FabSwingers.com forum: Is that your idea of fun?

By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Oh look, another "who are you thread". I touched upon this in a thread last week iirc.

This little community of ours is as varied as you can get (opinions, am in right?). One thing I keep seeing more and more of is "this is meant to be fun" with regards to the forum and it's threads and posts, but fun is highly subjective. For some people, the Virus and Political sections are the height of fun, but to others it is the furthest thing from fun as you can imagine. Some find the "poster above" threads top of their list, others find them numbingly pointless.

We all take and view fun differently.

So to this I ask, when it comes to the forum, which do you find fun?

What different thread and topics do you find yourself enjoying?

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I like the virus section and the slightly more serious threads in the lounge, with quirky questions and the perving threads

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Truthfully, the Auntie P advice line threads are probably the most fun I have.

Copycat photo challenges are my fave ones, they're bloody fantastic and sometimes have me in stitches.

I dunno, it's very subjective and one person's idea of fun could be shagging someone married, ooooo that's naughty and hot and exciting - for them.

They don't see the other side, the heartbreak, the lies, the betrayal, someone feeling like they've been stabbed through their entire torso with white hot swords.

People don't like seeing the dark side.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I enjoy a range of topics . I'll join in if there is something I have an opinion on in a thread or the silly joking threads can be good craic at times. Sometimes even when threads go off on a tangent it can be good.

It's the ones where people get shitty and personal or are just pure trolling to get a reaction I find ruin it .And some of the poor me threads which are pure oh look at me threads.

But then it's just as easy to ignore those threads as well and just engage in the ones that do peak your interest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy the games forum .I love word games

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By *heRazorsEdgeMan
over a year ago

Wales/ All over UK

I find threads that can actually start a friendly discussion to be the most fun..

I avoid the Politics and Virus threads now because people are entrenched in their views on these subjects and it just degenerates into arguments now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the word “fun” is totally overused on fab, I read a profile last week that must’ve mentioned it 50+ times. Makes me cringe a little tbh.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I wouldn't say there are many "fun" ones. Some become repetitive and then get boring. I like thought provoking ones or the get to know...each to their own though.

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I think that often the phrase “it’s meant to be fun” is used to try and dismiss a person who has got wound up, upset or angry and that impinges on others ‘trying’ to enjoy the space.

As you say, fun is a very loose term and someone trolling another is possibly fun for the person doing the trolling.

Perhaps we should stop telling people what it’s meant to be and engaging with what it is?

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"I like the virus section and the slightly more serious threads in the lounge, with quirky questions and the perving threads "

A bit of a mix it is then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the word “fun” is totally overused on fab, I read a profile last week that must’ve mentioned it 50+ times. Makes me cringe a little tbh."

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"Truthfully, the Auntie P advice line threads are probably the most fun I have.

Copycat photo challenges are my fave ones, they're bloody fantastic and sometimes have me in stitches.

I dunno, it's very subjective and one person's idea of fun could be shagging someone married, ooooo that's naughty and hot and exciting - for them.

They don't see the other side, the heartbreak, the lies, the betrayal, someone feeling like they've been stabbed through their entire torso with white hot swords.

People don't like seeing the dark side."

Without a doubt yours are always, if nothing else, good for a laugh.

And yet you can be far more insightful and deep than your comedic responses would imply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh look, another "who are you thread". I touched upon this in a thread last week iirc.

We all take and view fun differently.

So to this I ask, when it comes to the forum, which do you find fun?

What different thread and topics do you find yourself enjoying? "

I like threads that invite discussion.

I don't like statement OPs such as "I like toast". Just reminds me of pissed up people thinking their own hand is hilarious.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"I enjoy a range of topics . I'll join in if there is something I have an opinion on in a thread or the silly joking threads can be good craic at times. Sometimes even when threads go off on a tangent it can be good.

It's the ones where people get shitty and personal or are just pure trolling to get a reaction I find ruin it .And some of the poor me threads which are pure oh look at me threads.

But then it's just as easy to ignore those threads as well and just engage in the ones that do peak your interest."

That's the thing, peaking somebodies interest does so in multiple ways. Some will go looking for a heated debate, while others may enjoy a friendly discussion. And others will be looking for nothing more than a comedic one liner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like

*the secret service threads.

*the more serious threads (well i generally post the most unserious reply.

*the fun pervy threads

I dont like

*the poster above/below...

*virus threads

yawn (reason being this place is a escape from the monotonous day to day virus bore.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"I find threads that can actually start a friendly discussion to be the most fun..

I avoid the Politics and Virus threads now because people are entrenched in their views on these subjects and it just degenerates into arguments now"

Indeed very few people are open to discussion and only want to push or enforce their own opinion. This is when discussion becomes argument, which never ends in a civil conclusion.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"I think the word “fun” is totally overused on fab, I read a profile last week that must’ve mentioned it 50+ times. Makes me cringe a little tbh."

While I agree, it is also a very broad word as stated. So it gets overused and often misused.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"I wouldn't say there are many "fun" ones. Some become repetitive and then get boring. I like thought provoking ones or the get to know...each to their own though."

Indeed. I'm. Running low on brain power for thought provoking as of late but I like to add some sort of variety and allow for varied opinions and views to be included in responses.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"I think that often the phrase “it’s meant to be fun” is used to try and dismiss a person who has got wound up, upset or angry and that impinges on others ‘trying’ to enjoy the space.

As you say, fun is a very loose term and someone trolling another is possibly fun for the person doing the trolling.

Perhaps we should stop telling people what it’s meant to be and engaging with what it is? "

Exactly! Fun walks many paths.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"I like

*the secret service threads.

