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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the point of this? What do you put in it when messaging someone? So formal and off putting. How much emphasis do you ladies put on this when receiving a message?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I put my name.

This way they are in no doubt as to what I’m trying to draw their attention to.

Try it!

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.


"What is the point of this? What do you put in it when messaging someone? So formal and off putting. How much emphasis do you ladies put on this when receiving a message? "

No emphasis on the subject header at all, for me (from people I don't know). I just see if there's a face pic attached, if none on the profile.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I don't think I read it, to be honest.

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

Pick a word from their profile to emphasize you have read it.

For example with mine, your header could be...regular... friendship....fwb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always throws me when people write the first few lines of their message in the subject, and then at first glance the message doesn't really make sense.

...or is that just me? I should really read the Subject header but I just don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It always throws me when people write the first few lines of their message in the subject, and then at first glance the message doesn't really make sense.

...or is that just me? I should really read the Subject header but I just don't"

I'm murder for doing that.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"It always throws me when people write the first few lines of their message in the subject, and then at first glance the message doesn't really make sense.

...or is that just me? I should really read the Subject header but I just don't"

That's me too

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

To be honest I've never really noticed the 'subject' heading for messages but, having just gone & checked our inbox, the vast majority seem to be a totally uninspiring "hi/hey/hello", that may be why I don't really register them.

K

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

I find I get a lot of one word, non sensical messages so I'm scratching.

I have to go back and re read the subject and they've started half typing the message in there.

Usually I don't bother checking it, if the message makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi is boring. X is hard to click on!!

When I send messages I make them snappy and random

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, the subject lines I receive are just the title of the forum thread I've posted to

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away


"It always throws me when people write the first few lines of their message in the subject, and then at first glance the message doesn't really make sense.

...or is that just me? I should really read the Subject header but I just don't

That's me too "

...and me

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

"I want to jizz on your tits" usually gets a response

LvM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""I want to jizz on your tits" usually gets a response

LvM"

That was the first message I received from Jim’s mum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Something interesting stands out and is more memorable.

A sea of 'Hi' messages is just depressing.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

It's a snapshot of what the message will be. It's not desperately important, but creativity helps

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

Honestly I often don't notice.

Although "use me as a human toilet" I always find delightful

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I put "Spaff my flaps up?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle with a title. Too long and it can make me look boring but Hi is just lame.

I might just start adding random one word titles in like -

Pickle

Clam

Window

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"I put "Spaff my flaps up?" "

^^ she does actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I put my name.

This way they are in no doubt as to what I’m trying to draw their attention to.

Try it!

"

If I put your name won’t it just be more confusing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't you get drawn to a movie title or heading in a newspaper? It does matter a little I think. Especially in the ocean of others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly I often don't notice.

Although "use me as a human toilet" I always find delightful "

Ha ha or the ‘are you on the pill’ is another delightful one.

It’s a good way to figure out which messages to delete immediately with no further reading required.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I put "Spaff my flaps up?" "

I imagine that gets a reply 100% of the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Honestly I often don't notice.

Although "use me as a human toilet" I always find delightful

Ha ha or the ‘are you on the pill’ is another delightful one.

It’s a good way to figure out which messages to delete immediately with no further reading required."

Maybe he was just trying to make sure you were being safe

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