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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

More curiosity... does anyone else find themselves attracted to someone due to something completely none physical? If so what?

I’ve several times now found myself attracted to a woman who has an amazing singing voice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure, intelligence is very attractive to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accents and gentlemanly behaviour

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I can be attracted in a non sexual capacity to intelligence and humour but sexual attraction for me always stems from looks first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely intelligence and a very vivid imagination

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sure, intelligence is very attractive to me. "

So with that, how instant is that? I ask because I can not see the person, hear them sing and within a minute know haha, I think it’s maybe a strange one

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, if they can read the shipping forecast and really bring it to life, my quim comes to life for them.

Aside from that, I find it sexy hearing people talk about things they are passionate about. Seeing that spark in their eyes, the animated gesticulating... hot as fuck.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Humour

Love it x

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By *orthernGinge-93Man
over a year ago

Northeast

Humour is a big thing for me! Witty banter back and forth I love it.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

Intelligence and humour. Got to be able to make good conversation and have a laugh too

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

Intelligence and a razor sharp sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, if they can read the shipping forecast and really bring it to life, my quim comes to life for them.

Aside from that, I find it sexy hearing people talk about things they are passionate about. Seeing that spark in their eyes, the animated gesticulating... hot as fuck."

I like that! Agree with the talk about something they are passionate about, actually giving a fuck is attractive

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

a sexy voice or story telling skills can melt my heart in a split second

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ahhh I want to pick all your brains with this intelligence answer haha!

Intelligence is such a broad concept, emotional intelligence, academic intelligence, interpersonal/ social list goes on!

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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago

Peterborough

Sadly, voices are few and far between on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also attracted to humour.

I rarely get along with serious folk.

Voices are really important to me too - it's not a particular accent or tone,

though a high pitched voice or someone that constantly talks without taking a breath is an instant turn off.

Talent is sexy as fuck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sadly, voices are few and far between on here."

So true but if anyone wants to sing to me I’m ok with that haha

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Genuine kindness and selflessness is appealing I think

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By *ed VoluptaWoman
over a year ago

Wirral.

As has been said, humour.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Its confidence hands down for me

The way he walks and holds conversation, posture, and that look in his eye that makes you melt

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its confidence hands down for me

The way he walks and holds conversation, posture, and that look in his eye that makes you melt

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Something slightly different to humour and intelligence but definitely something I’ve seen people gravitate too! I think people gravitate to a confident person, I read somewhere that our chimp brain subconsciously wants to be the alpha or have a leader to follow lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite few have been mentioned already but.. not sure if I spotted creativity. Imagination which is stimulating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Humour

Love it x"

Same here...have to be able to have giggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And actually curiosity of the world and being curious of you are sexy... to me at least.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Quite few have been mentioned already but.. not sure if I spotted creativity. Imagination which is stimulating. "

I like that, similar to talent I guess.

I’ve a work mate who’s boyfriend is a good musician and she pretty much admitted that she fell in love with he’s creative talent over his looks, not sure if that’s a slap in the face for him tho haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes, if they can read the shipping forecast and really bring it to life, my quim comes to life for them.

Aside from that, I find it sexy hearing people talk about things they are passionate about. Seeing that spark in their eyes, the animated gesticulating... hot as fuck."

Totally get this!!

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

Personality, sense of humour,the way they think, sometimes just connecting over a mutual interest and the passion they show in it so you know it's genuine not just put on to impress

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never really isolated particular qualities or even physical features so I’d say all the above ! Humour, intelligence, personality all go together for me.

I will mention clothes as most people are dressed when we first meet them. I do notice anyone who has an individual style about the way they dress. Again it suggests imagination and personality, both very attractive qualities.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve never really isolated particular qualities or even physical features so I’d say all the above ! Humour, intelligence, personality all go together for me.

I will mention clothes as most people are dressed when we first meet them. I do notice anyone who has an individual style about the way they dress. Again it suggests imagination and personality, both very attractive qualities."

Out the box that one, but clothing definitely tells a story

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Intelligence or intellectual curiosity. A similar wavelength to me (which is difficult to nail down). Humour. The ability to have a good conversation.

I've got one or two friends who... I don't know what it is, but everything just melts away and is better when they're around. That. Whatever it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress sences

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

Just genuinely nice natured people who smile without putting it on and hold themselves well with confidce. It cost nothing to be nice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find humour and someone with banter more attractive

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sooooo... my love of a nice singing voice is strange then haha!

Atleast I know to work on my confidence, intelligence, humour, dress sense and personality

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sooooo... my love of a nice singing voice is strange then haha!

Atleast I know to work on my confidence, intelligence, humour, dress sense and personality "

No, I’d love to be able to sing so I’m drawn to those who can, but I think it rolls into confidence, personality etc as well.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A wicked sense of humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great sense of humour, intelligence, a sexy voice and or accent, listening to someone who is passionate about something, openmindness, honesty, lover of life.

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By *ittycenMan
over a year ago

south west

Apparently quite a few of the women at my last job liked talking to me on the phone as I have a very deep voice. It wasn’t until one of them told me this I noticed just how many became very giggly!

Apparently I say “fuck” in a very sexy way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a compliment of an older gentleman I wouldn’t have taken a second look at once.

He said he knew I wouldn’t find him attractive but just wanted to tell me how sexy I was.

His cultured voice and deep tone melted me. I took him to a room and treated him to one of my specialties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence, sarcasm, quick wit, intuition... Many other non-physical traits!

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