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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many people use (or have used) pull out as their method of contraception? Was it just with your own partner, or with hook-ups as well?

I've never done meets without birth control in place, too much trust in a stranger for me. But the supply chain for my pill had a problem during covid and I've just relied on withdraw with my partner since. We've used it in the past too.

I'm going back on a different pill now ready for later in the year as I still can't get the old one. Did anyone else have issues getting their pill the past year? Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes with a ongoing partner.

Forget having unprotected sex with a casual meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I always used birth control in relationships and condoms on meets.

I don't want a baby or an STD.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

When I was a teenager. Didn't get caught out but never again!

I've had issues with my pill. The one I was on was discontinued then the closest equivalent (same ingredients but slightly different doses) was out of stock in all pharmacies. I didn't want to totally change types and luckily my local sexual health clinic had stock of it.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Condoms are my backup regardless - though I'm holding my breath for when my birth control runs out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people use (or have used) pull out as their method of contraception? Was it just with your own partner, or with hook-ups as well?

I've never done meets without birth control in place, too much trust in a stranger for me. But the supply chain for my pill had a problem during covid and I've just relied on withdraw with my partner since. We've used it in the past too.

I'm going back on a different pill now ready for later in the year as I still can't get the old one. Did anyone else have issues getting their pill the past year? Xx"

Of course, with regular partner...

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By *luebellRacerCouple
over a year ago

Shropshire

No way. Husband has had vasectomy so how would I explain that.

I'm on pill for other reasons, but I'd still insist on a condom.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Not had any issues with my pill but I’d never use that as a form of contraception. I’d rather refrain than take that chance.

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice

Not sure I would trust it as a fool proof method especially in the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I was a teenager. Didn't get caught out but never again!

I've had issues with my pill. The one I was on was discontinued then the closest equivalent (same ingredients but slightly different doses) was out of stock in all pharmacies. I didn't want to totally change types and luckily my local sexual health clinic had stock of it. "

Thanks Lacey. It's not just me then. I'm super sensitive to different pills, many/most don't agree with me and can make me very ill. It took me a long time to find one that works. I hate changing them, I was so pissed off when mine seemed discontinued. If I wasn't a swinger and a fan of casual sex I might not have bothered trying a new one. But trusting strangers to pull out correctly is just too risky xx

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Used birth control and have only ever had unprotected sex with long term partners so never an issue. Condoms and birth control used when meeting from here always.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I wouldn't trust the withdrawal method as a means of contraception.

The Mrs started getting her pills from the local sexual health clinic when it became impossible to get into see our GP at the start of lockdown.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I've had the snip but I'll always wear protection.. unless I find a regular partner and we both in agreement

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I wouldn't trust the withdrawal method as a means of contraception.

The Mrs started getting her pills from the local sexual health clinic when it became impossible to get into see our GP at the start of lockdown."

Sounds like a few people moved to clinics from GPs. My most local one got closed though, I can get to others after a longer drive xx

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

I ended up buying from an online chemist when I had issues getting appointments with the go in lockdown over it, I'd rather pay for something that's normally free, but I always double up protection unless it's with a long term partner

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"When I was a teenager. Didn't get caught out but never again!

I've had issues with my pill. The one I was on was discontinued then the closest equivalent (same ingredients but slightly different doses) was out of stock in all pharmacies. I didn't want to totally change types and luckily my local sexual health clinic had stock of it.

Thanks Lacey. It's not just me then. I'm super sensitive to different pills, many/most don't agree with me and can make me very ill. It took me a long time to find one that works. I hate changing them, I was so pissed off when mine seemed discontinued. If I wasn't a swinger and a fan of casual sex I might not have bothered trying a new one. But trusting strangers to pull out correctly is just too risky xx"

I take mine for medical reasons too so I was really stressed at the time as it took me so long to get things under control and I didn't want to go backwards. I'm just hoping and praying nothing goes wrong with the one I'm on now! Hope you get sorted! If you go on the BNF website you can look at what is in different contraceptive pills and try and find an equivalent. I also found a chart online on gpnotebook at some point - oral contraceptive pill (comparing oestrogenic and progestogenic effects). It plots them on a chart so you can compare them which is also good for finding a pill that will hopefully affect you in a similar way to one you know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When I was a teenager. Didn't get caught out but never again!

I've had issues with my pill. The one I was on was discontinued then the closest equivalent (same ingredients but slightly different doses) was out of stock in all pharmacies. I didn't want to totally change types and luckily my local sexual health clinic had stock of it.

