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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don’t like it and when people talk dirty is sounds weird even if am attracted to the person,

Do you like it? If so why

Am struggling on here(not meets) due to most wanting to sext or talk “omg I want that juicly bbc..abc”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a sexter either.

I'm a real thing or nothing kinda girl.

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I'm not a sexter either.

I'm a real thing or nothing kinda girl. "

Feel you on that

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

I have been known to do it but not with random folks, that leaves me cold. I’ve only engaged in it with people that I connect with and as part of the anticipation of a planned meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been known to do it but not with random folks, that leaves me cold. I’ve only engaged in it with people that I connect with and as part of the anticipation of a planned meet"

This ^^

But even then not that often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont mind some small sexy talk leading up to a meet. It creates excitement but nothing to prolonged or regular.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it with the right person. If they use the wrong word my minge slams shut.

Panties

Willy

Moist

Boobies

*cringe*

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I have been known to do it but not with random folks, that leaves me cold. I’ve only engaged in it with people that I connect with and as part of the anticipation of a planned meet

This ^^

But even then not that often."

Such lies, you're constantly sending me filth.

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By *leeper OP   Man
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I have been known to do it but not with random folks, that leaves me cold. I’ve only engaged in it with people that I connect with and as part of the anticipation of a planned meet

This ^^

But even then not that often.

Such lies, you're constantly sending me filth. "

Exposed lol

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I quite enjoy some filthy talk, but mainly with people I've played with, and plan to continue playing with! Once you have that connection with someone (and I include couples as threeway chats in kik are also fun), it's a good way of continuing the 'momentum' between physical meets

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

depends how it's done but yes i like it as foreplay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like it and when people talk dirty is sounds weird even if am attracted to the person,

Do you like it? If so why

Am struggling on here(not meets) due to most wanting to sext or talk “omg I want that juicly bbc..abc”

"

I'm with you 100%. I find it cringy. I me the letters page on a porno mag.

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By *isAdventure69Woman
over a year ago

Hampshire

It doesn't do it for me with people I haven't met so I quickly get bored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cringeworthy if the sexter can't write. I like to think I'm ok at it. I wouldn't sext someone I didn't know and understand well tho.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

It makes my shy. Unless I’ve already had sex with them, then I can picture the things we’d be doing.

Otherwise you’ve got someone making them self sound like the dirtiest fuck on the planet, when in reality it’s 2 seconds of pleasure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have been known to do it but not with random folks, that leaves me cold. I’ve only engaged in it with people that I connect with and as part of the anticipation of a planned meet

This ^^

But even then not that often.

Such lies, you're constantly sending me filth. "

Yes. Yes I do and very titillating it is too.

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By *hampagne_Supernova_91Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I will sometimes do it with people I know and have bonded with, not particularly interested in swapping pics with random strangers. Doesn't have the same effect on me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it with potential meets

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Not for me.. only ever had sexual conversations with someone I’ve already slept with several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it with a guy I know well and am meetimg with, but not with random people.

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By *wist my nipplesCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly

I like a bit with people I've met already... Got to be in the mood though, and spelling and grammar mistakes put me off! I'm such a grammar snob

Mrs kf x

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes my shy. Unless I’ve already had sex with them, then I can picture the things we’d be doing.

Otherwise you’ve got someone making them self sound like the dirtiest fuck on the planet, when in reality it’s 2 seconds of pleasure."

I find people who talk about sex before a first meet are actually all talk and pretty crap.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There’s a bit of an art to proper sex talk I think. It takes more than ‘I want to smash your back doors in’ There has to be a flow to it, both parties have to be compatible. Just like actual sex. (Shock! Whodathunkit?)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes my shy. Unless I’ve already had sex with them, then I can picture the things we’d be doing.

Otherwise you’ve got someone making them self sound like the dirtiest fuck on the planet, when in reality it’s 2 seconds of pleasure.

I find people who talk about sex before a first meet are actually all talk and pretty crap. "

Yes, I had that experience with Salt n Pepa

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t like it and when people talk dirty is sounds weird even if am attracted to the person,

Do you like it? If so why

Am struggling on here(not meets) due to most wanting to sext or talk “omg I want that juicly bbc..abc”

"

I find it a real turn off too, and a bit cringe

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It does nothing for me to be honest. I don’t do it myself.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

Believe me there are plenty of woman on Fab that do enjoy sexting and phone sex lol

It can feel very silly but sometimes it can be hot as fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like sexting sure it’s another form of teasing pm me or wink I’ll get back to you.

