14 put outside his garage.

Etc etc

Flowers anytime after that is socially acceptable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.

I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.

Which is a bit cheap actually.

Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??

Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?

I'd be thinking talking first

In my opinion, flowers would be way too much at this point. I'd try striking up a proper conversation and/or asking her out for a drink.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.

I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.

Which is a bit cheap actually.

Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??

Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?

I'd be thinking talking first

I was wondering what you meant, and after reading that I'd think it was just a bit weird!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.

I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.

Which is a bit cheap actually.

Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??

Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?

I'd be thinking talking first

I was wondering what you meant, and after reading that I'd think it was just a bit weird! "

I think she might start thinking you're stalking her so I'd say pass on the flowers and when you see her just say excuse me and start a conversation maybe

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha

I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick

He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant

This woman..aah

If you can't have a laugh with your other half where's the fun? But to answer your OP I'd personally find it a bit awkward, but I'm an awkward person with public displays of affection

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha

I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick

He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant

This woman..aah

If you can't have a laugh with your other half where's the fun? But to answer your OP I'd personally find it a bit awkward, but I'm an awkward person with public displays of affection "

I'm getting you a huge bunch and sending one of those singer grams

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha

I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick

He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant

This woman..aah

If you can't have a laugh with your other half where's the fun? But to answer your OP I'd personally find it a bit awkward, but I'm an awkward person with public displays of affection

I'm getting you a huge bunch and sending one of those singer grams

I would literally die on the spot

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Nobody has ever given me flowers so I'd probably be really happy. But I'd much prefer some kind of succulent haha

I gave M a cactus for our first valentine's because he's a prick

He actually did get me a succulent for valentine's this year, prefer a pot plant

This woman..aah

If you can't have a laugh with your other half where's the fun? But to answer your OP I'd personally find it a bit awkward, but I'm an awkward person with public displays of affection

I'm getting you a huge bunch and sending one of those singer grams

I would literally die on the spot "

Definitely don't want that

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By *irty PrettyWoman
over a year ago

Cardiff

"He doesn’t mean give you flowers every day, he means someone you see everyday gives you flowers. Jeez.

I'm pretty smart and I read it as flowers every day. Now I reread it I can see it may mean just one set of flowers.

Which is a bit cheap actually.

Haha I love this, perhaps you can suggest something better ??

Can you give a bit more context how you meet this person? Just at work? At the school gates? Do you, er, talk to them?

I'd be thinking talking first

Yeah, no. Now is not the appropriate time for flowers, you’ll most likely weird her out. I did say in my earlier reply that it would be weird in this scenario, but I guess that wasn’t what you wanted to hear. Try talking to her first, don’t just spring flowers on her out of the blue. And don’t just have one brief conversation and then go in with flowers, either - see whether she seems interested in talking to you, if she looks happy to see you, that sort of thing. If she seems to be just being polite, or always wants to cut it short, or anything like that - leave it.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

I hear you, I shall speak to her bot more then see how the flower scene goes !

Shall keep you lot informed of the outcome soon'ish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am I the only who read Willy instead of will ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I'm a bit weird with stuff like this, but honestly, I'd rather he just said something. I'd find flowers a bit cringe if they were a complete surprise."

I agree - better to say “We should go for a coffee when it’s allowed” and wait for the reaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I know I'm a bit weird with stuff like this, but honestly, I'd rather he just said something. I'd find flowers a bit cringe if they were a complete surprise.

I agree - better to say “We should go for a coffee when it’s allowed” and wait for the reaction."

Just seen that you live on the same road - def do not give flowers as if she is just being polite she may think you are going to stalk her.

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By *uliaChrisCouple
over a year ago

westerham

Or go for the sympathy vote and trip over in front of her if talking is a bit scary?

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

If you’re both single and you’re interested in her I think it’s perfectly acceptable and quite sweet to send her some flowers. This would have been a perfectly normal way of expressing interest before the days of internet dating. Maybe I’m just old.

Lou x

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"If you’re both single and you’re interested in her I think it’s perfectly acceptable and quite sweet to send her some flowers. This would have been a perfectly normal way of expressing interest before the days of internet dating. Maybe I’m just old.

Lou x

Best response, and I definitely like this one

I guess those days of expressing that someone is interested in you have gone far far away and ideas like this are considered awkward and put me on the spot how will I live type !

