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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My wife wants me to dominate her can anyone help

as i dont have any ideas thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

don't look like anyone can...its all up to you my friend...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm not good at domination as I'm a sub and love it lol. There are some good bdsm sites that might give you some ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My wife wants me to dominate her can anyone help

as i dont have any ideas thanks

"

Ask her for ideas. She must have some fantasies about it. Try the kinds of things she fantasises about and go from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first thing you have to do is ask her what it is she fantasises about when she thinks of a Dominant male. What does she want you to do?

Once you talk about this your own mind will start to elaborate on the things she's asked for and over time you'll come up with new ways to excite her that she hasn't thought of before.

Does she want other people involved or just the two of you?

It she receptive to pain?

Does she like humiliation?

Or is it more a case of she just wants to relinquish control of herself to you at play times?

You can take this to the 'enth degree and she could end up becoming a 'collared' slave (collared in the BDSM world is akin to marriage but it's in a BDSM context in that she gives up total control of herself to you).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on what she wants. However may starting with light domination is a place to start. Take control and judge ny her reactions. Tease her be mean and nice at the same time.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did she read 50 shades of grey?? Lol

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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago

South Gloucestershire

challenge her to a game of football or an arm wrestle

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