FabSwingers.com forum: Dominant men

By *ake02 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I myself am very dominant, but I have to say I love when a girl is on top giving her the control with my hands around the side of her arse (so still loose control)

Do you girls get off more when the guy is dominant but you get you’re chance to fuck him?

Or another example when getting oral and grabbing the hair of a dominant guy and pushing his head down when it feels best?

I have found it’s not just the pleasure itself but the fact it’s happening to a dominant male wonder what you lot think.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s put this one to the audience, the lady at the back in the polka dot blouse do you like to do some of the work now and again when you’re riding a cock ?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really know. I don’t go for men who class themselves as dominant.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Let’s put this one to the audience, the lady at the back in the polka dot blouse do you like to do some of the work now and again when you’re riding a cock ?!"

You're such a sarcastic fucker

OP, I like being on top so I can go at my own pace and the guy can play with my tits. Doesn't have anything to do with sub/dom for me! Although it is Mr's favourite position to watch me in with other men

Mrs kf x

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By *ake02 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Let’s put this one to the audience, the lady at the back in the polka dot blouse do you like to do some of the work now and again when you’re riding a cock ?!"

The point of a forum is to talk about what ever subject the poster puts so you’re snide comment about a specific sexual preference is pointless

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Odd, I think a sign of dominance is who the primary person to pleasure.

Think the answer can define Dom’s and con-doms.

Well in my world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let’s put this one to the audience, the lady at the back in the polka dot blouse do you like to do some of the work now and again when you’re riding a cock ?!

The point of a forum is to talk about what ever subject the poster puts so you’re snide comment about a specific sexual preference is pointless "

That’s a totally different programme

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Odd, I think a sign of dominance is who the primary person to pleasure.

Think the answer can define Dom’s and con-doms.

Well in my world."

Who is, not who.

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By *ake02 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I don’t really know. I don’t go for men who class themselves as dominant. "

I use the word dominant in terms of sex obviously but people like what they like

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By *ake02 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Let’s put this one to the audience, the lady at the back in the polka dot blouse do you like to do some of the work now and again when you’re riding a cock ?!

You're such a sarcastic fucker

Mrs kf x"

Well you’re putting in better terms than I am hahah and it’s my favourite also!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Odd, I think a sign of dominance is who the primary person to pleasure.

Think the answer can define Dom’s and con-doms.

Well in my world."

I agree with you when talking about D/s. But my interpretation of the OP is more about who is being assertive at a given time during sex and less about being dominant.

I may be wrong in my interpretation, there are after all those Doms who consider it a suitable punishment for their sub to have the sub peg them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t really know. I don’t go for men who class themselves as dominant.

I use the word dominant in terms of sex obviously but people like what they like

Yes I gathered

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By *ake02 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Odd, I think a sign of dominance is who the primary person to pleasure.

Think the answer can define Dom’s and con-doms.

Well in my world."

I should contact you whenever I am going to post/ send anything in the future you’re wording is a lot better haha

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Let’s put this one to the audience, the lady at the back in the polka dot blouse do you like to do some of the work now and again when you’re riding a cock ?!

You're such a sarcastic fucker

Mrs kf x

Well you’re putting in better terms than I am hahah and it’s my favourite also! "

It's an interesting one though, as I am naturally more sub in a sexual scenario, but it depends on the relationship with whoever I'm fucking. I don't switch, but I'm not a silent partner

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By *ake02 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Odd, I think a sign of dominance is who the primary person to pleasure.

Think the answer can define Dom’s and con-doms.

Well in my world.

I agree with you when talking about D/s. But my interpretation of the OP is more about who is being assertive at a given time during sex and less about being dominant.

I may be wrong in my interpretation, there are after all those Doms who consider it a suitable punishment for their sub to have the sub peg them..."

Yeah I agree with you and then you took me way out of my knowledge lol

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By *ake02 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I don’t really know. I don’t go for men who class themselves as dominant.

I use the word dominant in terms of sex obviously but people like what they like

Yes I gathered

hahah

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By *ake02 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Let’s put this one to the audience, the lady at the back in the polka dot blouse do you like to do some of the work now and again when you’re riding a cock ?!