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Or go for the sympathy vote and trip over in front of her if talking is a bit scary? "

How about i jump in front of her car instead

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lou x

Best response, and I definitely like this one

I guess those days of expressing that someone is interested in you have gone far far away and ideas like this are considered awkward and put me on the spot how will I live type !"

I was offered flowers once. It was very uncomfortable for me because I then had to explain to this guy who I barely knew that while it was a nice gesture - I had a boyfriend and so I wasn't interested. He didn't take it very well and it was just awkward all around.

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over a year ago

If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"If I saw a fella every day and had the odd conversation exchanged with him and he brought me flowers one day, I'd accept gracefully - but then I'm single - I might feel slightly differently if I were in an LTR.

When can I send you flowers

Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean,ci been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked 9ff smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt."

Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

When can I send you flowers

Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean, i been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked off smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

When can I send you flowers

Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop."

Strong statement that, but okay.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

When can I send you flowers

Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop."

But if we never approached strangers we’d all be alone wouldn’t we? Everyone is a stranger until you meet/speak to them.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd think it was really lovely and if I liked them back, I would suggest meeting for coffee when we can.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

When can I send you flowers

Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop.

But if we never approached strangers we’d all be alone wouldn’t we? Everyone is a stranger until you meet/speak to them.

Lou x "

I know that, it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I am the person who randomly helps you with your shopping, picks you up at a bus stop in the cold or rain.

Some people don't like it though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When can I send you flowers

Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean, i been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked off smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt."

OK, you would - but many men do not take rejection well and it makes us wary.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

When can I send you flowers

Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean, i been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked off smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt.

OK, you would - but many men do not take rejection well and it makes us wary. "

I totally get that, my approach is different from Men, I go as a man.

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

When can I send you flowers

Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop.

But if we never approached strangers we’d all be alone wouldn’t we? Everyone is a stranger until you meet/speak to them.

Lou x "

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"I'd think it was really lovely and if I liked them back, I would suggest meeting for coffee when we can. "

Roll of the dice as they say.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Very touching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think it was lovely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When can I send you flowers

Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean, i been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked off smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt."

Good point but to be fair, I did say I "might" feel slightly differently..... I'd still confidently say thank you/indicate my appreciation for the thoughtful gesture

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

When can I send you flowers

Well obviously I understand your point, but like why do people feel uncomfortable and why is it awkward ? Have most people lost the art of being confident and say omg thank you, its so nice, or have the guys absolutely gone up and beyond to make women think its a psychopath act to do if they get told no ? I mean, i been rejected before I smiled and said thank you for your time and walked off smiling knowing I tried and I told her how I felt.

Good point but to be fair, I did say I "might" feel slightly differently..... I'd still confidently say thank you/indicate my appreciation for the thoughtful gesture

Its all a real man needs, that smile and to say thank you for thinking of me its all nothing beyond that rest depends on the person I guess.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

If we had conversed then yes..I'd accept the flowers for the gesture that it was.

But if no convo it would be a bit much for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love flowers but I think it would be very wasteful giving me a new bunch every single day.

Maybe buy a bouquet and give me one flower a day and then I'll have a beautiful floral arrangement by the end of the month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When can I send you flowers

Some people don't like being approached by strangers full stop.

But if we never approached strangers we’d all be alone wouldn’t we? Everyone is a stranger until you meet/speak to them.

Lou x

I know that, it doesn't bother me in the slightest. I am the person who randomly helps you with your shopping, picks you up at a bus stop in the cold or rain.

Some people don't like it though."

Yes I’m like that too - but I think the fact they both live in the same road makes it a bit too close for comfort unless she has shown she is interested.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Ahhhh I misunderstood, sorry OP, I thought you meant buying flowers every day.

I get what you mean now, would find it delightful and I'd be quite flattered.

Mrs"

What about if he was ugly as fuck?

Not you op I'm just asking if women would still be flattered if the guy was an uggo?

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By *k82 OP Man
over a year ago

Walthamstow

"Ahhhh I misunderstood, sorry OP, I thought you meant buying flowers every day.

I get what you mean now, would find it delightful and I'd be quite flattered.

Mrs

What about if he was ugly as fuck?

Not you op I'm just asking if women would still be flattered if the guy was an uggo?"

No way mate, definitely will be a case of Just leave me alone

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over a year ago

"I'd think it was really lovely and if I liked them back, I would suggest meeting for coffee when we can.

Roll of the dice as they say."

Absolutely

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