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

Completely depends on the dynamic with the other person, if it's someone I'm planning to meet or have met then yes I partial to a bit of it. Complete stranger with no connection then it feels completely alien

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

I agree with the it generally needs to be someone I know or have connected with.

I'm also a bit uncomfortable describing the actual acts, but like building up the scenario a bit...

As with most things sex related, it depends so much on the person/people involved. I tend to feed of others enthusiasm, enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah it's not the best even with someone you're comfortable with, the majority of the time it's when you're cooking your dinner or loading the washing machine... the stress when they ask for a pic at that moment

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By *lumber53Man
over a year ago

brean

I think.done correctly it can be very powerful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It makes my shy. Unless I’ve already had sex with them, then I can picture the things we’d be doing.

Otherwise you’ve got someone making them self sound like the dirtiest fuck on the planet, when in reality it’s 2 seconds of pleasure.

I find people who talk about sex before a first meet are actually all talk and pretty crap.

Yes, I had that experience with Salt n Pepa "

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

If I've meet the person then sometimes though it never gets graphic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does nothing for me, and my lack of interest in it really does out the serial sexters who are just looking for a quick thrill over those who want to meet

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By *otSoPoshWoman
over a year ago

In a ball gown because that's how we roll in N. Devon

It can be fun if the other person has as descriptive an imagination as I do....

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Every time I see the number 69 in a text I shoot in my pants

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

If it's with my husband or someone else that I've physically met then it can be very hot. With a random person, nah.

Mrs

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

It's down to imagination on both participants, and word use is critical. Ends up being more than sexting, like a novel but there is a huge difference in effect between the two.

Its never going to replace or be better than the real thing but it's a hell of a substitute with the right person, not to mention an addition to foreplay, teasing, and just sexual tension build up.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I had phone sex last night.. it was actually hotter than I thought

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By *ermite12ukMan
over a year ago

Solihull and Brentwood


"I had phone sex last night.. it was actually hotter than I thought "

Lucky lady. The last time I had phone sex, the fecker reversed the charges.

The time before that, she said: In 3 seconds time it will be 11pm. Goodnight. Though, I think she orgasmed, as there were a lot of pips masking her expletives.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I love sex and don't mind the odd bit if 'tell me what you'd do to me' but if it's all people have to offer I bore quickly.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

It can be fun in a build up to a meet, in a provocative way. Not out and out filth but a lot of innuendo, what if’s, open ended sentences etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not a fan either really

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

It can be good, although as said there’s got to be a time and a place (and the inclination, which can be built on)

If you’re trying to get the kids to bed and their teeth brushed which feels like keeping plates spinning while somebody throws eggs at you, it’s probably not going to work.

Also, knowing what to call things is quite handy too. If “moist quim” is just going to make the other person laugh (unbelievable, I know) then you need to know what works.

You also need to be really tuned in to the other person’s reactions and they need to feel they can be honest too. It should be a dynamic between you, not just one person reading from a sheet no matter what the reaction.

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By *arker secrets 321Man
over a year ago

West Bromwich

Think there's an art 2 it .done right it can be very erotic need 2 build up 2 it and don't rush it x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

With the right person, where I've physically met them & there is a connection, it is sometimes fun, otherwise it does absolutely nothing for me.

Agree with the previous comments about certain words being an immediate turn off.

Always amuses me when a guy tries to instigate it and asks questions like "what are you doing right now?" or "what are you wearing?". I usually reply with brutal honesty, "sorting laundry" and "pyjama bottoms I slept in and a shapeless jumper with a bleach stain on the front" probably aren't the answers he is hoping for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love a bit of sexting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like it with the right person. If they use the wrong word my minge slams shut.

Panties

Willy

Moist

Boobies

*cringe*"

Totally get this

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford


"Always amuses me when a guy tries to instigate it and asks questions like "what are you doing right now?" or "what are you wearing?". I usually reply with brutal honesty, "sorting laundry" and "pyjama bottoms I slept in and a shapeless jumper with a bleach stain on the front" probably aren't the answers he is hoping for "

I’ve cum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m totally useless at it, even if it’s with someone I’m with. It’s just not my thing.

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By *lackHardDickMan
over a year ago

London

Makes my brain crumble thinking of shit to come up with that is original.

I do but when i know the person and know we are going to meet.

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By *abrina59TV/TS
over a year ago

moved to cuckold land

My wife and I are having fun with it through roleplay fun we doing together of her having a bf & her & her bf Freddie sext back and forth to each other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

No not for us either. Despite being told otherwise, when Rosie gives her kik it all to often results in block

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