You're such a sarcastic fucker

Mrs kf x

Well you’re putting in better terms than I am hahah and it’s my favourite also!

It's an interesting one though, as I am naturally more sub in a sexual scenario, but it depends on the relationship with whoever I'm fucking. I don't switch, but I'm not a silent partner

Oh ffs now you’re just showing me up haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This thread just sounds like a man who likes to be more in control rather than a D/s situation.

I guess any guy would like the woman to take charge after a while, have a bit of a rest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does the woman have to be photoshopped too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Switch

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Even when in top I can be quite submissive.

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By *ake02 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"This thread just sounds like a man who likes to be more in control rather than a D/s situation.

I guess any guy would like the woman to take charge after a while, have a bit of a rest

Yeah sounded better in my head I think

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By *ake02 OP Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"Does the woman have to be photoshopped too? "

Yeah goes without saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Does the woman have to be photoshopped too?

Yeah goes without saying

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Odd, I think a sign of dominance is who the primary person to pleasure.

Think the answer can define Dom’s and con-doms.

Well in my world.

I agree with you when talking about D/s. But my interpretation of the OP is more about who is being assertive at a given time during sex and less about being dominant.

I may be wrong in my interpretation, there are after all those Doms who consider it a suitable punishment for their sub to have the sub peg them..."

Well, at least my phone screen is cleaner, shame about the wine though.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

"Let’s put this one to the audience, the lady at the back in the polka dot blouse do you like to do some of the work now and again when you’re riding a cock ?!

You're such a sarcastic fucker

Mrs kf x

Well you’re putting in better terms than I am hahah and it’s my favourite also!

It's an interesting one though, as I am naturally more sub in a sexual scenario, but it depends on the relationship with whoever I'm fucking. I don't switch, but I'm not a silent partner

Oh ffs now you’re just showing me up haha

Not trying to, I thought it was an interesting question!

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By *00KissesCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge

I much prefer the guy to take the lead, but if he indicates for me to go on top I would be happy to oblige

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who think they are dominant are only as dominant as the non-dominant in their actions.so literally are equal.

Yes I know its play speak dom/sub

If the non dominant doesn't allow it doesn't happen. If that respect is broken.. it's not equal..its abuse.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Those who think they are dominant are only as dominant as the non-dominant in their actions.so literally are equal.

Yes I know its play speak dom/sub

If the non dominant doesn't allow it doesn't happen. If that respect is broken.. it's not equal..its abuse."

Or not discussed and fully explored.

Also, abuse can come from a sub, it is dynamic, a relationship and as in any relationship, the stick has two ends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those who think they are dominant are only as dominant as the non-dominant in their actions.so literally are equal.

Yes I know its play speak dom/sub

If the non dominant doesn't allow it doesn't happen. If that respect is broken.. it's not equal..its abuse."

Exactly this. The sub has as much control as the dom. Power exchange!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those who think they are dominant are only as dominant as the non-dominant in their actions.so literally are equal.

Yes I know its play speak dom/sub

If the non dominant doesn't allow it doesn't happen. If that respect is broken.. it's not equal..its abuse.

Or not discussed and fully explored.

Also, abuse can come from a sub, it is dynamic, a relationship and as in any relationship, the stick has two ends.

Spot on

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By *uzy444Woman
over a year ago

in the suffolk countryside

"Let’s put this one to the audience, the lady at the back in the polka dot blouse do you like to do some of the work now and again when you’re riding a cock ?!"

made me laugh..thanks for that..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi Suzy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m submissive and I love to go on top, but it has nothing to do with the D/s really, it just feels good. Although generally he puts me there

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By *tefe-MartyCouple
over a year ago

Cambs

"Those who think they are dominant are only as dominant as the non-dominant in their actions.so literally are equal.

Yes I know its play speak dom/sub

If the non dominant doesn't allow it doesn't happen. If that respect is broken.. it's not equal..its abuse.

Or not discussed and fully explored.

Also, abuse can come from a sub, it is dynamic, a relationship and as in any relationship, the stick has two ends.

It can make things so much more interesting when the submissive has a bratty side, Keeps you on your toe's more mentally speaking.

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