*the more serious threads (well i generally post the most unserious reply.

*the fun pervy threads

I dont like

*the poster above/below...

*virus threads

yawn (reason being this place is a escape from the monotonous day to day virus bore.

Saves me writing too much. ^ What he said

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"Oh look, another "who are you thread". I touched upon this in a thread last week iirc.

We all take and view fun differently.

So to this I ask, when it comes to the forum, which do you find fun?

What different thread and topics do you find yourself enjoying?

I like threads that invite discussion.

I don't like statement OPs such as "I like toast". Just reminds me of pissed up people thinking their own hand is hilarious.

Same. Simple statements that don't offer a hint of discussion don't offer much than just randomness. Though to some, random is the height of fun.

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"I like

*the secret service threads.

*the more serious threads (well i generally post the most unserious reply.

*the fun pervy threads

I dont like

*the poster above/below...

*virus threads

yawn (reason being this place is a escape from the monotonous day to day virus bore.

There is that word again... Fun! Subjective!

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By *aitonel OP Man
over a year ago

Travelling

"I like

*the secret service threads.

*the more serious threads (well i generally post the most unserious reply.

*the fun pervy threads

I dont like

*the poster above/below...

*virus threads

yawn (reason being this place is a escape from the monotonous day to day virus bore.

Saves me writing too much. ^ What he said

So you are saying you don't find writing much fun? Interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh look, another "who are you thread". I touched upon this in a thread last week iirc.

We all take and view fun differently.

So to this I ask, when it comes to the forum, which do you find fun?

What different thread and topics do you find yourself enjoying?

I like threads that invite discussion.

I don't like statement OPs such as "I like toast". Just reminds me of pissed up people thinking their own hand is hilarious.

Same. Simple statements that don't offer a hint of discussion don't offer much than just randomness. Though to some, random is the height of fun. "

Yeah I wouldn't want those threads banned, I know some people love the randomness. It probably is the same as sitting on a kerb after a night out.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

To paraphrase road house that 80’s classic: “have fun, until its time to not have fun!”

I post to entertain myself, or to try and offer advice on serious topics that I feel I can add to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can find fun in most threads

Except the ones that are supposed to be 'fun' threads

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I like the music threads and the threads that let you delve into your head and open your heart.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can find something or someone in a thread that I like to reply too. Love ones that spark a quip or a feed to a joke. I just want light hearted.

But, if something intrigues and opens a thought. I like them too.

I also like to flirt. Like the lady above.

*hoping it is still the lady above ..... now wishing I kept this post short to make sure it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like all kind of threads, I like the witty silly posts on a serious one as well the serious answers. I comment on a mix. I don't like the who's the got the or is the best threads. I don't like the top tens and favorites thread. Just because I think we should all be all inclusive. Hate body shaming, kink shaming etc.

Hate it when a thread is just for fun and someone kills it by being too serious on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the I like Sam tender threads.

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I enjoy the ones that make you think. Some really interesting threads on here, the photo challenges are pretty entertaining too!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

My heart sinks when you get one of those messages. Hi, I'm a fun guy looking for fun. Where do you start in replying

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"My heart sinks when you get one of those messages. Hi, I'm a fun guy looking for fun. Where do you start in replying

Hi, I’m a fun gal and I love it when a fun guy messages me looking for fun. But is our fun compatible fun? Because one person’s fun isn’t the same as another’s person fun.

The fun is in finding out!

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By *offiaCoolWoman
over a year ago

Kidsgrove

"My heart sinks when you get one of those messages. Hi, I'm a fun guy looking for fun. Where do you start in replying

Hi, I’m a fun gal and I love it when a fun guy messages me looking for fun. But is our fun compatible fun? Because one person’s fun isn’t the same as another’s person fun.

The fun is in finding out! "

We definitely have different ideas of what 'fun' is

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Threads that end with me getting rogered senseless are my idea of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Threads that end with me getting rogered senseless are my idea of fun

How often do they come about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know really... mostly class clown type stuff. Possibly due to insecurities that I am not going to be taken seriously, so best not to try. That is more a comment on me than others x

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Threads that end with me getting rogered senseless are my idea of fun

How often do they come about?"

Occasionally, back when I used the forums more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are a mixed bag of threads that I participate in, some are purely attention seeking, some are silly, some where I share my own experiences or give a view on a topic.

The threads I start are the kind where I can interact with the posters such as when I keep PP's 'good morning' threads going when he takes a break or currently I have a fitness goals thread. I enjoy showing that I appreciate someone's contribution and I always pick up great advice for myself and make new friends.

I use the forum as I want to, and I get from it what I need. This place can be a much needed distraction for me to indulge myself and switch off from the stresses and strains of my outside world life. The fact that my thread preferences are not for everyone else does not impact on me one bit.

Her x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In real life I enjoy a serious discussion or even friendly argument but have learned to avoid this online and especially here. So quickly gets out of hand.

Love the silly and funny threads, for example kitty's at the weekend was hilarious.

Often in the Games section, enjoy the mental exercise involved and very friendly people.

Avoid any best of or favourites thread, any politics or any involving dick size.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I like what I like when I like it.

I don't really go for the kiss, fuck, chuck types.

Over the years , as I got jaded, I started many a highly fucking inane thread thinking , 'Surely no one would....... ' ......WRONG they would.

They make me smile.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I like serious comment.

I like reading peoples comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changing the name of a band or such into a silly version. A bit Two Ronnie's, but hilarious mostly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to flit about from thread to thread, I do like reading the more serious threads but don’t tend to comment in them.

I pop into the games thread very occasionally, I pop into swingers chat for a read.

I do like the photos challenges threads

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