Thanks Lacey. It's not just me then. I'm super sensitive to different pills, many/most don't agree with me and can make me very ill. It took me a long time to find one that works. I hate changing them, I was so pissed off when mine seemed discontinued. If I wasn't a swinger and a fan of casual sex I might not have bothered trying a new one. But trusting strangers to pull out correctly is just too risky xx

I take mine for medical reasons too so I was really stressed at the time as it took me so long to get things under control and I didn't want to go backwards. I'm just hoping and praying nothing goes wrong with the one I'm on now! Hope you get sorted! If you go on the BNF website you can look at what is in different contraceptive pills and try and find an equivalent. I also found a chart online on gpnotebook at some point - oral contraceptive pill (comparing oestrogenic and progestogenic effects). It plots them on a chart so you can compare them which is also good for finding a pill that will hopefully affect you in a similar way to one you know. "

Thanks Lacey, I really appreciate it! That comparison sounds extremely helpful as I need to find one as similar in composition as possible, especially in progesterone. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many people use (or have used) pull out as their method of contraception? Was it just with your own partner, or with hook-ups as well?

I've never done meets without birth control in place, too much trust in a stranger for me. But the supply chain for my pill had a problem during covid and I've just relied on withdraw with my partner since. We've used it in the past too.

I'm going back on a different pill now ready for later in the year as I still can't get the old one. Did anyone else have issues getting their pill the past year? Xx"
There is a name for people who use this method of contraception. Parents

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

A lot of people don't do it properly, when done correctly it's nearly as effective as condoms. It's worked well for me, but only with my husband where the risk is acceptable xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people don't do it properly, when done correctly it's nearly as effective as condoms. It's worked well for me, but only with my husband where the risk is acceptable xx"
The problem being that pre cum often carries live sperm, so technically you can get a lady pregnant without even cumming.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A lot of people don't do it properly, when done correctly it's nearly as effective as condoms. It's worked well for me, but only with my husband where the risk is acceptable xxThe problem being that pre cum often carries live sperm, so technically you can get a lady pregnant without even cumming."

That's often if the man hasn't urinated since last cumming. Xx

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By *urtyGentMan
over a year ago

eastleigh

I’ve got so much respect for fellas that can pull out. Wild horses couldn’t pull my hips the other way on the vinegar strokes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never done this, even when in a relationship. I've been sterilised since my children were born and would still always use condoms on a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's easy when no one let's you put it in to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You get pregnant from pree come

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"How many people use (or have used) pull out as their method of contraception? Was it just with your own partner, or with hook-ups as well?

I've never done meets without birth control in place, too much trust in a stranger for me. But the supply chain for my pill had a problem during covid and I've just relied on withdraw with my partner since. We've used it in the past too.

I'm going back on a different pill now ready for later in the year as I still can't get the old one. Did anyone else have issues getting their pill the past year? Xx"

We used to... have two grown up kid's now.

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By *uzz And WoodyCouple
over a year ago

Maidstone

We used withdrawal for years after having our first baby but we had the understanding that if I got pregnant it would be ok, we just weren’t planning for another baby. Then when we got the stage where we were sure we definitely didn’t want any more children my husband had a vasectomy. If you really don’t want a baby it’s a risky method.

With anyone else I would always use a condom. I am not on any birth control and don’t want a baby or STI, no matter how easy it could be to treat.

Lou x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you not bothered about std's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'm guilty of doing it with my partner for eight years. I started to worry I was infertile but then asked him to shoot his load into me and ended up with a little bambino a year later.

I've not been on contraception since I was around 17 years old. I'm still not now since having my daughter and we still use the pull and pray method.

I'd only ever do it with trusted partners I was happy to have a baby with. Although there are a few men I'd love to cream it in raw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A lot of people don't do it properly, when done correctly it's nearly as effective as condoms. It's worked well for me, but only with my husband where the risk is acceptable xx"

Semen can leak out of the penis during sex and precum can contain sperm, you can't control that no matter careful

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By *oxyVikingCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"How many people use (or have used) pull out as their method of contraception? Was it just with your own partner, or with hook-ups as well?

I've never done meets without birth control in place, too much trust in a stranger for me. But the supply chain for my pill had a problem during covid and I've just relied on withdraw with my partner since. We've used it in the past too.

I'm going back on a different pill now ready for later in the year as I still can't get the old one. Did anyone else have issues getting their pill the past year? Xx"

Haven’t had problems getting birth control(pill/injection) during lockdown(we are east anglia). But have come off all as they mess with my moods too much. Might go back on coil after lockdown/restrictions ease but struggle get appointment at moment. So for now we are on pull out, but it’s with husband and he doesn’t want another child(and not do I) so I trust him to pull out when needed lol.

When it comes to meets its condom

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By *_DirectorMan
over a year ago

Middle of somewhere

In a relationship years ago I used to do that all the time ... that and she loved to see the evidence

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